If you worried less and stopped bothering yourself about who called her line or who she was talking to on phone, perhaps she might start unlocking her phone and stop hiding it under the pillow. Your constant nagging and policing of her private life may have contributed to her locking the phone in order to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding.

I think your problem stemmed from insecurity and jealousy. That coupled with your tendency to violent behavior (beating her up and all that) may have led to her decision to silence her phone. Keep your feelings of insecurity and jealousy aside for awhile and think of the many things you aren't doing right in the relationship, and maybe you might start to see things differently.

Opexzy:
Never hit a woman you call your wife or wife to be, for what? That's a shameful thing today. You even said it as if she's your junior sister or something, no remorse, no shame. You are an irresponsible man. Please stop that act immediately.

Back to the main matter. If your engaged babe locks her phone and she refuses to unlock it for you for any reason known to her, its a bad sign... Do the needful and dump her immediately.

I don't like nonsense.

what about the one that used to hide her whatsapp time status so that nobody will know when she is online even on Facebook always on offline...

She is just staying with you for a survival. No love attached. When my girl trying that nonsense last time, I showed her way out. I didn't even bother myself to monitor her or ask her to stop playing tricks. She later blocked and delete every strange contact on her phone. You are the man of the house and don't compromise your happiness. Never use because her family don't have financial muscle to train her to accept nonsense. She needs to respect you. You can't stop a cheating lady. Better for you to have an agreement with her that you will be giving her financial assistance and settle with someone you can trust. I hate nonsense.

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Opexzy:
Never hit a woman you call your wife or wife to be, for what? That's a shameful thing today. You even said it as if she's your junior sister or something, no remorse, no shame. You are an irresponsible man. Please stop that act immediately.

Back to the main matter. If your engaged babe locks her phone and she refuses to unlock it for you for any reason known to her, its a bad sign... Do the needful and dump her immediately.

I don't like nonsense.

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Zeal0000007:

I don beat her tire my hand don bend

I don't care for anything else. Saying this sh!t and being proud of it is really and truly disgusting. How can you be proud of doing something so primitive? Stupid!!!!!

Honestly I don't understand why you haven't dumped her yet.
Is it until she finally graduates from the school you are supporting her to then she dumps you
Be wise, She is only scared that you will dump her before she can stand firm on her own.
It is not your responsibility to make things better it is hers. But you are too busy draining your energy in a relationship that won't work for you to know.

If you think what I am thinking please kindly raise your hand.

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Run for ur dear life or stay and face d consequence of multiple partnees

Her phone not your own.Mind your business.Focus.

You are proud to say you have beaten her. What gives you the right to beat her? On what grounds?

That part of your story just threw me off. Nothing else matters. If she likes, let her lock her phone and cheat on you.

This is an insecure feeling, and it is very bad. In fact, it is going to make the relationship much more bad than what you suspect your gf of. You need to relax and give her her moment. No matter what, she still has her right to an amount of privacy if she wants it, though. This said, even if she is cheating on you, with proper analysis, you can know why she is doing it, whether it is an habit of her which she can't possibly do away with, or if it is actually your feeling of insecurity that's pushing her to the rock, or she just wanted to catch cruise for time being. Depending on what you could figure out in patience, if it is a case of habitual infidelity, the choice is yours to make; and if it emanates that she wasn't feeling comfortable with your insecurity for her, you will need to learn to reduce the amount of jealousy running in your vein. Then accord her the respect she deserves. Trust is respect you have for the right of others to make mistake. Though trust is very expensive, you still can get on with it gradually by giving her a benefit of a doubt from a simple angle while you also work on yourself to knowing you have no business monitoring her calls, text, movement, and conversations. On a parting note, don't ever labour to find out what you know you don't have the mental and emotional strength to handle the truth about. Let the dragon remain in the cupboard in the dark room if you know you can't handle the heat of it in the illuminated space. I hope this help

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Stop hitting her please.Let her go if you know you can't stop hitting her.Or trust her

Do you need a sothsayer to tell you that you not the only one in her life? If you make the mistake of marrying her I bet you that your first issue is not your biological child . Take note

iLegendd:


You already know what to do. Problem solved. You caused everything.

1. You don't have principles to checkmate your relationship (a woman that doesn't allow you have access to her phone should only be a f*ck buddy and NEVER make her look like your girlfriend, but friends with benefits)
2. You've cheated on her, but you didn't mention it (true or false? The answer is true)
3. You beat her (yes, beating do reset some women's brain, but I would prefer you reset her brain with principles, but you don't have them)
4. You don't pity humans for too long — those you pity for too long will hurt you for too long
5. Marry a woman that loves you, not a woman you love (the ones that love you will open up to everything and they'll be your partner in crime — they'll tell you about all the guys disturbing them and show you their chats)
6. Don't let a woman emotionally blackmail you
7. When ending a relationship, don't be the one to end it — make her end it; e get why
8. Also, not all relationships end with conversation and closure — some end by being absent and incommunicado for a long time (ghost them)
9. Be emotionally unavailable for all these silly relationship stuff, else you'll drain yourself — don't derive Joy from relationship, but your progress in other aspects of life
10. The less you care while possessing the qualities they need, the more they care and become open to make sure they don't lose you

Any girl who doesn't want to lose you and at the same time doesn't want to open up is a mini Devil in disguise — flee.

Look at how pretty and innocent Chidinma Ojukwu looks and how handsome the man she killed is. She couldn't spare him — she had lots of secrets she was hiding from him and the end is death.

Same thing for women. When a man hides too much, run.

When one partner has lots of secrets, death comes to one of them faster than their appointed time.

It's either the person with the secret will die, but most times, the person who doesn't know the secret is the first to die a premature death.

Who you be?
Abeg you too good joor.
You're the real OG. I sight you ma nigga.

JoeSoapy:
You don't ever lay your hands on a woman. Always remember your instinct will never lead you astray, open ya eyes my brother

The moment I saw those lines referring to himself as a woman beater, I just lost appetite to continue reading.

Hmmmm....run oooo

U dey madt ooo, u're proud saying u don beat her tire, well continue till she cut ur spleen

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

. I guess you're not up to 30 yrs. Only God can help you. I dare you continue keeping a relationship with a cheater? If I say what is in my mind you might end up committing suicide. The best is to leave you jejely. Shior rubbish.

Zeal0000007:
I don beat her tire my hand don bend.

You lost me here... You beat for what Sex? Who on earth is raising these children?

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

She just might not be actually hiding anything, the fact that you are a woman beater sef is enough reasons to hide calls from you cos at the end of the day na beat u go beat am. I pray make d girl get sense and cut out fast. And dude, change mehn, it pays no one to beat a woman, you will not tolerate anyone beating ur sister, why beating another person’s sister

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc.
I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend.

Are you insane? She's going to kill you.

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Not many people will tell you this truth but you’re a beast. A terrible Wicked beast. You’re one of those dangerous people that believe because they have done something for others they have a right over their lives.

You found a young naive and helpless girl, gave her the basics and now treat her just a little better than your boxers. I’m sure if we ask how old she was when you met her there will be “-teen” at the end of her age. Predator! You laying your hands on her just shows you do not have a foundation of proper love and care in your life. A damaged man who cannot wield natural male authority so he takes to beating someone physically weaker than him to instill fear. Pathetic!

I feel a lot of sympathy for that girl. She’s probably hiding her chats because the scales of gratitude are slowly falling off her eyes and her interaction with people are not favorable to you at all. Her friends are probably advising her against you and she’s looking for a way out. She’s tired of the beating and dominance, but her Stockholm’s syndrome and desire not to look ungrateful to you is keeping her there.

I pray to the good Lord that you find a woman who has the strength of May weather. So when you raise your hands she lands two square in your face and dislocates your weak jaw. Imagine beating a woman who cooks your food and has access to you while you sleep. You’re such a f**l. It’s probably on this same nairaland we will hear your end.

Anyway, if you don’t trust her and you’re tired of her “behavior”, set her free. Give it a timeline, discuss with her and you both go your separate ways. Your beastly temperamental psychotic behavior and her Stockholm’s syndrome is not the best mix to bring Innocent children into at all. Nigeria is already unsafe enough as it is. We don’t need you both breeding domestic terrorists.


I won’t respond to you or any other weak man or woman who quotes me.

She is definitely doing things with other guys. You'll never stop beating her even if you marry her as this one is a troublemaker, if you like being with her this is what you have to live with just don't kill her with beating or break your hand.

"I deflowered her and thats not how I left her".

Lol, na only this one catch my eye......bros how you take leave her abeg ........you measure the elasticity of the kpekus before you leave??

Alatogo ya!!

Zeal0000007:
I don beat her tire my hand don bend.

Clap for yourself olodo.

Then she's not onky ur girlfriend. Una many wey dey share her PERIOD

Op, love done left your 6 year relationship. She has a school mate on the side or anoda sponsor. Don't feel obligated because you allegedly deflowered her.

For your own peace of mind dump her and let her small boy worry about and/or enjoy the toto. You had it for six whole yrs so let the next guy have his turn.

Being that you have an education and job your dating pool is almost limitless in 9ja.

And like others said, no need for violence. Go in peace and keep the good memories.

Zeal0000007:



I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.

people dey craze