mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

Lol...not all that glitters are gold bro

No one is perfect!

You have to manage her anger issue or you go for a girl with lesser issue.

Mind you, you can never find a perfect man or woman. It's simply impossible!

Werey

Opemiposii:
is she an introvert?... she has mood swing and dat may be because of heartbreak or sumfin dat she may nt want to talk to you abt.. she may be lonely... u will have to talk to her gidi gan ni o... i knw worram zaying

Hian

HONESTFACT101:
how will the headline be "Hot tempered girlfriend with trust issues stabs boyfriend over airtel CUSTOMER SERVICE call"

Lol

HONESTFACT101:
how will the headline be "Hot tempered girlfriend with trust issues stabs boyfriend over airtel CUSTOMER SERVICE call"

Aswearugud......

vickydevoka:

He wants fine chikdrry and early grave

true bro..... marriage no b beans this guy's no know

You have seen all the signs yet you are still chooking head.
Bros you better walka, and I say this with all sense of responsibility. There is no point in getting into a marriage where you will not have peace of mind, so so tension and high blood pressure. What is the point of marriage that will fail in few years or might even lead to harm to you?

You can both visit councelors. What if it's all just your imagination and she's not that b

thorpido:
Well,since you love her,you can love her anger issues(use your tongue to count your teeth).

Except your fiancee is ready to go for therapy and continuous healing,you will be sleeping with a lit candle on your thatched roof.

There's a therapy I will recommend for her.Tell her to buy rubber bands and wear two on her wrist.Everytime the anger comes and she wants to flip,she should snap the rubber band hard on her wrist.She should do that every time and as often as the anger comes.If she really wants to get better that is.
You will see some improvement.

Does she have the monopoly over anger? Can't the guy also be angry? What makes the difference between a rational and calm person vs an emotionally unstable person is the maturity, which in this case is lacking on the ladies part. She is an adult with a child's behavior.

You know what to do. I feel you're seeking mental support to see it through.

See what the Holy Book says in Proverbs 21:9 and 19
"Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.”

v.19
"Better to live in the desert than with a contentious and ill-tempered wife."


You can't be wiser than God, bro. Gently break up with her, stating her anger issues as the cause. Then move out until she leaves (I have a feeling that she can stab you or break your head out of anger).

Once you do this, don't listen to ANYONE who tries to bring you both back. Your life is your own; if you die, you're the loser...


A word is enough for the wise.

Oga anger manager, tell your gal make she go work on her bad behavior. anger na very bad spirit. she fit kill you, all in the name of "when I'm angry I scatter things". honestly, those kind people, I avoid them like HIV

I advise you flee and never look back!

You're seeing someone with anger issues and you're there petting her you're not serious oh..

I have Diploma in Anger Management.

Reach out for our services.Thanks.

mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

If after seeing all these clear signs you go ahead to marry her then I assure you that you will only have yourself to blame. May God help you.

Gorillabrain:
Beat sege commot for her body she know get sense.. Stop behaving like gentle man.. This one wey dey my house now naxo she be but i teach her lesson las las she calm down. Bros women need iron hand not rubber hand becox them be waco.

AWON ELEYI TU N PARA ooooooo...I HAIL OOOOOOO

Pls, run for your life. Even the Bible specifically said avoid angry women. That's its even better to sleep on top of a roof than to be with an angry woman.

I want you to know that you're not a therapist or a punching bag.

You ain't wrong for deserving better.

Avoid bitter and angry people. If you don't have peace at home. You'll age fast and die off.

Bro I think we share the same type of girlfriend. Mine gets angry like mad....Sometimes I wonder what she actually wants. I think the best thing to do when she gets angry is to let her be.

IfIPerishIPeris:
You clearly seed the Red danger signals but you are forming macho lover man. I hope we don't get to see you in front page of weekend punch or vanguard newspaper with a battered eyes, fractured limbs and stabbed chest.

Give yourself brain.

lol. na so ooo

When I was young I watched a Shaolin master swords man film
His name was Master WeiKillquick
Everything he did was very fast . He was born one year before his mother got pregnant with him
He was so fast if he stabs you today you would die yesterday

Another Shaolin master that had 7 lives. was called MasterWeiSlowdie
He was very slow in everything
He was born the say day as his grandson
If you kill him today he would not die until next year


So one day the two of them fought
It was a very tough fight

...........................

I am sorry for ur poor life bro . That idiot will make life unbearable for u at the wrong time that u can't make a u-turn .
If u think her pussy is too sweet , pls search others . U won't last in that marriage . Run for ur life . If ur life means nothing to u , it means a lot to ur parents and siblings

Me I go don pursue you since

Gorillabrain:
Beat sege commot for her body she know get sense.. Stop behaving like gentle man.. This one wey dey my house now naxo she be but i teach her lesson las las she calm down. Bros women need iron hand not rubber hand becox them be waco.

Bros that beating part I no know ohh. See I had a friend way back, when she born na so she go de behave like crazy person with mood swings. Any small thing go vex am. Later nko, I hear say for night (happened like 3 times), my guy go de sleep on top bed. Watin go wake am na chant of his name. Not loud ohh, small small. Him go turn, no see him wife for bed. Nna na for corner of room (inside darkness) wife go de, hold knife de mention him name as if she de trance
If you beat woman because you get power pass am then for night when you don sleep she butcher you nko?
Anyway the marriage don scarter since, all the kids are grown now.

thorpido:
Well,since you love her,you can love her anger issues(use your tongue to count your teeth).

Except your fiancee is ready to go for therapy and continuous healing,you will be sleeping with a lit candle on your thatched roof.

There's a therapy I will recommend for her.Tell her to buy rubber bands and wear two on her wrist.Everytime the anger comes and she wants to flip,she should snap the rubber band hard on her wrist.She should do that every time and as often as the anger comes.If she really wants to get better that is.
You will see some improvement.

That your therapy is complete baldadash. Totally exaggerated in your mind.

Once these boys can conquer their emotions, they will have peace. It baffles me why a man will be stressing over a woman. The world is truly nearning its end.

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IfIPerishIPeris:
You clearly seed the Red danger signals but you are forming macho lover man. I hope we don't get to see you in front page of weekend punch or vanguard newspaper with a battered eyes, fractured limbs and stabbed chest.

Give yourself brain.

Battered eyes, Good.
Fractured limbs, Good.

But No to stabbed chest.

Let him just walk away alive but with battered eyes and fractured limbs, that should be enough lesson for a stubborn mumu boy.

mario22:


does the therapist work?

Therapist does not work. A leopard can never change its skin

IfIPerishIPeris:
You clearly seed the Red danger signals but you are forming macho lover man. I hope we don't get to see you in front page of weekend punch or vanguard newspaper with a battered eyes, fractured limbs and stabbed chest.

Give yourself brain.

In the end, it's the woman that will shout domestic violence

One of my younger sisters get angry like this.

When she get angry at you, na to Japa o.
Unless you want to get injured.

She once nearly broke my head with a stick when we were Young.

Though she is a lot calmer now. I guess it comes with maturity for some people.

With all the advice the op has received from this thread to make a wise decision and save his life. He is still going to do the opposite.

mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

fûcking weakling.

Simp assx nigga you are.