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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by uthlaw: 8:22pm On Jul 24, 2021
Opemiposii:
try and do things often dat would make her laugh sooooooo hard.. wit time her mood swing would reduce
lol....him don buy job b dat!
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by ThothHermes: 8:24pm On Jul 24, 2021
alexvic12:
You know what to do. I feel you're seeking mental support to see it through.

See what the Holy Book says in Proverbs 21:9
"Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.”

You can't be wiser than God, bro. Gently break up with her, stating her anger issues as the cause. Then move out until she leaves (I have a feeling that she can stab you or break your head out of anger).

Once you do this, don't listen to ANYONE who tries to bring you both back. Your life is your own; if you die, you're the loser...


A word is enough for the wise.
Check verse 19 of that chapter. grin
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Aroyjunior(m): 8:26pm On Jul 24, 2021
If you love her continue to hold on and live in fear of the slightest provocation,the lord is your strength.
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by BreakingNews21: 8:26pm On Jul 24, 2021
>>> She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now.

Bro Op... Cohabitation before marriage is now our modern culture norm

Anger issues may mean she has a demonic spirit if you believe in such.
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Klass99(f): 8:30pm On Jul 24, 2021
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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by aquame: 8:30pm On Jul 24, 2021
Women generally usually have mood swings, don't be too hard and don't be too soft, let her understand your feeling about it when she is calm, and if after that nothing changes leave the relationshit
mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Caboceer: 8:32pm On Jul 24, 2021
mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

Better get rid of that one before she mucks up your life

There's literally millions of better girls out there you don't have to be stuck with the bad ones

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by kwasoly(m): 8:32pm On Jul 24, 2021
mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.


Red flag and don't think you can change her when you guys marry.
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by bigcee(m): 8:34pm On Jul 24, 2021
HONESTFACT101:
how will the headline be "Hot tempered girlfriend with trust issues stabs boyfriend over airtel CUSTOMER SERVICE call" cheesy
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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Klass99(f): 8:35pm On Jul 24, 2021
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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by MARKone(m): 8:36pm On Jul 24, 2021
mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

Bros....run, I have to say this, as crude as it might sound, I'm talking from experience, it will get worse when you guys have gotten married, and you cannot manage, endure or live with it.
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by emaopel: 8:37pm On Jul 24, 2021
I believe is spiritual and she needs to accept this and work on herself and possible delivarance... Kindly iron it out with her when she is in the good mood and take it serious with her because... It is dangerous if not address now... She has two dangerous problems... Anger and Trust issue leading to jealousy... These things are very dangerous in marriage.
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Kandeed: 8:38pm On Jul 24, 2021
ThickSharon123:


She needs your understanding, dear. All women need that from our man. If you love her, you'll be attentive to her emotional needs.

Who's this?? he should do what??

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Klass99(f): 8:39pm On Jul 24, 2021
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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by harmony75: 8:41pm On Jul 24, 2021
Most unhappy marriages today, the Red flags were always there so if in future she continues this or even get worst don't forget you have seen the bad signs before! Good luck!
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Kandeed: 8:47pm On Jul 24, 2021
Deicide:
With all the advice the op has received from this thread to make a wise decision and save his life. He is still going to do the opposite. grin

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Chijiokem1(m): 8:48pm On Jul 24, 2021
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Why I stabbed him to death
Or
I don't mean to kill him

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by omoyagba: 8:50pm On Jul 24, 2021
young man..my only advice to you is to drop her like hot amala and run for your life
before you know it you will marry her and that is where your suffering starts
run my guy run
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jul 24, 2021
mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.
the problem is not the anger but the obvious lack of respect she has for you, made worse by cohabiting with her. Somebody walked out of your car in the middle of the road, not caring about your life or hers, and you're still calling her YOUR fiancee. Are you a fo.ol?

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by PeachtreeReside(f): 8:52pm On Jul 24, 2021
A friend of mine was your gf years ago.

The then bf called the relationship off.



He confided in her cousin months after that he loved her but her anger issues and her constant disrespect for was why he called it off




My friend adjusted and they would be 8yrs in marriage this year.


You need to take a stand NOW!

if she cannot respect you now, why would she respect you tomorrow.


Love is not enough to sustain a marriage.
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by kingofthenorth: 8:53pm On Jul 24, 2021
My brother, I have dated one, those kind of people don't change, and they never learn, its either you live with it knowing it's a cross you have to carry all through your life or you quietly breakup and jejely look for another. This life isn't meant to be stressful unless we choose to make it so. Choose wisely!

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Ugojoe11: 8:54pm On Jul 24, 2021
IfIPerishIPeris:
You clearly seed the Red danger signals but you are forming macho lover man. I hope we don't get to see you in front page of weekend punch or vanguard newspaper with a battered eyes, fractured limbs and stabbed chest.

Give yourself brain.



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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Nobody: 8:55pm On Jul 24, 2021
Klass99:


@ bold, come and share your own story grin

Klass Kaptain! grin grin grin
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Klass99(f): 8:56pm On Jul 24, 2021
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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jul 24, 2021
Mr lover man, make them no go kill you one day. grin

Imagine seeing all these red flags and still going ahead to propose. Lmao.

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Ugojoe11: 8:57pm On Jul 24, 2021
SUPERPACK:
Patiently waiting for the part two of this story maybe from a neighbour ''Married man stabbed by Wife out of anger'''.


God protect from such women...
These days women are so dangerous, don't take any action a woman displays for granted
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Darkmode64: 9:00pm On Jul 24, 2021
mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.
Dude! This is clearly a red flag.
My advice? Take your heels young man.
Avoid women like this biko. Them fit kill oooo
Just WALK AWAY
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Newboss(m): 9:02pm On Jul 24, 2021
Either you have very low self-esteem, or you are a very stupid person.

Dump her ass!

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Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by TripleA9: 9:08pm On Jul 24, 2021
mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

Premium tears loading!
Anyways we would still be here when your eye clear.
Na wa for you oo. So after all the red flags, you still need advice. Well, my advice to you is... Do whatever is on your mind. If it leads you to sense, good and fine, if it leads you to foolishness, equally good too.
Some people must learn the hard way
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Scarfin(m): 9:08pm On Jul 24, 2021
HONESTFACT101:
how will the headline be "Hot tempered girlfriend with trust issues stabs boyfriend over airtel CUSTOMER SERVICE call" cheesy
Lmaooo!!!!!
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Jhydeezle: 9:12pm On Jul 24, 2021
mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

Guy go get rubber bands make she dey wear for her left wrist if she's right handed or right wrist if she is right handed..let her pull very hard and release for it to hit her wrist whenever the anger sets in...it works
Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Scarfin(m): 9:12pm On Jul 24, 2021
Lollittaa:

the problem is not the anger but the obvious lack of respect she has for you, made worse by cohabiting with her. Somebody walked out of your car in the middle of the road, not caring about your life or hers, and you're still calling her YOUR fiancee. Are you a fo.ol?
The trouble with this world is men.
Too many stupid men who cannot act like men or take any sensible decision.
He's a fool really.
This guy shouldn't be advised.
because he won't listen for sure.

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