I started dating this lady early December, 2016 and we met in the university. In fact, we were course mates.

We started as friends while the friendship led to the romantic relationship. I do take her tutorials back then and we were so popular on campus.

We had rough and smooth days together.

We were always happy together.

Until last week that she messaged me that she doesn't want to date me anymore just because she wants to create time for herself. She kept on saying that I've done nothing wrong to her but she just want to create time for herself.

I was in deep shock . My friends couldn't believe it because many of them look up to us when it comes to relationship matter.

I sincerely and genuinely love this girl and I'm not the type that run after women. I don't even know how to ask them out.

This girl really shattered my heart because I didn't expect it.

She blocked me on WhatsApp.

I'm finding it very difficult to get over this.

I want her back but I don't know what to do?

Please help me.

Seun, lalasticlala, Mynd44, Mukina2, Lexusgs430, please advise me.

mountmoriah:
Blocked her too, give her like a year break, she will miss u and get back to u

Until last week that she messaged me that she doesn't want to date me anymore just because she wants to create time for herself. She kept on saying that I've done nothing wrong to her but she just want to create time for herself.

tayewomi:
first to comment,though if the stories is true,i would advise you to move on with your life,You see my experience with ladies have made me realize they all worthless piece of shit,they are so manipulate and callous,a girl you planning to wed in a years plus might have a serious relationship with another nigga who might even be treating her bad,you see my son never date for marriage unless you ready to get married,just have fun and bounce though some girls are still good,So i wouldn't advise you to convince or beg coz she will still leave you later,just gather you'reself and enter the next ship,bye

NairalandProf:

Realistically, I can't stop thinking about her though I have stopped calling her too.

In fact, I summoned the courage by texting her that she shouldn't mind the way I was begging her that I didn't even mean it and that she can go ahead with her life but in the reality bro, I didn't mean it.

EzegeNdiigbo:
TheGidRedpiller Cum help a brother to level-up

mountmoriah:
console yourself never trust a woman, never rely on them, never enter a relationship that when you are down you feel like killing yourself, never give too much in a relationship, give back what the other party contribute to the relationship, never show a woman how much you love her, she will definitely let you down, woman are wired to suffocate and destroy a man, eve did it to Adam, samson nko, all the great men of this world, the ones among them that fail or fall, falls by the hand of a woman, most women of nowadays are controlled by marine sprits to break the man, and destroy him, be wise.

Exmilitant:
Any wonder why the grandmasters frowns at attachment?

NairalandProf:

This bring peace a little.
I didn't believe she could do that to me.
She looks very innocent.

mountmoriah:
the ones that look innocent are the most dangerous, because you be looking at there outward Innocence, while I. The mouth there is this on seen venom of the cobra that are to strike you at any loseguarding chances they have, my brother be wise, a woman born for you didn't mean she can't kill you, dogs are better than majority of Nigeria women, because if u feed a dog for a year the dog will remember you a lifetime, but if you try to satisfy a woman for 20years, but u fail to meet up are needs for a little time, she will forget all you have ever done and say to your face, what have you done, she will tell you o ha that u didn't nothing for her, even if u don't fear the devil my, I beg u to fear women.

Doja2000:
Love is wicked
Whatever happens, please don't take the pills. Don't take the pills..!!!
I repeat, don't take the pills....!!!

NairalandProf:
I really need help.

NairalandProf:
I have read many books online on how to deal with heartbreak but none is helping currently.

NairalandProf:

What pill is that?

NairalandProf:

Realistically, I can't stop thinking about her though I have stopped calling her too.

In fact, I summoned the courage by texting her that she shouldn't mind the way I was begging her that I didn't even mean it and that she can go ahead with her life but in the reality bro, I didn't mean it.

NairalandProf:

Thank you for this advise.
I have also realised that a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage but in the reality, I still miss this girl. I'm so glued to her.

lprintMONEY:
give yourself time you'll heal.

justscorchone:


Get you a pound of weed and watch Rick and Morty you go dey alright

Charmingrascal:


No one can give you any advice that will make you forget her hurriedly.

I just want to tell you that for her not to give you any reason, she has already moved on after finding a better guy perhaps who is financially, physically or even sexually active than you.


Bro move on too, cry and mourn your loss but I am very sure you are already listening to sober music or do u need some heart break songs recommendation?

It is natural you will be sad but believe you will get over it with time.
Some insincere lots will come and tell you how weak you are but don't mind them, it is natural to cry over a heartbreak, a man who does not feel sad over a heartbreak was never in love.

Trying to win her back is a waste of your precious time as a man.

Cry and move on.

post=104466896:
We will be back after the BBQ work of the day.
Brb.....

TheGidRedpiller:
Take the REDPILL.
I promise you won't regret it.

Cholls:
My brother you're a prey to her and she has devoured you. Eiyah! Welcome to the club

NairalandProf:

I'm not a fan of weed ooo