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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by kay9(m): 1:16pm On Aug 24, 2021
xynerise:
For those wey get time to propose. We do it the old way grin

grin grin
"Bia nne, take dat two nylon bag on the back sit. Wan iz for yuu andi wan iz for your mommi. I weeri come and visit yuu in your father's house nexti Sunday."

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by blendz4real(m): 1:16pm On Aug 24, 2021
JovialJune:



Explain advanced biology to us mister scientist, with graphical quotations, verified links and concrete research, not something from your ass.
Y wud u b so impolitic, uncivil, uncouth, uncultured, unethical, n discourteous 2 quote sum1 lyk dat? Madam Neva 4get dat pride goes b4 a fall. I come in peace!
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Aug 24, 2021
JovialJune:



You people just spring up nonsense from your baseless thought process like you are in our mind, does the number of women you've met signify all women? Why are you giving reasons on our behalf for not commenting, who asked you? When you talkative males have taken up most spaces on front page, where should we comment, on your head



This is not a made up gist or baseless talk, I know this women reach house, I’m pro women but then I’m just stating what I know is a common thing amongst your folks, y’all should sit down well and select who y’all want to settle down with and stop looking for flaws and making petty excuses and still come out to say all men are trash or there are no decent men out there. When y’all are more interested in fine boy with finances.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by xynerise: 1:18pm On Aug 24, 2021
kay9:


grin grin
"Bia nne, take dat two nylon bag on the back sit. Wan izi for yuu andi wan izi for your mommi. I weeri come andi visit yuu in your father's house nexti Sunday."

Your head dey there grin
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by lastchild: 1:20pm On Aug 24, 2021
am I the only that notice that girls are no longer in nairaland, men always answering questions directed to women

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Hassanmaye(m): 1:20pm On Aug 24, 2021
Redpillar:
Thread for ladies, 95% comments would be from men. Spits on this generation of talkative males.
Hahahhahahaha why are like this? Have you stop Been on our side

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by YelloweWest: 1:21pm On Aug 24, 2021
Redpillar:
Thread for ladies, 95% comments would be from men. Spits on this generation of talkative males.
That's why they get rejected undecided

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by JovialJune(f): 1:21pm On Aug 24, 2021
blendz4real:

Y wud u b so impolitic, uncivil, uncouth, uncultured, unethical, n discourteous 2 quote sum1 lyk dat? Madam Neva 4get dat pride goes b4 a fall. I come in peace!


Wayray leleyi sha, who are you calling all those names? Do you think I'm your mother? Go back home and direct those nonsense to her.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Depressed101: 1:24pm On Aug 24, 2021
catwalq:
When I talk: You want to show me that you're intelligent.

When I don't talk: You think you are too intelligent and this is beneath you.
insecurity
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by JovialJune(f): 1:25pm On Aug 24, 2021
justscorchone:




This is not a made up gist or baseless talk, I know this women reach house, I’m pro women but then I’m just stating what I know is a common thing amongst your folks, y’all should sit down well and select who y’all want to settle down with and stop looking for flaws and making petty excuses and still come out to say all men are trash or there are no decent men out there. When y’all are more interested in fine boy with finances.


And what is wrong with being interested in fine boy with finances? Abi why are you bitter and ranting on our behalf?

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Fiscus105(m): 1:25pm On Aug 24, 2021
Romanoff:
Hmmnn.

Might not be a proposal but someone who claimed he wanted a relationship with me cause he wants to marry me said something when we were getting to know each other. This is what he said that made me turn back and face my father's house, "I am sorry to say this, but a man is not complete without a male child".

Since I knew that I didn't have a store house for male children nor did I have a guarantee of bearing him a son, I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship or marriage.

To my surprise, dude insisted on knowing why I turned him down after some months, I told him his comment about male children put me off. He tried to convince me he didn't mean it the way I saw it but I just wasn't convinced.



If what you posted is truth, I pray God should give you grace to be able to stay long in husband house
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by miblolo(f): 1:26pm On Aug 24, 2021
I didn't love him. Most importantly I didn't trust his wealth. He either faked it or was made from black magic

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Romanoff(f): 1:28pm On Aug 24, 2021
Fiscus105:



If what you posted is truth, I pray God should give you grace to be able to stay long in husband house

It is the truth and it's because I intend to stay long in "husband house" that I turned him down. I can't marry who will throw me out for not bearing male children.

I've seen it happen to other women to open my eyes and go into marriage with someone like that. Marriage is a long time commitment, it's stupid to go into it with someone who can throw you out because you no born boy.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by topoftheworld(m): 1:29pm On Aug 24, 2021
Romanoff:


Yes o. Tried several times to convince me he didn't mean it that way but I japa for my life. Let a woman who has a store house of male children marry him and make him complete.

I nor fit.

U are trying to avoid story that touch ba?
The guy is not mature for that statement.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Romanoff(f): 1:30pm On Aug 24, 2021
topoftheworld:


U are trying to avoid story that touch ba?
The guy is not mature for that statement.

My dear. My mum's very close friend is struggling to raise three girls cause her husband ran away, say she no born boy.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Oluwademilade: 1:31pm On Aug 24, 2021
Romanoff:
Hmmnn.

Might not be a proposal but someone who claimed he wanted a relationship with me cause he wants to marry me said something when we were getting to know each other. This is what he said that made me turn back and face my father's house, "I am sorry to say this, but a man is not complete without a male child".
You're right to have dumped him. Men like that cause so many unnecessary headaches for their women demanding for things they should be held responsible for. If not for ignorance, he should know it's the man that determines the sex of a child
Since I knew that I didn't have a store house for male children nor did I have a guarantee of bearing him a son, I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship or marriage.

To my surprise, dude insisted on knowing why I turned him down after some months, I told him his comment about male children put me off. He tried to convince me he didn't mean it the way I saw it but I just wasn't convinced.

Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Fiscus105(m): 1:32pm On Aug 24, 2021
Romanoff:


It is the truth and it's because I intend to stay long in "husband house" that I turned him down. I can't marry who will throw me out for not bearing male children.

I've seen it happen to other women to open my eyes and go into marriage with someone like that. Marriage is a long time commitment, it's stupid to go into it with someone who can throw you out because you no born boy.

Wen u married, (if you haven't) "moreeeeee" than this will be uttered by ur partner, maybe you would run by then.

If you know basic biology and you know how to answer question thrown at you, you would have told him, sex of kids is 100% determine by husband.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Nobody: 1:34pm On Aug 24, 2021
JovialJune:



And what is wrong with being interested in fine boy with finances? Abi why are you bitter and ranting on our behalf?


Why do I even bother, good luck with menopause.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Aug 24, 2021
Hammergirl:
Due to my health status, I have developed fear for marriage. So I deliberately send them away.
Get well.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Romanoff(f): 1:38pm On Aug 24, 2021
Fiscus105:


Wen u married, (if you haven't) "moreeeeee" than this will be uttered by ur partner, maybe you would run by then.

If you know basic biology and you know how to answer question thrown at you, you would have told him, sex of kids is 100% determine by husband.

Nah. Not on strong opinions like children. I am mature enough to tolerate mistakes made by my partner cause I'm not perfect. But a man who holds strong opinions on something that can mar a marriage isn't one to be taken lightly.

If such a man married your sister and they are unable to have male children, how do intend to convince him it's him who determines the sex of their children?

Would you be happy if your sister was thrown out of the house by such a man or if the man goes out to look for a supposed male child?

Think deeply about this.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by topoftheworld(m): 1:39pm On Aug 24, 2021
nokspos:
you did well, this is how this half educated men go about frustrating the lives of innocent women after marriage. simple secondary school biology they won't understand.

Don't try to insult us grin grin cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by JovialJune(f): 1:40pm On Aug 24, 2021
Romanoff:


Nah. Not on strong opinions like children. I am mature enough to tolerate mistakes made by my partner cause I'm not perfect. But a man who holds strong opinions on something that can mar a marriage isn't one to be taken lightly.

If such a man married your sister and they are unable to have male children, how do intend to convince him it's him who determines the sex of their children?

Would you be happy if your sister was thrown out of the house by such a man or if the man goes out to look for a supposed male child?

Think deeply about this.


You really have time to school those daft ones o, basic understanding they don't have.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by almarthins(m): 1:42pm On Aug 24, 2021
post=105129561:
We just asked the closest female around us now and she says "He refused to buy me BARBECUE on the day of the proposal!!"
shocked shocked shocked shocked

It is well!!

Hehehe...afi barbecue na
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by osuofia2(m): 1:42pm On Aug 24, 2021
ceaser:


Keloids, though can be repulsive when florid, but they are not something unsurmountable. He should have found out more how to get them removed without recurrence. And sincerely I feel you could have helped him out with researching on how to remove that little minus.

I know of a guy who was dating a pretty lady but with bad dentition, and I mean very bad dentition as in the type that will shame Evi Edna Ogholi's. Her incicors were literarily jutting out, pushing her upper and lower lips forward.

What did the guy do? He simply went with her to see a dentist and paid for the treatment to have her put on braces. Just for a few months and now she can smile beautifully without worrying about people wincing. They are now with kids, beautiful kids.

Another one was so thin tongue and doesn't have a masculine voice. So i always felt I was talking to a girl or small boy.

This is nothing but the truth.
Can you share your information on the highlighted , how to treat keloid without reoccurrence. Thank you
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Fejimummy: 1:47pm On Aug 24, 2021
One said that I should drop out of uniben in 300 level to attend yabatech because he lives in yaba... Who does that

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Didi2d(m): 1:50pm On Aug 24, 2021
JADEK04:
First time I gave a lady a ring in my life,
She rejected it,
And I can never never in my life does that again,
Her reason was that
Is too early for me to do that....that she need a time to think and decide.

Hope you didn't do it in a public place?
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by IamKizzbrown10(m): 1:50pm On Aug 24, 2021
A lot of men make that mistake prosposing to a girl, wen u knw u dnt have wat it takes to have her as a wife(not just money) maybe u only have wat she consider as bf and gf stuff and nt marriage. No reasonable lady will reject a man she knws he is capable of taking care of her financial, mentally, physically and sexually and her unborn kid or call it a responsible man. But if a lady reject such a man just knw that her villiage people ar on her matter. Thank u

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by nokspos: 1:51pm On Aug 24, 2021
lol
Randy100:
Seriously, it's you that don't understand advanced Biology. I come in violence grin peace is overated.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Skillsnigeria: 1:52pm On Aug 24, 2021
grin Nigeria women, are you here
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by ajibolag(m): 1:52pm On Aug 24, 2021
Fejimummy:
One said that I should drop out of uniben in 300 level to attend yabatech because he lives in yaba... Who does that

Mhad oo���

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Avviala: 1:55pm On Aug 24, 2021
justscorchone:



Women dey enter road to hookup with strangers , you think they are scared of common post? They don't have anything tangible to say, I know alot of women that complain of being single but then the number of gentlemen lining up just to kiss where they walk are not given a chance. I guarantee you this women don't know what they want.

Some do. Maybe the men dying to kiss them aren't what they want in a man.

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