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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by naturefellow(m): 3:16pm On Aug 24, 2021
catwalq:
When I talk: You want to show me that you're intelligent.

When I don't talk: You think you are too intelligent and this is beneath you.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by MufasaLion: 3:17pm On Aug 24, 2021
Fiscus105:



It's illiterate African men and not average.

Meanwhile, having boy at all cost is now age-long mentality

Not illiterate only but some of the educated folks too. 'It's African to have a male heir', so they say.

Moreover, I see it as a natural thing for men to prefer a male heir. It's now left for an individual to see beyond that, but most men don't.

Also, you can't blame such men and you can't change them unless they wanna change. It's ideal to just reject such men if you can't cope than to accept and face the consequences later.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by TWLifestyle: 3:18pm On Aug 24, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:
Okk
Many should reject more.
That's my prayer.
MEN should be made to retrace their steps too.
They have really messed up Big Time.
IF the Lady you have around you isn't an asset to you, then what business do u have with her?

I still don't understand how some hardworking men will obviously see a LIABILITY & walk straight into her life.
What magic is more than that.?
This is something even empowered LADIES will never attempt
you people don't mind liabilities nah - empowered women scare most of you - always looking for women not as successful as you so they will submit .

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by MufasaLion: 3:19pm On Aug 24, 2021
sisisioge:


It wasnt at first for me until the talk of permanence entered the equation.

By permanence, you're referring to marriage, right?
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by TWLifestyle: 3:19pm On Aug 24, 2021
Redpillar:
Thread for ladies, 95% comments would be from men. Spits on this generation of talkative males.
you have to admit - most men are woman wrappers - female issues bother them so deeply . Lol

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by JovialJune(f): 3:20pm On Aug 24, 2021
Randy100:

My mother is an idiot, when she wants to learn, we can talk, I will gladly teach her on what goes on in her body. My mother can equally go and seek knowledge about it. My mother is an Anu mpama.


Fixed, okay.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Ademola47(m): 3:21pm On Aug 24, 2021
JovialJune:
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Why will anyone be interested in the vulture you grill? Do you want to kill people as your darling bubu is doing

He was just catching cruise. Merely looking at the comment, it is apparently fictitious.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by TWLifestyle: 3:21pm On Aug 24, 2021
Romanoff:
Hmmnn.

Might not be a proposal but someone who claimed he wanted a relationship with me cause he wants to marry me said something when we were getting to know each other. This is what he said that made me turn back and face my father's house, "I am sorry to say this, but a man is not complete without a male child".

Since I knew that I didn't have a store house for male children nor did I have a guarantee of bearing him a son, I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship or marriage.

To my surprise, dude insisted on knowing why I turned him down after some months, I told him his comment about male children put me off. He tried to convince me he didn't mean it the way I saw it but I just wasn't convinced.

if they ask him now he would say you hate men . Without thinking of the mindset he has towards women that made him utter such garbage .

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by GREATESTPIANIST: 3:24pm On Aug 24, 2021
CharisEleos:
They were not my spec tongue

He had keloids at the back of his head.

Another one was so thin tongue and doesn't have a masculine voice. So i always felt I was talking to a girl or small boy.

This is nothing but the truth.
abeg don't body shame anyone, you have no power to create...just say you weren't attracted to the aforementioned persons instead of body shaming, you ain't perfect either.....smh

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by evil1: 3:25pm On Aug 24, 2021
Good one
I totally support you for this. I prefer even having more female kids than male irrespective of the fact I don't care the gender of kids I have.
Romanoff:
Hmmnn.

Might not be a proposal but someone who claimed he wanted a relationship with me cause he wants to marry me said something when we were getting to know each other. This is what he said that made me turn back and face my father's house, "I am sorry to say this, but a man is not complete without a male child".

Since I knew that I didn't have a store house for male children nor did I have a guarantee of bearing him a son, I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship or marriage.

To my surprise, dude insisted on knowing why I turned him down after some months, I told him his comment about male children put me off. He tried to convince me he didn't mean it the way I saw it but I just wasn't convinced.

Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by GREATESTPIANIST: 3:25pm On Aug 24, 2021
CharisEleos:
They were not my spec tongue

One had keloids at the back of his head.

Another one was so thin tongue and doesn't have a masculine voice. So i always felt I was talking to a girl or small boy.

This is nothing but the truth.
and what is your spec....? Mrs Perfect undecided undecided undecided undecided lipsrsealed ......later unango divorce una spec.........
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Redpillar(m): 3:27pm On Aug 24, 2021
TWLifestyle:
you have to admit - most men are woman wrappers - female issues bother them so deeply . Lol

Any talk on women makes them come alive.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by lilvicky68(m): 3:28pm On Aug 24, 2021
CharisEleos:
They were not my spec tongue

One had keloids at the back of his head.

Another one was so thin tongue and doesn't have a masculine voice. So i always felt I was talking to a girl or small boy.

This is nothing but the truth.
Hmmmm..I hope you told them that was the reason..
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Aug 24, 2021
GREATESTPIANIST:
abeg don't body shame anyone, you have no power to create...just say you weren't attracted to the aforementioned persons instead of body shaming, you ain't perfect either.....smh

How did I body shame anyone here?

I simply gave my reasons for not accepting them like the post clearly states or should I have said its because I didn't like them? Besides those are things that can be corrected with the right measures.

Please don't take it personal.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Romanoff(f): 3:34pm On Aug 24, 2021
GREATESTPIANIST:
he meant it oooooo, good you left him, you will meet someone better

I'm even married now.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by TWLifestyle: 3:36pm On Aug 24, 2021
credon:

In addition to your topic, add "are you married now"
it is not your topic neither is it your business whether anybody is married or not . Marriage is not food or oxygen .

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by AutoChick4U(f): 3:40pm On Aug 24, 2021
1,Blamed me for a miscarriage I hand no hand miscarrying. I don suffer sha

2, Made me feel bad like was not enough cos I was a corper at dat time. Baba now wanted something serious when I was done

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by 3310adeb: 3:41pm On Aug 24, 2021
Lady,,, abi ogun wan kill una ni, where una run go na ����
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by TWLifestyle: 3:42pm On Aug 24, 2021
justscorchone:



Women dey enter road to hookup with strangers , you think they are scared of common post? They don't have anything tangible to say, I know alot of women that complain of being single but then the number of gentlemen lining up just to kiss where they walk are not given a chance. I guarantee you this women don't know what they want.
no woman owes any man " a chance " even if she has a truckload of men she has her reasons for not dating them - the reasoms dont have to satisfy anybody but her .

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by MufasaLion: 3:43pm On Aug 24, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Blamed me for a miscarriage I hand no hand miscarrying. I don suffer sha

Woah!
Crazy shit.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Hathor5(f): 3:49pm On Aug 24, 2021
ValCon888:
The Evening Newspapers here will do well to avoid this thread. The only place where they reject marriage proposal is in their dreams.

They will reject your proposal even when they clock 99.

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by TWLifestyle: 3:54pm On Aug 24, 2021
dalass:


This is so true.

You see a thread on Ladies, na men go full am, trying to intimidate them undecided
exactly ! Women will be thete living their life - men can't help themselves when it comes to chooking mouth in female issues - it's a spirit thay overtakes their mouths and fingers to type and say rubbish about women .

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Limassol(m): 3:55pm On Aug 24, 2021
Romanoff:
Hmmnn.

Might not be a proposal but someone who claimed he wanted a relationship with me cause he wants to marry me said something when we were getting to know each other. This is what he said that made me turn back and face my father's house, "I am sorry to say this, but a man is not complete without a male child".

Since I knew that I didn't have a store house for male children nor did I have a guarantee of bearing him a son, I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship or marriage.

To my surprise, dude insisted on knowing why I turned him down after some months, I told him his comment about male children put me off. He tried to convince me he didn't mean it the way I saw it but I just wasn't convinced.

Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by TWLifestyle: 3:57pm On Aug 24, 2021
Karlovych:
I was surprised as well, it's really shameful and they are the types with so much estrogen in their bodies and brain
don't be surprised, this is how men shamelessly flood any topic about women - always with senseless insults and rubbish comments .

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Cheeryfeet: 4:01pm On Aug 24, 2021
Romanoff:
Hmmnn.

Might not be a proposal but someone who claimed he wanted a relationship with me cause he wants to marry me said something when we were getting to know each other. This is what he said that made me turn back and face my father's house, "I am sorry to say this, but a man is not complete without a male child".

Since I knew that I didn't have a store house for male children nor did I have a guarantee of bearing him a son, I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship or marriage.

To my surprise, dude insisted on knowing why I turned him down after some months, I told him his comment about male children put me off. He tried to convince me he didn't mean it the way I saw it but I just wasn't convinced.

Guess what, it's actually what you put in, is what you get. It's what the man puts in that determines the sex of a child, but ignorance has killed us in Africa
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Romanoff(f): 4:03pm On Aug 24, 2021
Cheeryfeet:

Guess what, it's actually what you put in, is what you get. It's what the man puts in that determines the sex of a child, but ignorance has killed us in Africa

And it is hard to get that mentality out of a typical African man.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by TWLifestyle: 4:04pm On Aug 24, 2021
lastchild:
am I the only that notice that girls are no longer in nairaland, men always answering questions directed to women
its not just nairaland - its everywhere .

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Aug 24, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


That's some serious low esteem. But something common among Nigerian men.

They want intelligent women, but when they get one, they will gravitate towards the ones that aren't, so that they can feel smart.

They talk with two sides of their mouths.



Low esteem on naija men are you kidding ... do those men in BBhouse portray low esteem.
i think naija gurls are tew focus on what they stand to gain that they bearly try to understand the men.
If we say we want an intelligent woman, we meant the ones that will come into our lives to compliment us not creat some rivalry shit.
if a babe drop ideas that will upscale her man prospective ideas why would he reject them ... buh a typical naija intelligent woman won't build on her man's idea most times she brings ideas that will overwrite the man's plans.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by TWLifestyle: 4:06pm On Aug 24, 2021
Fiscus105:



If what you posted is truth, I pray God should give you grace to be able to stay long in husband house
what is your business with her and husbands house ? This is how you men go around chooking your mouth in women's issues that shouldn't concern you .

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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Haryhomyidhey(f): 4:07pm On Aug 24, 2021
Hmmmmmmm
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by TWLifestyle: 4:10pm On Aug 24, 2021
justscorchone:



Why do I even bother, good luck with menopause.
exa tky , why did you bother ? Are you menstruating ? Or is it your menopause ? We would really love if you men could just shut the fvck up and stop concerning yourself with female issues unprovoked.

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