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Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by phorget(m): 2:27pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Citygal: Which kain yeye love be that? Nah who una go kill una dey find upandan. 9 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by omooba969(m): 2:28pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Poanan: Na today ?? Only a man can marry a woman with no job, below his level and no valuable properties to her name.... ONLY A MAN ! 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by FunnyDude(m): 2:29pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
pocohantas: SHUT UP. JAPA INDEED 4 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by emmanuelbrown26: 2:29pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
posty56:Few are wising up, majority still dey simps 3 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Beface(m): 2:29pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Citygal:What is love then? The only true love you can find in Nigeria is the love from your Mother, any other one na scam. The real world in the family is responsibility not love. |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Sterope(f): 2:30pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
I can't fault the guy 8 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by omooba969(m): 2:30pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Mercychen: The man is wise. 1 Like |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by princewarri1985: 2:30pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Your Uncle is a wise man! Because prevention better pass cure! Because there is this guy in my street who live in a 3 bedroom apartment married with a son but 4 of the wife siblings stays in the house full time and the man is shouldering all the expenses and a mutual friend once told me that the man is not happy about the situation because it's drainging him financially 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Freezby2020: 2:31pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Will you quit this platform. Love kee u there. I hv never seen or meet you, but I bet, you will not take an obvious responsibility if you have another options. You this hypocrite!!! Citygal: 2 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by adioolayi(m): 2:31pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Citygal: What kind of agreement Are they Americans If they are Africans... some things won't work out. 2 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Vinnie2000(m): 2:33pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
pocohantas: Lolss, this Aunty ehn.. Only one Guy come Get all diz plenty Responsibility? You as the Lady should be There for him and Assist him nah.. 1 Like |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Prime1(m): 2:33pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Citygal: who love help. who do you think will shoulder it all at the end of the day since they are low income earners. it is better to avoid trouble sometimes. |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Antoeni(m): 2:33pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
A very Wise uncle |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by angelfallz(m): 2:33pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
I wonder where we get this impression that, once married, a man becomes responsible for his wife's siblings and family. 5 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by kenodrill: 2:34pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Uncle wey wise!!! |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by ibechris(m): 2:34pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
I have a friend in Abuja here that is really suffering just of this kind of situation. He married this lady and all of sudden,the lady brought her three sisters and one of her brothers to his house till this day. In fact,he is more distressed and worried like never before. He confided in me and he told me how the cost of running the house has made him empty and that he could no longer do what his mates are doing financially. He also explain to me how his wife used scissor to design all his clothes all because he asked one of them who had been very stubborn to him to leave his house,and his wife refused to call the said girl to order and that the fracas that ensued led his wife to burn some of his clothes, and that,this has happened on two occasions which has further rendered him helpless due to his good intentions. My advice to young men intending to marry. Pls,no matter how sweet the love may sound,avoid this kind of embarrassment. Marriage is sweet when there are no impediments such as the one I just painted above. His conclusion is that he was going to build his personal house without the wife,the day he is going to pack out,then he will instruct the wife to choose between her siblings and her immediate family. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Johnholmes: 2:34pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
I support d guy totally in this regard . He may love her but is not ready to commit to her cause of d girl's "issues". People often get it wrong with marriage . Marriage is not only about love . In fact, what can sustain a marriage is commitment ,which is an active decision to support ur partner thru thick or thin . Love is just a passive emotional feeling. In other words ,what I am saying is commitment is more important than love when it comes to d issue of marriage Commitment + love = sustainable marriage Commitment without love can also lead to a sustainable marriage Love alone can't sustain a marriage 3 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by kwaso2: 2:34pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Citygal:This must be coming from a baby 5 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by BinamRex: 2:35pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
This is the opposite of what I'd do. I wouldn't ditch a lady because she is from a poor family and she has too many siblings. My business would always need an extra hand. I'll employ them in my businesses but they wont deal with money, just work work work work. I won't give them free money. They must learn that there is dignity in labour. 8 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by michael1508: 2:37pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Fiscus105:Yourself should be number 1 on that list You owe yourself a whole lot,make responsibility no kill man pikin 1 Like |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by ibechris(m): 2:38pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
BinamRex: Wait till u marry then. Experience is the greatest teacher. 3 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by omooba969(m): 2:38pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
TWLifestyle: Do you actually want to compare our selfless mothers to the girls of nowadays? Think about it 8 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Prime1(m): 2:38pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Yves4real: lol...what if the gender is reversed. can you still say this? Afterall, guys are now learning from ladies/women. just accept it as it is. |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Nobody: 2:38pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Citygal:Na small small e go dey start ! Like Darling borrow me small money I wan complete my little brothers school fees ! # Darling my little sister dey hospital # Darling I need to visit my siblings to settle a case they have with the landlord . etc etc 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by kudinkarfe: 2:39pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Men are supporting Uncle while girls are opposing, life is good. To me both side are right. Uncle dodge bullet by not marrying hanty with many siblings according to men. Girls love themselves that's why they are not happy with uncles decision. |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Nobody: 2:39pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
pansophist:one bottle of beer for your analysis 2 Likes |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Emperormartin(m): 2:40pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
I'll honestly tell you your post about your uncle has made some people wiser! We need to keep sharing this post 1 Like |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Itzurboi(m): 2:40pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Yves4real:Life is not always about Nollywood Fiction... Whether you accept or not, you are just for yourself.. 1 Like |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by okine4real: 2:41pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
This Morning my wife lamented that if she new, na two children she for stop. My Children go scatter house as you dey arrange am finish. Feeding them na die.. Sometimes i wonder if na suffer i come suffer for this life. Four children na die for Buhari ohh. My wife is even complaining, na me dey work ohh. Na me dey spend the money, so if person when nor be she dey work the money dey complain, then imagine me when come dey work the money. Any man when ready to hear, make him hear, in marriage a time comes when the pussy go tire you, even prick go tire the woman, what matters first is the money.....Money maketh marriage. imagine say, people dey send there children go school of 150k per term, and during Holidays, you send them to UK for chilling, but when you nor get money, na vex you go just dey vex, you go see as your wife FINE, but she go just dey irritate you because she be empty barrel. Alots of men are suffering inside marriage ohh, na you go pay rent, pay school fee, build house.... The truth is guys should stop dating the avail girls, the avail girls are not doing anything, they cant add nothing to your life, dey only have in-between there legs to offer. Date girls and marry girls that are not avail. Date girls that are working, or learning trade, even if she ugly marry her like that, you cant use because of your wife is fine, then you nor go pay children school fees. girls that are working would give you less stress in marriage because they can contribute. Date and marry girls that there parents had train them very well, not the once roaming the street and looking for whom to carry all there problems. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: His Uncle Refused To Marry A Lady Because She Has A Lot Of Siblings by Cromagnon: 2:41pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
RightToReject:what %age of economic fortune have you seen turnaround in Nigeria of 2021? |
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