No too blame her, she is a victim of

♥♥.▶️ OKAFOR'S LAW. ◀️ ♥♥


The law no dey fail.��

If this story is true, #futureisfemale will tell us what to do

She didn't confess, you caught her red handed. If you hadn't caught her, she wouldn't have come clean so divorce that bitch now or live in penury for the rest of your life.

edochie12:
In my home town in anambra,any child born by a woman that was legally married belongs to the husband,no two ways about that,you can never come and claim a child born by a family woman,as for me I will divorce her and I will take the three kids.

na man you be

First of all go n conduct a dna test on the 3 children to comfirm then throw d woman out of ur house..I dont tolerate nonsense !!!

MrBrownJay1:


did you say the "three" kids... even the one that aint biologically yours?!

He is right,we in Anambra once you marry a woman, there is nothing like biological child or not. Every child born by the woman during your marriage is yours. Even the first son born through adultery will still inherit the title of your first son.

Personally, I don't believe in the stuff of forgiving/loving your enemy. After all God did not love the devil.
even when Adam & eve offended God, he forgave and sent them packing from garden of edden.
if you forgive the devil called wife. Below are the results of your forgiveness
1. Your wife has 2 husbands to satisfy.
2. You may die untimely because she may decide to kill you in order to cover other secrets you've not unravelled.
Ire ooooo.

WoundedLamb:
You guys and unverifiable stories...

Many topics on Nairaland were created for traffic.

Lamasta:
Papa Ijeoma you are on your own o

Big OYo... To avoid more depression just let her go...

For her to have sex not once not twice then became pregnant and even have the gut to name the child the name of her side-guy, it says alot.... That woman is strongly and madly in love with that guy "Emma" no sympathy. She must go...

We the elders have spoken...

Babastrong:
Personally, I don't believe in the stuff of forgiving/loving your enemy. After all God did not love the devil.
even when Adam & eve offended God, he forgave and sent them packing from garden of edden.
if you forgive the devil called wife. Below are the results of your forgiveness
1. Your wife has 2 husbands to satisfy.
2. You may die untimely because she may decide to kill you in order to cover other secrets you've not unravelled.
Ire ooooo.

Exactly my thoughts.... These are the ones he knows what about the ones he doesn't? Who knows if the other children belong to other men??

The way I no get joy ehn... Both the mother and the Emma wil go to their fathers asap, never trust any woman

edochie12:
it is our culture and tradition,you have to accept the child,.

You’re a man of culture and that is commendable. But legally speaking, I doubt if our courts will agree to it in the case of divorce

IbileIfe:

Many topics on Nairaland were created for traffic.

It seems to be so.

Just get yourself another woman or better still get yourself a side chick and console your soul, life is too sweet than to die young

she didn't actually confess you caught her then she started explaining... na women dey trend for like 5 weeks now I fear who no fear ladies o

[Lie lie story, you people will just formulate story, anyhow.
















quote author=Breeze111 post=105664039]Jess even me this matter over me, papa ijeoma won run mad. I they even pity am.

I go just give una the story how my client give me..

My name is papa ijeoma, I have three kids. A daughter and two son, the girl is the first. I Am just a road side mechanic managing life with my family though am normally busy so I do come back in the night.

For twelve years of marriage I have never had issue with my wife nor-suspected any mistrust or cheat. We have live very happy not until on Tuesday(2days back) when I came back from work very early and it was because she is hosting their women wing ex-co meeting in the house that day.

So when I came back she was in the kitchen as God would have it her fone was on the center table in parlour, the phone rang, it was on silence(but on vibration) so I was on call with one of my boys in the shop could not tell her to come and pick her call.

As soon as I drop my call I say to myself (this children have put their mother phone on silent again) not knowing she was the one that put it. I pick the phone to remove it from silent, I saw the miss call emma(I trust the wife wai I get for house die, so I no send) not up to 5second a message enter from this same emma via sms(you know android phone na them go pop up the sms untop for your screen).

I saw 'my world' sharply I open the sms and it was (my world you have been avoiding me why!! Have miss you lying beside me on my bed) immediately my eyes started turning me, my head began to hot like fire.

Sharply I enter watsap of which have never done before(though in my house we don't put security lock on phone my rules) I saw that same Emma again on WhatsApp message, I screw up-up and began to see message like hope you are taking care of my child Emma, because that is the name of my suppose last child.

So she name him after her ex-guy. I ran to her in the kitchen to confront her immediately she just knelt down and started crying uncontrollable and confessing that the last child is for her ex who came back from outside the country few years ago and started disturbing her. Have called her parent and my parent they say they we be coming by weekend.

She use advantage of me because she knew am a very quite person in nature.

Right now I just feel like dying don't know if I should divorce her quietly or forgive her, but she is claiming to be really sorry. (but Las-Las I love this woman die just don't know why she betray me like this). [/quote]

Send the child out of your home to the real father and if she wants to go with him make sure you and your real children wave her goodbye... actually you should make sure the remaining two are your children DNA test should be the next thing on your mind....that woman is a serial cheat and she go poison you one day mark my words

Breeze111:
Jess even me this matter over me, papa ijeoma won run mad. I they even pity am.

I go just give una the story how my client give me..

My name is papa ijeoma, I have three kids. A daughter and two son, the girl is the first. I Am just a road side mechanic managing life with my family though am normally busy so I do come back in the night.

For twelve years of marriage I have never had issue with my wife nor-suspected any mistrust or cheat. We have live very happy not until on Tuesday(2days back) when I came back from work very early and it was because she is hosting their women wing ex-co meeting in the house that day.

So when I came back she was in the kitchen as God would have it her fone was on the center table in parlour, the phone rang, it was on silence(but on vibration) so I was on call with one of my boys in the shop could not tell her to come and pick her call.

As soon as I drop my call I say to myself (this children have put their mother phone on silent again) not knowing she was the one that put it. I pick the phone to remove it from silent, I saw the miss call emma(I trust the wife wai I get for house die, so I no send) not up to 5second a message enter from this same emma via sms(you know android phone na them go pop up the sms untop for your screen).

I saw 'my world' sharply I open the sms and it was (my world you have been avoiding me why!! Have miss you lying beside me on my bed) immediately my eyes started turning me, my head began to hot like fire.

Sharply I enter watsap of which have never done before(though in my house we don't put security lock on phone my rules) I saw that same Emma again on WhatsApp message, I screw up-up and began to see message like hope you are taking care of my child Emma, because that is the name of my suppose last child.

So she name him after her ex-guy. I ran to her in the kitchen to confront her immediately she just knelt down and started crying uncontrollable and confessing that the last child is for her ex who came back from outside the country few years ago and started disturbing her. Have called her parent and my parent they say they we be coming by weekend.

She use advantage of me because she knew am a very quite person in nature.

Right now I just feel like dying don't know if I should divorce her quietly or forgive her, but she is claiming to be really sorry. (but Las-Las I love this woman die just don't know why she betray me like this).

Emmanuel909090:
If she is truly sorry, forgive her.
This life is too short to spend unhappy, since you love her this much forgive.

Baba,if you yarn dis opata for where men dey,nah to arrange your mouth with correct blows

The bitter truth is that even if u forgive her and continue marrying her, as far as that her ex dey she MUST still cheat with him again.
Mind u, my concern is not only that the last child is her ex own but even after having the baby she continued sleeping with him. No no no

AutoChick4U:
Seems "I Do" means nothing to people these days. Too bad

Just too bad!!!

Las las kill u dere

ravensckar:
I was enjoying the fake story until it got to the part where the OP claimed his wife saved her lover's name as 'Emma'. This right here is a big fat lie! Also, a cheating woman will not put password or pattern on her phone? Haba! Abeg tell us another lie nau.

Even an amateur in the cheating business wouldn't even make such mistake. Talk less of someone who has cheated to the level of bearing a child for his lover. She would have stored that number with 'Mama Emma'.

Make una dey try put salt and maggi for this una fake story nau. It's too bland.

what about woman wen stab her husband die

She Don first born for outside

The man still open shop for am base on love things

But via say the man dey follow another girl she stab am die

This wan happen for ughelli



The founder of america got talent (Simeon ) impregnated someone else's wife under same scenario as ops story

There are lots of unrealistic going on in the real world

Some of which would make u open your mouth as wide as possible (like a Yoruba man )
And shout yea

FAKE

Breeze111:
Jess even me this matter over me, papa ijeoma won run mad. I they even pity am.

I go just give una the story how my client give me..

My name is papa ijeoma, I have three kids. A daughter and two son, the girl is the first. I Am just a road side mechanic managing life with my family though am normally busy so I do come back in the night.

For twelve years of marriage I have never had issue with my wife nor-suspected any mistrust or cheat. We have live very happy not until on Tuesday(2days back) when I came back from work very early and it was because she is hosting their women wing ex-co meeting in the house that day.

So when I came back she was in the kitchen as God would have it her fone was on the center table in parlour, the phone rang, it was on silence(but on vibration) so I was on call with one of my boys in the shop could not tell her to come and pick her call.

As soon as I drop my call I say to myself (this children have put their mother phone on silent again) not knowing she was the one that put it. I pick the phone to remove it from silent, I saw the miss call emma(I trust the wife wai I get for house die, so I no send) not up to 5second a message enter from this same emma via sms(you know android phone na them go pop up the sms untop for your screen).

I saw 'my world' sharply I open the sms and it was (my world you have been avoiding me why!! Have miss you lying beside me on my bed) immediately my eyes started turning me, my head began to hot like fire.

Sharply I enter watsap of which have never done before(though in my house we don't put security lock on phone my rules) I saw that same Emma again on WhatsApp message, I screw up-up and began to see message like hope you are taking care of my child Emma, because that is the name of my suppose last child.

So she name him after her ex-guy. I ran to her in the kitchen to confront her immediately she just knelt down and started crying uncontrollable and confessing that the last child is for her ex who came back from outside the country few years ago and started disturbing her. Have called her parent and my parent they say they we be coming by weekend.

She use advantage of me because she knew am a very quite person in nature.

Right now I just feel like dying don't know if I should divorce her quietly or forgive her, but she is claiming to be really sorry. (but Las-Las I love this woman die just don't know why she betray me like this).

the way this matter be ehn! If Emma come back na continue h go continue from here e stop. You should probably check your other children self.

Mercychen:
If you love her, forgive and move on. Though I'm not always comfortable living with such backstabbers. Follow your mind.

love kill you dia

BiggyB242:
I will make such both families know what she to avoid lies in the future but I wouldn't divorce her. For the rest of my life she will doing everything to please me.

or to kill u

Emmanuel909090:


Baba abeg no vex, na that warri i serve and then even una ladies i dea fear because of their temper.
Abeg no vex i know say you get online fuel, i like my life.

Na only advice i give.

what of online slap

Cos me dey para for you bad bad

MrBrownJay1:


divorce the unfaithful woman and be happy raising your children as a separated couple, rather than being miserable parents to your children.,

That's the best thing to do, the sight of that betrayal woman will always instigate anger, to avoid those headache he should cut the woman loose.....if the children are old enough he should sit them down and tell them the truth and nothing but the truth....in another way the child is also a victim as the man....the person he taught was his biological father suddenly becomes a legal father, Sad!

Reason to carry out DNA test during the pregnancy, will save one from blind trust.

This is a hard pill to swallow.
And only you can forgive her and move on.
What I fail to comprehend is why not use a rubber as protection and prevention.
In any case - these are my suggested steps

1. Have a DNA test done on all the children. ( You need to know if they are yours or raising someone elses'
2. It is not the child's fault. - Sperming an egg and raising a child are 2 different things. You may need to psych yourself or remind yourself that she is an adopted child to get beyond the stigma that she is not yours.
3. You'll need to attend counselling to heal the relationship - This is the hardest part. This is not a pastor - you need someone who is a qualified marriage counselling expert.
Good Luck !

Egein:
OP, what does the first sentence in your write up mean?

you no Sabi Pidgin English

edochie12:
In my home town in anambra,any child born by a woman that was legally married belongs to the husband,no two ways about that,you can never come and claim a child born by a family woman,as for me I will divorce her and I will take the three kids.

I will simply take the case to count and the owner of the child will collect him

grandstar:
Breeze111
These things should be hush-hush if you decide to keep your wife and the last born son.

People who know will give your marriage hell and show no respect to your wife, your adopted son, and lastly you.

Don't let it go beyond her parents and you. One problem may be her stupid ex who may give you trouble.

See wahala

if something as bad as this happen na loud them dey loud am

An adulterous woman has no dignity so deserves none