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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Romanoff(f): 3:16pm On Sep 19, 2021
lexy2014:


why would u want d parents to abort the pregnancy?

If na you born the girl, you go gree make she born pikin for that kind boy?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by enesexy(f): 3:16pm On Sep 19, 2021
JovialJune:
what is wrong with Nigeria, a boy of 19 is a teenager while one of the richest women in the world is less than 25yrs...honestly I'm crying for my country.... My dear fight for your if you know you can take care of her.


Oh my God you're a teenager, dude focus on getting admission/career/life for yourself, you are not ready to be a father, youthful exuberance is making you think you're man enough but you're not, you come off as someone not from a well to do family, don't put more burden on your parents.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Poopypants: 3:16pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.
na cos of mumu like this I dey pray make I no born woman ..

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by ipobarethieves: 3:17pm On Sep 19, 2021
cool see how the useless thing dey para on top of somebody pikin.Chai!
Collins4u1:
Is that how your father impregnated your mother to born you.
if I were to be the girls brother, I'll castrate you.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Coded78: 3:17pm On Sep 19, 2021
I can see why the mother reject the child is because u are from a poor family
From how you write this it here. It seems that you are intelligent.

Prove to the mum that you are responsible by going to her and tell her not to abort the baby.

My guy work hard to be someone in life,
I repeat work hard
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ayotemide(f): 3:17pm On Sep 19, 2021
grin grin

You can Imagine. They would abort that child in an instant this very evening.
Davash222:






You see why her mom said you're a tout?

You want to take boys to their house to constitute nuisance.

Gbola = Active
Sense = inactive
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Crucialgem(m): 3:17pm On Sep 19, 2021
Well I feel op story is fake but if at all there is an atom of this story being real, then y'all should stop supporting the girls mother to abort that child, the girl is still young and aborting in a very early age might attract complication.
As for op, hmmm this your audacity of claiming what is rightfully yours will make you shed hot tears if the girl start lashing you out of how irresponsible you are in taking care of your child. You might think it is that easy but trust me having a child comes with a sense of maturity and deep pocket. Find more better work to do and prove your girls mother that you are not a tout

You are not the first and you won't be the last things like this is happening to
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Munzy14(m): 3:17pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.
grin

If I am the girl's elder bro/father....

You will tell this story deep in the ocean.....You won't even go to the ocean alone, one of your parents supporting you will escort you as well...

It will be a clean Job....


Na condition they bring out evil side wey we don retire..cheesy

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by kingsceedon(m): 3:17pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

Which of your child are you talking about for Christ sake? The mama said she no need Tout like you, so let them decide on what to do with their daughter, you want to wife someone's daughter under your parents roof?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Tsolutionifede(m): 3:17pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.
lol, it may not even be ur child, talking from experience

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by AsapTeddy(m): 3:17pm On Sep 19, 2021
Sorry to say...are you Yoruba?
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Magnoliaa(f): 3:18pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ishilove:

What a conundrum
And they might disown the girl as well or neglect her, if she (the mother) finally decided to back off.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Prenonjebose: 3:18pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:

Thanks.

I don't know if I can get my dad to go see her father this evening, that's the issue.

They are going to do the abortion tomorrow morning.
How old is the girl?
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Flier: 3:18pm On Sep 19, 2021
Pierocash:
It shows you are really a tout. You want to take community youths to their house. This is how touts behave.

Nah you born the girl,leave them alone to do whatever suites them .
He is a certified tout,it’s just sad a lady got pregnant for a guy like this poster
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Nobody: 3:18pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.
You are young and your body is still on fire that’s why your first thought is to take youths there what can they do except make threats and constitute public nuisance.

Be calm and take a religious leader she respects along with your relatives and go to plead immediately.She might insult you all but those are mere words you have no pride in this matter so humble yourself.

As it is both you and the lady are not matured enough to get married so the child can stay with the lady and her mum for now while you try to solidify your future and send upkeep to them.I am glad your parents want to help.

It is not yahoo boy and Benz and you come across a little disrespectful by making such an assumptions perhaps she just wants a decent man who can feed her child the basics in life.

Hope things turn out well for you.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by wandium: 3:18pm On Sep 19, 2021
Bro, you think you are ready to raise a child at 19?
Better be happy the mother of the girl is seeking a way out for you. Face life first. Make a decent living for yourself (Ticket tearing without mincing words is no life my brother). Further your education get more experience and trust me, you will come back to thank me. It takes a lot to raise a child or to be a father than what you think
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Realdeals(m): 3:19pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:

I have thought about it, I won't let them abort my child.

What proof do you have that the girl is pregnant or that the pregnancy belongs to you?

There's ulterior motive behind the quest to have the girl bear the child, as it stands, you have no right whatsoever, legally or culturally over the girl. That she's pregnant for you did not gives you the right over her, that decision still belong to her parents.

You can't achieve your aim with arrogance.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by FashionCookie(f): 3:19pm On Sep 19, 2021
Pls u guys should take it easy on him ooo

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by chloride6: 3:20pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
are you saying I should go myself?

Do you think her parents will listen to me, they've already concluded am no good.

Should I go there and start crying, weeping for my own offspring?

No sir, I rather go to the community youths and make it a public matter.

I didn't kill anybody, it's my child am fighting for.

How do you know it's your child?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by sanpipita(m): 3:20pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

Ask your girl about elders in her family or someone her mom listens too, there's an amicable way to resolve this, I want to salute you for taking responsibility, hopefully you maintain even after the child is born.

And also look for ways to improve life of that of you and you girl, you guys will come good if you follow a good path

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Charisma01: 3:20pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

Don't mind all these stupid comments here.
Go with your family & some elders.
Appeal to her family that you with the support of your family are ready to take care of your child & their daughter.
Tell them how you plan to better your life so they can trust you.
If you intend to settle down with the girl, on no account must you disrespect her family.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by dazzlingd(m): 3:20pm On Sep 19, 2021
Useless boy, jobless boy bringing children to the world...children grow up to become miscreants...I hope the abortion is successful

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by crafteck(m): 3:20pm On Sep 19, 2021
Can you give a child average life with your financial and maturity level? Abi you wan born for them to take care of, las las people like you abandon woman and child, prove me wrong

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by samdaisi: 3:21pm On Sep 19, 2021
Oga if I were the woman I will jail you and your family, in those days we will run to the bush for commuting that blunder mistake but you are happy to claim your first offspring
The council people that construction your office on the road for ticketing must have knows that you are chronic tout and chief Agbero that devil projected from the pit of hell to truncate another person future
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by ipobarethieves: 3:21pm On Sep 19, 2021
grin u bu ordinary tout/market village square ticket tearing TOUT.A very HOPELESS kid.The mob here tear u slap for all d nonsense u spew here angry
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by generalwo(m): 3:21pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.
..... You do menial jobs... U tear tickets and instead of you to face your life and see what you can make of it..... U decided to tear someone else's child pvssy.... I don't know what is wrong with children of these days.... You know say you no get money.... U dey find woman....as if e no reach, you give am Belle join..... So if the girl delivers, where will the child and the mother stay? Under your parents roof abi? And who will be feeding both of them? Abi you think say na 20k a month them take dey feed new born baby and her mother? I earn 6 figures every month, I am in my early 30s and I live alone..... I got my girlfriend pregnant and till today, I still find if difficult to make certain provisions for both mother and child.... My daughter is a year plus and I have not had sex since then because I dey fear pregnancy like another thing these days..... talkless of you wen dey tear ticket...... I am not trying to scold you or insult you but you fvcked up..... I don't support abortion as the way out but I won't blame the girl's mother for how she thinks because no woman will want to see her kids suffer.... If na dangote son of 16 give that girl Belle..... I bet you, her mother will protect that pregnancy with her life....the mistake has been made.... Pray for forgiveness and hustle more..... At your age, your education should be top of your priorities not women..... But as e Don be like this, na for you to continue to plead with the woman make she no abort the Belle.... Nobody like inlaw wen no get money....

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by shegoon: 3:22pm On Sep 19, 2021
Oga! Let's call a spade a spade, you are not ready to father a child yet. Let the poor girl go and dont ruin her career and yours. Learn how to use condom next time .
Ayanwukoma:


My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get admission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Munzy14(m): 3:22pm On Sep 19, 2021
JovialJune:



It is diamond digging for real, or bragging right of being a son in law or related to the wealthiest family in the community, kids these days ehn, see the way his parents were happy with the news with no scolding, smh.
Some parents have issues...How 19year old boy is jubilating over a stupid act baffles me...Someone that can't raise a dog is doing gra gra to raise a human being...Indirectly putting off that girl's light..

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by osuofia2(m): 3:22pm On Sep 19, 2021
Walahi, if I be the girl parents na Alagbon close or kirikiri you for de type from so. You give person pikin belle without tangible work you still get mind to say you wan carry youths go their house. You be tout as the mama talk
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by lexy2014: 3:23pm On Sep 19, 2021
Romanoff:


If na you born the girl, you go gree make she born pikin for that kind boy?


u havent answered my question

why would u want d parents to abort the pregnancy?
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by iykofias(m): 3:23pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.
which right are you talking about, a 19yrs old that’s still eating ‘mummy thank you’ and couldn’t afford condom, now you want to father a child
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by 1billi(m): 3:23pm On Sep 19, 2021
Just take a look at yourself, instead to use your strength to make money you went to use untop puusy even get the guts to talk against someone mother isn't it obvious she is right about you, I pray she do the do by tomorrow to be able to get off people like you from her daughter. Opportunist ozwor angry abeg get out and go get a life

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