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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Timekeeper: 4:47pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:

Thanks.

I don't know if I can get my dad to go see her father this evening, that's the issue.

They are going to do the abortion tomorrow morning.

How many months is the Belle?

If it's less than 1 month, let them do what they want to do...


Save ursef and ur career

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Nobody: 4:50pm On Sep 19, 2021
If am the girl father nothing will stop me from doing the abortion,i don't mind the consequences,her mother is right about the guy.
adedayourt:



Her mum was right afterall.

You are actually a tout no cap but rather than see the words of the min as an opportunity to turn a new leave. Sit with the parent and have a deep discussion of how you intend to plan out ur life and give the baby a good life. You planning of taking the street youth to the parents house.

How foolish of you.


I do not subscribe to abortion but if I was the girls parent, she would have the baby and not a fly from your household would come near or know the whereabout of the child and the mother.


If you do continue in this path you have threaded, I don't see you being a responsible father.

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Arijude(m): 4:51pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.
you're a big fool. That child is not your child because you have not married the girl. If I were to be girl's brother I will wait for you and youths you will bring along. You will forever regret ever being born. Nonsense!!

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by HelipsTech: 4:52pm On Sep 19, 2021
Pegi23:
Jesus. Op you might be out of your sense oo u want to destroy the girl future abi...19years old what did u know about fatherhood,what about the world (u know nothing) u are still collecting feeding money from your parents

You are a tout for thinking of taking touts to their house...the girl is mad for opening legs for a jobless boy..you can't take care of her and that's the truth stop thinking about the present think of the future period... abortion is bad tho I don't support it but the parents decision is good and the best..I hope the girl isn't underage oo because if she is ehh I will advice they should lock u up

You are a serial aborter
How is the girls life ruined?
After birth can't she go school?
Can't she achieved her dreams?
Are there no prosperous single mum ?

Are there no visionless and irresponsible girls without children?
Are there no ruined girls without children?

Stop encouraging abortion, because if the girl dies now you won't save the boy from what will before him

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Midas01: 4:55pm On Sep 19, 2021
What do you people mean by collecting tickets for junction?
Munzy14:

He collects ticket for junction...you still dey ask...grin
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Midas01: 4:58pm On Sep 19, 2021
grin
VlamesIffect:
19 year old boy?

Asin dem born you for year 2002?

Na wa.

Since the deed is already done. I hope you have the means to take care of a woman & a kid. I hope the girl is above 18 too.

What are these Gen Z kids turning to?
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 5:00pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:

I have thought about it, I won't let them abort my child.
They go just forget you for cell. You think say because the girl dey stupid to dey follow person like u, her parents too follow stupid join kwa? I dey like people like you for beating even though i don't wish my enemy to cross path with you

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Midas01: 5:02pm On Sep 19, 2021
You did not advise your own gender not to be sperm donors.
MNDY:


You will not advise your gender not to give consent to sex anyhow and other issues.

Everything na the man una go blame.

Did he rape her?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 5:03pm On Sep 19, 2021
HelipsTech:


You are a serial aborter
How is the girls life ruined?
After birth can't she go school?
Can't she achieved her dreams?
Are there no prosperous single mum ?

Are there no visionless and irresponsible girls without children?
Are there no ruined girls without children?

Stop encouraging abortion, because if the girl dies now you won't save the boy from what will before him
That's her parents decision for her not yours nor mine. If you have yours you can chose to keep it since she's most likely gonna give birth to second Dangote or Otedola wink
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Midas01: 5:08pm On Sep 19, 2021
cheesy
baski92:
Lol i just cant stop laughing , , at your age you dey do bad thing, even get mind to dey post the trash you did.... Na moderator may carry this matter come front page na no well
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Midas01: 5:09pm On Sep 19, 2021
cheesy grin
poiZon:

At 19 u r expecting a child, before u get to 28 u might be father Abraham. Davido and wizkid will be envious of u.
Will u marry the girl if the parents tell u to?
Or u just wan get pikin and render the girl useless after..
If na my sister, trust me u for don lose one leg before day break.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by AuroraB(f): 5:10pm On Sep 19, 2021
DBestDoc:


Lol, this boy is so entitled ee,
So you do not care that you’ve almost ruined that girl’s life? She’s also a teenager I’m sure and you want her to be burdened with the responsibilities of motherhood.

People do very abominable things with so much confidence these days that I can’t help but shudder in dismay.

If it were in the days when things were better, the parents of that girl would be the ones coming to your family with the community youths to discipline you for bringing them so much embarrassment and pain today, you the offender is contemplating going to their home to add salt to injury. Hahaha, I’ve seen it all.

Please don’t go causing that family more trouble, let them take their decision as they deem fit ‘cause they’d be the ones to bear any consequences that may arise from this mess you guys have created. Give them some space and use a condom next time.

You’ll have your offsprings when the time is right.
As in eeeehn � sad sad sad embarassed
This phoolish daughter is still rubbing it in by being in contact with this fellow sad
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by TheMostComplex1: 5:11pm On Sep 19, 2021
JovialJune:



Then go with the community and fight her parents na, when they are forced to take the girl away where you'd never see her again, maybe you will rest, be forming macho you hear.

Are you supporting abortion?
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Midas01: 5:11pm On Sep 19, 2021
Okokobioko grin cheesy
tbarrister:



If na my daughter you impregnate, I'll abort you too . toutish entitled person. You never jam
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Nobody: 5:12pm On Sep 19, 2021
poweredcom:
The poster is a marlians and a tour indeed

But the way he typed the post on nairaland shows he has some level of intelligence

Bro abeg when last were you at Ndokwa Sunderland surulere? Are there girls there again? You said they chased them out some time ago. I want to visit there today but need to know if there are plenty ho’s there like before.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by kenoyad: 5:14pm On Sep 19, 2021
By the girl's parent standard, you are a tout and it seem you are indeed one. Not every family lives hard life, they don't want to be attached to your kind of life but their girl that's living today's life of woke and immorality doesn't know. Family values are being killed with today's girls way of life.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by TheMostComplex1: 5:14pm On Sep 19, 2021
Let your parents met with the girl's parents and discuss.
I don't support abortion I'm pro life not pro choice.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by greenie77: 5:14pm On Sep 19, 2021
TheGift:
I understand Her reasoning too, but if She try am with person like me and actually aborts my child , then I will deal with Her so badly, within the Law, that She will regret and Her brain will reset.

Yimu! cheesy

Go report at a Nigerian Police station that you impregnated a 19 year old who is not your wife and her family aborted it, you will be surprised to find yourself behind counter when her family will produce medical history that shows it will be a high-risk pregnancy! cheesy

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Midas01: 5:20pm On Sep 19, 2021
techWriter1:
then betweens ahead. When you not has caged up and transactions from one lymphocyte to another,you will whole
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Akinbitemidayo: 5:21pm On Sep 19, 2021
Imagine the effrontery grin
Anyways u ain’t to be blamed ...the mother of the girl allow her run wild and now it too late
I hope she will learn from this and train her child very well
U too go fix up your life first, u are not anywhere close to fathering a child
And u mentioned something about tickets?...lol well even me I view u negatively (apologies I don’t mean bad)
But get something better doing and fix your own life before talking about u fathering a child
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Brightest23(f): 5:27pm On Sep 19, 2021
It's easier said than done...I will advise you focus on.ur future and prove to her parent you are not a tout.

Going to her parent house with community youths means you are a tout!

Don't use your destiny to play bet9ja.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by MNDY(m): 5:32pm On Sep 19, 2021
Midas01:
You did not advise your own gender not to be sperm donors.

A request is nothing until it is granted.
A woman has more power to let sex happen or not than a man.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by princewarri1985: 5:33pm On Sep 19, 2021
I had my first daughter at 20 and it messed up my life, Bro at 19 you are still very young, leave her mother to abort the baby when you are ready and financially stable you look for a good girl pay her dowry and start bearing kids dont rush it trust me am speaking from experience. Beside you write so good for a ticket seller, Please further your studies and please leave women alone for now

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 5:38pm On Sep 19, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Guy just calm down and get another babe pregnant since your own parents are happy for you. They are happy you got a girl pregnant even when you know you can't take care of yourself let alone a girl and baby.
As it's stands now, the girl's family are the ones that have the final say. If you like gather Nigerian army to their house, it won't change a thing.
If you want a baby so much, get another girl pregnant and maybe this time, let the parents know that you want to get their daughter pregnant so that they won't try to abort the baby. You are young and full of fertile sperm.
As in eh. Like parents like son smiley

We are in the end time truly. A 19 years old boy claiming to impregnate a girl eh. And still fighting to deal with the girl parents. I swear i will kill the boy and face the damn consequences. Him dey mad ni smiley
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 5:41pm On Sep 19, 2021
Arijude:
you're a big fool. That child is not your child because you have not married the girl. If I were to be girl's brother I will wait for you and youths you will bring along. You will forever regret ever being born. Nonsense!!
I swear i will kill that guy and face the damn consequences. Even after they finish removing the smelly thing away, i will still deal with him ruthlessly. I will make sure i save other girls away from him. He will ever regret coming to this world as a guy
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ijaya123: 5:41pm On Sep 19, 2021
Don’t know why I have a problem believing this story. Some things just don’t add up.

But for all it’s worth, let’s take it as it is. So if you go there with your area boys, what do you intend to do? Beat up the mother or kidnap her daughter? Remember you have no right over the girl. Be guided.

As for your dreams, go out there and make it a reality then come back and ask for the girls hand in marriage. If she believes in your dreams, she will wait for you

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Lamanii22(f): 5:45pm On Sep 19, 2021
Volkswagen90:
Abuchey o buchey kánkán,that girl mother saw it all the guy no be nice guy assume this even happen in one eastern side,


Lol... Okay... Everyone has different perspective though....
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 5:47pm On Sep 19, 2021
MNDY:


A request is nothing until it is granted.
A woman has more power to let sex happen or not than a man.
Teach your gender bro to control their dick. Those prostitutes for hotel shey na them go dey drag men come ni? Na men like you and i dey carry our leg go meet them.

We Africans focus much attention to the female folks leaving the guys behaving abnormal. Even a mad man on the street will never allow her daughter have a child for such person smiley

God forbid on behalf of the girl and her family

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Arijude(m): 5:47pm On Sep 19, 2021
VTJN:
I swear i will kill that guy and face the damn consequences. Even after they smelly thing away i will still deal with him ruthlessly. I will make sure i save other girls away from him. He will ever regret coming to this world as a guy
No mind am. Somebody that is supposed to be in hiding
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 5:53pm On Sep 19, 2021
Akinbitemidayo:
Imagine the effrontery grin
Anyways u ain’t to be blamed ...the mother of the girl allow her run wild and now it too late
I hope she will learn from this and train her child very well
U too go fix up your life first, u are not anywhere close to fathering a child
And u mentioned something about tickets?...lol well even me I view u negatively (apologies I don’t mean bad)
But get something better doing and fix your own life before talking about u fathering a child
Even a mad man on the street will not open his eyes for his precious daughter to have a child for that kind person smiley

Say wetin happen
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 5:54pm On Sep 19, 2021
VTJN:
As in eh. Like parents like son smiley

We are in the end time truly. A 19 years old boy claiming to impregnate a girl eh. And still fighting to deal with the girl parents. I swear i will kill the boy and face the damn consequences. Him dey mad ni smiley
His parents failed him but he doesn't know it yet. Only God knows what will be come of his female siblings. Their house will be full of babies

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by BRATISLAVA: 6:01pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So you are supporting the abortion.
They should kill my child, because am young and poor.
Is that it.

Sorry I will not let that happen.

Your sense of responsibility is commendable. You have what it takes to be a proper family man.

You aren't a bad guy, but you have bad influences.

If you don't want her family to see you as a tout, why are you behaving like one? Why don't you tell your parents to join you to go and see her parents like civilized people? They aren't rejecting you because of money, but because of your life associations. You're living by impulse and temperament, which is the attitude of the lost. That is a bad influence.

Being poor is not an excuse to impregnate someone's daughter. Right now you're fired up about it, but what are your long-term plans for your child? To prove you're ready to have this child you must not think of dependence on your parents, because that is what a child does.

But why is it that you're living in 2021 and you don't know that people use condoms? And you have access to the internet.

If I were her parents, I would be angry at you for that especially. For not using a condom. And will insist she lives with you in a house that you will rent to prove you are capable.

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