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Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Darhmmy(op): 9:46am On Oct 01, 2021

We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Prechgold1180(m): 9:48am On Oct 01, 2021*

When you they nack another woman husband you nur come nairaland to seek for advice

When you Dey shout harder herder ya killing me o
You nur seek for my advice

When the thing slip out nah u still carry your hand plug am back insyd
U nur call for advice

When u do round 2 u nur call for advice

Now u don get belle u Dey call for advice

See let me tell you

Belle nur Dey fit break marriage nowadays

Naija women don wise if u like u tell the wife she go vex for one week
But she nur go leave the man

So just get prepared for single mother life style
I fit give u tonto dikeh number for more enquiry on how to survive

Meanwhile first to comment

October go good be that

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Bornsinner7: 9:50am On Oct 01, 2021

Mtchew..

You want to tell his wife and relatives that you want to keep him and the baby??..

Wonders will never end

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Brainard22: 9:51am On Oct 01, 2021

Darhmmy:
. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it

ASHAWO!!!

Remove that pregnancy and get the fvxk out of their marriage!!

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Freestainworld(m): 9:52am On Oct 01, 2021

Keep the baby, but bear in your mind that you are on the verge of wrecking another woman's home.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by BeeBeeOoh(m): 9:54am On Oct 01, 2021

Auntie, please can you help us with the kind of help you want us to help you with.

Nonsense and Nigeria @61

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by appishani1(m): 9:54am On Oct 01, 2021

You know he is married, but you still choose to continue fucking him foolishly expecting you not to be pregnant one day.
You enjoy fucking him, please enjoy your pregnancy.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by demoBaba: 9:56am On Oct 01, 2021

Nigeria is 61 old today..... please let have our peace for only today to celebrate Nigeria independence. We no dey der when you guys stated.... Olosho while in Uni.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Righteousness2(m): 9:56am On Oct 01, 2021*

Despite all the Preachings on the Word of GOD that is put out for you to know, you refuse to listen and when you choose not to listen to God, there are Consequences that come with it.

First of all, Do not think of Abortion. That will be Murder and Bloodshed on top Adultery and Fornication. That Child Deserves to live.

Secondly, Don't hope or think of Marrying someone's Husband. You will be a thief , an Adulterer , a Home breaker and a husband snatcher.

You need to let your Sin partner know that you are pregnant and will be keeping the Child. Let Him do the Needful and tell his wife that he has Scored an away goal.

Lastly and Most Important, Repent From the evil you have gotten yourself into and ask God For Mercy. Also be Strong and Courageous to take whatever comes with it as your Cross that you must Carry.

If you walk with GOD in Honesty, True Repentance and Humility, He will Clean you up, make you and Settle you in your own Home.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Davash222(m): 9:57am On Oct 01, 2021

. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

Ashawo, who told you a married man had feelings for you?

Are you even sure the man is responsible for the pregnancy? Oloshos hardly know the father of their baby. Just as butterfly fly from one place to another, na so una dey fly from one dicck to another. Evil gender!

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by cybersoldiers: 10:02am On Oct 01, 2021

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

You never graduate ooo.

I'm surprised you said you're a graduate and yet you don't have brains. Which brain did you graduate with?

How can Nigeria be having these kind of developments @61?

So sad.

Go and marry him ooo.

You must marry him .

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Richy4(m): 10:02am On Oct 01, 2021*

Chei!!!!This one is looking for a Nigerian Independence day bashing angry

U are pregnant, why would you want your blood pressure to surge for no reason by creating this thread?...What you were trying to do though is very annoying honestly...Face the man if u can, u have no business with his family members...

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by akunjohn(m): 10:06am On Oct 01, 2021

cybersoldiers:
You never graduate ooo.

I'm surprised you said you're a graduate and yet you don't have brains. Which brain did you graduate with?

How can Nigeria be having these kind of developments @61?

So sad.

Go and marry him ooo.

You must marry him .

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by GOFRONT(m): 10:08am On Oct 01, 2021*

Everybody be blaming the lady......But they never blamed the shameless he goat of a man who neither regard his wife as anybody nor respect his marriage to start with by calling his raging penis to order.......

If it his wife that got pregnant by another man from outside marriage, then the man would start crying DNA upandan.....

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Itachi23: 10:14am On Oct 01, 2021

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by DaddyRochie1642: 10:22am On Oct 01, 2021

Prechgold1180:
When you they nack another woman husband you nur come nairaland to seek for advice

When you Dey shout harder herder ya killing me o
You nur seek for my advice

When the thing slip out nah u still carry your hand plug am back insyd
U nur call for advice

When u do round 2 u nur call for advice
Now u don get belle u Dey call for advice

See let me tell you

Belle nur Dey fit break marriage nowadays

Naija women don wise if u like u tell the wife she go vex for one week
But she nur go leave the man

So just get prepared for single mother life style
I fit give u tonto dikeh number for more enquiry on how to survive

You're Wise

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 10:32am On Oct 01, 2021

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

So you still open yansh for him after he told you that he was married? Married to a fellow woman like you??

Welcome to single motherhood grin

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Kilotat: 10:50am On Oct 01, 2021*

Quote me anywhere,
No Man will leave the woman he paid her bride price (mother of his Children) for another one that he just miss fucking or side Chick. When will women know that we men naturally like sex? Do you know we can tell side chick anything just to be seeing her pants on a daily bases?
If you like, tell the wife Everything, you will then know that belle no dey fit kill marriage again. Married women are wise now!

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by takimsipho(m): 10:55am On Oct 01, 2021

GOFRONT:
Everybody be blaming the lady......But they never blamed the shameless he goat of a man who neither regard his wife as anybody nor respect his marriage to start with by calling his raging penis to order.......

If it his wife that got pregnant by another man from outside marriage

Even though the man has his own fault, but what most people never agree to is that sexual activity starts and end with women. If a woman doesn't agree or give consent, sex will not happen or if it does it's rape. There are many girls who never have anything to do with married men unless they don't know or when they find out, they cut off all connections. My problem is that, the op will soon be a single mother and then will start looking for a "good man" to take care of her and her baby. If guys say they don't want to marry single mothers everybody wants to crucify them. You use your 20s to do rubbish then expect everybody to accept your baggage because now your eye don clear. She will still want to date someday, and if no body reason her, na to become bitter and start blaming men for her life's issues forgetting she had a part to play. You are having sex with a married man and common condom you na no fit buy. No be juju be that

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Akinsete19(m): 10:57am On Oct 01, 2021*

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

hmm
Firstly, the guy doesn't have any feeling for you, he is only pretending just for sex. If there is any feeling, there couldn't have been any breakup in the first place.
Secondly, there are protection methods, but you choose not to use any.
Thirdly, the guy have left you to your fate by telling you to take whatever decision you like.

Be ready to bear the consequences of your decision, every decision comes with consequences.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by greenie77: 11:13am On Oct 01, 2021

Which type of help do you want, are you not an adult who is fully aware that one of the possible outcome of sex is pregnancy? sad

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Akinsete19(m): 11:15am On Oct 01, 2021

95% of guys love/feeling for any ladies die naturally, when there are breakups. The 5% left are guys who will consider ladies because of some good traits. This is what some ladies don't know.

The guy only faked feeling for you, just to get back at you. There is no love/feeling anywhere.

I can bet with anything, that he won't consider you before his wife.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Foodqueen(f): 11:35am On Oct 01, 2021

Congratulations on your new job as a stalker.

You go stalk, you go tire.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Promotions: 11:50am On Oct 01, 2021

I won't judge you..my advice for you is to keep the baby, get yourself a good job and life, move on from the man and pray God will bless you with a man that will take you and your child as his own... keep away from married men

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Obaxxx(m): 11:57am On Oct 01, 2021

So if you send them message now, wetin you expect them to do to the man? undecided

. He has already told you to do whatever you like with the pregnancy,So what else do you want from him? Is it that you want him to publicly claim ownership of it or what? undecided

.

Make una remove una eyes from another people property,una no dey hear word undecided

. E don cast for you now,na now you know the difference between fornication and confusion undecided

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Nobody: 12:02pm On Oct 01, 2021*

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Vision101(m): 1:06pm On Oct 01, 2021

The name-calling for the op here is too much na. Remember that she is a pregnant woman. She needs peace of mind. It can happen to anyone.

First she said that they knew each other before, lost contact and reconnected. The man was insincere with her. When she got to know she had fallen deeply in love with him. I'm assuming that this lady is a soft-hearted person. The foolish man exploited it.

Don't get the wife or relations involved. Inform him that you will keep the baby. I just hope that you have a good source of income incase he disappoints you.

Brace up. You can never know what the baby will become in future and the foolish man will like to come around and lay paternity claim. That will be the time you will show him the negative side of yourself.

It's life lesson. You have learnt it the hard way.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by frozen70(f): 1:47pm On Oct 01, 2021*

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

You don't need to embarrass the wife by breaking the news of the pregnancy to her, it will not solve any problems

You have the option to keep the pregnancy and be a baby mama for him for life, meaning he owns the pregnancy but will definitely not marry you. Are you ready for this ?

Alternatively do with the pregnancy and learn to live your life with out him forever

But if after all these, you decides to continue the relationship with him, you will be the greatest looser because he can never drop his family for anyone

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by laivwire(m): 2:12pm On Oct 01, 2021

Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by JovialJune(f): 2:14pm On Oct 01, 2021

GOFRONT:
Everybody be blaming the lady......But they never blamed the shameless he goat of a man who neither regard his wife as anybody nor respect his marriage to start with by calling his raging penis to order.......

If it his wife that got pregnant by another man from outside marriage, then the man would start crying DNA upandan.....

Are you sure you're a man? They will soon come and call you a simp.

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