₦airaland Forum

sorepco:
You must be crazy. If African parents dont like paying rent why did they not build their own house? They should ve discussed their intention with op 1st. Y did they adk him for rent money and use it on something else?

Davash222:
Story.

If you meet me and Shekau in a room, and you have a Gun with just 2 bullets. I believe you'll shoot me twice in the head. That's how much you love me.

AgentGoat:
Acidosis did i look like your mate?

You this okun outcast!!!

You better face your miserable life and leave my opinion. Self hating slowpoke.

We know you don't like your parents. Many of us do.

skyoboy:
This sounds funny... I guess your parents were expecting you to build them a house first considering maybe they catered for you and sent you abroad with their last savings (This may not be true)...
Bro, I'd advise you move on and plan to build another house for your self but this time, DON'T INVOLVE THEM.
It won't be a healthy battle sending them out of the house...

Pacesetter123:
I know he hasn't abandoned them.But now that they have already parked into the building and he is asking what to do.
Were you expecting me to advise him to go and fight with his parents and send them parking bcoz they occupied the house without his consent?
Or is that what you are advising him in this case?

Acidosis:
Loving one's parents means advising OP to "look" for money and build another house. As per make OP steal 10 million to build a house for his parents na. If it was that easy, his parents would have built one when cement was sold for N300-N500. Don't you think?

And oh please don't give me the akara and akamu line again else I will knock your head really hard this time.

And what's with the "Okun outcast"? Do you have malaria?

Kehindeaj78:
I'm married and the development of the house is from the purse of me and my wife

Kehindeaj78:
I live outside the country but I entrusted my house development with my parents in Nigeria, but they leave in a rented apartment. They're are due for new rent payment at their rented apartment which i sent them the money, only for them to call me that they don't want to rent another apartment again and have moved into my ongoing house and used the money to do somethings in the ongoinghouse. What do I do?

INDUSTRIALFAN:
lol…. But He didn’t beg them to be born. They made the decision to bring him into the world so its not his fault they cut their dreams short for his sake. Who was supposed to do it before?

Trojan8:
The kind of comments I have seen here ehn. One even said and I quote "you should have built a house for your parents before building your own". Nothing I no go see for this Nairaland. Nobody is looking at the fact that his wife was betrayed or the fact that op is not financially stable to build one for his parents. The next line of action is to use emotional blackmail as usual.

Trojan8:
Reverse this situation where the wife's family move into the house and see NL resident analysts wanking on the thread. One clown is even saying that the wife is at fault like he would have allowed his wife family take over a house they co-built.

All my experiences on Nairaland have shown me that the average Nigerian GUY is an hypocrite that generally hates women. Sometimes I see what women do and I understand where they are coming from. There's no love out there for most women here, it's crazy.

Op, your parents didn't exactly do well but there's nothing you can do at this point. The most urgent matter right now is how to get your wife to your side because that woman is angry at this point.

Just beg her to give you time, you should be looking at paying her before initiating any building project.

The house that your parents are currently occupying is gone. Know this and know peace.

chrisj2:
Who are you? Why are you so pained? If the parents abandoned the child that no one forced them to have, then it is on their head!

I have children and they were my choices and I will provide for them like a good parent will do - and I do not want financial considerations from them just because I was the sperm donor...

Stingy greedy fool is someone who pays the rent for the parents and possibly send money to siblings and after all that, they moved into his house without consent. That is a scam! Now crawl back under the rock you came out from. I am not interested in you or your opinion because you have offered none.

Has the OP said to you that he wanted the house to gather dust or use it to flex. It is clearly an investment between himself and his wife and his family. This nonsense could break his relationship and this one is talking nonsense...

MeghaneMorgane:
Your parents had a choice not to cut their dreams. They had a choice not to take care of you. They had a choice not to put in the effort to make you a responsible person in the society but they chose to do all these things for you. If they didn’t do anything to make you responsible, nothing would have happened too.
You need to appreciate God for giving you good parents and you need to appreciate your parents for being good parents. You owe them gratitude all the time because if not for them and God, it could have been a completely different story.

Kehindeaj78:
I live outside the country but I entrusted my house development with my parents in Nigeria, but they leave in a rented apartment. They're are due for new rent payment at their rented apartment which i sent them the money, only for them to call me that they don't want to rent another apartment again and have moved into my ongoing house and used the money to do somethings in the ongoinghouse. What do I do?

brownlolly:
I'll ask you a simple question. Would you do all these things you mentioned to your own kids when (if) you have any?

Kehindeaj78:
I live outside the country but I entrusted my house development with my parents in Nigeria, but they leave in a rented apartment. They're are due for new rent payment at their rented apartment which i sent them the money, only for them to call me that they don't want to rent another apartment again and have moved into my ongoing house and used the money to do somethings in the ongoinghouse. What do I do?

DWJOBScom:
Treat it immediately

Let them know you intend staying in that house alone.

That they need to move back to their apartment or find another

noooooo

if you not married , you will need to marry and live with your wife alone without your parents (that shit is not funny at all)

if you are married , your family needs that privacy without a debate.

Please ask them to leave the house!

thesicilian:
Lol
After all the sufferings they've suffered and cutting their dreams short for my sake, I have come to develop this unquestionable belief that my parents can do no wrong.

You should even be happy that they used the money to build the house as you said self.

greenie77:
Maybe he fears his house will be converted to family house as per siblings (assuming he has) and any other relatives moving in with his parents.

MeghaneMorgane:
I wouldn’t. But you need to understand that there are irresponsible parents too. There are many irresponsible parents as much as there are responsible ones. So that your parents are responsible, you should appreciate them.

Hezzyluv:
Can you actually tell your parents to leave your house or you're just kidding?

Hezzyluv:
It should make him happier sef.
The joy of having your parents and family around (to me), knows no bound