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Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Cantonese: 1:05pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
DWJOBScom: Return to the rented apartment and leave the brand new house to be inhabited by rats, cockroaches, lizards and flies? Which one is better? After some time you will hear that ghosts are seen on the walls. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by andyanders: 1:08pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
DWJOBScom:May your own children be a curse to you for your comment. You will never enjoy any blessings from any of your children. Your children will be wealthy buth will NEVER bless you. op, allow your parents stay in that house and God will favor you with financial breakthrough and you will have enough to build a much bigger house IJN, Ameeen. This I've seen. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by cococandy(f): 1:10pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Trojan8:Yea I was agreeing with you. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by chrisj2(m): 1:11pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Iyajelili: What can one say about this? But, you should be fair, the situation is not clear - the parents have put spanners in the works. Couples are supposed to be partners and that works mostly fine abroad but Nja mentality can spoil this sort of partnership. It does not do a relationship and children any good if husband and wife do not truly cooperate and maximise their resources. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by chrisj2(m): 1:13pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
andyanders: How can someone end with Jesus name and then cursed just because someone has a different opinion or attitude. You are not a Christian! 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by OfficialAPCNig: 1:22pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
alpontif:Dude, seriously, I don't engage people like you. I am sure you don't even understand meaning of social validation. You keep throwing "Maslow Hierarchy of Needs" around. It seems na the only thing you learn for your year 1? alpontif: Don't beat above your weight dude. Stick to discovering yourself. alpontif:I won't call it messiah complex. But whatever complex you are suffering from requires urgent help. alpontif:From someone still struggling to define himself or some relying on social pressure to define his priorities. My small encounter with you shows you have low self esteem. I am done with you. We rise!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Iyajelili(f): 1:22pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
chrisj2:She cooperated to maximize their resources and what did she get from that? As African especially a Nigerian wife she dare not speak or get angry else she'd be tag a wicked wife. So I'll stand by my opinion. 4 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by chrisj2(m): 1:27pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
neyobills: Just Google Inheritance amongst blacks... Who said all white people behave one way or the other and a lot of blacks not leaving inheritance does not mean every single one of them. I know how much better live has been for the last few generations compared to the current one - they have more disadvantages than my generation or my parents. If they do well that is all the blessing I need; the rest is a bonus. Family house means my parents do not need my money or me to build them a house for them. I can build one but I do not do waste or ego... A parents retirement plan is having a child - that says a lot about your mentality! 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by chrisj2(m): 1:32pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Iyajelili: I can understand what you are saying and where you are coming from... It is just my wish that we shed our mental slavery and how so called culture and traditions; some are really backward and hurt us as people. The parents and many of the contributors here are the problem but they think they righteous and know what is good for others. Closed minds! |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by SirVamo(m): 1:38pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Nigerians y'all are wicked people... with a useless sense of entitlement See somebody's sweat , with his wife's sweat in it and then the parents move in without consent and y'all are here saying trash.. If you come at me with the "after all they have don for him card " IL tell you this... No one forced any parent to give birth to a child, as a parent you know once you are bringing in kids it's your responsibility to cater for them and provide for them.... Stop holding it over the kids head and expecting payback or feeling entitled .. Nobody force u born pikin, leave the children to cater for their own family tf! 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by SirVamo(m): 1:40pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
This kind of thing can cause friction in a once happy marriage..... But y'all don't use your brains in Africa..... From the comments I see here, most of you are capable of doing same to your children , which is evil and inhumane. 7 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by SirVamo(m): 1:42pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
chrisj2: You said it all fam, that mentality amongst Africans suck.... And I see most of the so called parents here rolling that part in years to come... No child owes their parent anything , talmbout after all they have done for the child??.... They knew wat they were getting into bringing kids into this world.... Africans and slavery 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by UnimkeAk(m): 1:43pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78:Oga wen ure ready hire me to build a state of the art place for u... The house is gone except all ur siblings have their own houses |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by alpontif(m): 1:44pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
OfficialAPCNig: This boy, you have serious problems... Frankly speaking... Jokes aside. There is something we call psychological projection... Its a condition where the afflicted like you projects his own character and behavioural flaws onto someone else in order to gain something (even emotionaly).. I kid you not, that's actually how psychologists define it. Na you know say I dey seek social validation, na still same you know say I dey arrogant ... It is still you that knows I have low self esteem, same you says I have a messiah complex(you don't even understand what it means) ... If we fit the above into this concept of psychological projection, we can only conclude that you are arrogant, have low self esteem, seek validation and have a complex... You are merely describing yourself, which is why I suggest you should seek help. Make you no wake up one day just run mental... Pẹ̀lẹ́ my dear... |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Oduduwa707: 1:49pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
DWJOBScom: You sound too Igbo. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by DWJOBScom(m): 1:53pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
andyanders: God bless you! 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by RedEnergy: 2:00pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78:What do you do? Really? For your own parents that struggled to nurture you Did you get their consent before living in their own house from your childhood to adulthood? Dear God please don't give a child that has a mind like this. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Acidosis(m): 2:03pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
RedEnergy: If you channel this energy intro praying for yourself to build many houses, trust me, your prayer points over your children will be less. In fact, your children will pray for you more. 6 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by andyanders: 2:06pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
DWJOBScom:Ameen, and He shall bless you too. Your children shall be a blessing to you. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Acidosis(m): 2:06pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Some of you are actually planing to dump your responsibilities on your children under the guise that the economy is bad. Lol. This was the same thing some parents did when cement was N200. Today, cement is N2800 and you're already concerned about raising kids that will build for you at a time a bag of cement will be sold for N50,000. Wouldn't it be better to just assume that the global economy may never get better and do your best today to make life easier tomorrow?? It's good to pray for your kids to be successful but it's better when your kids appreciate you for leaving so much for them. Thanksgiving & Appreciation >>>>>>>> Prayer of necessities and petition. 6 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Acidosis(m): 2:31pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Joshcoli: I don't agree with the emboldened. If that dream was worth the investment, you wouldn't sacrifice it. Imagine Buhari sacrificing his presidential ambition so Yusuf could go to school? Can Yusuf's education ever get him the kind of luxury and life he presently lives under his father?? Perceived Return on Investment is why people use that line. If I'm sure that investing a million naira on myself will make the life of my children or generation much better, I would spend that money on myself (even if it means kicking my offsprings out of school). Perceived Return on Investment is why people make that "sacrifice", and nothing more. 6 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Acidosis(m): 2:41pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
To add to the above, please don't go and tell your kids tomorrow how you nearly became a governor o but changed your mind because you needed to pay school fees. Dem fit curse you 6 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by RedEnergy: 2:49pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Acidosis:I'm not praying for children to build me houses. I will build enough for them, just like my own father will do for me, like his own father did for him. I'm praying that God should never give me an ungrateful child that has to come to social media to seek public opinion about how he should treat the parents that raised him |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by OfficialAPCNig: 2:59pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
alpontif:You have been unnecessarily showing off you studied sociology in just few exchanges with you. You have a deep-lying insecurity. Go sort it out and don't bring it to my table. Like I said, I don't engage people like you. This show off is a reckless pursuit of social validation. I don't know who you want to impress with your book knowledge. alpontif:Exactly what am I saying. You just described yourself by projecting your flaws on another. alpontif:But seriously dude, you need help. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Graciafun(m): 3:01pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78: We can't advise you against the wishes of your parents. It's a family issue. God will provide you with money to build another one. It ain't nice seeing your parents in a rented apartment. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by OfficialAPCNig: 3:07pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
middlebelter:Did you give him money to build another one? 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by OfficialAPCNig: 3:09pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Graciafun:What's wrong with a rented apartment? Why shouldn't he go against his parents wishes to protect his own nuclear family 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by elantraceey(f): 3:10pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
GofuckYourself: Oga, gofuck yourself. |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Aganju849: 3:14pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Kehindeaj78: I don't see the problem Afterall you lived rent-free in their apartment all through your childhood |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by elantraceey(f): 3:34pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
andyanders: He's going to be wealthy and bless his children and not need to wait for blessings from his children to enjoy his life. Africans and entitlement mentality. Awon I will eat the fruit of my labour, chasing young children these days into fraud so they can buy a car for their mother and build a house for their father. 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by Zaheertyler(m): 3:45pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
chrisj2:Oga bye bye |
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