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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by heendrix(m): 3:29pm On Oct 19, 2021
Promzy99:
U 4got 2 add whr she spoilt u with SEX too. Biko, if u have gud plans 4 ur self, beta stop feedin some1 else's daughter whn u knw u r nt bold financially. Saving #500 everyday won't do u any harm. Be wise.

What does it mean to spoil someone with sex that happened to be a mutual pleasure??

senselessness everywhere

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by razzydoo(m): 3:29pm On Oct 19, 2021
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tuboi:
Defund her and watch d relationship die a natural death…
If I were in ur shoes, I will get home on a good day and start with crocodile tears, telling her I got duped and lost every penny…(Game changer grin grin grin grin grin grin)……Don’t ever break up with a lady…let the relationship die a natural death

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by LZAA: 3:30pm On Oct 19, 2021
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Aguilar(m): 3:30pm On Oct 19, 2021
You never see anything. Keep on hosting. No focus on your life.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by FanOfMyself: 3:30pm On Oct 19, 2021
UndauntedYOCA:
Na by force? Talk to her and if she refuses to change then break up with that liability.
I have been noticing you. Your opinions protrays a lady who is cool, calm and collected and has a 'life'. Keep it up, you never can tell.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by KayCee92(m): 3:34pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bola146:
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:35pm On Oct 19, 2021
"Becoming"

Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Zeezenho: 3:36pm On Oct 19, 2021
Guy man .the pussy don tire you talk true.because she was that way when you met her.tyey the honey pot was new to you but now you need a fresh thing for a change.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Taywon: 3:41pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

B4 nko.... Who no like beta maga
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by frozen70(f): 3:42pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

Since you have discovered that she is a potential liability

Isn't it time you let her go so that she will start planning for herself because she has depended so much on you and she may become a problem to her future

But come to think of it, why did you keep her in your house, just to be sleeping with her. If she became pregnant what will you do with the pregnancy ?

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Nobody: 3:42pm On Oct 19, 2021
Your doing everything for her has made her comfortable. Communicate yourself to her and if no changes, then keep it moving.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by LoveJesus87(m): 3:43pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bola146:
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Charx122: 3:44pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

Relationship is about give and take so if you love her you can talk to her multivate her as a friend..She just looks at herself as a sex tool so stop making her feel that way , cause at the long run she's gonna suck you dry and then move on to the next guy so do what's right
So put some meaning to that relationship...Talk to her about and stop complaining outside you know her .better..

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Abudu2000(m): 3:47pm On Oct 19, 2021
Only a matter of time before you start begging for food bro. Trust me over 70 percent of guys are going through this exact same but because of fear of being tagged one without a woman they keep enduring the parasitism.
One cannot have a meaningful conversation with a Nigeria girl. They understand nothing else but money, even the so called graduates are worse. Went to school 6years and can't still earn on your own.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by WantsandMore: 3:48pm On Oct 19, 2021
Just wake up tomorrow and say NO when the demand comes ...
Don't explain. Don't fall into her frame of trying to justify shiit...just tell her it's time for her to earn.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Owen247: 3:49pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please
Abeg i no fit advice u oh.u knw what to do.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by TOPCRUISE(m): 3:52pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please
Mr nice guy. The type guy women crave for cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Whyzaid(f): 3:53pm On Oct 19, 2021
Wait ooo, you get what you want
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Mydazz(m): 3:53pm On Oct 19, 2021
I knew she's a liability already, only that the liability is becoming unbearable
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by kunle75(m): 3:54pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please


Which kind advise are you asking for again?

You put yourself in it and only you can undo what you do,kick her ass to the cub nah
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by DavidHarry(m): 3:55pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please

Its simple you're a frustrated chump. Thinking that if you'd say no she'll break your heart and leave you. This is modern day slavery. Unplug from that shit. Be selfish, groom yourself, approach more women and learn to say no to them as well

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by ufotty2001: 3:56pm On Oct 19, 2021
Abudu2000:
Only a matter of time before you start begging for food bro. Trust me over 70 percent of guys are going through this exact same but because of fear of being tagged one without a woman they keep enduring the parasitism.
One cannot have a meaningful conversation with a Nigeria girl. They understand nothing else but money, even the so called graduates are worse. Went to school 6years and can't still earn on your own.
Am going through d same thing too.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by DavidHarry(m): 3:57pm On Oct 19, 2021
When the girl finds someone more exciting than you, she'll exhaust you and dump your ass cus you're a slave
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Yemaxollar(m): 3:58pm On Oct 19, 2021
lets say, u are choked and probably tired of eating the same food everyday, that is why u are here seeking for our advice abi? just tell her that you have been told to fast for 3 months and to stay away from women. grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Kalubolt(m): 3:58pm On Oct 19, 2021
Mtcheeew, make I pass jor this one no be tori
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by house10s: 3:59pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please
she is already paying back by fuking u.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by DavidHarry(m): 3:59pm On Oct 19, 2021
ufotty2001:

Am going through d same thing too.

Its called oneitis. Thinking that's the right woman for you and you have to do anything to keep her. Unplug from that shit
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Kellie069(m): 4:00pm On Oct 19, 2021
Na you nor get money my brother , nor be the girl be the problem !!! Meanwhile , enjoy the pussyJuice till when your money finish!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by Bundle002(m): 4:01pm On Oct 19, 2021
Lol wtf �
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by AkaraAndBread: 4:03pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bola146:
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Aswerrugad!

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by princewarri1985: 4:03pm On Oct 19, 2021
Bryankentwood11:
Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please
She is a liability but you are still ramming her 24\7, then why are you complaining? Or is she denying you sex? Keep enjoying the sex and keep spending the money and stop complaining
Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by ufotty2001: 4:04pm On Oct 19, 2021
DavidHarry:


Its called oneitis. Thinking that's the right woman for you and you have to do anything to keep her. Unplug from that shit
but to be very sincere maybe am wrong. Most Nigerians girls are not productive.. ??

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