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frozen70:
My dear sister, you don't need to regret anything at all from keeping yourself during the time you would have been carelessly pregnant till now that you are still waiting for a guy

You known what, your status and educational status are part of what is scaring some men to come and hook up, but that shouldn't be an issue for real men who appreciates successful women

Who marriage help ?

In as much as you have once slept with a man in your your life, simply get pregnant and have a child of yours before the egg gets finished

Also note that the care and responsibilities of that child is strictly on you

You will be glad if you have a child of your own especially at old age

Lastly, don't live your life on regrets, the past is gone what we are talking about now is the future

Dust them off and move on

Streamz:
I met some cool nairalanders.
Some very good people are out there.

duyox2004:
I dey tell you I should have done that. I forgot.

People it's from quora....

mysticgal:
My toes curled to your balked attempt at a comeback.

mysticgal:
I know but this same man from his digital prints detests the lgbtq community so how he switched and picked up a quora post is surprising

duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.

I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��

Xilsbridalhouse:
Op you are just an attention seeker and obviously craving for likes and bashing of women! You copied it and you couldn’t tell us you did so...

pocohantas:
Isn’t that the standard? Blame everyone but yourself?

That is why I will continue to commend Linda Ikeji for having that boy. She did what a right thinking woman should do. Not taking postinor 2 at 38.

If you want a child and you can cater for that child, by all means have that child. Even small girls of 21 are having their babies. Then a grown financially independent woman in her late 30s is somewhere asking “hope you didn’t cum inside”.

People must talk. When they are done talking, they will move on. With time they’ll appreciate the decision you took years ago.



I am 43. Not me.




No need for that. Menopause came early.

SARSCoV2:
Regrets!

You will be alone!

Trust me, it ends in regrets



You just be on social media forming artificial happiness

nurain150:
Lol. I hope you don't get married and also no kids till you grow old.

If you don't wish for that, don't be an hypocrite .

duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.

I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��

Hassanmaye:
Haha just like myself bro there is this girl I love like die during our university days but this girl was forming hard to get, though I'm handsome thank God, but I it's because I wasn't financial stable then, now Aunty want me back NEVER! It's their problem when boys where Young we will be given free love but no they want to explore, until it's too late they will try to pin you down! Though it's there choice then so let them deal with it, now is my choice too Bleep love let me enjoy myself too

nurain150:
Lol, you think it's easy, who will give her that child, ghosts right and fake men.

Shior.

duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.

I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��

duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.

I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��

omoharry:
This write up was copied from Quora (an America site) this op just went to copy and pasted it here just to bash single women . It was written by an American.

Empiree:
lol. Only Americans can comment on Quora?. You funny. This is nairaland. Have you never seen African Americans registered on this platform?. Even Caribbeans yet this is NIGERIA website.

You weak me

Tayosteve:
Bros, you are not running out of eggs. All will be well for you as long as you are not a simp

Have a stable income and get a nice girl.

Anyahuruagu:
I actually discussed this with my folks the other time.

The single lifestyle of our generation affects the female gender more than the male gender.

When you age you will understand that the most important aspect of marriage is actually companionship, sex is while you are younger but as you age.

You need a confidant, a partner no matter how hard it is you need someone.

To our single women out there, please use the opportunity now.

I have met plenty aged single women, i must confess that 85% of them aren't happy with their life.

OBIGS:
I really feel your pain. You grew up to be a very obedient girl and its good, Just that the right man did not come for you. Hey guess what, it's not too late. I trust your not looking bad and you still have some eggs.

Ow0eg0kudi:
Hmmmm @duyox2004
You asked a question and answered it yourself.
You are old (though not too old) and you're already feeling like this, so just imagine what you'll be like in 10/20/30 years from now.

Perspectives: some give advice based on evil intent, some based on their personal circumstances, and some will give you advice that thy feel will be the best for you BUT the ultimate decision is ALWAYS yours to make.

Àmọ̀ràn: You can choose to marry before this year runs out because there are men waiting to marry your type - full yankee babe spec with better fonee - and will worship at your nether altar for the rest of their lives BUT are you willing and ready to marry such?

The ball is in someone's court...

A kú ojúmọ́...ẹ dẹ̀ kú ìsinmi, ẹ̀mí a ṣe ọ̀pọ rẹ̀

izzou:
[color=royalblue]You are the first lady I'm seeing that's blaming everyone around her for her predicament, except herself.

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frozen70:
A lot will do so

Have you forgotten that, a woman will and can become pregnant without a man's notice, till the pregnancy gets to 2/3 months before she announce it. Even if the man refuses the pregnancy, she may decide to keep it

Hathor5:
None of your business.

omoharry:
I did not weak you . I read this story on Quora and I remembered there were not so many comment to the write up there . This is not a Nigerian story and it did not originate here. The op copied and pasted it from there . So na u weak me pass.