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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Brunosamel(m): 2:59pm On Nov 05, 2021
HenryDion:
You're afraid of a liability rejecting you? undecided

What kind of men are we producing for Christ sake?

And your only advantage is your handsomeness...

That's a new one.
I wonder men of this days

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by bigpicture001: 2:59pm On Nov 05, 2021
Mercychen:
She's definitely my kind of person. So I can advise you better.

If you know you're not ready for marriage, don't even go near her. No room for playing around.

Don't say I didn't warn you. That's how we roll. cool

So na only marage u carry for head.. I laff smooth talkers go press ur mumu button tire... Once they know the pass word, ur body count will swell

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by dapadawee: 3:00pm On Nov 05, 2021
YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?
You hansom?
Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by motionarena: 3:01pm On Nov 05, 2021
Kenturkey048:
Bush man looking down on himself....

Naso when I go NYSC, I meet one fine Igbo corper for my PPA. Every guy there say she get level, she like money, na big boys she dey follow...bla, blah, blaaaaah.....

I ended fuc*king out that babe life and even got her pregnant.

Moral lesson: Never go by what people portray themselves to be...Very few speaketh out the mind...Most people use words for defense and justifications...

Put her on a unique cruise...She's gonna see you different from the Benz and Lexus guys...
so did u marry her Oga
Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by VlamesIffect(f): 3:02pm On Nov 05, 2021
YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

You must not date every girl. Some are just meant to be friends. Some friends with benefits. Some colleagues.

Any small bond you have with a girl na feelings you dun dey catch wetin be your problem

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Arisenews2: 3:03pm On Nov 05, 2021
OP has complex issues. Lol
Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by TemmyDayo50(m): 3:03pm On Nov 05, 2021
HenryDion:
You're afraid of a liability rejecting you? undecided

What kind of men are we producing for Christ sake?

And your only advantage is your handsomeness...

That's a new one.

Lmfao grin grin... Nairaland no dey ever disappoint me...
Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Yeezus998(m): 3:03pm On Nov 05, 2021
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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by womenareapess: 3:04pm On Nov 05, 2021
YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?
were in the hell is all this useless men coming out from undecided

You want to go and date those useless piece of shiit that have nothing to offer in life apart from their smelly vagina undecided

Dating a black woman is like keeping a snake as a pet! You always know how the outcome would be undecided

Take your thoughts out on those useless piece of shiit called Naija and start focusing on yourself!
No woman on this earth is worth dying or fighting for undecided

As far as those species bend down to piss, that's how they are low to earth undecided you don't give a fvvvxck about them

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Elsueno: 3:04pm On Nov 05, 2021
Kenturkey048:
Bush man looking down on himself....

Naso when I go NYSC, I meet one fine Igbo corper for my PPA. Every guy there say she get level, she like money, na big boys she dey follow...bla, blah, blaaaaah.....

I ended fuc*king out that babe life and even got her pregnant.

Moral lesson: Never go by what people portray themselves to be...Very few speaketh out the mind...Most people use words for defense and justifications...

Put her on a unique cruise...She's gonna see you different from the Benz and Lexus guys...

How would u feel, when someone does & says same about ur daughter/sister. U go & manipulate young girls to boost ur shrinking egos, only to leave them damaged. And u think u deserve a happy life?

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Michelle55: 3:05pm On Nov 05, 2021
bigpicture001:


So na only marage u carry for head.. I laff smooth talkers go press ur mumu button tire... Once they know the pass word, ur body count will swell
Thought she said she has given up on men and she's now focused more on God and her work cheesy I was shocked when I saw the marriage thingy she wrote..

Man still dey hungry her after she don shoot herself for leg tire, na siddon look I dey laidis as I dey read her comment. grin

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by MikeofKd(m): 3:06pm On Nov 05, 2021
You would never know till you try tho ,so whether she says yes or no life goes on.

And if you gonna ask her to be ur girl pls and pls don't text her or call , she wouldn't take u serious, just take her out ,make her comfortable ,give her d sense of protection, make her enjoy, make her laugh and then pop d question.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by SmartyPants(m): 3:06pm On Nov 05, 2021
HenryDion:
You're afraid of a liability rejecting you? undecided

What kind of men are we producing for Christ sake?

And your only advantage is your handsomeness...

That's a new one.

grin

Can't you see that he has nothing to offer - therefore he is not suitable to settle the liabilities of the liability.
Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by WFKruger: 3:06pm On Nov 05, 2021
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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Segeblackky: 3:07pm On Nov 05, 2021
hmmm
Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Nobody: 3:07pm On Nov 05, 2021
My statuses on WhatsApp are always against love. Doesn't mean I do not want to fall in love. I'm just scared or better still I haven't found the right one...

If a lady can't ask me out then we will be friends for life. Never gonna ask her out. Lols.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by WFKruger: 3:08pm On Nov 05, 2021
YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?
Early 2021 till now is a long time, you are already in the friendzone, should u go ahead and confess Ur feelings, she'd turn you down and say you guys should remain friends. Besides you said it yourself, she's ANTI-RELATIONSHIP.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by SmartyPants(m): 3:08pm On Nov 05, 2021
YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

That feeling of fear is nature's way of confirming what you already know. That girl isn't into you.

If a girl is close to you and you are still not sure if she likes you or not, that is because you don't want to accept the reality staring you in the face.

Such things cannot be hidden.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Kajaard: 3:09pm On Nov 05, 2021
bigpicture001:


So na only marage u carry for head.. I laff smooth talkers go press ur mumu button tire... Once they know the pass word, ur body count will swell

Don't mind that one. By the time her body count don dey reach 30 na then her eyes go open.

All those types of girls wey dey think say their eye dey strong na those ones I dey like show shege cheesy

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by bigpicture001: 3:09pm On Nov 05, 2021
Michelle55:

Thought she said she has given up on men and she's now focused more on God and her work cheesy I was shocked when I saw the marriage thingy she wrote..

Man still dey hungry her after she don shoot herself for leg tire, na siddon look I dey laidis as I dey read her comment. grin

Leave them , mk them dey form and hide up and down dey wait for rich men.. na only 32 yrs old girls eyes dey clear.... Them no no say single Willi g to get married guyz full the forum they read as them dey form....

Make God help them sha....
Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Nobody: 3:10pm On Nov 05, 2021
bigpicture001:


So na only marage u carry for head.. I laff smooth talkers go press ur mumu button tire... Once they know the pass word, ur body count will swell

Who is this one talking to about smooth talk? If i born when I finished secondary school, I'm sure I'll give birth to your mate.

No jokes.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Arisenews2: 3:12pm On Nov 05, 2021
CandyOps:
The moment I tell a babe I like or love her the relationship begins to go south.

So my advice- just roll with the flow. Invite her over, normal. Buy sweet red wine like 4 Cousins or 4th Street to make her tipsy.

Ask her to come sit close to you. If she comes closer then it's a sign she may be interested. Hold her. Kiss her. Shift pant. And nack. After that na she go de ask you "what are we"


I duff my heart for you O! Maybe na wine I go d buy now O. These girls no d like Vodka and bullet again!

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Michelle55: 3:13pm On Nov 05, 2021
bigpicture001:


Leave them , mk them dey form and hide up and down dey wait for rich men.. na only 32 yrs old girls eyes dey clear.... Them no no say single Willi g to get married guyz full the forum they read as them dey form....

Make God help them sha....
The matter weak me as I see am oh.. Make I sha mind my business before someone wee attack me vawulently cheesy

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by EndRape2(f): 3:16pm On Nov 05, 2021
You lack sense, if your mother and sisters are liabilities, not all women are.

If you are not foolish you will see where the guy said is only strenght is handsomness, you did not see that.
as a liability, if it were a woman that said the only thing she is brining is her beauti you will Insult her,

90 percent of Nigerian women are now working hard and taking care of their bills, most even take care of the family

So generalizing that women are liabilities shows how disgusting you are .

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by africonn: 3:16pm On Nov 05, 2021
InTheCloudySky:
Ask her for a relationship and see if t works out.

I like you signature, cos it's true.

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by bigpicture001: 3:16pm On Nov 05, 2021
Mercychen:


Who is this one talking to about smooth talk? If i born when I finished secondary school, I'm sure I'll give birth to your mate.

No jokes.

Babe keep your feet on the ground.... Less than 10% Naija male single successful youth are not into crime... You can't have it all

If you see any of the 10% dey may not like ur spec... So ur dreams of tall, crime free, violent free, handsome, focus, rich , loving, caring ND understanding man is very slim to catch.. you may not even be his spec

Look out for 65% of these and go into marriage.. no perfect man any where

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Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by paulbass: 3:17pm On Nov 05, 2021
Man up,and ask.
Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by EndRape2(f): 3:17pm On Nov 05, 2021
Yes ooo, they are all useless including your mother, and sisters or are they not Niger girls , because you said all of them.







quote author=Savedday post=107324036]9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them![/quote]
Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by africonn: 3:18pm On Nov 05, 2021
EndRape2:
You lack sense, if your mother and sisters are liabilities, not all women are.

If you are not foolish you will see where the guy said is only strenght is handsomness, you did not see that.
as a liability, if it were a woman that said the only thing she is brining is her beauti you will Insult her,

90 percent of Nigerian women are now working hard and taking care of their bills, most even take care of the family

So generalizing that women are liabilities shows how disgusting you are .








undecided where did you get your stats from, cos I can't count those who I have no interest in, but beg me and everyone beggable for data.
Re: I Love Her But I'm Scared by Nobody: 3:20pm On Nov 05, 2021
Mercychen:
She's definitely my kind of person. So I can advise you better.

If you know you're not ready for marriage, don't even go near her. No room for playing around.

Don't say I didn't warn you. That's how we roll. cool

I can come near you..
Let's roll. You dig me?

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