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Kingsley123456:
Couldn't concentrate on my exams, I can't stop thinking about her..

Concentrate on your exams and focus on building your life and future. The right girl will come.
Don't ever make the mistake of marrying a lady who listens to her pastor for decision making.
They are usually incapable of thinking of themselves and not worth your time.

This is serious

For the fact that all of them were practically living with you, your head is carrying unimaginable disasters....May God help you though

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

akmath:
you know weda him de tell any nu girl him meet wetin make em ex leave am? If he is doing that they can use it against him..

I get your point, sir. But four good times is no joke, believe me. Something is definitely not right around him. I am not saying he is hiding anything, or done anything bad. Beyond our natural plane, a lot goes on unseen.

Either you no get money or you get spirit wife

Which ever one e be , sha seek for solutions

pocohantas:
Naija guys do not believe they have issues. They think women are always desperate for marriage, such that they can’t understand why a woman would leave them. The only way to console themselves is to say “make money”. This works because majority are broke. When they have money and you leave, it turns to “you can’t satisfy women”.

He could have severe mouth odour, body odour, poor stroke game, low drive, poor sense of responsibility…etc. but rather than fix those issues, they blame something else.

LMAO @last paragraph. They are all looking for wife material while they are carpenters with nails and hammers ready to cut 'n' sew. And they never think the problem is themselves. It just can't be. The infallibility of " it's-a-man's-world " at work.

It could also be that they aren't virgins and can't pair bond with any woman again. Or maybe they turned down other women because they were broke then, but these women are made now and are using them for last knacks and are moving on to teach them a lesson. Or maybe some Yahoo boys have used them. Or they have become stands. One can't tell.

Wish OP best of luck.

Iyaebe:
You have a spirit wife and any lady that dares marriage with you is in for a big risk.Go for deliverance.

Yup, you've just told OP exactly what his problem is. He'll likely not agree with you though

Someone have problem and only solution you have for him is to go and smoking igbo.

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM AMABOBI I NO GET TIME TO READ EVERYTHING BCUS I DE ROLL MY WEED HERE.. I GO ADVISE U SEY MAKE U START TO DE SMOKE WEED. I DE TELL U. U GO DE REASON WELL AND DOES BANIS NO GO DE SEE U LIKE A JUNZIN GUY. SEE NA UR CHARACTER DE CUS AM. U NEED FIT IN AS A G. U DE TOO EMOTIONAL AND U NO DE TREAT DEM DE WEY DEM WANT. ABOBI HIGH SOMETHING, U GO THANK ME LATER. WTF MAN

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

Guess there's something from your foundation (which isn't your fault) you've not worked on.
Now the truth is that these ladies leaving may not even have a better spiritual background than you to be honest.
If you work on yourself (prayer & fasting+the word of God), believe me you'd attract a whole new and better set of ladies. Goodluck

Why do I feel its because you disclosed the challenges you had in your previous relationship. They then use it as an excuse when they are tired of the relationship. On the other hand it might be spiritual.

I always warn my girlfriend to be very careful how she relates with these pastors. I am not the religious type.


Women are more gullible than men, that's why they always fall victims to these thieves on suit......Go to these miracle centers na women full there pass. They respect their pastors more than their husbands.

Why can't you just go to mountain of fire for prayers before it's too late.

Kingsley123456:
Couldn't concentrate on my exams, I can't stop thinking about her..

Bro, let me be blunt with you. If it doesn't work for you then I will renounce my new faith. But I'm 100% sure it will work for you. Do you believe in God? If you do then speak to him about it and be very sincere with yourself, have faith and be convinced that you will achieve purpose. Tell God what you want and flee from any form of sin either that you have been committing in the past or present. Relax your mind and see what God will do for you.

You are most likely a broke guy, maybe you can't afford to spend on them

Nebes:
Move on. Make money. Don’t tell your future partners about your breakup history so they don’t use the same format.
Above all, find peace with yourself and don’t be too emotionally needy in any relationship.

You spoke sense...

Bahamas95:
I always warn my girlfriend to be very careful how she relates with these pastors. I am not the religious type.


Women are more gullible than men, that's why they always fall victims to these thieves on suit......Go to these miracle centers na women full there pass. They respect their pastors more than their husbands.

Women aren't more gullible. Pastoring is simply more of a male occupation, and men are always looking for illicit sex and how to control. Same thing in universities, offices and any other place there are more men than women. These ones use the Bible and constant preaching against women to achieve that.

If more pastors were women, we would see just how gullible men would become. There would be more messages against men and preaching on submission to their wives and their female pastors. The Bible would have a new meaning.

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

Thank God for saving you from future problem...find a girl that knows what she wants not one waiting for a dream

What GOD can't do doesn't exist.

Rick9:
Spiritual Problem. A spirit wife somewhere is chasing away your suitors. Find a strong church or perhaps a strong EVANGELIST (emphasis on evangelist) and conduct deliverance but most importantly give your life to Jesus Christ else the problem would persist.

Africans and Spiritualism are like breads and butter

my brother jst know say this life no balance..hope say yu Bleep dem at least

Kingsley123456:
Couldn't concentrate on my exams, I can't stop thinking about her..

Do you know how to call on the name of Jesus? If you do, call him and report the case, he would answer you..... And probably, you've not known him, cry to him tonight, he will heed to your cry......

You should be thanking God that they're all telling you the truth.
Cos if you met the one that would lied to you and put you in trouble in future na wahala pro max be dat oo.
Rejection is not the end of life.
They're not just for you. Fast and pray about or you should tell ur parents about it or ur clergyman.. And use that time to focus on yourself.

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM AMABOBI I NO GET TIME TO READ EVERYTHING BCUS I DE ROLL MY WEED HERE.. I GO ADVISE U SEY MAKE U START TO DE SMOKE WEED. I DE TELL U. U GO DE REASON WELL AND DOES BANIS NO GO DE SEE U LIKE A JUNZIN GUY. SEE NA UR CHARACTER DE CUS AM. U NEED FIT IN AS A G. U DE TOO EMOTIONAL AND U NO DE TREAT DEM DE WEY DEM WANT. ABOBI HIGH SOMETHING, U GO THANK ME LATER. WTF MAN

Weed aint for petty minds.

kals4luv990:
my brother jst know say this life no balance..hope say yu Bleep dem at least

lol You're a bad guy

Kingsley123456:
Couldn't concentrate on my exams, I can't stop thinking about her..

Op, bia, u still dey school dey write exams and thinking of babes.... abeg, face ur studies, after/beside studies hustle and make money, they will come back and say u are their testimony, if u get money, no pastor will tell any babe u are not meant for them

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

I hop u Bleep all of dem well b4 de left u
If not na u lose
B4 u knw it u don bleep alot of Holes b4 u finally get ur rightfully gal,
Enjoy Punas bro

Try a Muslim girl or pick a girl that doesn't care about those yeye pastors. Even Chris oyahkilome, igi nla all gat problems in their marriages. Before I got married that was how a friend pasuad me to visit his pastor...I bluntly refused and told him I'm prepared for the worst in my marriage. Until today they are still waiting to hear complain from my marriage.

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

leave those piece of shiit called Naija women and date a foreigner

Stop stressing yourself with those ediots. They ain't worth it.

What I don't understand is are you really due and ready for marriage? If no as protray from ur write-up, I think you have no problem. But if you are overdue and u are chronic believer, please seek solution from whatever you believe.

Peaceadebu:
Maybe you are my husband then bkos I have been praying for my spouse anywhere he is not to have a peaceful relationship until he finds me. Better come proposed bkos I am tire of waiting ☺️☺️☺️☺️

E be thingz

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

It's simple , bc u told them your past story how order ladies left u with same story. They see how acceptable you are with the story and they save same story for their upcoming brkup breakup.