Mummiesgirls4:


Thank you but it is not easy I feel guilty all the time but in the other side my happiness comes first

the fact that you said 'thank you' means you are not ready to tell him so why disturb us for advice?

dominique:
PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT!!!

If you know any man getting married on 27th of this month to a single mother of a daughter, please show him this thread. You could be saving a life.

What difference will it make though, this man has already dropped sperms in her womb.

Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.

At what age did you start having children

Super story

Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.

this is one of the many reason I didn't marry a Nigeria girl. They always feel they are wise and smart but in reality foolishness is their DNA. You better go right away and tell the man if he still accept to go ahead with the wedding good for you but if he cancel everything good him. Una no dey wan get sense

Abeg, what's his name ó? Hope it's not someone I know?

Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.

Don't tell him do the wedding finish first

Wanity:
Dont6tell him if you don't want to loose him try ask much as possible to hide those kids from him

he won't see them because 2 are with their father and the other one is now living with my mum sister daughter and I don't have any contacts with them

You cud hv told him be4 now and loose him then move on with ur life. What u guys don't understand is dat dere is dat person out dere 4 u who will accept and love you for who you are. Now whether u like am whether u no like am d thing be say him go still know d truth so it is better to cry now than to cry later because dat later cry go hurt gan ni oooo. Who knows he might accept it and forgive u but d truth is u have to tell him today without delay.

Mummiesgirls4:


No it's not fraud because fraud is a crime but what I did its not a crime it has no prison sentence but I don't know the right name to call it

Let me Advice you, declare two days to fast and pray before God and repent and ask God for mercy for being immoral and deceitful. Then call him and tell him you can't go on with the marriage as you are not worthy of him. If he want to know the details then tell him and tell him you are afraid to tell him all this while and if he decides to call off the marriage he is right you deserve it. Then give him time. He will storm out and not talk to you for days. But because of his baby he will come back and accept you. And if he doesn't, don't kill yourself God is a God of second chance he will find you another man may be a widower.

Foodqueen:
The story of your life is so voluminous.

Like you were sent to earth to destroy as many men as you can.

And destroying her own life indirectly. I can't help but anticipate many bad things that will befall her in years to come.

Mummiesgirls4:


Thank you but it is not easy I feel guilty all the time but in the other side my happiness comes first

damn ur selfish happiness, how can u b so mean 2 have concealed this evil act u are about display, i will advice u let the snail out of it's shell before time, it's better late than never. me personally go vex with u if u decide to keep it away from him.

Iyaebe:
Don't ever tell him,don't be an obstacle to your own happiness.

That's not happiness . Sooner or later he will find out . When marriage is built on faulty foundation, it will definitely crash . He could even kill her or because of her single action , he will hate every other woman on earth. The marriage could even last for just 2-3 months.

Is it that your Mumu fiance didnt see ur sagged brezz when u made love??

Brezz of a Woman with 4 children definitely will be over sagged

free2ryhme:

At what age did you start having children

18

Na wa o, why enter the wedding in deceit?

after God fear women

TemmyT002:
Abeg, what's his name ó? Hope it's not someone I know?

Chaiii may be na dat person bt how u wan connect dis kind ting.. Na waooo. Mind ur business

Funny

dominique:
PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT!!!

If you know any man getting married on 27th of this month to a single mother of a daughter, please show him this thread. You could be saving a life.

You take am too personal

Oluf3mi:

This your story no add up...you have 3 kids...your are pregnant...you don't what yo be single with 5 kids....you pregnant with twins?

No the man is aware that she has a kid

Tell that man now you have kids..not only because he deserves to know the truth,but also because it's the RIGHT thing to do.

Damn the consequences.

airminem:
Me i will NOT take the OP seriously. She/he is just catching CRUZ

Means OP is on meth

So men have become so blind in love that they can't distinguish between a woman whose had no kids and those that have had 5

You are indeed a devil. Tueh! Spits!!

Mummiesgirls4:


Thank you but it is not easy I feel guilty all the time but in the other side my happiness comes first

Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.

If any woman tries this with me , the marriage will not last for two weeks. A whole lot will definitely go bad. I will divorce you (The word "divorce" is even too high cos it will be deemed that we are not married. I will also sue you and recover everything I spent on the marriage , and claim #30m damage for emotional trauma. That will only happen if you will still be alive cos I can't really imagine such thing can happen to me.

It's your right to be happy and be married but not at the expense of other people's happiness. Single mothers should always be plain with men. You don't have to start hiding your kids . There are men out there that will gladly accept you .

So your husband to be don't know that you have kids already. Well he is not a real nigga. Your breast nor fall and your puna nor slack?

Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.

Funny woman,you don't want to end up a single woman with 5 children but you want to get married and later end up a divorced woman with 5 or more children. Pick a struggle madam cos it's either one or the other.
Well if you tell him before the wedding,he may still decide to marry you but it's definitely game over if you tell him after the wedding.
Kpele

May God have mercy ooppon us..

Iyaebe:
Don't ever tell him,don't be an obstacle to your own happiness.

May similar calamity befall u evil witch.So her own happiness is more paramount than d innocent man's own baaa.Such terrible situation will befall u soon I promise you

Czario:
So men have become so blind in love that they can't distinguish between a woman whose had no kids and those that have had 5

No the man is not blind he's just a man that is a capital SIMP.