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Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Seun360(m): 8:26pm On Nov 12, 2021
APCNig:
If he is sleeping with a woman that has three children already and he doesn't know, then he does not deserve to know. I hate dumb people.
I dey tell you.
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by okezuoemmanue(m): 8:29pm On Nov 12, 2021
If u are a guy and u are getting married on the 27th of this month, here it now that maybe u should look more deep b4 u ...
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by sherifjoo(m): 8:30pm On Nov 12, 2021
And like seriously u just ruin your marriage with ur selfish interest so dont cry when milk finally spill
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by femi4: 8:31pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.
You're evil for keeping this info from him.....even if you tell him now, he LL never trust you again. You eff up for building the foundation of the union on lies
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by FIRDAUS3(m): 8:31pm On Nov 12, 2021
End time wedding....
O ma se oo undecided
Bọbọ yẹn ti f'ori ko grin
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by jonadaft: 8:31pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.
You are not a good person and it'll definitely end in TEARS...
YOU DESERVE WHATEVER ILL OUTCOME YOU GET FROM THIS...
YOUR FIANCE MUST BE VERY DUMB TOO...
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by midehi2(f): 8:34pm On Nov 12, 2021
You are wicked
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by sirp9898(m): 8:35pm On Nov 12, 2021
Baby you wicked
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by OwenJesse27(m): 8:37pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
I know and I don't know what to do. He had spent a lot of money for the wedding and I don't want to break his heart.
Ur a mad woman I swear he we catch u one day nonsense
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by princealuminium: 8:39pm On Nov 12, 2021
People get mind o, God please save this guy
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Fredchisom(m): 8:43pm On Nov 12, 2021
Let me tell you the blunt truth,
He will still find out and he will kick you outta his life cz you had the whole time to tell him about it yet you chose to cover the moon with your palms.you are talking about your happiness at his own expense anyway who knows the kind of guy that won't know you don drop 3 from your body.
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by osazsky(m): 8:46pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.
its already ended before it begin...no case any marriage done on lies and deciet is null and void in court.if u like do 1000000 court registry waste of time..the time has passed u didnt see an oppurtunity to throw the info in before now..now seprate fathers wicked woman
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Bimpe29(m): 8:46pm On Nov 12, 2021
If love is nothing without integrity, then you're not worthy to be his wife as you have proven not to be honest. He is really living in the dark as this fact has been elusive to him.
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by anu3:
Mummiesgirls4:
That's why I think it's better if I don't tell him because I am not ready to loose him or break is heart but the guilt is so much for me
You know, you know what you want but you just seem to be looking for people to support that which you want in order to ease your guilty Conscience. Well, according to human reason, it's terrible to do the right thing: to tell him by all means. But if you fear God, you will tell him now, even tonight.

I've learnt from experience that A Clear Conscience Is A Perfect Pillow to Sleep On.

I'll encourage you one last time to face it, and do the needful. Once God is against you for not freeing yourself and the man (for him to know what He NEEDS to know to make proper decision), then I tell you first hand from experience it will end in greater Mess. Please, save yourself and the man from greater future headaches... Please...

Start Correcting Things, Don't Do More Wrongs: seek to get God at your back, not against.

Heb.10.30 - For we know the one who said, "I will take vengeance. I will repay those who deserve it." He also said, "The Lord will judge his own people."

Heb.10.31 - It is a "terrible" thing to fall into the hands of the living God.

God bless
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Silentmoni(m): 8:51pm On Nov 12, 2021
Madam face your warrant alone oo,abi which advice u wan get 4here?why u no go love him so much wen u don already be after 3.....u're very wicked 4nt telling him frm day1
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by MAKERSPHERE: 8:51pm On Nov 12, 2021
Forever remain silent as long as the marriage will last, and never take anything from that man to those children of yours in future. Meanwhile I see you getting pregnant for another man.
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by qtguru(m): 8:54pm On Nov 12, 2021
Iyaebe:
Don't ever tell him,don't be an obstacle to your own happiness.
I hope you understand this is a grave and costly advice you're giving someone. How is this any different from men who engage in activities, personally na selective morality, if na man do this, you will say it's bad, why is it different for a lady.
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by dontrulee: 8:54pm On Nov 12, 2021
Lol.... When the man eventually finds out, he will dump you. The truth will be revealed, it only takes a time. Tick tick says the clock, tick tick....
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Poanan: 8:55pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.
Who advised u? You will probably end up losing cos u no try. Why did u go about donating things and getting pregnant for different people? Aunt u no try o.
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by dontrulee: 8:56pm On Nov 12, 2021
@op your husband is on Nairaland oooo.
grin grin
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by dontrulee: 8:57pm On Nov 12, 2021
Besides I like the way you're spreading your legs like an eagle.
Only you 5 children from three different men. Three gbosa for you.
grin grin
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by osazsky(m): 8:59pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.
from your write up i know those 3 children have different feathers last last another man go still give u belle after this current pregnancy i know ur type wicked woman idiot..see how u useless this innocent guys life and the idiot go they happy say him future wife get belle...
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by cozy7(m): 9:02pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
Yes because I have no other option but I also feel sad that I have to keep this secret from him
Let me ask u sth, how long do u think u can hide all your kids from him? Oh! U want to tell him after marriage n hope wedding vows will tie him down? I've seen enough of this life to tell u that your worst nightmere will be d least of your problems when he finally finds out. For u to hv hid it from him all this while, makes u a liar, a cheat and u obviously don't deserve true luv.
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Astrid4(m): 9:02pm On Nov 12, 2021
IamGreen1:
And destroying her own life indirectly. I can't help but anticipate many bad things that will befall her in years to come.
If the man later out...she might end up losing her life...men dey para this days, I can only imagine
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Fe190: 9:03pm On Nov 12, 2021
Hi, so don't be scared, if the marriage breaks, I'll be here for you and we can get married at the same time next year (hope there's plenty funds, cause we'll be needing in to sustain our prospective marriage) grin grin
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by OZIOGU1: 9:06pm On Nov 12, 2021
Forget it this woman nyash na Boeing 737 exust pipe.. If the story is true, if u know fear HIV, what about HCV?
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Astrid4(m): 9:07pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
Thank you God bless you
Don't let her decieve you...you are not a good woman...you don't even deserve a good man you're nothing but a decietful hoe
Nonsense!!
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by larryking540: 9:07pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.
he is your everything now ,by the time he can't provide food on your table due to circumstances ,am very sure u will change that statement,,,
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by larryking540: 9:10pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.
let me tell u what men ,male , boys,guys ,hate the most ,lies ,we so much hate lies to the extend if we find out that the girl we so much love opens up to us that she is a runs girl ,but I love you ,and I want to stop such a life style ,we men will prefer to marry such a person then a woman that hides her other kids from us ,,,,,
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Digmygold: 9:10pm On Nov 12, 2021
Davash222:
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So, because of your selfish reason of not wanting to end up single with [b] 5 children
, you have to deceive, lie, manipulate, slander, disgrace, frustrate and humiliate this Innocent young man?


In your other thread, you said you have 4 girls with 2 different men.
Plus this one now, that's 5 children with 3 different men.


I wonder what offence this guy in your life now commit that God wants to punish him like this. No man deserves this punishment of a wife.
See as you dey para on top fiction. So.you couldn't figure how fake a story this is? She got you heated up. That was what she wanted to see. Peoples reaction and you fell for it. SMH. Your temper na wa. Just pray you don't fall victim of a true life experience of this magnitude. I hope you wont commit murder. Don't take life too hard. Anything can happen at any time. Be prepared.
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by rainlover(m): 9:25pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
OK maybe after I put to bed maybe after seeing our beautiful baby boy he might find a place in his heart to forgive me
Honey! Why didn't you tell me all these earlier?
Now you've shattered my life
Re: I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids by Dabliss02(m): 9:25pm On Nov 12, 2021
Kuku kill the guy naa
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