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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by worldclass68(m): 3:53pm On Nov 14, 2021
Nah female past dey hunt not male..

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by willexyaho(m): 4:10pm On Nov 14, 2021
Tell him immediately and let him know and decide what he wants or even look for a way of getting her contact from your brother and call her and let her know maybe she will tell your brother herself too.

He needs to know as early as possible.

Please tell him don't let him do what he may regret tomorrow.

I won't want anyone to hide such from me.

Thanks

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Guzx: 4:37pm On Nov 14, 2021
Really
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by cookings(m): 5:31pm On Nov 14, 2021
If you feel she’s not that bad of a girl and your brother is satisfied with marrying her free them!!

But before it even gets to marriage thing, ensure u find a way to reach and inform her that’s your brother(not to threaten her o). Believe me if she has not been loyal to him she will run by herself.
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Excel3298: 5:39pm On Nov 14, 2021
Ti a ba soko s'oja, ara ile lo l maun ba. Omoale ti do iyawo booda e pa.... grin
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Starz825(m): 5:42pm On Nov 14, 2021
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She won't be aware until we see one on one...

No pictures, and she doesn't know my name and family name when we were together....

Many things changed
This is quite funny...
She doesn't know your name and surname when you were together cheesy

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by NevetsIbot(m): 5:50pm On Nov 14, 2021
smasher1:


Truth be told, even if she has a bad history, she may be a changed person. Let's learn to let sleeping dogs lie.

Yes true... she might have changed.....It’s best to just let them be
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by DSC7: 6:26pm On Nov 14, 2021
Starz825:

This is quite funny...
She doesn't know your name and surname when you were together cheesy

She knew my school name, adopted name and nickname....My bro is more familiar with my native name,,,

He answers my grandpa name as his surname while i answer my dad's name...

Do you understand now?....
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by efficiencie(m): 6:26pm On Nov 14, 2021
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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be undecided undecided

Keep mum. Let them get married. At least she can keep being of benefit to you. Once of benefit always of benefit. Perhaps when your brother is not available you can easily fill in. Two brothers, one hoe, great arrangement...family with benefits grin grin grin

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Petik8(m): 6:28pm On Nov 14, 2021
Og no lose guard your own brother make she find husband go front
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I have been thinking of connecting with her but i remembered that she deactivated all her previous social media handles due to her job...

She is the understanding type but I can't say same with dat my bro.....

I fit tell am now make he just flare up...
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Opeyemi1797(m): 6:36pm On Nov 14, 2021
Bro,the best thing to do is to tell your brother,you may try to keep queit but a lie can go for 20 years but the truth will be known in just a day,and your brother's gonna think you bretrayed him by keeping it a secret,he may even be the kind of person who donsn't accept excuses.to even talk about you both in the future,you guys may have some misunderstanding in the future when one will try to blackmail the other,you can't even say yourself that you will keep your cool when real matter comes up,be wise sir.

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by ukpahu(m): 6:39pm On Nov 14, 2021
hmmmmm too bad wat about culture and tradition
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Starz825(m): 6:56pm On Nov 14, 2021
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She knew my school name, adopted name and nickname....My bro is more familiar with my native name,,,

He answers my grandpa name as his surname while i answer my dad's name...

Do you understand now?....
Ok oo ..
You know what...I feel like you should shock her on the day of wedding by just showing up but she will be so disturbed and uncomfortable... thinking some planned shit is going on...and your bro could notice that and want to know what's up...
So just try get her number..call her before that time tell her , her hubby to be Is your bro and everything that happened between you guys is in the past...that she she should go ahead and do her thing and enjoy....try help her confidence

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Breastfeed: 7:15pm On Nov 14, 2021
nice advice
AsomArchitectNG:
Hmm. Quite complicated I'll say it depends on ur brother level of maturity and how he'll be able handle it. But i feel you should let him know as there are some things you don't have keep quiet about . Imagine if he get to find out after been married to her, he'll feel betrayed by you. So u gats man up and tell him. What will be will be.
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by DavidHarry(m): 7:32pm On Nov 14, 2021
Midas01:
Two people had a relationship but it's one person that's a slut....Lmao

Nigerian men never cease to show their foolishness.

You're right I could have hidden the slut part
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by INCREDIBLE007(m): 7:56pm On Nov 14, 2021
AntiWailer:
No be person brother go Marry her before ?


Abi o
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Mrphylor09: 8:02pm On Nov 14, 2021
This is serious

Brothers gonna bleep Same person

Wahala
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Aleliberty(m): 8:27pm On Nov 14, 2021
The % of women that can keep secrets when they are in love is 1%. The lady will tell your brother sooner or later unless if she's not in love and that will surely cause forever wound in your family, better to call them both and let the word out

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Angy55(f): 8:34pm On Nov 14, 2021
Does it mean that the girl has never seen your picture in your brother's phone.

The girl is the issue self not you.

If na me be the girl I go talk from beginning oo to avoid future disappointment. What will be will be.

Last last I no fit marry guy when him brother or friend don lash me. Even date self e hard.

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by joyousever(f): 8:45pm On Nov 14, 2021
She may never tell him. It's better he opens up now that the knots are still underway.
Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by ume1000: 9:28pm On Nov 14, 2021
Amotolongbo:
Same with your mother and sisters
you definitely are a specie of its own

No women I know of would continue sleeping with a man after servicing his brother

You lack dignity and virtue

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Amotolongbo(f): 9:34pm On Nov 14, 2021
ume1000:
you definitely are a specie of its own

No women I know of would continue sleeping with a man after servicing his brother

You lack dignity and virtue
Ask your mother and sisters if they didn’t.

You child of numerous seminal sources
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by ume1000: 9:42pm On Nov 14, 2021
Amotolongbo:
Ask your mother and sisters if they didn’t.

You child of numerous seminal sources
how much for the market when u dey sell

No matter how u fine na 2k I go give u

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by GiZcorp: 9:48pm On Nov 14, 2021
It's wrong for two brothers to hunt from the same forest. Tell him now to avoid stories that touch b'cos once a girl is piped the Piper can keep pipping her for life if care is not taken. Lemme be going, but don't say u were not told!
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Amotolongbo(f): 9:57pm On Nov 14, 2021
ume1000:
how much for the market when u dey sell

No matter how u fine na 2k I go give u
Go and use the 2k to buy food for your family
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by ume1000: 10:06pm On Nov 14, 2021
Amotolongbo:
Go and use the 2k to buy food for your family
person when fit Bleep two brothers

Stop to dey form hard to get

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Amotolongbo(f): 10:11pm On Nov 14, 2021
ume1000:
person when fit Bleep two brothers

Stop to dey form hard to get

i don’t do stinking things
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by ume1000: 10:15pm On Nov 14, 2021
Amotolongbo:
i don’t do stinking things
so says the borehole that would bleeped two brothers shamelessly

grin grin grin !D

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Skmoda360(m): 10:17pm On Nov 14, 2021
DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be undecided undecided
Comot eyes jawre, let her marry him ok....so far she is intact as per womb....leave em alone
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Amotolongbo(f): 10:21pm On Nov 14, 2021
ume1000:
so says the borehole that would bleeped two brothers shamelessly

grin grin grin !D

Not like your father and his ilks
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by ume1000: 10:23pm On Nov 14, 2021
Amotolongbo:
Not like your father and his ilks
what exactly are u
A hoe

A demon

Or a familiar
Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by osifred(m): 10:23pm On Nov 14, 2021
If by brother you mean same father same mother. You owe your brother the duty to tell. If it is your first cousin, and the girl is not in the street, you can keep mute, provided she can also keep mute. If it is your brother as in from the same village or distantrelatives, then no need to tell.

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