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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Baba, use your discretion and tell him without making her look like a slut. Everybody has a past agreed, but some kind of past is too much. If your brother later finds out, he will not be happy with you for not telling him. Especially if she ends up doing something silly. For her to agree to be a friend with benefits, that is, she was willing to have only a sexual relationship with you says alot about her. What girls these days refuse to acknowledge is that women will be always judge by their sexual history and men by their financial capabilities. If it was just a friend it's something else, but for elder bro to find out the his younger brother has bang the same pussy he wants to keep, e no go funny. Blood is blood, they can get married and divorce, nothing is certain in life, but your brother will always be your brother. And forget what some girls are saying , naija girls will do anything just to get married especially when they are of age, then her real character will show

temitope27:
u did girl, y u lyk quarrel like this

What exactly can I do for you? Please I'm begging you now? Please

Bola146:


What exactly can I do for you? Please I'm begging you now? Please

give me ur number that's all

May I ask what type of benefits?

You sound like a good fellow although it's clear you have little understanding of the nature of women.

She will NEVER be comfortable with that secret between both of you so what will eventually happen is she will codedly drive a wedge btw you guys.

Her calculations being that if you and him are not on good terms then you will not tell your brother.

That's an illogical plan but women don't operate with logic so....

One thing that is obvious is that if you don't tell your brother early just know that your relationship with him will be destroyed whenever it does come out.

I, being in his shoes will lose all trust I ever had in you if I discover that you hid such from me.

I would keep wondering WHY your loyalty was more towards her than myself.

Maybe you guys planned to continue from where you stopped after the wedding?

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Well if she doesn't open up no one will know... Except me and her.....

If only she can cope without feeling guilty...

temitope27:
give me ur number that's all

I think I know you now, being a kid doesn't mean you shouldn't have sense na! Sending different emails to know me wouldn't help you, ask your older fools here who are after lust should gist you that I'm not the type of irresponsible lady, if not they would have exposed me here, better get a good job and better life olodo rabata! Those who know me are watching and reading,they can testify that I have enough patience with you because I informed some of them. You wouldn't find it funny if you try this shit with me again.

This is a typical example of what the Bible meant when it says "YOUR SIN WILL FIND YOU OUT"

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I have been thinking of connecting with her but i remembered that she deactivated all her previous social media handles due to her job...

She is the understanding type but I can't say same with dat my bro.....

I fit tell am now make he just flare up...

You better tell your bro to end any relationship with her, can you live with the thought that your own brother once bang your wife to be/wife?

Tell him o, I advise. If u don't, anytime u visit your brother's house, there's every tendency you will bleeb that lady-your brother's wife. Tell him right away.

Bola146:


I think I know you now, being a kid doesn't mean you shouldn't have sense na! Sending different emails to know me wouldn't help you, ask your older fools here who are after lust should gist you that I'm not the type of irresponsible lady, if not they would have exposed me here, better get a good job and better life olodo rabata! Those who know me are watching and reading,they can testify that I have enough patience with you because I informed some of them. You wouldn't find it funny if you try this shit with me again.

see this true girl, be deceiving urself, oponu eda feeling special,who get ur time b4

takimsipho:
Baba, use your discretion and tell him without making her look like a slut. Everybody has a past agreed, but some kind of past is too much. If your brother later finds out, he will not be happy with you for not telling him. Especially if she ends up doing something silly. For her to agree to be a friend with benefits, that is, she was willing to have only a sexual relationship with you says alot about her. What girls these days refuse to acknowledge is that women will be always judge by their sexual history and men by their financial capabilities. If it was just a friend it's something else, but for elder bro to find out the his younger brother has bang the same pussy he wants to keep, e no go funny. Blood is blood, they can get married and divorce, nothing is certain in life, but your brother will always be your brother. And forget what some girls are saying , naija girls will do anything just to get married especially when they are of age, then her real character will show

Op, if you don't take this advice, then you are not worth to be his blood. Forget those people without virtue advising otherwise. This is 'mind your business' taken too far.

Tell your brother bro.

Bola146:


I think I know you now, being a kid doesn't mean you shouldn't have sense na! Sending different emails to know me wouldn't help you, ask your older fools here who are after lust should gist you that I'm not the type of irresponsible lady, if not they would have exposed me here, better get a good job and better life olodo rabata! Those who know me are watching and reading,they can testify that I have enough patience with you because I informed some of them. You wouldn't find it funny if you try this shit with me again.

u re also talking about me getting a job, so u think everyone on this forum is as jobless as you or a low budget person, madam get a life jare

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She is not the promiscuous type....

Do you suggest i find means of connecting with her so as to let her know who she is about getting married to?

Bro i just dey confused...

no dramas, just connect with her and keep any flirting distance from her. First connect with her with the intention you heard about her wedding plans without letting her know ya position to be in her future marital life. if you find out she really love ya brother and want it all, open up to her ..... then guide her . but still...make sure you keep your distance. don't tell your brother about the past with her unless you know she is a full time hoe during ya time with her.

temitope27:
see this true girl, be deceiving urself, oponu eda feeling special,who get ur time b4

Just try and send it kid, se o sope ori e ti gbale ni

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

U will still fu.c.k her after ur brother has married her,this I have seen,

Bola146:


Just try and send it kid, se o sope ori e ti gbale ni

am even thinking u re mature b4, nt even knowing u re a big fool, how old u be sef?

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

You're a very big fool for that last sentence.
You're never a brother...

R u normal?

Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

temitope27:
am even thinking u re mature b4, nt even knowing u re a big fool, how old u be sef?

I'm so sorry to disappoint some people here please and please, let me give this barking dog looking for number his last slap, the dogs he is eating are affecting his thinking, please let them know that you need a psychiatrist asap before it's too late, looking or asking for number would heal you o Pele wa was alright so gbo? Move from to ask for number

sorepco:
R u normal?

I don't think you are okay

Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

How will she do that since she does not know that they are siblings,except on the wedding day that she will get to see him.
Why not tell him if he still wants to go ahead with the wedding is left to him.

Bola146:


I'm so sorry to disappoint some people here please and please, let me give this barking dog looking for number his last slap, the dogs he is eating are affecting his thinking, please let them know that you need a psychiatrist asap before it's too late, looking or asking for number would heal you o Pele wa was alright so gbo? Move from to ask for number

no need ur number again, but to Bleep that ur smelling pussy

Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

Smh!
So if I have fùcked the hell out of you for many years and I later dump you to start dating your younger sister, you would prefer to tell your sister about me or me tell your sister?

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga let them be joor

Don't worry, your ex will definitely marry your younger sister.
Wicked generation....

If to say n me i go tell my bro. I wont keep it to my self.
I suggest u tell ur parents first or any other close relative before telling you bruh

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Bola146:


I don't think you are okay

even everyone know you are nt ok, foolishness is in ur DNA

Tell your brother after all what God has put together nobody will out assunder but at least he deserves the truth from his own

Myzubby:
Let them marry
After the marriage it will be an interesting story for both of you .

Make sure you are the type of person your brother can trust with his wife otherwise if your brother becomes aware your past relationship with her he may feel insecure .

And hope your relationship with her was not romantic
Thank you

Very dump people everywhere...

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

you will not tell him, after the wedding the girl will posion you thinking you has a secret that can wreck her home.

temitope27:
even everyone know you are nt ok, foolishness is in ur DNA

If you stop this your barking, it means you are asleep in yaba left

Bola146:


If you stop this your barking, it means you are asleep in yaba left

I promise you, I won't stop till you get sense