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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

You better tell someone. Trust me…it would save you a lot of trouble.

advanceDNA:
See your life....stop doing community pen!s u did not listen..... see now..na your left over your brother wan marry....

Na so some guys dey marry girls wey their randy father don sleep with...

All these won't happen if ladies have learnt to close their legs till their wedding night.

Youngpo413:
All these won't happen if ladies have learnt to close their legs till their wedding night.

How do you expect ladies.to close.their legs when men are roaming,running about the place with illegal drilling licences and hammers?
Opening anything legs with skirt?

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Your loyalty to your brother is everything. Therefore, I would strongly advise you to tell him yourself before he finds out from the said lady and/or from someone else...

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I have been thinking of connecting with her but i remembered that she deactivated all her previous social media handles due to her job...

She is the understanding type but I can't say same with dat my bro.....

I fit tell am now make he just flare up...

Flare up say wetin?
You have to tell him or even your parents. His reaction is not your business do your part and clear your conscience because you don't even know if there are some implications for two brothers to sleep with one girl so just do your part ASAP and gboju.

Just tell him she's your ex, forget about all that friend with benefits jargons just to paint her bad.

If you're a good brother, you tell him. You tell him that he is marrying a slut. This is a lifetime thing

baralatie:

How do you expect ladies.to close.their legs when men are roaming,running about the place with illegal drilling licences and hammers?
Opening anything legs with skirt?

ladies should say no and stick to it....on the other hand,rapist when caught should shot at close range...

Youngpo413:
ladies should say no and stick to it....on the other hand,rapist when caught should shot at close range...

You did not say men should stick to themselves and stay away from anyform of premarital sex till they get married

When they say flee sexual promiscuity, you people will not hear. Always thinking it's only a woman that should be chaste that's why y'all play with your lives with reckless abandon.

Just know that you and your brother have already have already committed a great sin by sleeping with the same woman.

Also, as long as your brother marries her then with time one of you must be tempted to reveal the truth to your brother which he will not take lightly.

And even if either of you don't tell him, he will still find out from your friends who were aware of your rendezvous.

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I have been thinking of connecting with her but i remembered that she deactivated all her previous social media handles due to her job...

She is the understanding type but I can't say same with dat my bro.....

I fit tell am now make he just flare up...

Two people had a relationship but it's one person that's a slut....Lmao

Nigerian men never cease to show their foolishness.

DavidHarry:
If you're a good brother, you tell him. You tell him that he is marrying a slut. This is a lifetime thing

And boys should be sperm donor a to the entire community before their wedding night?

Youngpo413:
All these won't happen if ladies have learnt to close their legs till their wedding night.

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

If you love your brother you better spill the beans, before is too late for him and let him take decision he so wishes.

baralatie:

You did not say men should stick to themselves and stay away from anyform of premarital sex till they get married

men don't need such advice....

Youngpo413:
men don't need such advice....

Why?

baralatie:
Why?

men are free to fuçk any 'willing' hoe....I mean willing.

Midas01:
And boys should be sperm donor a to the entire community before their wedding night?

Men and women are not the same.

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

If it was d other way round wont u want him to tell u Nawa for u. U better tell him

Youngpo413:
All these won't happen if ladies have learnt to close their legs till their wedding night.

U are using double standard...u want to blame the woman for a woman’s irresponsibility...
The woman won’t fvck herself naaa...
Once both party can be responsible ... we would have a sane society

Youngpo413:
men are free to fuçk any 'willing' hoe....I mean willing.

And every 'willing hoe' is free to marry any 'willing simp'

Willing simp

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

It was immediately after you saw the picture that you ought to have told your brother you know the lady and she's your ex but there's nothing between you both any longer, not even the slightest contact. It will then be left for your brother to proceed to confirm and ask her to know if she'll be truthful or not. That way, the future of his relationship with her will depend on him..
It's not too late though, you just have to tell your brother. Let him know you are not telling him because you want to have anything to do with the girl any more or because you want to scatter their plans or want him to break up with her but because you have to be honest with him as your blood and you don't want to always have guilty conscience of not telling him. If he chooses to go ahead, avoid their wedding so you don't get emotional afterall you are also human, You can help your brother do running around, then ensure you don't go to his place after wedding to minimise contact. Then you also should get into a stable relationship

See how people are commenting as if they dont no what love and sex is all about.since its your brother sharply tell him u have dated her before. make sure u discuss about it to avoid any side tin after the marriage.na your family she de come ooo. dont say i no tell u. because even she, wont be secure knowing u as his brother later.

baralatie:
And every 'willing hoe' is free to marry any 'willing simp'
Willing simp

Ah! not like that na.

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Open up to your brother...I mean this is your blood brother for good sake..If he end up with a wrong choice, it can scatter a family for life..

Tell him the A-z bro don't hide anything regarding this issue from a bro, not to talk of your blood.

How do you feel sef, realizing a babe u the bang is becoming your brother's wife.

Tell him, it is now left for him to move ahead knowing fully the options he is moving with.

My guy, this is your business..Don't ever listen to anyone saying it is not your business..Beware of strange women, the come to destroy.
If that union turn sour tomorrow, your bro will never forgive you for allowing him enter fire

E go shock you to realise na she scope your bro having known him and his capacity from what you do gist her...

advanceDNA:


U are using double standard...u want to blame the woman for a woman’s irresponsibility...
The woman won’t fvck herself naaa...
Once both party can be responsible ... we would have a sane society

Hmmmm,I

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

If i was ur brother and u dont tell me I'll disbrother u. U better tell him now because eventually he's goin to find out, Then he b thinkin maybe ur still fvckin her

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SweetDipBenny:
If i was ur brother and u dont tell me I'll disbrother u. U better tell him now because eventually he's goin to find out, Then he b thinkin maybe ur still fvckin her

Which one is disbrother

If na me,, I got tell my brother... That one know the girl,,,,, but nothing else

So "human beings" are advising this guy to keep quiet And una go dey shout on top paternity fraud.
Hanhan!

OP! OP!!OP!!!
Tell your brother ASAP about this. It becomes an issue when he finds out later and I bet you, he will! The way you respond to messages shows you might still woo that lady. What kind of person are you! Don't you have loyalty in your blood! You wanna be gloating that you have tasted your brother's wife Abi! You don't even care about that poor guy's feelings at all. Wow!
Let the decision be your brother's.

Tell him!

You dey even ask question

I will never marry a lady my brother, friend, relative, work colleague has slept with.

E get why

Your story nor make sense. You dated a girl from 2012-2016 but your brother doesn't know her? That's crap.