oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

Believe me coming online to ask questions if you're too young or old to look for a wife at your age, then trust me, you're not mentality ready to get à wife.

Physical fitness have absolutely nothing to do with ones readiness in getting a wife.

Try here.... nairaland

oldienavie:

I be naija nah... We know as the matter dey go. I am able to handle that.

If you say so. Shine ya eyes

Good luck in your search and no matter what DON'T disclose your abroad status, if not my sisters here will use you to travel and when they are yonder, collect the small kabukabu wey you dey use manage life.

AutoChick4U:
So where should he find her? Well, she can be found anywhere.

I understand that a wife can be found anywhere... Buh what I don't understand is your enthusiasm for this thread

Ishilove:

If you say so. Shine ya eyes

Good luck in your search and no matter what DON'T disclose your abroad status, if not my sisters here will use you to travel and when they are yonder, collect the small kabukabu wey you dey use manage life.

I dey feel you..

Favfables1:


I understand that a wife can be going anywhere... Buh what I don't understand is your enthusiasm for this thread

I see what you did there...

Afamsi:
Some of your age mates are already having children 10 yrs old. You are here asking... No wait till you are 56 before your start to look for her if 36 is late. After all Ned married Regina at 59

Life is not a competition, his mates can have kids that are 20yrs old. It's all gud.

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

To be honest with you, getting wife at 36 is more challenging than you can imagine (single 36+ myself). You get fake ones, you get one who just want to marry to mark attendance (I guess that's your category too), you get Cruise catcher (just for Fun),and many more. Just try understand how they think, before diving head on.

Don't wear slippers to go woo any girls, they (Girls) have this 3rd vision that can see beneath the Charades (since they are master pretender) just be casual, don't overdo and don't underdo.
Know the type of girl you want, don't over talk since we guys always do the initial talk to Impress them, they read meaning to every lines. So Help You GOD in your endeavour.

NarcissistKing:


If your father had met your mom in the right place, you wouldn't have been in existence. I blame your father for having you as a progeny. I won't indulge you no more, kiddo.

, me and you know say u no Dey go heaven

seanwilliam:
, me and you know say u no Dey go heaven

Let's worry about afterlife later.

talk2hb1:

To be honest with you, getting wife at 36 is more challenging than you can imagine (single 36+ myself). You get fake ones, you get one who just want to marry to mark attendance (I guess that's your category too), you get Cruise catcher (just for Fun),and many more. Just try understand how they think, before diving head on.

Don't wear slippers to go woo any girls, they (Girls) have this 3rd vision that can see beneath the Charades (since they are master pretender) just be casual, don't overdo and don't underdo.
Know the type of girl you want, don't over talk since we guys always do the initial talk to Impress them, they read meaning to every lines. So Help You GOD in your endeavour.

How did you arrive at the bolded ? I am someone that loves to have a family and I would have gotten married before now if not because I have been abroad for a while and did not want to marry a foreigner.
However, you are right, at this age, you see a lot of options and the real problem for me is choice paralysis, cos to know who is real is not easy.
I had a babe abroad, Nigerian and she claimed she nor dey drink cos she saw that I am very conservative, it took a lot of FBI efforts on my part to realise that she was just forming for me just to trick me into marriage, the babe dey drink and club but she dey pretend for a long time.

Oga nothing like late at 36, you're in your prime as a man but your status (abroad) go attract all sorts.

Like what a poster said earlier don't take women at face value, don't overdo.

Also know that marriage is a bad deal for men no matter how angelic the women wan be, you will still be her husband, brother, father and what do you get in return: KUNTUS.

but at the very least marry your tribe (woman wey vibe well with you, or the one wey dey hot for you) and also one that appreciates you. E no go easy to find but I wish you all the best brotherman. And I pray that the ryt one comes your way and God give you the eye of understanding to recognize her.

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age
What suggestions do you have with good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

So, no decent woman outside the country that you could bring back with you?

Nope

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

No. It's not too late.
Most men get married between late20s to early 40s.

I consider 36 as a very young age for a man to get married considering the fact that most men in their 20's are nothing to write home about.You are good to go.

Ishilove:

If you say so. Shine ya eyes

Good luck in your search and no matter what DON'T disclose your abroad status, if not my sisters here will use you to travel and when they are yonder, collect the small kabukabu wey you dey use manage life.

You know I don't like this your post,stop exposing us

Favfables1:


I understand that a wife can be going anywhere... Buh what I don't understand is your enthusiasm for this thread

Boredom.

Iyaebe:
I consider 36 as a very young age for a man to get married considering the fact that most men in their 20's are nothing to write home about.You are good to go.

if you marry for that age,your last born no fit be 25 o

AYNL:

if you marry for that age,your last born no fit be 25 o

It's OK and actually the right age for a man to get married, marriage with men in that age group stands the test of time compared to the amateur youngies who are always ready to pick fights at every given opportunity

oldienavie:

What is the best way to get a good wife in Nigeria these days ?

University
Family friends
Church (though you'll meet many pretenders).

When you probably spent your youth trolling women on nairaland and saying you must marry a virgin?

Mba nu!!

oldienavie:

How did you arrive at the bolded ? I am someone that loves to have a family and I would have gotten married before now if not because I have been abroad for a while and did not want to marry a foreigner.
However, you are right, at this age, you see a lot of options and the real problem for me is choice paralysis, cos to know who is real is not easy.
I had a babe abroad, Nigerian and she claimed she nor dey drink cos she saw that I am very conservative, it took a lot of FBI efforts on my part to realise that she was just forming for me just to trick me into marriage, the babe dey drink and club but she dey pretend for a long time.

Never mind, just trying to be mischievous

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

Make I link you with someone?

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

Hope you're acquainted with the risks of what you want to do?

Think it through!

Ishilove:
Oldienavie, they will flood your PMs with proposals, catfishes included. You for try hide yourself small.

Lol!

No.

siofra:
When you probably spent your youth trolling women on nairaland and saying you must marry a virgin?

Mba nu!!

Don't mind him. Now he's looking for a 'decent responsible, unmanipulative' woman. Shey he was forming young and hot bachelor in town, declining the Good Girls he was seeing to party and stick his thing in the hot ones.

I don't know why he's even bothered about any kind of woman. Is there any need or difference?

Then what does he hope to gain from marriage?

Next story, abeg.

Magnoliaa:


Don't mind him. Now he's looking for a 'decent responsible, unmanipulative' woman. Shey he was forming young and hot bachelor in town, declining the Good Girls he was seeing to party and stick his thing in the hot ones.

I don't know why he's even bothered about any kind of woman. Is there any need or difference?

Then what does he hope to gain from marriage?

Next story, abeg.

I don't understand what point you're trying to make.

Same thing you're accusing him off women do too: ignore the boring/bland guys when they were hot in their youth and with a plethora of options on their trail only to start looking for such when they're ready to get hitched up.

Everyone has the right to reject or accept whomever and they shouldn't be shamed for it. Haba!

Raalsalghul:


I don't understand what point you're trying to make.

Some thing you're accusing him off women do too: ignore the good/boring/bland guys when they were hot hot in their youth and with a plethora of options on their trail only to start looking for such when they're ready to get hitched up.

Everyone has the right to reject or accept whomever they want and they shouldn't be shamed for it. Haba!

The point I am making is exactly what I'm not doing here. This. I'm shaming him! Isn't it obvious? Ohhh. Now, nobody should be shamed for being an advanced bachelor, huh?Because it's a man in question abi? But all manners of words can be hurled at Evening Newspapers? Or pretty or clubby and materialistic women when they make their choices of partners?

No problem @ first bolded. Let's both do the same thing. If you believe that, what are you quoting me for to disagree with? Since women do it, I'm only balancing the equation here. It's not an 'accusation' against him if it is not an accusation against women but facts-talking.

I don't want to see any grey areas, thank you.

Coming back with the express desire to find a wife leaves you vulnerable to wolves.

You're not too old so good luck.

oldienavie:
I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.