Blueelf:


They are not caught btw anything

Na their choosiness put them for that position

Everyone is choosy, including you.

oliviacute:
but it's the runs girls that are getting married every Saturday, life is really not balanced.

This is rue

Kai

perambulator:
1. demand outweighs supply, competition is fierce and especially for a woman, time is limited.
2. women with undesirable qualities.. temper, history, attitude, family/background etc
3. women with over blown expectations of men which is usually tied with no 4
4. women who overate themselves. Women get a lot of attention from men for sex, it does not mean you are desirable as a wife. many women confuse male attention with desirablity as a wife.
5. many women think because they are women a husband is automatic instead of asking the question, does the kind of man i want to marry want to marry a woman like me?

The bottom line is this: A woman does not find a husband...a man finds a wife. if a woman has conducted her affairs in a way that is desirable to men and her attitude is right, believe me she will not lack for GOOD suitors for marriage. If you have to "look" for husband you are doing (have done) something wrong such that men do not see a wife in you or else you will not be the one doing the searching. The job of a woman who wants to marry a desirable man is to conduct her affairs so as to put herself in a position to be found. Desirable women do not "look" for husbands, husbands find them. If you are "looking" for a husband, it's probably time to come to terms with the fact that you are not as desirable as you think you are and start to make the necessary adjustments.

The quicker you make those changes the better because for a woman, you get to a certain age where, the ship has sailed no matter what you do. You get to 35+ and all the men that could have married a woman of your age are already married, the ones that arent want a younger wife, so even if you suddenly find wisdom and decide to change your mindset or your ways, it's very likely too late because at that age husbands just dont exist.

Character alone like what many men think is not the sole or major determinant of marrying desirable men or marrying early for ladies.

Other factors play a role: Destiny/Will of God, Location of your man( he doesn't have to necessarily be in the same geographical location with you), and the time that God will link you up with him may take some time..., also, God knowing the lady best, maybe trying to PREPARE her Adam, to be suitable for her, so it will seem like her Adam is busy building& tending to his garden.....

Some women too don't want to do sex before marriage, it will be as if she is choosy, but this can cause delay in marriage for her too.

The end goal is for a happy marriage NOT how early one rushes into it as some are presenting gnashing their teeth for this rush.

Truth is, if God is preparing Indomie for a lady, it will be very fast to get, but u see, when God is preparing pounded yam type of husband for you, you gat to be patient as His timing is always right....

Farfalla:


Everyone is choosy, including you.

Yes but not overly choosy and cocky

Harddiskng:




@Pocohantas, All prejudice aside you know that the bolded is true. A case in point is my cousin, i have talked about her once or twice. When she was young and beautiful she used all the guys that came her way to catch trips. Now that is getting less beautiful by the day, she is now serious about getting a man.

One of her old suitors actually came back and confided in me about his intention. I consider him my brother (once our bond of friendship is strong you become my brother).

I reminded of when this girl was beautiful was the prize every one around her wanted, how badly she treated him, so she was so non-chalant, he couldn’t get through to her. She didn’t consider him in her prime, why is he considering her in when he is in his prime; great job, a car, sweet house, everything is going super well for him. I told him point blank that he deserves better. There are more beautiful and sensible babes and my guy-man reasoned with me

Trust me i told my cousin about this event, she cried her eyes out. I could see the anger in her eyes, but she knew the repercussion if she moved mad against me.

You can’t eat your cake and have it.

**************************************

By the way even from my set way back in university, there were girls that were not so fine (but they were really smart), they got married almost as soon as they were done with NYSC.

All these girls are still happily married, funny enough is the boss-chick, boss-bit*h that have trouble finding husband, even when they do the marriage doesn’t last up to two years.

God bless you bros

You saved a fellow man from heartache and a life-time worth of regret

You did no harm here

May God reward you greatly. You go prosper

capnies:
I THINK THAT OUR LADIES SHOULD STUDY A MAN FROM AFAR AND APPROACH HIM FOR MARRIAGE. THE ERA OF LADIES WAITING FOR THE RIGHT PERSON TO COME THEIR WAY IS OVER.

IF YOU SEE A MAN IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD, OFFICE, SCHOOL, CHURCH THAT YOU'RE CONVINCED IS YOUR TYPE TALK TO. HIM ABOUT IT.

YOU CAN START BY SLIPPING A PIECE OF PAPER WITH YOUR NUMBER CLEARLY WRITTEN CALL ME; WE NEED TO TALK

IF HE DIDN'T CALL NEXT TIME YOU SEE HIM ASK HIM WHAT HAPPENED, HE COULD MISPLACE THE PAPER, GIVE HIM THE NUMBER AGAIN

IF HE EVENTUALLY CALLS BOOK APPOINTMENT WITH HIM IN A PUBLIC PLACE, IF HE HONOURS IT PLEASE DON'T BE SHY TO TELL HIM YOUR MIND

YOU COULD START LIKE THIS: YOU ARE A VERY INTELLIGENT, HANDSOME, WELL BEHAVED MAN THAT I WOULD LOVE TO BE CLOSE TO...,....

PLEASE BUY HIM FOOD, ASK HIM THE TYPE OF SOUP HE LIKES, BUY THE SAME SOUP FOR YOURSELF

LADIES GOOD MEN ARE VERY FEW NOW SO IF YOU STUMBLE ON ONE DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO COME TO YOU GO TO HIM AND BE WISE

PLEASE DON'T USE THIS APPROACH FOR IGBO SMOKING, LESS LEARNED MEN

Ha Bros

No be this naija girls ooo

They would rather grow old and die alone than do this

ibechris:
If u get money marriage sweet well well.

If this is how your marriage is

Investigate if your wife truly loves you

All thos 'go and make money first an d ladies will come" bullshit will only attract hoes and gold-diggers

Women like Pocohantas are ready to be on this thread from morning till night arguing only God knows what, and picking up offense at any man that comments to her dissatisfaction..
Masking her true feelings. The gullible, naive ones will be fooled.

Pocohantas, you like these types of topics and hate them at the same time . It's a love-hate thing. The reasons why are not far-fetched.

Doing as if you do not desire love and marriage. Who you think you're fooling, boo?
Like that commenter said, you tactically avoid those who see through your farcade. If you do get to engage them, you dodge the points they make which perfectly represents you and your ordeals. But you would like to everytime attempt to insult men and list a million things that make them bad. That make them ' the reason you are not married '
We know you don't intend to source your potential ' Mr Right ' from Nairaland, so you throw caution to the wind most times. Offline, you might even be a toothless bulldog, acting so calm and collected, ladylike, around the men you feel are of a certain social class that appeal to your desires. Not that you are even of that social class or exposure. Those are the men you desire to own ( yes o, I had to use the word own) Is it not you again?

You deciphered what that other guy was trying to say. You're that smart. You knew he was subliminally speaking to you and those who are like you. You went into attack/counter mode. But of a truth, if you keep trying to score only those men who you see with other women, maybe of the elite class, you might end up updating your profile as you do yearly for the next fifteen years with the usual, " Evening Newspaper, 43 going on 44, 44 going....till it gets to 55 years of age. God forbid. No be prayer. It's not a wish, but you get what I mean.
Going by the kind of things you say here. It's not hard to know the only kind of men you want to approach you for courtship and marriage. What if that's not your life's path?? You will just end up getting angry and bitter if you force it to happen.
You can think that you are hated here on Nairaland, but that's not the truth. That's your headache sha. If you want to feel that way. It's just that some see through you and know that you are just trying to disguise. They can't help but repay you in your own coin sometimes. I hope you understand what I just implied?

Anyway, there's a reason why you are still where you are with regards to.....you know what. Could be something you did in the past. Sometimes, ladies who did certain things when they were much younger, knowing fully well that it was wrong, usually bear the consequences of that action later in life. I'm not saying you did. But, you know if you did or didn't. For others, it could also be a case of a spiritual limitation. Look in and do some soul-searching. Then seek for a way out. If only you will dedicate as much time to doing this , as you dedicate to knowing about all the flaws of Nigerian men and how terrible single guys can be. It's not about dating and knacking right now. Will he propose? Have you put a knife to your throat in terms of your high ( maybe impossible) expectations?

It's not like you do not know these things I speak of. Stubborn-head will not allow you to do the needful. If you like say it's not my business. I have said what I've said. Even if the entire Nairaland comes to your support, quoting me, I still know what I'm saying contains numerous truths. People like Pocahontas are ready to be in this thread from morning till night arguing God knows what, and picking up offense with any man that comments to her dissatisfaction..

Masking her true feelings. The gullible, naive ones will be deceived.

Pocahontas, you like these types of topics and hate them at the same time too. It's a love-hate thing. The reasons why are not far-fetched.
Doing as if you do not desire love and marriage. Who you think you're fooling, boo?
Like that commenter said, you tactically avoid those who see through your farcade. If you do get to engage them, you dodge the points they make which perfectly represents you and your ordeals. But you would like to attempt to insult men and list a million things that make them bad. That make them ' the reason you are not married '
We know you don't intend to source your potential ' Mr Right ' from Nairaland, so you throw caution to the wind most times. Offline, you might even be a toothless bulldog, acting so calm and collected, ladylike, around the men you feel are of a certain social class that appeal to your desires. Not that you are even of that social class or exposure. Those are the men you desire to own ( yes o, I had to use the word own) Is it not you again?

You deciphered what that other guy was trying to abstractly say . You're that smart. We know this already.
You knew he was subliminally speaking to you and those who are like you. You went into attack/counter mode. But of a truth, if you keep trying to score only those men who you see with other women, maybe of the elite class, you might end up updating your profile as you do yearly for the next fifteen years with the usual " Evening Newspaper, 43 going on 44, 44 going....till it gets to 55 years of age. God forbid. It's not a wish, but you get what I mean.
Going by the kind of things you say here. It's not hard to know the only kind of men you want to approach you for courtship and marriage. What if that's not your life's path?? You will just end up getting angry and bitter if you force it to happen.
You can think that you are hated here on Nairaland, but that's not the truth. That's your headache sha. If you want to feel that way. It's just that some see through you and know that you are just trying to disguise. They can't help but repay your own coin sometimes. I hope you understand what I just implied?

Anyway, there's a reason why you are still where you are with regards to.....you know what. Could be something you did in the past. Sometimes, ladies who did certain things when they were much younger, knowing fully well that it was wrong, usually bear the consequences of that action later in life. I'm not saying you did. But, you know if you did or didn't. For others, it could also be a case of a spiritual limitation. Look in and do some soul-searching. Then seek for a way out. If only you will dedicate as much time to doing this , as you dedicate to knowing about all the flaws of Nigerian men and how terrible single guys can be. It's not about dating and knacking right now. Will he propose? Have you put a knife to your throat in terms of your high ( maybe impossible) expectations?

It's not like you do not know these things I speak of. Stubborn-head will not allow you to do the needful. If you like say it's not my business. I have said what I've said. Even if the entire Nairaland comes to your support, quoting me, I still know what I'm saying contains numerous truths.
Say it's a long epistle. Anyone can come and say this too. No problemo. Ehn, I wanted it to be lengthy.
Read it.
I've delivered the message of the spirits. So Poco Lee, it's left for you to choose. You're not dragging one imaginary Nairaland Ironlady title with anyone. There's no trophy to be won in the end. Well all de*ctivate or abandon our accounts someday and leave behind all this encounters. You don't know if your ideal husband-to- be is somewhere viewing your e-battles on Nairaland. He will wonder if he'll be the head of the house in his own house. Well, that's if you're not the one who owns the house.
Best wishes!

FutureIsFemale:
For you to dig old posts shows how jobless you are.

Aunty, the guy caught you red-handed and you're now resorting to insults after you challenged him to dig it up

seyz91:
Truth is, marriage ain't meant for everyone

And that your friend talks like someone with fish brain

Most of what he said is true

It is funny when dolts quote you, you turn the heat on them and they try to gag you with “you don’t have an offline life. Blablabla”

When I say I don’t quote people I don’t like, it is for a reason. Don’t enter my lane and type useless epistles. I no dey quote una, na una dey jump around my mentions like monkeys. Struggling for my mention that you would NEVER get again.

Just look at the epistle one ediot typed, yet Pocohantas is the problem. I will stay on Nairaland and any thread for as long as I want. You can choke on it!

Niiade:


Hell no to enduring, The main fact is there are three things involved for people like your sister.
1. She is avoiding or friend-zoned alot of the men that could or be suitable for her (he is short, doesnt have money, he doesnt have a matching executive job, etc etc all those classes we place good men into and seek them wrong men with non important factors)
2. She is attracting those wrong men, so she is a relection of what she is getting and cant blame those men for approaching as thats what she is giving off.
3. She is relaxed and waiting, Women esp those that we tag as loose are ready and are out there looking for men, good men to settle with and will go to place where they can be to get them. how much time does she spending socalizing or being in gathering of where responsible young men will be, or she is at home or working and expect to meet her suppose wonderful suitor there, she needs to get out there, be available, approachable and in some cases ask the guy out for a date or drinks, abi we are now modern no more green light, go for the man you like no time o. you think side chick get the men from working and sitting at home after work na they are out there.

Oga you really don't know what you are saying, there is this guy who is asking for my hand in marriage probably because of one time, his friend locked him up on an empty stomach when his girlfriend came visiting and the guy was homeless and hungry, so he came to my room and I felt sorry for him and I prepared him something with my last card and anytime he comes to my room I do offer him what I have and whenever he is in need and I have it I will just give it out without having anything in mind. My landlord allowed him sleep in the security house.
Now he has secured a job and wants to marry me but I don't have any feelings for him but he is insisting that am the mother of his children and that God told him so .
Is getting to two years he has been asking for my hand in marriage and I said no but he wouldn't take no for an answer. His mother wants to see me and he is inviting me again this season since I couldn't make it last season but for me is not for marriage shaaaa because his parents wants to see me so am considering visiting him if not for nothing at least for old time sake.
Though I don't know if he lives same life style as his friend but I watch his friend come back as late as 1:am with different women. I watched almost all the women leave with saddened heart and I asked myself if he is any different from his friend though he latered got his own apartment after his friend locked him outside and he looked innocent but I doubt if he is any different from him.
They say show me your friend and I will tell you who you are.

Siofra, come, come, come o.

Eweeeeee. Na true you talk oh. Chimoo. Come and see.

Wait, Poco, na you that one type that thing for? Na watin? You owe am money abi you snatch im sugar daddy?

Wawu. It's truly a split personality something. In fact, this is worst. Thank God I jejely looked away oh and didn't get myself involved in ...

I read him taking swipes at you, too. Talmabout kinikan kinikan is classier than you, bla bla bla with the comparison and trying to make you feel inferior. I'm happy you didn't let him get to you, dear. Na their way. Trying to sow seeds of discord among women by pitting them together, but by the special grace and power of the Lord, their actions will always come to futility.

We support each other for life and continue to remain chummy and wicked coven members.

OBIPLUS:
That was then , today ladies will find this difficult.

Keep low and you'd get who/what you want.

How many guys want to marry into one room apartment with a separate kitchen ? How many gals want to endure with a few men who wish to marry into a room apartment with the description above? Everyone is just chasing shadows. Men too are busy craving a lifestyle which is often a mirage, before they think of getting married.

In my case, once God approved of our union with proofs even from more than one man of God who barely knew each other, we proceeded. I married my wife into a room with a separate kitchen outside. Once it rained in those days , we'd be busy diverting erosion away from the kitchen.

Today, we've achieved everything man has come to earth to achieve. I've dined with world leaders including Barak Obama on a special invitation to Washington DC. As I type this message, I'm inspecting my new edifice in lagos (the best in the whole estate). God has also blessed us with intelligent and God-fearing children all in a boarding secondary school in one of the best schools in Lagos.

My salary was 11k while my wife's was almost same when we got married. Barely a year after we got married, I began to change jobs like clothes and always with official cars, brand new to cap it all.

Money isn't everything when it comes to marriage too otherwise, DJ Cuppy wouldn't have been looking upandan for blind dates. It's God's institution. Try it and see things fall in pleasant places for you. Pray for your own and it would come, don't look at that pocket before you take a decision on this.

Its not God's "institution" as we have been fed. Its a choice....

Exodora:

Oga you really don't know what you are saying, there is this guy who is asking for my hand in marriage probably because of one time, his friend locked him up on an empty stomach when his girlfriend came visiting and the guy was homeless and hungry, so he came to my room and I felt sorry for him and I prepared him something with my last card and anytime he comes to my room I do offer him what I have and whenever he is in need and I have it I will just give it out without having anything in mind. My landlord allowed him sleep in the security house.
Now he has secured a job and wants to marry me but I don't have any feelings for him but he is insisting that am the mother of his children and that God told him so .
Is getting to two years he has been asking for my hand in marriage and I said no but he wouldn't take no for an answer. His mother wants to see me and he is inviting me again this season since I couldn't make it last season but for me is not for marriage shaaaa because his parents wants to see me so am considering visiting him if not for nothing at least for old time sake.
Though I don't know if he lives same life style as his friend but I watch his friend come back as late as 1:am with different women. I watched almost all the women leave with saddened heart and I asked myself if he is any different from his friend though he latered got his own apartment after his friend locked him outside and he looked innocent but I doubt if he is any different from him.
They say show me your friend and I will tell you who you are.

girls and these una feelings.... are u so fickle that u make major decisions on feelings that come and go?

okay you develop feelings for him and after 3 yrs the feelings fade - what happens? u move on to another guy

To each his own, marriage is not for everyone. The worst thing is to look back and regret.

lyricaldaboss:
To each his own, marriage is not for everyone. The worst thing is to look back and regret.

Marriage is indeed not for everyone.... and ur quite right about looking and regretting.

SmartGadgetz:

Na so you think am? This mindset get Kleg.
Babee, marriage is not everything.

no be so i think am, na wetin I dey see everyday.

pocohantas:
It is funny when dolts quote you, you turn the heat on them and they try to gag you with “you don’t have an offline life. Blablabla”

When I say I don’t quote people I don’t like, it is for a reason. Don’t enter my lane and type useless epistles. I no dey quote una, na una dey jump around my mentions like monkeys. Struggling for my mention that you would NEVER get again.

Just look at the epistle one ediot typed, yet Pocohantas is the problem. I will stay on Nairaland and any thread for as long as I want. You can choke on it!

All cover-ups.
Premium pains. And You know it, sweetie.
Your words give you out.
Truth hurts..yeah, yeah. We know.
You couldn't counter, so you got triggered and started dishing out insults. Anyway, it's your hallmark. Knew you would . The message has sha been delivered and cannot be taken back. You've got the message.

BTW, passive comments are still you replying to us .
Don't let anyone trying to console you on here to deceive you. They know too. That's why she came here to support you. If she didn't see the need, she wouldn't. Get tha point?
Again, best wishes! Husband will locate you. But pride will....ya already know.

Shey you thought you had mouth abi. Now they've put you on the spot you are fidgeting and skipping. Awful dodger
A lil taste of your own medicine and you are here crying fowl. Just a little oh. You never jam.

No one said you should leave the thread oo. Just coordinate your self , while you eagerly search for your other half.

Cc Pocohantas

Magnoliaa:
Siofra, come, come, come o.

Eweeeeee. Na true you talk oh. Chimoo. Come and see.

Wait, Poco, na you that one type that thing for? Na watin? You owe am money abi you snatch im sugar daddy?

Wawu. It's truly a split personality something. In fact, this is worst. Thank God I jejely looked away oh and didn't get myself involved in ...

I read him taking swipes at you, too. Talmabout kinikan kinikan is classier than you, bla bla bla with the comparison and trying to make you feel inferior. I'm happy you didn't let him get to you, dear. Na their way. Trying to sow seeds of discord among women by pitting them together, but by the special grace and power of the Lord, their actions will always come to futility.

We support each other for life and continue to remain chummy and wicked coven members.

Awww..girl support (more like grannies supporting one another)
You pitying her, I understand.
Your daddy is ' that one '
Next time face the person head-on. Don't be a coward.
A sister just trying be there for another sister. It's cute to watch. Lol
' wicked coven members' buhaha. In both of y'all dreams. Come let me show you the real coven dealings. Hehe.
Involve yourself in this and 'do anyhow' I'll tow the same line with you. Believe me.
You decide.

Magnoliaa:
Siofra, come, come, come o.

Eweeeeee. Na true you talk oh. Chimoo. Come and see.

Wait, Poco, na you that one type that thing for? Na watin? You owe am money abi you snatch im sugar daddy?

Wawu. It's truly a split personality something. In fact, this is worst. Thank God I jejely looked away oh and didn't get myself involved in ...

I read him taking swipes at you, too. Talmabout kinikan kinikan is classier than you, bla bla bla with the comparison and trying to make you feel inferior. I'm happy you didn't let him get to you, dear. Na their way. Trying to sow seeds of discord among women by pitting them together, but by the special grace and power of the Lord, their actions will always come to futility.

We support each other for life and continue to remain chummy and wicked coven members.

Together for life. They think this is 2010 when they could divide and bully ladies into deactivation. I love this generation of active female Nlders.

As for other vantage werey. No be me go tell am wetin go make am commit suicide.

pocohantas:


Together for life. They think this is 2010 when they could divide and bully ladies into deactivation. I love this generation of active female Nlders.

As for other vantage werey. No be me go tell am wetin go make am commit suicide.

I've been following this thread closely since, didn't want to comment but now I'm forced to.

I love this generation of active female NLDers.

Them dey give me joy steady.


@last paragraph maybe we should ask him the flavour of sniper he prefers.

oliviacute:
no be so i think am, na wetin I dey see everyday.

Then enter streets (start with me), you will see that all that glitters is not gold. Lol.

Don't be deceive by all that, know who you are, pursue your dreams, be great and happy. Believe me you will not see marriage as a big thing because good things like you is rare to see. That's why they would rush you.

folake4u:


I've been following this thread closely since, didn't want to comment but now I'm forced to.

I love this generation of active female NLDers.

Them dey give me joy steady.
@last paragraph maybe we should ask him the flavour of sniper he prefers.

I swear. They tried it with me and Coco, Buka, Ibk, Makydebbi, Klass, Mango… But we still dey as we dey. Some of us even maintain rapport offline. They will soon remember me and you.

He should use the one he wanted to use before. Person wey loneliness from lack of genuine friendship and love wan kill. He should tell me just one living thing he has kept in his adult life for 3 years. Not even a dog or a plant.

pocohantas:


I swear. They tried it with me and Coco, Buka, Ibk, Makydebbi, Klass, Mango… But we still dey as we dey. Some of us even maintain rapport offline. They will soon remember me and you.

He should use the one he wanted to use before. Person wey loneliness from lack of genuine friendship and love wan kill. He should tell me just one living thing he has kept in his adult life for 3 years. Not even a dog or a plant.

AHH those ladies up there are legendary. The way they trolled Makydeb was on another level. JEEZ!

They've started coming for me already. One wrote diary post for me that I'm going to Abuja to continue being an ashewo, since Abuja get plenty men. Na person screenshot am show me for WhatsApp yesterday.

You know it's the holidays season again and people who hate it most are lonely people
He go dey alright las las.

Harddiskng:




@Pocohantas, All prejudice aside you know that the bolded is true. A case in point is my cousin, i have talked about her once or twice. When she was young and beautiful she used all the guys that came her way to catch trips. Now that is getting less beautiful by the day, she is now serious about getting a man.



One of her old suitors actually came back and confided in me about his intention. I consider him my brother (once our bond of friendship is strong you become my brother).

I reminded of when this girl was beautiful was the prize every one around her wanted, how badly she treated him, so she was so non-chalant, he couldn’t get through to her. She didn’t consider him in her prime, why is he considering her in when he is in his prime; great job, a car, sweet house, everything is going super well for him. I told him point blank that he deserves better. There are more beautiful and sensible babes and my guy-man reasoned with me

Trust me i told my cousin about this event, she cried her eyes out. I could see the anger in her eyes, but she knew the repercussion if she moved mad against me.

You can’t eat your cake and have it.

**************************************

By the way even from my set way back in university, there were girls that were not so fine (but they were really smart), they got married almost as soon as they were done with NYSC.

All these girls are still happily married, funny enough is the boss-chick, boss-bit*h that have trouble finding husband, even when they do the marriage doesn’t last up to two years.

So wots ur gain if ur so called cousin remained single?? Perhaps she realised her mistakes and seek God for forgiveness and God gave her Anoda chance bt u chased the man away..... Wot u did is pure wickedness my dear. U could av just left the man marry her since he willingly chose to come back for her

Farfalla:



This is just the hard truth. A summary of the reality.

No one wants to settle down with a partner they don't desire. Many will stretch the search for who they desire for as long as they can, but settling down for an undesirable partner, they won't.

Others are talking of feminism, others materialism. All na wash. If a feminist (by Nairaland standards) meets a man she desires, she'll denounce feminism just so as she can accommodate him in her world. If the man is not who she desires, she'd rather be a hard-core feminist if that's what it takes to keep such men off.

Mock her, Shiloh-shame her, age-shame her. E no go work, especially if she can support herself financially. The reality of living with an undesirable partner is worse than being single for many women.

Women are really not that hard to understand.

U are one of the few pple wey get sense for this nl.... if to say i know u, i for buy you one cold origin cos how on earth am I supposed to settle with someone i less desire.... if the man like make e get money, if he like make e poor... if I don’t like you, m nt doing.

Magnoliaa:
Siofra, come, come, come o.

Eweeeeee. Na true you talk oh. Chimoo. Come and see.

Wait, Poco, na you that one type that thing for? Na watin? You owe am money abi you snatch im sugar daddy?

Wawu. It's truly a split personality something. In fact, this is worst. Thank God I jejely looked away oh and didn't get myself involved in ...

I read him taking swipes at you, too. Talmabout kinikan kinikan is classier than you, bla bla bla with the comparison and trying to make you feel inferior. I'm happy you didn't let him get to you, dear. Na their way. Trying to sow seeds of discord among women by pitting them together, but by the special grace and power of the Lord, their actions will always come to futility.

We support each other for life and continue to remain chummy and wicked coven members.

Yes we stand here together!!

No male nairalander is going to sow seeds of discord among us.

He's too boring to be engaged sef!

Blueelf:


If this is how your marriage is

Investigate if your wife truly loves you

All thos 'go and make money first an d ladies will come" bullshit will only attract hoes and gold-diggers

If u are poor guy,that is ur own.
For me,it is good to have money and live comfortably at the same time. Wetin be marriage when u are very poor.

BRATISLAVA:
If you thought your friends reply was shallow OP, you have unleashed the depths of foolish male thought on the forum.

The thought that the problem lies only with the unmarried lady, and not on their unrealistic expectations once it concerns women.

Good girls are the losers in all these discussions, and foolish males will always say they have bad characters and were snobbish to feel good about how they can't afford the high class ladies they feel should fall at their feet for them because they are males. The truth is that men like prostitutes. Any woman who doesn't give off such vibes will likely not get married fast. Most of the unmarried ladies, whatever their age, are the good ones.

It's too bad hypocrisy and God complexes and stupidity won't let the men on the forum admit the truth, rather than their regurgitated opinions on why women in Nigeria are old and unmarried.

If women were half as choosy as men, no man would be married. You need to see the kinds of people women stoop to marry.

Men like prostitutes relative to marriage, wow! e choke lets say we decide to run an hypothesis, between clubs/bar and church were do men source wife from the most, what will the stats be ?
what you don't know, simply ask or just hush, i guess men love decent gurls with vibe of a pornstarr is what you misconstrue even if i explain i still think being a woman you lack the capacity to understand our ways. men want to marry a decent gurl that is flexible enough to give a pornstarr vibe. i have a virgin female friend that married one of my friends 2yrs ago, today she don turn giiran for him, we love what we can personalize and when it cums to r/ship, sex is macro for men, we want 2 in 1 beko
Good gurlz are losers cos they don't know when & how to be flexible, people who are tew rigid tends to lose out of life in every sphere.

Farfalla:


LOL!
Men are picky. They want Agbani Darego but expect her not to be picky. They want Nengi to suffer with them, not the tomato seller.

Men are picky, indeed !!
between Rich men marrying poor gurls and rich women marrying riff raff, what is the stats ?
For a better clarification, between elite men marrying dropout gurlz and elite women settling for a school dropout what is the stats in nigeria

IF Ned could go as low as regina and a whole pilot settled for omotola when she was nobody, yet men her picky, aunty linda can't even settle for a millionaire, c'mon tasha thinks she deserve bill gate of this world, aunty toke makinwa is somewhere waiting new men edition abeg swerve.