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Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by ImaIma1(f): 8:41am On Dec 06, 2021 |
This inlaw and wife thing will always be that way, especially when the man's family sees the wife as an outsider that came to interrupt their family. You can't come to my house with your nose raised and with obvious lack of love for me and you expect me to be free with you. It can't happen. I will just avoid you for peace sake. It's not about being an inlaw or not. It is more about the character and attitude of people involved. I know people that are close to their MILs than their own mums. I have an inlaw who goes straight to the pot when she's around. We are so close that she will help herself with any food she sees. Na beg I dey beg her. . But some inlaws won't even be able to try it because of their wicked hearts. But here, you guys expect the women to treat their inlaws like their family, when the family doesn't treat her like their daughter. If they see her as a family member, they won't try to find wrong when they visit. They would rather cover up. This topic sef don dey tire person. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Timekeeper: 8:44am On Dec 06, 2021 |
ImaIma1: U r deviating from the point... Naturally, most women don't accomodate their in law well.... I'm nt talking abt the In law pokenosing into their marriage or they don't see her as family 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Mariangeles(f): 8:50am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper: But then, there are two sides to it. You can't talk about one side, and expect the other side not to come up. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by ImaIma1(f): 8:53am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper: Deviating ke. Did you read my post at all? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:54am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper:....Let's agree that naturally most women don't like accomodating their in-laws. My question to you is how do you handle such assuming it's happening to you? I asked because the way a man handles such a case will determine if the problem stops or continues. |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by lereinter(m): 8:58am On Dec 06, 2021 |
All this na old fashion archaic issues Which couple wants either of their parents to come stay with them now 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Timekeeper: 9:02am On Dec 06, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: The truth is that, one just has to be the man of ur house.. Don't let ur wife mess up your family and pamper her own family.. If she can't maltreat her family, den I can't do same to mine.. Las las.. I will pay her back in her own coin... U restrict my family, I do same to her.. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Timekeeper: 9:03am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Mariangeles: This Is a natural sumtin for some women... It didn't steer up from her in law not accomodating her or messing up her house |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Timekeeper: 9:04am On Dec 06, 2021 |
lereinter: To read is a big problem for you... Now réad again and give us a sensible comment |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Beegrace: 9:08am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Same thing playing out with my neighbor.. you actually hit the nail on it's head.. Timekeeper: |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Segkem2013(m): 9:09am On Dec 06, 2021 |
I gave money to my wife to send to our parents. She gave mine 1/3 and hers 2/3. My money ooo. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:10am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper:....Lol. Your approach in tackling it can work but how about bringing both your wife and your siblings together and actually find out the remote cause of the animosity? Like I said,your approach is ok because I have used the exact means and it work but only for a short term. |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by rave1043: 9:10am On Dec 06, 2021 |
I don comot hand for anything women 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by marsup: 9:11am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Because most of them are from poor homes. You also forgot to include that, their poor asses married into a rich family, but they will never allow their kids date from an average family. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by mightyhaze: 9:13am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Thank God say my wife na spec.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by AlphaMale666: 9:14am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Nobody force you Marry. Your marriage, your problem. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Nobody: 9:14am On Dec 06, 2021 |
That can happen when the man has chosen to be weak. Some husband family members can overdo sha. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Trendy05(f): 9:15am On Dec 06, 2021 |
It's not about being married. A stingy and self centred person will always be one. Marriage doesn't change people's giving mentality. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Nobody: 9:15am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Nigerian men causing all the ills in Nigeria, yet they keep blaming women. African countries are wary of taking down their borders and uniting because of fear of Nigerian men importing their evil ways to their land, yet their problem is women. Huge iroko tree in their eyes, yet looking at the speck in the woman’s eyes. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Mariangeles(f): 9:15am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper: Well, the truth is most women, if not all, are naturally more territorial and possessive of their space. It becomes wicked and selfish when she cannot make the effort to accommodate her in-laws, but can her own people. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by redcliff: 9:15am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper: you no even add how them dey treat househelps!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Mariangeles(f): 9:17am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Segkem2013: Why you go give your wife money to send to your parents? You no fit do am? 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Prince001(m): 9:19am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper: It does happen but na only mumu husband will allowed that to happen!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by PrinceOfLagos: 9:20am On Dec 06, 2021 |
ipobarethieves: No be lie 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Nobody: 9:20am On Dec 06, 2021 |
pocohantas: Always bias. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by redcliff: 9:20am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper: his family matters slightly more than his wifes family but he has to find a balance but for a man to say that, he is a foool. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Timekeeper: 9:21am On Dec 06, 2021 |
redcliff: Honestly some wives are wicked |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by ImaIma1(f): 9:21am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Segkem2013: You know the kind of person your wife is and you gave her that task. Why didn't you send it yourself? So that you'd come and throw her to the dogs on Nairaland for bashing? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Timekeeper: 9:21am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Thank you Maria... This is my point exactly @the bolded |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by joyandfaith: 9:22am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper: It is only stupid men that marry or being controlled by wicked women. My principles!!!! 1.My wife earning is for herself, her children, her parents and siblings. If she wants to assist me, fine. Law of financial independence 2.My earning is for myself, my wife, my children, my parents, my siblings . If i want to assist her parents and siblings, it depend on how she and her people relate with my siblings and parents. Law of reciprocity. 3. My people have access to my personal room while her people have access to her personal room and kitchen. Law of privacy. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by redcliff: 9:23am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper: my mother had two househelps at a time and one time it was 3 as the first and most senior was leaving but that first one stayed with us for many many years, she became family sort of. i can never forget that woman. even up till today, she dey reap the fruit of her labor. she knows this. i need not say more. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Tadeus(m): 9:24am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper: Their wickedness and selfishness is what's killing dem. Now look at it from this perspective, Maria got married to John, Maria did not want to see any of her husband siblings around her husband. Maria gave birth to beautiful 3kids. All the kids are boys. They grow up and settled down with the love of their lives. Maria cannot visit any of her son because their wives don't want her around her son's which is their husband. Karma is b*tch you will reap what you sow 3 Likes |
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