Timekeeper:


I av never seen any of your comments Dt depicts sense... Never seen one...



See life... Some women become demons when they finally settle

Timekeeper:
I think there is a evil that reside in a lady once she gets married... As in, some married women are so selfish and wicked... S

Let me give these instances;

1. Their own brothers and sisters come to her husband home and there is no issue.. He/she (wife siblings) has unrestricted access to everything in the house since it's her sister's husband house.. But when the husband siblings come, they have restricted access to some things in the house.. Any attempt to go futher, the wife start bringing up attitude towards them..

2. The wife mother comes and she is free to stay as long as she wants but if the husband mother comes, the selfish wife is already asking the husband when will mama leave for her place....

3. The husband sends money to her family, no problem, the husband sends to his family, then there is need for him to be accountable for the money sent to his own parents oooo..

4. Husband sponsors wife siblings to school and all is fine.. Husband sponsors his own siblings and the wife develops hatred automatically towards the sibling bcox she thinks they are draining her husband resources..


Some married women are wicked soul in disguise. Bad enough, you wunt see these attitudes in them until they are married.

I still wonder and ask; why are some married woman so selfish and demonic in nature?

yusluvad:
Good woman. May God continue to bless you...

Iyaebe:
kikikiki you don't like truth abi?Well,I already know my future husband's people will not like me so I'm prepared and patiently waiting. As for me I'll always be alert so that I will not be caught unawares

KiNg0G:
Oh lord, deliver us from Jezebels, like the one up there.

Timekeeper:
I think there is a evil that reside in a lady once she gets married... As in, some married women are so selfish and wicked... S

Let me give these instances;

1. Their own brothers and sisters come to her husband home and there is no issue.. He/she (wife siblings) has unrestricted access to everything in the house since it's her sister's husband house.. But when the husband siblings come, they have restricted access to some things in the house.. Any attempt to go futher, the wife start bringing up attitude towards them..

2. The wife mother comes and she is free to stay as long as she wants but if the husband mother comes, the selfish wife is already asking the husband when will mama leave for her place....

3. The husband sends money to her family, no problem, the husband sends to his family, then there is need for him to be accountable for the money sent to his own parents oooo..

4. Husband sponsors wife siblings to school and all is fine.. Husband sponsors his own siblings and the wife develops hatred automatically towards the sibling bcox she thinks they are draining her husband resources..


Some married women are wicked soul in disguise. Bad enough, you wunt see these attitudes in them until they are married.

I still wonder and ask; why are some married woman so selfish and demonic in nature?

ImaIma1:
This inlaw and wife thing will always be that way, especially when the man's family sees the wife as an outsider that came to interrupt their family.

You can't come to my house with your nose raised and with obvious lack of love for me and you expect me to be free with you. It can't happen. I will just avoid you for peace sake.

It's not about being an inlaw or not. It is more about the character and attitude of people involved. I know people that are close to their MILs than their own mums.

I have an inlaw who goes straight to the pot when she's around. We are so close that she will help herself with any food she sees. Na beg I dey beg her. . But some inlaws won't even be able to try it because of their wicked hearts.

But here, you guys expect the women to treat their inlaws like their family, when the family doesn't treat her like their daughter. If they see her as a family member, they won't try to find wrong when they visit. They would rather cover up.

This topic set don dey tire person.

chii8:


Toor.... I'm not good oooo

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Any man who allows the woman he married to be dictating how things should be done in their home is a very big disgrace to men.

Men stop complaining about your wife's attitudes towards your family members and take charge.

Make my wife try am nah.

KiNg0G:
Oh lord, deliver us from Jezebels, like the one up there.

ImaIma1:


Very wrong of her. A smart woman would send more to her husband's family.

Iyaebe:
kikikiki you don't like truth abi?Well,I already know my future husband's people will not like me so I'm prepared and patiently waiting. As for me I'll always be alert so that I will not be caught unawares

OluwaJohn77:
You are correct, i lost my Job around March 2021, my sister invited me for Easter celebration in which I turn down, but I later visit them after Easter celebration, few months later my sister now begin to show me some negative attitude in which I clear her On how I invested my time, energy and resources on their wedding but the husband didn't want me to leave their vicinity; that is woman for you they believe they have arrived......I don't like visiting in-law home

Tallesty1:
Some taken..... And I will beat you later. Every sin must he punished.




Okay, let me get this straight.
Assuming you're right on the @Emboldened, so if I visit my married sister, I am good since the woman's side tend to be more good but if I visit my married brother I will become bad?

What am I missing?

pocohantas:


You’ll be fine. Don’t forget to change your pillowcase regularly. They are a breeding ground for bacterias, even without teary moisture.

#PocoCares

Mariangeles:


Why you go give your wife money to send to your parents?
You no fit do am?

Myexdisturbs:

But it is your sister not an in-law who treated u this way.i hope you understood the op

Respect55:
what do you mean by bacterias?
Singular form is bacterium and plural form is bacteria.

Emaprince:
Whats OCD?

Your last paragraph clearly shows that women are the problem. You already concluded that the husbands people are the worst..even without a personal experience. You never reckoned that these husbands people will go to their married sisters place and feel much more at home? But the reverse will be the case at their married brothers place.

pocohantas:
I am not even being biased here, we see it everyday. Also I hope I get to understand why you guys only visit the brother working in Shell. The one that is down with a stroke and has just his wife taking care of him, you never visit those ones. Why?


OCD = Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

lorhema:


This is, I believe, the crux of the matter. The wife, having been treated as as outsider or unwanted guest, feels no need to care or look out for her in-laws.

Meanwhile, some in-laws believe that they have full rights in their brother's
home and disregard the iyawo's rights in her own home.

The situation the OP posted is created.
Dealing with it will require walking back to the beginning and righting the wrongs.

ImaIma1:


I don't speak hypothetically on these issues.

I always had the idea of inlaws being close especially because my sister got the best inlaws. You can't differentiate her inlaws from we her siblings.

But I wasn't lucky in my case. In fact, it was like I came to interrupt. It's not an assertion, neither is it senseless.

After being burnt a couple of times because I wanted to be family, I just gave up.

The funny thing is that even their son and brother was trying to shield me and codedly trying to make me not get close. But no, I wanted another family.

When I saw problem, he was just quiet like "I told you so". I don't disrespect them but a safe distance relationship has been established.

If they come, I'm cordial but very quiet. I just make sure the kids know and relate well with them.

Each family have their peculiarities that are different from others. It's not a "one size fits all" issue.

OluwaJohn77:


Yes.......We are talking about married women here; because is my Sister i should hide reality

pocohantas:


Because contrary to popular opinion, men are not smart. They DO NOT have sense.

ezechi24:


i pity the simp wey go put you for house?.....i know you not in any serious relationship reason well make reasonable man fit marry you ...instead of the junkies you roam arround with over there.