Lostchild:
Timekeeper

Women are naturally selfish and wicked in nature.

98% of them has no unconditional love.

OluwaJohn77:
You are correct, i lost my Job around March 2021, my sister invited me for Easter celebration in which I turn down, but I later visit them after Easter celebration, few months later my sister now begin to show me some negative attitude in which I clear her On how I invested my time, energy and resources on their wedding but the husband didn't want me to leave their vicinity; that is woman for you they believe they have arrived......I don't like visiting in-law home

Tallesty1:
Way to go.

Nah men dey allow that rubbish. I remember sitting down with my two brothers, younger one and immediate elder one that just got married. We were to discuss a family project but oga said that it's got nothing to do with him because he's a married man now and his family and the wife's family come first.

We shock.

But I and my younger one played him two aside in everything. It was like he stopped to exist.

Last last when the pepper in his wife ripped, no be person tell am to find us.

Tallesty1:
You this lawyer.

Many married women will not allow their husband's siblings to come near their kitchen. I think it's in the op. I have seen people, women, complain online that their husband's siblings entered kitchen to fetch food for themselves.

You're just trying to rope it on men and its not right so let's keep blood relations aside since we are going to be bias in it.


Why do married men find it more difficult to settle their apprentices "boy boy" than the married ones?

Perhaps this will shed some light on what the OP is on about.

Boys who serve married men suffer more, starve, get beaten more, are likely to go home empty handed than those that serve single guys.

Why is it so?

Pataricatering:
why are you lying like this? Na wa o
This your story is embellished, you yourself know where you added the sugar and salt to sweeten.this gist ..take.it.easy.with the lies ehn

StreetFight:


Yet, men are pulling every woman's pants and spreading the legs. Tell me where the women's sense dey.

riverbird:
I will never forget an incident that happened when I was ones staying with my married bro, I asked for some money to take care of something from bro, as he was giving me the money he heard the sound of wify coming to my utmost suprise bro asked me to hide the the money ,.

Timekeeper:


U r deviating from the point...


Naturally, most women don't accomodate their in law well.... I'm nt talking abt the In law pokenosing into their marriage or they don't see her as family

JONNYSPUTE:
....Let's agree that naturally most women don't like accomodating their in-laws.

My question to you is how do you handle such assuming it's happening to you?

I asked because the way a man handles such a case will determine if the problem stops or continues.

Pataricatering:
how much time have you men dedicated to talking about yahoo , discouraging young men from cult mentoring young men , policing boys ? instead you spend all.day every day harassing women , policing and measuring female vaginas etc. If u guys spent one tenth the time you use to harass women on policing young boys yahoo, rape and cultism etc will reduce.
Can you people just leave women alone ..

redcliff:


you no even add how them dey treat househelps!!

Tadeus:


Their wickedness and selfishness is what's killing dem.

Now look at it from this perspective, Maria got married to John, Maria did not want to see any of her husband siblings around her husband. Maria gave birth to beautiful 3kids. All the kids are boys. They grow up and settled down with the love of their lives. Maria cannot visit any of her son because their wives don't want her around her son's which is their husband.

Karma is b*tch you will reap what you sow

Timekeeper:
I think there is a evil that reside in a lady once she gets married... As in, some married women are so selfish and wicked... S

Let me give these instances;

1. Their own brothers and sisters come to her husband home and there is no issue.. He/she (wife siblings) has unrestricted access to everything in the house since it's her sister's husband house.. But when the husband siblings come, they have restricted access to some things in the house.. Any attempt to go futher, the wife start bringing up attitude towards them..

2. The wife mother comes and she is free to stay as long as she wants but if the husband mother comes, the selfish wife is already asking the husband when will mama leave for her place....

3. The husband sends money to her family, no problem, the husband sends to his family, then there is need for him to be accountable for the money sent to his own parents oooo..

4. Husband sponsors wife siblings to school and all is fine.. Husband sponsors his own siblings and the wife develops hatred automatically towards the sibling bcox she thinks they are draining her husband resources..


Some married women are wicked soul in disguise. Bad enough, you wunt see these attitudes in them until they are married.

I still wonder and ask; why are some married woman so selfish and demonic in nature?

Origin:
when you consider the attitude of some families you will realize that its not because it is a side of the family, rather it is the mentality.

i grew up taking my brother's and uncle's wives as my sister and aunties.

but where a small girl or boy will be calling a grown up - my wife and will want to treat are as a slave.....


you do the maths there will always be problem....

they will never help out, eat and leave the dishes and housework for "our wife" no matter the age gap. Open your eyes and see the real problem.


Same goes to bosses who call their employees "my boy" or colleagues that say "my dear" to show superiority. You all need to calm down and know that the future no certain for anybody.

Mutual respect is key.

Pataricatering:
we should add how men of the house sexually abuse housemaids too

Myexdisturbs:

Yes that's the natural thing and no need to hide it.
We can tolerate our siblings far more than in-laws and it's normal .you know this

Mariangeles:


Has he ever tried to reach out again?

ImaIma1:


I wish the bolded could work. If each person can let go of their preconceived notions or judgement and live peacefully.

People fail to see the part where the wife is treated like an outsider but they expect her to treat them like family. It should come from both sides.

Pataricatering:
we should add how men of the house sexually abuse housemaids too

pocohantas:


The truth is that I would be too busy enjoying retirement with my husband for your wishes to come through.

She should feel free to play badminton with her husband (my son).

No disrespect taken.

Timekeeper:


I still maintain, there is an evil Dt reside in some married women....... *Some*

StreetFight:


Yet, men are pulling every woman's pants and spreading the legs. Tell me where the women's sense dey.

OvertheTop:



LOL....You Obviously CAN NOT Stay with a MAN( Not to talk of Husband...)

Its as Clear as a Bright New Day!

Be open to the Idea of being alone at Retirement.....(that's most likely to be your Case)

Timekeeper:


Person wey no get him bearing again... Wife wey don leave am tey tey... His life is never the same again...


But for me, I am less concerned.... I have my life to live...

Pataricatering:
this is plain dishonest - have you asked whether her in laws treated her well.for.her.not.to like them ? A lot.of.you will.come.online.and.be acting brand new like we don't know.the way society allows.wives.to.be disrespected by husbands family

tradepunter:


With all due respect that's a senseless assertion.... Why would a family see their son getting married as someone interrupting their family

The bar just keeps getting low with the way most of your niaja ladies speak...

Blood is thicker than water.... You have a life time to build with your partner to raise kids in the same format.

Respect his family like you respect yours... No stupid woman will make me turn my back at my family when they need my help...

Just the way I won't want my kids to turn there backs at each other when any is in need of help...

I will take care of my wife and kids along with my family.... If she nu like am, she can fk off

SmartPolician:

Create a thread for it.
Don't come to someone else's thread and start wailing.

Ubanz:

'Increasing crime rate among men and women'