EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

Stop searching for a wife. Continue your daily hustle and mingle a little, also visit close friends and hang out moderately without the aim of finding a wife then you'll find your soul mate.

Greatersttar:

Sometimes arguing with someone about ur personal decisions can be tiring. U are doing the right thing in my own opinion. I myself will either marry a hardworking lady or someone I could invest in today so she can also be a financial pillar of the family tomorrow

I don't know for him oh, he wants this argument to continue maybe he fails to see it from my own angle.

oke2018:
Exactly, infact I don't want to talk about it , it's a long story

fit be say him parents no want make he marry nondeeper

Isaiah‬ ‭4:1‬ ‭GNTD (When that time comes, seven women will grab hold of one man and say, “We can feed and clothe ourselves, but please let us say you are our husband, so that we won't have to endure the shame of being unmarried).

Virusvetty:
fit be say him parents no want make he marry nondeeper

we actually met in Dlcf

Na that church own get me. A thief?

9ja single ladies no get joy ,....

Boss13:


She is old for marriage. What was she doing in her 20s?

Hhmmn thats a long story, but to answer your question. At 23, a guy came with his family couples with kolanuts to show interest in marrying her,at 29 when we finally arrange for their marriage, guy impregnate someone and ran off

Have you tried iya ebe ? Her wife material is foreign

EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

TheGreatOne90:

Is always about sex and looks, for you ladies. Most of you have terrible attitude

Most i agree. But im saying that i also know the types that believe and hold on to the belief that says "bed undifiled" na money dey make man fine and the attitude, no one is perfect but some got good morals. Believe it or not bro.

nkemdi89:

What thing you are not getting my happiness and fulfillment should come first before other things , you want me to go into a marriage when I am not ready based on those reasons. I should live for me first.

What Readiness do you need? You keep thinking and acting like a man. Unfortunately, you are a woman. A woman is ready for marriage immediately she comes of age. What you are actually saying is that you are not woman enough to be a wife. What part don't you understand.

What stops you from getting married and then getting a job. Except your plan is to get an average man and by average I mean a man who is not a good earner. If you have the eyes and head to pick a good earner why should you be bother about the financial concerns - that's a man's job.

You are going to remain single for a long time because you are yet to understand a woman's role in a marriage. If you truly do - you would be able to spot a potential provider male and get married. You are either looking for an average man to control.

I am speaking based on my life long experience on earth and the social dynamics that exist between men and women. I wonder why women are now concerned about the affairs of men. Feminism has truly destroyed women.

Topeonline24:
Hhmmn thats a long story, but to answer your question. At 23, a guy came with his family couples with kolanuts to show interest in marrying her,at 29 when we finally arrange for their marriage, guy impregnate someone and ran off

At 23 she had a marriage proposal. What happened? Why was the proposal declined.

Now that she is 30 and her eggs are old. Why would a reasonable man avoid younger women to marry an older one. What is so special about her than compensates her youth and the youth of alternative choices for men.

Virusvetty:

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U fit break up with am small
Use dat test if she loves u

In times of love she loves me more than the way she loves herself, she have rejected many people with money because of me, she once had problem with her parents because she rejected a suitor that promised to build house for the parents because of me and she have told me that she don't want to be answering her surname during her next birthday, as it is now many are still coming

jawalis:

C’mon baby. You don’t have to be that way, how can you even think I’ll chose anyone over you, pls don’t listen to anyone my love. I want you to know how blessed I feel to have you. and, in any other lifetime, I would still choose to fall in love with you. For you I make this promise, my sweetheart, that I will never leave you and I will always be your support, protector, your other half. I've been waiting for you for so long, and now that you are here, I will never ever let you go denique, We both know that life is not always fair. We know that there will come a time when we have to face trials right, but if you can hold my hands with you; we’ll overcome. You are my happiness, a very special blessing God has given to me. I love you so much and will always love until forever. That's a promise that I’ll surely going to keep forever in my heart.

Chai am heartbroken I can't eat (me that just finished eating two raps of amala .. )somebody pls help

Kriss216:

Is wumi2017 aware of this

Am heartbroken and that pumpumking warned me o

Vinnie2000:


Your issue is DESPERATION!

You are too Desperate and Anxious and it's probably affecting your relationship with Ladies! :

A Friend of mine falls in dis category! He meets a lady, minutes later, he is asking whether she can Pound yams, cook egusi soup and Strapp babies on her back!

His Body Language is NEVER relaxed! And ladies get scared because most of dem likes some coolness and Nastiness in a Guy!

So I suspect you are like my Friend! I always tell him
Just be Free when u meet a Girl.
Act like a Potential Boyfriend, not a Class Monitor or Journalist!

She will open up Naturally and from there, you guys decide what you want from the relationship!

Open what up exactly?

Skyfornia:
Omo..when a man is ready for marriage...you will know good woman is scarce

I recently broke up with my gf due to her bad attitude, laziness and unwillingness to get acquainted with vocational skills. Am happy the burden is off my neck. I'm a free man, free from drama, free from her unending and insatiable demands. Free from a big hole in the pocket. Before January ends, I'd find a replacement who's ready and serious about marriage.

EkehPraise:

Wallet and Earbuds

I remember this story of yours on another thread.

heniford2:
the problem started when you have the mindset "Am looking for a woman to settle down" look kill that mentality if not u will not find anyone suitable for u start making friends and keep it on friendship level u will be surprise as how life unfolds for you bro. good luck merry Xmas stay alive!

How can a good mindset/intention be a problem? We just like to turn things on its head with our over sabi attitude. The problem is not his, it's those ladies out there.

EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

My brother, na when you dey find wife you go know say girls plenty but wives few.

Na when you dey find wife you go understand why Bible talk say "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord"

Just start dey follow God talk, as your personal search no work out, turn it over to God bro!

Validated:

Just go to a river bank, collect clay, mold her and ask God to breath into her. You are so selective and I guess even if a dozen angels come your way, you would find some fault. My question is, are you perfect? You seek perfection ... tooo! Guess you will run into a pretending demon if you continue in this manner of finding faults.
You have been in church and cannot find, been in hangout, you cannot find, then go to brothel

I guess he should marry the thief or settle down with the lazy modafocker, because he wants to overlook their faults? He doesn't seek perfection. He needs someone who is compactible, there's a difference.
You on the other hand, can go ahead and marry a witch, it's your funeral.

oke2018:
You can send me an email

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Clinghton:
Take your mind off looking for wife, you would meet one unexpectedly, that's how these things work.

Honestly, I never understand guys who goes out looking for "relationships"

EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

You've been looking in the 'wrong' places. I'm here by the way.

Kirkman:

Do kindly send me an SMS on +2349070531633

ok

Boss13:


At 23 she had a marriage proposal. What happened? Why was the proposal declined.

Now that she is 30 and her eggs are old. Why would a reasonable man avoid younger women to marry an older one. What is so special about her than compensates her youth and the youth of alternative choices for men.

The guy we all hope she will marry waste her time for good 7yrs. Dont be too hasty to judge

nini007:
Stop searching for a wife. Continue your daily hustle and mingle a little, also visit close friends and hang out moderately without the aim of finding a wife then you'll find your soul mate.

It's one of those weird things where if u search u won't find but if u don't search u find....I agree with you....

Topeonline24:
The guy we all hope she will marry waste her time for good 7yrs. Dont be too hasty to judge

I asked questions not judgement. I understand there is more to the story. However, if someone comes with a marriage proposal and then a delay, it is an indication of unseriousness. A marriage proposal is actually followed by a marriage and the time difference is typically months and not years.

FOJEM:
'Settle down'! That is one hell of a phrase. I wonder how many married men have actually settled down. You need to pray, fast and allow yourself to be led by The Spirit of God. Any man who marries the wrong woman has already sentenced himself to life in hell!

Does praying to God guarantee a good wife? I need an honest answer.

Where is Mosdii and FakeProphet? Their attention are needed here. Someone should quote them pls..

kurlz:
Yes its scare because you want a piece of Nicki Minaj inside Chioma Jesus with a touch of Kim kardashian seasoned with Mercy Chinwo.

You think far! exactly what I tell some guyz.

jawalis:

C’mon baby. You don’t have to be that way, how can you even think I’ll chose anyone over you, pls don’t listen to anyone my love. I want you to know how blessed I feel to have you. and, in any other lifetime, I would still choose to fall in love with you. For you I make this promise, my sweetheart, that I will never leave you and I will always be your support, protector, your other half. I've been waiting for you for so long, and now that you are here, I will never ever let you go denique, We both know that life is not always fair. We know that there will come a time when we have to face trials right, but if you can hold my hands with you; we’ll overcome. You are my happiness, a very special blessing God has given to me. I love you so much and will always love until forever. That's a promise that I’ll surely going to keep forever in my heart.

Sounds like a plan.