isaiah4life:
Two days back, my little brother was diagnosed with malaria. It was indeed severe and I was cash strapped. I told the pharmacist to treat him while I hustle the money for him.

Unfortunately, I was unable to pay for his treatments as promised. Today, the dude just disgraced me in our area. Shouting on top of his voice that he didn't leave his village to serve me here and raining curses like a hurricane.

I was speechless. You know, the borrower is a slave to the lender. I begged him to give me till 30 December 2021 to see how I can raise the 10k. Someone sent me 1k I gave him to hold. If you see the way the dude threw the money at me and insulted my dead father eeh. I was just silent and I bowed out.

I can't even pass my area now because all eyes will be on me. Last last, I know I will make this money.

When I eventually have the money to pay him before the deadline, I will walk up to him, thank him for extending his grace period and leave.

The war is not against him but poverty.

Tokskob2008:
What more can be termed embarrassing than when family members don't even care if you alive or dead all because money no dey but let situation change now you will start hearing 'I'm your father's brother mother " or some other ridiculous stuffs... Honestly money someone without money in this life is a walking dead.

Yinkakolawole:
God will bless us all ooo. Just last week i owe colleague at work just 2k, and today he had a misunderstanding with our boss over work issue, and they told him to leave work if he can`t comply to instructions given him. With the vexation he came over to where i was lying down & shout on me to give him his 2k now that he`s leaving. I feel ashamed that i dont knw what to do, all eyes were just on me like say nah 2million i owe that Bleep. I thank GOD, GOD no dey shame his people.

isaiah4life:
Two days back, my little brother was diagnosed with malaria. It was indeed severe and I was cash strapped. I told the pharmacist to treat him while I hustle the money for him.

Unfortunately, I was unable to pay for his treatments as promised. Today, the dude just disgraced me in our area. Shouting on top of his voice that he didn't leave his village to serve me here and raining curses like a hurricane.

I was speechless. You know, the borrower is a slave to the lender. I begged him to give me till 30 December 2021 to see how I can raise the 10k. Someone sent me 1k I gave him to hold. If you see the way the dude threw the money at me and insulted my dead father eeh. I was just silent and I bowed out.

I can't even pass my area now because all eyes will be on me. Last last, I know I will make this money.

When I eventually have the money to pay him before the deadline, I will walk up to him, thank him for extending his grace period and leave.

The war is not against him but poverty.

Opeyemiextra:

I appreciate this approach to the issue. Many will curse the guy and ignore the main issue to be dealt with.
Fortunately for me, I haven't had such an experience before. I, like most Nigerians, have money issues too but my experiences are quite different.
Your own season too will come.

Plus10:
A friend just called me of how he was embarrassed by his Sister inlaw because of the money she borrowed him sometime ago.According him,his Sister-inlaw came to his house last week Wednesday to ask for the money.But unfortunately he did not have the money but he however promised her on Wednesday this week .He made the promise hoping that the company where he works was going to pay him yesterday Wednesday .But unfortunately, the company later prosponed it to tomorrow Friday.Now according to him,the Sister inlaw came to his house today to ask of the cash. When he was trying to explain to her that the company has shifted payment till tomorrow Friday, the Sister-inlaw starting yelling at him with a very loud voice even neighbours around were hearing her yelling.She called him stupid and foolish even in the presence of his wife .Now my friend is highly diverstated, he said he does not even know how his neighbours will start seeing him with the kind disgrace mented on him by his Sister in law.
Now has lack of money caused you any form of embarrassment in life before, if yes how did you manage to hold back ?Your commens are highly welcome!

VTJN:
How a course mate keeps reminding me how miserable i was back then in school. Living like an orphan, a puppet, who practically live from hand to mouth

He constantly reminds me how difficult it'd be getting a job in this present state of the nation. Not even me, a son of nobody. He always reminds me of my worries

I'd shed tears at my closet, wet my pillow and slept off. I keep asking God for his mercy upon my life. His narcissistic behaviour and utterances had made me developed hatred for my family

This had always been the embarrassing moment i got from this particular guy.

Nonexisting:
When the daughter of Jezebel I called girlfriend absconded with everything I had, I nearly begged for food in Abuja. I remember walking into a joint, saw my area nigga and begged him to pay for half plate for me, not even beer. Nigga's exact word "Do I look like father Christmas to you?" I left there with face full of shame and later saw him in the evening buying suya with his babe. That was the day I swore never to beg in this life again.

Wealthinwealth1:
Not that it hasnt happened b4, but I used it as a point of reminder to my Father that I wont go into any illegal means of making money. "I was once told to do Yahoo b4" I was once questioned as a man b4, I was once asked to go get water in a gathering brother in laws were and they were still young, lols in all of this my song has always been I WILL DIG A LITTLE DEEPER, GO A LITTLE FURTHER, PRAY A LITTLE LOUDER BECAUSE JESUS LOVE MUST BE SWEETER. The final one I heard was "the prayer I have been praying, where is the koko" THAT WAS THE TURNING POINT. The guy earning 25k with almost 10k going as transport as at June with his FATHER being questioned commands millions per month all thanks to my FATHER. see bro, dose insults should take your friend boldly to the Throne of Grace (Heb 4:16) cos Grace and Mercies of God is numerous there. Tell your friend not to feel bad but rather see it as a ginger to be a success, he should pray to God, read and digest God's Word and always push more. All shall be well. SHALOM

Truvelisback:
They are too numerous to count.

Plus10:

Hmm...atleast let's hear one of them.

isaiah4life:
Two days back, my little brother was diagnosed with malaria. It was indeed severe and I was cash strapped. I told the pharmacist to treat him while I hustle the money for him.

Unfortunately, I was unable to pay for his treatments as promised. Today, the dude just disgraced me in our area. Shouting on top of his voice that he didn't leave his village to serve me here and raining curses like a hurricane.

I was speechless. You know, the borrower is a slave to the lender. I begged him to give me till 30 December 2021 to see how I can raise the 10k. Someone sent me 1k I gave him to hold. If you see the way the dude threw the money at me and insulted my dead father eeh. I was just silent and I bowed out.

I can't even pass my area now because all eyes will be on me. Last last, I know I will make this money.

When I eventually have the money to pay him before the deadline, I will walk up to him, thank him for extending his grace period and leave.

The war is not against him but poverty.

amdman:


Have you gotten the money?