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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by queenblossom(f): 5:28pm On Dec 16, 2021
Limitlessss:
I feel betrayed

You see this life, hustle oh. Hustle as if you don't have a brother, or a sister, or a mother or a father. Hustle hustle hustle. If not, even your blood go use you play koso

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Mobog(m): 5:30pm On Dec 16, 2021
You brother is not a good person, I don't see anything bad in what you've done, His wife telling him isn't bad either. if she doesn't tells me as the husband I'd feel if it were to be her brother she'll tell me so I can know he's broke.

What happened is just to tell your brother you're seriously broke and you need help. I just think you should let them be sha, The one they've done na oju aye!

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Richy4(m): 5:32pm On Dec 16, 2021
Twelve30:

Omo nice advice o.
Chief... you don tey for this world o.

grin grin grin
I tell you... I'm pushing thirty-Ten in next 5months..I'm scared but I have been told it's the new twenty...
I might quit Nairaland then or just observe from a distance.. it might be my new year resolution
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:35pm On Dec 16, 2021
Well, it's good you were able to forgive them, but you should be extra careful with a sister in-law who tells lies. Anything husband and wife matter, one has to be extra careful. As for the boldened, thumps up.
GetMeRight:

She told my brother that I hid the remaining 6 cans in her shop and she found it where I kept it. My brother was infuriated that I would do such. He kept the anger inside instead of asking me. The same brother I told that I kept 6 cans of malt for before he went inside to meet his wife. He believed his wife over me. The same brother that once told people that he likes me because I don't lie!

That my wife's brother, I later helped her and her younger sister enrolled in some FG's scheme.
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:36pm On Dec 16, 2021
Exactly. No one knows tomorrow. She may need his help in future.
Evercurious:


He did absolutely nothing wrong cos he was desperate for help.. why shld she even accept such exchange? So you mean sparing N500 will stop her from buying her stuff?hmmmm.. she is just wicked ,callous and mischievous..
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by mrblessed(m): 5:53pm On Dec 16, 2021
Women! Or better still, Nigerian women. She was artfully looking for a way to put a knife on the things that hold you guys together as brothers, so that you would fall apart. Unfortunately, your elder brother is a weak link to advance her vile and tainted cause. But don't nurse ill-feelings against your brother. See it as one of those necessary learning curves to one's greatness.
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Goldentulip2: 5:57pm On Dec 16, 2021
You should have rang your bro before all this since you already observed bad vibes with her. E for save you all this drama. Try to make peace with your bro, the gbege has already happened.
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Freedom34: 5:59pm On Dec 16, 2021
Exactly my point.
That word u used is d best to depict them in this case.

FahBuLous:
I was searching for a better word but didn't see anything..
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by enonche85(m): 6:16pm On Dec 16, 2021
Limitlessss:


Did I plan to go there to sell anything in the first place? You've never been in a desperate needy situation b4 I guess.

Don't you have parents or other siblings?.
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by StreetFight: 6:18pm On Dec 16, 2021
RealLordZeus:
grin grin
The future is smarter than you

The Future is Lucifer's partner and will end up in Hell-Fire like Lucifer
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by socialmediaman: 6:23pm On Dec 16, 2021
OP @Limitlessss she’s your brother’s wife, they probably tell each other everything for one reason or another. Your brother could’ve decided to pretend not to know, but wives almost always spill. Who knows, maybe she didn’t even do it for the wrong reasons, maybe she wanted to convince your brother to help you and had to prove to him that you didn’t have money, or maybe she did it for the wrong reasons, we can’t say.

Just see it as a deal gone wrong but I suggest you don’t hold it too much to heart against her, it’s part of life’s lessons about trust. When you get married you’ll realize why many husbands and wives tell each other every every

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by 9jayes: 6:32pm On Dec 16, 2021
Opexzy:


What part again, in an attempt to sound intelligent you made a mess of yourself.

Didn't you read where he said this was meant to be a secret.
What if he’s lying nko mr intelligent
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Pzpropertylimit(m): 6:34pm On Dec 16, 2021
To hell with ur brother if he doesn't understand u and the condition to believe what someone that another man is possibly fucking called wife told him .
Let ur heart not trouble , God will use u to prove a point in ur life
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Oluwapresley(m): 8:11pm On Dec 16, 2021
Limitlessss:


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Appreciate bro.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Limitlessss: 8:28pm On Dec 16, 2021
Oluwapresley:


Sent. Manage please.

Thanks

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by showafrica(m): 9:10pm On Dec 16, 2021
Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

Always carry it at the back of your mind that husband and wife are one. I will vex for that woman if she no tell her husband. Always relate to your brother and anything you cannot tell your brother, don't tell the wife
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Exceed15: 9:23pm On Dec 16, 2021
The deed had been done. Put it behind you and move on . Never step your leg there again until they hear your success story. Also know this: couples discuss almost everything.
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by GetMeRight: 9:37pm On Dec 16, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Well, it's good you were able to forgive them, but you should be extra careful with a sister in-law who tells lies. Anything husband and wife matter, one has to be extra careful. As for the boldened, thumps up.

Thanks. I'm not even fond of going to their house unless there is something he wants me to do for him.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by gstream: 11:03pm On Dec 16, 2021
Tell your brother that I told you to tell him that he's a very SIMPle Man. Tankio

Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by gstream: 11:06pm On Dec 16, 2021
Galileopapi:
The man above me just spoke very LOUD
My 2 cent to you be very careful with in law's ooo how they interpret things is different, and you can't blame them, if you where in same position, your bro you regularly help sold oil he can give for free to your wife how would you feel? Upset I think sad

Guy, are you normal?. What are you writing Gaan?
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by iTearHerToto: 12:27am On Dec 17, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
One of the things I don't like about my genderundecided . Most women cant keep secrets. Better to send your brother a message and narrate things just as it happened because she may have twisted the issue when she told your brother. I don't see it as a bad thing to have asked for that exchange since you were helpless. What's her gain now that she has put you in trouble.
I feel like caressing your thighs for this comment. Anyways will leave tha for next angry
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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by thecommunist(m): 1:41am On Dec 17, 2021
TOO BAD
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Galileopapi(m): 3:10am On Dec 17, 2021
gstream:


Guy, are you normal?. What are you writing Gaan?
What's your definition of normal? Then I'll know if I am if you have nothing important to say stick to you petty life and leave me out of it
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by divalishis: 5:17am On Dec 17, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
One of the things I don't like about my genderundecided . Most women cant keep secrets. Better to send your brother a message and narrate things just as it happened because she may have twisted the issue when she told your brother. I don't see it as a bad thing to have asked for that exchange since you were helpless. What's her gain now that she has put you in trouble.

Speak for yourself. Who told you women can't keep secrets?
She probably told her husband because she doesn't "gel" with her BIL.
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by 123papas(m): 8:31am On Dec 17, 2021
Klass99:
I honestly can't see what you did wrong and I read your story twice to be sure I didn't miss something.

Your brother and his wife are just very insensitive people, if you ask me.

I don't know what's worse, people who are insensitive to the needs of others or stingy/selfish people?

I think I'll lump them together. Both are worse!

Hmmmm. We don’t know the precedents to this event.
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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by gnhpowerhouse: 11:30am On Dec 17, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Exactly. No one knows tomorrow. She may need his help in future.
You are right..

Can't you Satisfy your wife on bed ?
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Limitlessss: 11:48am On Dec 17, 2021
topiiiiiiii:
wicked woman how much is 500 that she cannot over look my brother please work hard vain is the help of man the people that I thought had my back sent me out and I had to start looking for how I will survive all will be history someday, I can imagine how much it pained you that you had to write it, with time you will even help people with the money 5that looks big now. God will make a way for you and you will graduate in flying colours.

Thanks for this advice.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Mariangeles(f): 11:52am On Dec 17, 2021
Limitlessss:


Thanks for this advice.

Have you settled with your brother?
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Poleski: 11:58am On Dec 17, 2021
Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

If I were your bro I would be pissed too. You knew she didn't like you and you still went ahead to do the deal with her.

You should've given her the oil for free and hoped for food. Or you should've called your bro for help.
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Mariangeles(f): 3:55pm On Dec 17, 2021
Poleski:


If I were your bro I would be pissed too. You knew she didn't like you and you still went ahead to do the deal with her.

You should've given her the oil for free and hoped for food. Or you should've called your bro for help.

Why would a man marry a woman that does not like his siblings in the first place?
Does it make any sense?

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