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AntichristXXX:
In the course of your life, you will be continually encountering fools. There are simply too many to avoid. We can classify people as fools by the following rubric: when it comes to practical life, what should matter is getting long-term results, and getting the work done in as efficient and creative a manner as possible. That should be the supreme value that guides people’s actions.

But fools carry with them a different scale of values. They place more importance on short-term matters—grabbing immediate money, getting attention from the public or media, and looking good. They are ruled by their ego and insecurities. They tend to enjoy drama and political intrigue for their own sake. When they criticize, they always emphasize matters that are irrelevant to the overall picture or argument.

They are more interested in their career and position than in the truth. You can distinguish them by how little they get done, or by how hard they make it for others to get results. They lack a certain common sense, getting worked up about things that are not really important while ignoring problems that will spell doom in the long term.

The natural tendency with fools is to lower yourself to their level. They annoy you, get under your skin, and draw you into a battle. In the
process, you feel petty and confused. You lose a sense of what is really important. You can’t win an argument or get them to see your side or
change their behavior because rationality and results don’t matter to them. You simply waste valuable time and emotional energy.

In dealing with fools you must adopt the following philosophy: they are simply a part of life, like rocks or furniture. All of us have foolish sides,
moments in which we lose our heads and think more of our ego or short-term goals. It is human nature. Seeing this foolishness within you, you can then accept it in others. This will allow you to smile at their antics, to tolerate their presence as you would a silly child, and to avoid the madness of trying to change them. It is all part of human comedy, and it is nothing to get upset about or lose sleepover.

If they are causing you trouble, you must neutralize the harm they do by keeping a steady eye on your goals and what is important, and ignoring them if you can. The height of wisdom, however, is to take this even further and to actually exploit their foolishness—using them for material for your work, as examples of things to avoid, or by looking for ways to turn their actions to your advantage. In this way, their foolishness plays into your hands, helping you achieve the kind of practical results they seem to disdain.

TheUndercover:
No Sir, my hands are just quite full at the moment. How are you doing Sir?

Cooleasy:
Please bros, for clarification, how would you define or describe a low value woman or damaged woman?
Does certain categories of women such as single mothers, women with too many past sxual partners, etc necessarily fall into the category of low value women?

Thanks for the wisdom.

Jackdean111:
Sir i want to tell you something secretly... I want your permission sir.

HenryDion:
Undercover, this is a beautiful thread.

LIVINGICON:
Okay. I thought as much. Make you make all the money and ENJOY. One love.

TheUndercover:
Never initiate conflict with someone you know nothing about.

"Know your enemy." - Sun Tzu

TheUndercover:
Happy Birthday! Hope I'm not too late? Don't be annoyed with me. Life happens.

Yxxx:
At all I'm not.
But still send my request sha. Thank you.
I hope life happened good

TheUndercover:
Life has been fair to me around here, thank you. Hope yours is great also? Hmm, tell me what you need?

TheUndercover:
Law 10 Addendum:

There are people who are ticking time bombs. Tick, Tock, Tick, Tock...

Make sure you're far away before they explode. Don't talk to them. Don't try to persuade them. Don't fight them. Your best move is to RUN!

TheUndercover:
A man can go from being a lover to being a stranger in three moves flat but a woman under the guise of friendship will engage in acts of duplicity which come to light very much later.

Degrezhaa:
So how do we identify them or could you please give an example

Yxxx:
Yes life is fair.
I want some life lessons for a woman.

TheUndercover:
My man,

The posts on this thread and the previous one are not entirely just for men. Women too can make use of them to improve themselves. Since you ask specifically, these are what I can give out for now:

- Getting a man to commit first is primary, sex is secondary. If you're virgin, feminine, industrious, dress decently, respectful, love kids, you can easily get a man to do your biddings.

- As a woman, your home is your first priority. Anything else is secondary.

- Women, if you know you aren't interested in a man, do not accept anything from him. You might never know who you're dealing. Not every man has the ability to overlook things.

- Check how he reacts when angry, this is of utmost importance.

- Never marry a weak man. Marry a leader.

- Never use sex as a weapon to get a man commit to you. Sex is not love to a man. It is food.

- A man who's interested in you can will be eager to meet your family and friends.

- Let him be always be free to share his thoughts with you.

- Check the relationship he has with his mom and sisters and how he treats them. If he treats them good, there's a high chance he will treat you good.

- There's a difference between a stingy man and a prudent man. Do not marry the former.

- Never marry a man without a purpose or a mission.

- Emotions aren't permanent. So in choosing a man, choose based on the qualities he has and how focused he is.

- Keep your virginity intact, in most cases men don't need you to provide anything for them. Being faithful, respectful, submissive alone can give a man the happiness he craves for and makes him do anything for you.

- Let him see you as his slut. Let other men pray to get a wife like you. Do not weaponize sex. You'd be shooting yourself in the foot. Lot of women out there waiting to satisfy his desires.

- Surprise your man too, not just on his birthday. Men love surprises.

- A man who complains is as unattractive as a woman who nags. As such, always welcome him with a hug not a nag.

- A man proposing to you doesn't mean he loves you. Getting a ring doesn't equal to getting a man to commit fully to you.

- A man who loves you will publicly praise you and secretly "corrects" you.

- Have standards. A woman without standards is a cheap woman. A man without standards is a weak man.

TheUndercover:
My man,

The posts on this thread and the previous one are not entirely just for men. Women too can make use of them to improve themselves. Since you ask specifically, these are what I can give out for now:

- Getting a man to commit first is primary, sex is secondary. If you're virgin, feminine, industrious, dress decently, respectful, love kids, you can easily get a man to do your biddings.

- As a woman, your home is your first priority. Anything else is secondary.

- Women, if you know you aren't interested in a man, do not accept anything from him. You might never know who you're dealing. Not every man has the ability to overlook things.

- Check how he reacts when angry, this is of utmost importance.

- Never marry a weak man. Marry a leader.

- Never use sex as a weapon to get a man commit to you. Sex is not love to a man. It is food.

- A man who's interested in you can will be eager to meet your family and friends.

- Let him be always be free to share his thoughts with you.

- Check the relationship he has with his mom and sisters and how he treats them. If he treats them good, there's a high chance he will treat you good.

- There's a difference between a stingy man and a prudent man. Do not marry the former.

- Never marry a man without a purpose or a mission.

- Emotions aren't permanent. So in choosing a man, choose based on the qualities he has and how focused he is.

- Keep your virginity intact, in most cases men don't need you to provide anything for them. Being faithful, respectful, submissive alone can give a man the happiness he craves for and makes him do anything for you.

- Let him see you as his slut. Let other men pray to get a wife like you. Do not weaponize sex. You'd be shooting yourself in the foot. Lot of women out there waiting to satisfy his desires.

- Surprise your man too, not just on his birthday. Men love surprises.

- A man who complains is as unattractive as a woman who nags. As such, always welcome him with a hug not a nag.

- A man proposing to you doesn't mean he loves you. Getting a ring doesn't equal to getting a man to commit fully to you.

- A man who loves you will publicly praise you and secretly "corrects" you.

- Have standards. A woman without standards is a cheap woman. A man without standards is a weak man.

TheUndercover:
Pretense, You Like Them:

“If you dislike a man, do your best to hide it, for in ways you could not possibly foresee you may need his help, and you can hardly get it if he knows you dislike him. On many occasions I needed the help of a man who I despised, and he believing I liked him, or at least being unaware of the truth, served me readily.” -Francesco Guicciardini

In order to charm people, you must maintain the pretense that you like them. Any dislike or disdain you have for them must be concealed.

This sounds obvious, yet many subordinates fail to do this when interacting with their superiors.

TheUndercover:
Never trust a man with more female friends than male friends.

Sign of weak man.

TheUndercover:
My man,

The posts on this thread and the previous one are not entirely just for men. Women too can make use of them to improve themselves. Since you ask specifically, these are what I can give out for now:

- Getting a man to commit first is primary, sex is secondary. If you're virgin, feminine, industrious, dress decently, respectful, love kids, you can easily get a man to do your biddings.

- As a woman, your home is your first priority. Anything else is secondary.

- Women, if you know you aren't interested in a man, do not accept anything from him. You might never know who you're dealing. Not every man has the ability to overlook things.

- Check how he reacts when angry, this is of utmost importance.

- Never marry a weak man. Marry a leader.

- Never use sex as a weapon to get a man commit to you. Sex is not love to a man. It is food.

- A man who's interested in you can will be eager to meet your family and friends.

- Let him be always be free to share his thoughts with you.

- Check the relationship he has with his mom and sisters and how he treats them. If he treats them good, there's a high chance he will treat you good.

- There's a difference between a stingy man and a prudent man. Do not marry the former.

- Never marry a man without a purpose or a mission.

- Emotions aren't permanent. So in choosing a man, choose based on the qualities he has and how focused he is.

- Keep your virginity intact, in most cases men don't need you to provide anything for them. Being faithful, respectful, submissive alone can give a man the happiness he craves for and makes him do anything for you.

- Let him see you as his slut. Let other men pray to get a wife like you. Do not weaponize sex. You'd be shooting yourself in the foot. Lot of women out there waiting to satisfy his desires.

- Surprise your man too, not just on his birthday. Men love surprises.

- A man who complains is as unattractive as a woman who nags. As such, always welcome him with a hug not a nag.

- A man proposing to you doesn't mean he loves you. Getting a ring doesn't equal to getting a man to commit fully to you.

- A man who loves you will publicly praise you and secretly "corrects" you.

- Have standards. A woman without standards is a cheap woman. A man without standards is a weak man.

waywardpikin:
Been following these threads from the jump. It will be a huge disservice not to tell you what a wonderful job you're doing, TheUndercover. Great stuff!

TheUndercover:
At the top of the hierarchy, there's no rest. At the bottom there's no rest as well. People are constantly jostling for power at the top. Lot of dangerous games are being played.

At the bottom, there are lack of resources. People fight themselves to get the little resources available. If you want peace, stay at the middle.

Remember: In most societies, there's no middle class. Reach for the stars or drown.

Tonnyray:
This guy, are you human?
This sh*t is fvcking deep man!
More wisdom bro.

TheUndercover:
Someone published this thread under the pseudonym "Anton Mayers" on Amazon. I hope the person made the right references to it in order not to make people misconstrue my messages.

Nevertheless, there's a reason why I didn't do this myself. My messages here were not based on my strength and knowledge alone. This was a joint universal work of recognized people; online and offline. My aim for doing this is not to make profits (definitely not without my team's permission), but to share my knowledge before I pass on. That's the reason why I also made links available to make sharing easier. I would advise you guys to do the same. Thanks.