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Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ladycewhy(f): 10:06am On Jan 04, 2022 |
franchasng:With someone like the op ,she must have tolerated enough and this was just the last straw so no need to argue. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 10:07am On Jan 04, 2022 |
wirinet: Fine analysis I love this! |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Mikefrik(m): 10:07am On Jan 04, 2022 |
bigpicture001:Oga, you get mind o.. 80k with all these responsibilities? She go just die one day. It's too much. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by franchasng: 10:08am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:as in lol. She fit de Nairaland self de read de comment too 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by franchasng: 10:09am On Jan 04, 2022 |
BigBashiru:Hehe, some 30something ladies hot pass teen girls, i swear 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ladycewhy(f): 10:10am On Jan 04, 2022 |
franchasng:If she is then I am proud of her. This one na devil's deal,op go give better deal to e employees than this one e give e wife to be . 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by ImaIma1(f): 10:11am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Idamond: Don't be so sure. When I got married, my salary was double my husband's own and we spent according to our capacity. Today he earns more and we are fine. NL guys need to stop this prejudice towards women. It's becoming a cliché. Sometimes we should let our minds go beyond the Nairaland community and look at examples from family and friends around us to see women that support their husbands. But on Nairaland, women have nothing to offer. You guys should be tired of this. You should outgrow it already. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ladycewhy(f): 10:14am On Jan 04, 2022 |
wirinet:The thing nor shock you? Op say make e 80k earning wife come dey fund lifestyle of 300k earner yet people still think the lady is at fault one even said she is a materialistic hoe . Hey God! Shey you are seeing what all this yeye boys are saying ,you are seeing now o ! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 10:15am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: She can use her 80k to take care of herself... I support dat. But if she wants kids and the nan wants too she should drop an amount per child even if na 5k or 10k per month.... it doesn't hv to be a large amount but she has to drop something as it shows "we are in this together" and is evidence of her love for her husband. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Biggie2000(m): 10:17am On Jan 04, 2022 |
wirinet:Lol, so you're indirectly saying that as long as a man has money, he can get all these done. Please, keep in mind that Wizkid, Davido, Timaya, etc are all single fathers that take care of their kids. 1 Like
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Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by zedegit: 10:19am On Jan 04, 2022 |
enonche85: People respond in various ways besides this may be the straw that broke the camel's back since she claimed he had been stingy to her. She saw it that he was trying to run away from his responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by pnemric: 10:21am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Kwinesther:But he has done his best for her by offering to take charge of over 70% of the responsibilities. Instead of running, she should have patiently talked things with him and overtime they could reach a conclusion. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ladycewhy(f): 10:21am On Jan 04, 2022 |
BigBashiru:But that's not what is at play here. See if for nothing make we dey talk truth, I know you boys hate women with all your hearts and that's ok, but you sef check the list na. The list is tailored according the the ops 300k earning taste ,the wife to be has to struggle to meet up with his taste. And to top it all she wasn't even there ,op just hit her with the list gbam like some CEO giving a job offer to an employee. Basically she has no benefit being married to a man that earns more than her. She will have to keep up with appearances in that marriage to meet up with the ops 300k circle of friends and lifestyle. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by wirinet(m): 10:21am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Biggie2000:We are talking about what a wife brings to the table and you are talking about Wizkid, Davido, Timaya. Ok ask Wizkid, Davido and Timaya how much they pay for child care, sex and food. You can then use the figure to extrapolate what a wife brings to the table. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by unikprince(m): 10:22am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Make I dey learn sha |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ladycewhy(f): 10:23am On Jan 04, 2022 |
wirinet:This conversation is one they won't want to have 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Princelumide: 10:26am On Jan 04, 2022 |
This is a good plan... and It shows that she doesn't have anything to offer in the first place... She just opened your eyes... |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by PapaFejiro: 10:26am On Jan 04, 2022 |
You want her to finish her 80k before you will rest i guess. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by NigeriaIsGreat: 10:29am On Jan 04, 2022 |
BigBashiru:Naturally some Men want their wife to be full time house wife and that doesn't make you who want a career woman better off, vice versa. You don't dictate to women what to do inorder to contribute to the upkeep of the family. You as the man should be responsible enough in footing the house upkeep and watch how things goes. Even in developed world, women aren't compelled or dictated to contribute in the house upkeep. I'm not a religious person but it is the responsibility of men to toiled around to provide for the family while women ensure the home is peaceful. Women sacrifice/risk their during pregnancy and childbirth for the child/ren that would end up bearing your surname and you are here asking what benefit do men derived in marrying their wives. Those women you claimed they must have had multiple body count with series of abortion. Please who are responsible for all that? Do they slept with themselves or someone was responsible? You asked what benefits would a man get marrying a woman or something? The last time i checked women don't begged men to come marry them. Even as corrupt as the world is today. Most men run after women for marriage. Having known that they got no benefit in marrying them. Why initiating that? Why running after them? Why not remain single? You could adopt as a young man provided you could get domestic staff to help in the chores I'm a man like you, but probably differ in age and experience. The responsibility bestowed on women in raising a family isn't easy sir. Women does a whole lot from pregnancy, child birth, nurturing the child amidst sleepless night, cleaning, washing, doing the laundry and many more. How many men of this generation support their wives in house chores please be honest with yourself? Some men even sees it as a taboo or crime entering the kitchen to cook. Some Men don't even know how to boil water. Whereas, every average Nigerian lady are nurtured to be responsible in raising a family. Show me a lady who doesn't know how to cook nor do house chores let me show you millions of men who doesn't know how to lift their fingers. You men of this generation assume money is just everything. No sir! Some men are craving for women who would help them build their home Some Men are craving for women who would give them peace. Some Men are craving for women who would be faithful, loyal and committed to them Stop looking for women who would help you share your responsibility as a man. Would you help her carry her pregnancy? Do you mind sacrificing or risking your life for a child who would bear another person's surname? Would you share the house chores with her completely? See provided you married someone who's working or ready to work or doing business. You need not dictating to her what to bring to the house. It doesn't sound well seriously. It makes you less of a man. Trust me she'd do that provided you are responsible enough. Would you also tell her to contribute in paying her bride price and other marital rite? Imagine Op telling her to contribute for their vacation. Na by force be vacation? You aren't capable of taking your family out for vacation yet, why not get that? It is well o 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by May1st: 10:29am On Jan 04, 2022 |
bigpicture001: Bro I will tell you the truth, You have suggested she spends about 75% of her salary while yours is around 40% of your salary. You have not done well in this regard frankly speaking. You need to approach this with diplomacy even if you want equity.. Equity makes is even when you apply a fixed percentage on both ur salaries. You could lose out on a very good girl based on this list, from what I read, u gave her a list to choose from. Ask her to draw a list of what she's comfortable with and if u see she wants to be too conservative about her funds( which every woman does anyway), you both talk it out 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Biggie2000(m): 10:36am On Jan 04, 2022 |
wirinet:Lmao. Is it not some millions of naira they pay? Is it not money you are still talking about? |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by philiancoop(m): 10:39am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Let's just agree women only want money. That's why they marry. To collect money. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Biggie2000(m): 10:42am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:Who told you they don't want to have such conversation? Are they complaining about the money? How much is the money? Let's say they drop 2 million naira for child support every month, how much is 2M to them? Is it not the same people that use such money as giveaway to their fans? Cc Lesbianboy, abeg come and see this lady o |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ladycewhy(f): 10:44am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Biggie2000:I meant the misogynistic nitwits asking what a wife brings to the table. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 10:45am On Jan 04, 2022 |
NigeriaIsGreat: Women beg rich men and real men for marriage |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by LesbianBoy(m): 10:52am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: So asking a lady what she brings to the table is misogynistic? Interesting! I blame yahoo boys and all these money miss road guys who made their money illegally. If a man suffered to make his money he won't want to waste it on one olosho |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 10:53am On Jan 04, 2022 |
NigeriaIsGreat: There's nothing like "responsibility as a man".... that's based on the old model of marriage... Every man that marries a woman provides her with shelter and food.... Everything else she wants she should provide for herself....because she is a university graduate and can work.... |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nobody: 10:56am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Jeferious:baba, the best na 2 stay unmarried, get a baby mama atleast or marry whitie |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by franchasng: 10:57am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:the guy na confirm pefectionist lol This one go plan death join |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ladycewhy(f): 10:58am On Jan 04, 2022 |
LesbianBoy:But the comment I made was regarding how much the likes of Davido Timaya and co pay for child support ,sex and food as to draw an insight of what a wife brings to the table. As it's stands now na aproko work you dey for here cos person mention you and you just dump dey misyarn. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Biggie2000(m): 11:00am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:OK, although I don't support misogyny and misandry, but permit me to ask this question: let's say I'm able to pay for a surrogate to birth my child, I pay for someone to cook, I pay for someone to clean the house; what then will I need a wife for? What extraordinary thing will she bring to the table? NB: I'm not asking this question in a quarrelsome manner, but simply to have a logical conversation. |
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ladycewhy(f): 11:00am On Jan 04, 2022 |
franchasng:lol. E nor go reach am do. Op na silent pain e go dey give who follow am dey house. People like op na on egg shells you go constantly dey walk around dem cos them dey always reason one kind. |
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