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Nyascobar1414:
on a normal setting.. He is the man, he makes the rule and the woman obeys, if she is not willing she GTFO

So because he has prick, he should be obeyed. He isn't ready to provide but he wants to be obeyed. Omo, the stupidity of men on this forum is so rich that I can use it to fund a slay queen's lifestyle.

BigBashiru:
I am a virgin and I expect to marry a virgin too not some used up retired ex oloshos demanding bearing ov financial responsibility at the age or 31 as a right.... it doesn't work that way.... She should go and call all her numerous previous boyfriends to bear financial responsibility and leave an innocent God fearing man alone!

If a woman is demanding a man should bear financial responsibilities she has to bring something to the table... no free lunch....child care is one such thing, followed by good character, youth, ability to raise godly kids and then she should raise some funds to assist in supporting herself...

With your 40 wives and 750 girlfriends you're still a virgin? It seems virginity now has another meaning.

BigBashiru:
Its not "my sole opinion"... all the girls that marry at 35+, the husband has much younger girlfriends... you cant cheat nature....you fit try if you want and see the results for yourself.... men spend money on young girls (you cannot annul the force of nature with logic).... a word is enough for the wise!

Mr looking for who to share his responsibility with as a Man. I thought Men like you are busy looking for who to share your responsibility with? How come a man who takes care of the house still spend lavishly on younger girls outside?

Kwinesther:
Typical Nigerian mentality... But the 35+ wives does not cheat with younger men while the husband come to nairaland to wail or commit suicide as usual abi. I have realised that people that do certain stuffs (especially cheating) thinks every other person do it. So you are saying daddy kumuyi that married his wife at age 50 typically has younger girlfriends he sleeps with? Just speak for yourself oga.

Younger men do not find 35+ year old girls attractive. Know this and know peace. Feminists cannot change nature.

No need to argue with u....

The truth will speak for itself.

NigeriaIsGreat:
Look at you man. In your small mind you thought all men reason like you looking for who to share their responsibility with ba? Sorry to disappoint you. I don't reason like you. I'm not looking for who to share my responsibility with

You couldn't argue intelligently with your fellow man. But if it was a woman, you'd have the muscles and power. See how you chicken out so easy what a weak man looking for who to share his responsibility with

Go and hustle legitimately man. You have no business discussing about marriage please

It's still obvious you are a lady.
As things stand I can comfortably buy you and give you to the less privileged and won't know I spent money and your family will celebrate.
How can you really know anything about responsibility when you have never taken up responsibilities.

BigBashiru:
Younger men do not find 35+ year old girls attractive. Know this and know peace. Feminists cannot change nature.

No need to argue with u....

The truth will speak for itself.

Last time I checked young guys have sugar mummies that are even in their 50's. You don't seem to know what you're even saying. Bye!

Kwinesther:
With your 40 wives and 750 girlfriends you're still a virgin? It seems a virginity now has another meaning.

The guy and his partner are mentally out of it. His partner was even accusing me of being a lady because i didn't reason like him looking for who to share my responsibility with

They can't even argue intelligently. Shey na this kind men person pray for even him enemy to marry? God forbid o. A man who is dead upstairs and contradict themselves over this little discussion. No wonder they are seriously looking for who to share their responsibility with

Now i get

NigeriaIsGreat:

The guy and his partner are mentally out of it. His partner was even accusing me of being a lady because i didn't reason like him looking for who to share my responsibility with

They can't even argue intelligently. Shey na this kind men person pray for even him enemy to marry? God forbid o. A man who is dead upstairs and contradict themselves over this little discussion. No wonder they are seriously looking for who to share their responsibility with

Now i get

I just tire. Men with zero intelligence...

Kwinesther:
Last time I checked young guys have sugar mummies that are even in their 50's. You don't seem to know what you're even saying. Bye!

Sugar mummy is a construct of feminists designed to make them feel equal to men in this regard....

No need to argue just observe ur own results.

ParpahSeventy:
It's still obvious you are a lady.
As things stand I can comfortably buy you and give you to the less privileged and won't know I spent money and your family will celebrate.
How can you really know anything about responsibility when you have never taken up responsibilities.

Good. You want to know how i know anything about responsibility right? Let me school you a little.

Any man who chicken easily in a discussion. Especially with his fellow men and resort in accusing the person to be the opposite gender because he had been defeated and has nothing reasonable to say is not only irresponsible but also weak

A man who is going about looking for who to share his responsibility with is an irresponsible Man

The question you should ask yourself is, this guy isn't the only guy on this platform who kicked against the idea of real Men looking for who to share their responsibility with. Then why would i just sit at the confide of my house and assume he must be a lady

Like it sound so irritating guy. Please leave this forum. You have no business discussing about marriage yet

sgtponzihater1:
I agree with you, and with the OP. Sadly that's what men face. I helped my wife with a job of over 800k. Yet I still foot most of the bills. Heaven is our reward men

Even, heaven will disqualify you

BigBashiru:
Sugar mummy is a construct of feminists designed to make them feel equal to men in this regard....

No need to argue just observe ur own results.

lol, it's feminists that constructed the word "sugar mummy" ?

BigBashiru:
Sugar mummy is a construct of feminists designed to make them feel equal to men in this regard....

No need to argue just observe ur own results.

You don't seem to know what you're saying, I have realised most men only have ego in abundance but are so mentally weak and lack what is called intelligence so I won't reply your mentions anymore. Bye!

2loadedguy:
The things we learn from nairaland is topnotch and has saved a lot of people from disaster. If only God has allowed me to see this post three months ago it would have saved me from the disaster I married in my house right now cos I would have known her person before I married her. I would have tabled this before her and avoid stories that touch.
She's never contributed 1kobo to the home but spends her salaries on human hair and makeup and when asked would say am I not the man of the house.
She even have the effontery to be demanding monthly allowance from me despite earning good monthly salaries.
Please God has blessed you with wisdom and don't fall for the scam called marriage by women these days. You have done well with your template and a good woman would accept you with this.

Good evening, comrade. And i just hope this comment of mine met you well.

AneemA:
I think that's a proposed plan. His idea. She can have a look at it and check her own wage to if this is viable for her, she can negotiate and try to speak her own ideas and input. She actually can also share her proposed plan of sharing household chores and other things like time out to spend with friends, etc. Only which you both can decide.

It is a proposal. Surely further discussion and approvals need to be made.

Instead, she walked off. There isn't a sign of cooperation coming from her.

That's why I keep asking that if she was the one earning 300k and he 80k, would he have the mind to plan her salary?

BigBashiru:
Sugar mummy is a construct of feminists designed to make them feel equal to men in this regard....

No need to argue just observe ur own results.

Egbon Sir! Please stop disgracing us please. They would think all Men are dumb upstairs sir

Please rest sir! You will see who will share or take your responsibility as a man. You don win sir!

lavamaestro:
So because he has prick, he should be obeyed. He isn't ready to provide but he wants to be obeyed. Omo, the stupidity of men on this forum is so rich that I can use it to fund a slay queen's lifestyle.

Then stay single in peace!
Is that difficult?

Kwinesther:
You don't seem to know what you're saying, I have realised most men only have ego in abundance but are so mentally weak and lack what is called intelligence so I won't reply your mentions anymore. Bye!

Bye.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Do you know how old I am?
My beauty is forever green. Forget stories.

I know you not up to 28,29 or 30... Reach that age, make we know wassup with your face.

NigeriaIsGreat:
Good. You want to know how i know anything about responsibility right? Let me school you a little.

Any man who chicken easily in a discussion. Especially with his fellow men and resort in accusing the person to be the opposite gender because he had been defeated and has nothing reasonable to say is not only irresponsible but also weak

A man who is going about looking for who to share his responsibility with is an irresponsible Man

The question you should ask yourself is, this guy isn't the only guy on this platform who kicked against the idea of real Men looking for who to share their responsibility with. Then why would i just sit at the confide of my house and assume he must be a lady

Like it sound so irritating guy. Please leave this forum. You have no business discussing about marriage yet

First and foremost you are not a fellow man, you are confused kid feeding off the back of people thinking you know alot, I won't be surprised you are an undergraduate still expecting pocket money and call yourself a fellow man.
We are not discussing, my first mention of you had alot of things to engage a discussion and the next thing you type is "go and hustle before you talk of marriage", does that call for discussion?
It's obvious your ideas are not beyond the little horizon you live in, you have no basic idea about marriage, you talk about responsibility like you know how to handle one, ask your dad to school you on responsibilities, by then your little sense will grow, like I told you, if I want I can buy you (be you a boy or girl) give you to d less privileged and won't know I spent money and your family will be happy.
If I want a wife before the month ends I will comfortably get one, so I know more about marriage than yourself.

NigeriaIsGreat:
Egbon Sir! Please stop disgracing us please. They would think all Men are dumb upstairs sir

Please rest sir! You will see who will share or take your responsibility as a man. You don win sir!

I won't reply u anymore. Bye

BigBashiru:
Bye.

Still arguing with confused people?
Most of these people who use the word weak can't address an audience and you are arguing with them?

BigBashiru:
I won't reply u anymore. Bye

Egbon don Chicken out

UyaiIncomparabl:
You wish.

With all women weaknesses they still gad pride.. Y'all menstruate,the blood smells, naturally pussy smells..
So I really wonder why some niggas hold you at high esteem..
Only that you've come across weaklings disguising as real men..
Pity SIMPletons.

Biggie2000:
Well said, ma! Please, enjoy this cold juice.

Ose jare!

ParpahSeventy:
First and foremost you are not a fellow man, you are confused kid feeding off the back of people thinking you know alot, I won't be surprised you are an undergraduate still expecting pocket money and call yourself a fellow man.
We are not discussing, my first mention of you had alot of things to engage a discussion and the next thing you type is "go and hustle before you talk of marriage", does that call for discussion?
It's obvious your ideas are not beyond the little horizon you live in, you have no basic idea about marriage, you talk about responsibility like you know how to handle one, ask your dad to school you on responsibilities, by then your little sense will grow, like I told you, if I want I can buy you (be you a boy or girl) give you to d less privileged and won't know I spent money and your family will be happy.
If I want a wife before the month ends I will comfortably get one, so I know more about marriage than yourself.

I'm no longer a lady but an undergraduate? This is crazy Man!

My dad did not, i repeat did not share his responsibility with his wife and he's very much alife. Not just my dad. Uncles, cousins who are married and family friends. They never imagined outsourcing or share their responsibility as a man with their wife

You aren't even worth a man. You couldn't argue intelligently but being emotional. You couldn't bring up fact but resorts to putting your emotions into play with false accusations because you couldn't argue intelligently

You have all these imaginary money and you are going about looking for who to share your responsibility with as a man ba?

Or the imaginary money you claimed to have is solely meant in buying people who flawed you in a simple discuss and not using it in taking care of your wife and soon to born kids?

A week man is a man who derived joy fighting or arguing with the female folks but became dumb and ran out of idea when a man like him sprang up from no where. A weak man is a man who chicken out easily when he's having a discuss with his fellow men but love masturbating having a discuss with the opposite gender

A weak man is a man who put emotions into play instead of his senses

You know nothing about marriage because if you do, you and your partner won't go about looking for who to share your responsibility with as a man. You know nothing about marriage because if you do, the imaginary money you intend in buying someone would be judiciously utilized in your family upkeep and save you the stress of looking around for who to share your responsibility with as a man

NigeriaIsGreat:
Are you a virgin? With the rate at which fathers are raping their daughters, maids and neighbours. With the rate of rapist and peadephile you still have mouth to call a lady non virgin. At least ladies still have sense enough not to sleep with their teens sons unlike we Men

Nobody is pursuing you sir. There's no late commer in marriage. Work hard enough as a man and be financially independent coupled with your mental state

Stop looking for who to share your responsibility with. You are a man sir. I believe your parents must have educated you on the responsibility expected of a man in the society and family. My sister got married 3 years ago and she never shared a penny with her husband. She got married to a man and not a boy sir. My friend uncle got married last year and he said his uncle never discussed that with his wife. He's fully incharge of the family upkeep as the Man. Marriage is meant for Men and not for boys who's looking up and down for who to share their responsibility with

The last time i checked, our fathers, forefathers and present men of this generation whom alot had air their view here didn't die taking their responsibility

The only thing that kills a man including women is over joyous which Yoruba refer to as AYO.

Historically, taking your responsibility as a man has not and will never kill a man. Except a lazy ass man who shouldn't have any business with marriage for the time being. Not until he works on himself and finances

Women have forced society to soften men. Women are no longer the servants that they used to be, but now that we ask for some support you so called "feminism" now remember african culture..
The funny thing is, local women halk under hot sun to support family but the so called woke ones want to "take care" of the family.
His responsibilities have far outweighed hers, so whays the bleh bleh bleh about?

Aren't they cultures where women pay groom price? Did they die?

[quote author=Nyascobar1414 post=109085295]With all women weaknesses they still gad pride.. Y'all menstruate,the blood smells, naturally pussy smells..
So I really wonder why some niggas hold you at high esteem..
Only that you've come across weaklings disguising as real men..
Pity SIMPletons.
When you people can not argue intelligently, the next thing is to start insulting or body shaming women. What has menstruation and vagina got to do with what this thread is all about?

The intelligent people(both men and women) of this forum have tried to contribute meaningfully to this thread, but, it got to your own turn, you started talking meaninglessly.

My contribution to this thread is that the OP is a STINGY man and a DICTATOR. On top 80k salary, you want her to be spending like 60percent of her salary on running the home with you. As if the lady will not transport her self to work and come back from work.
She will buy personal things for herself like pads, she will make her hair, clothes, toiletries, she will still want to save from this same salary and what about urgent financial needs from her siblings and parents? e.t.c.

I am not saying a woman should not contribute to the running of her home, but, it shouldn't be the way the OP went about it and it shouldn't be made mandatory for her. The woman's opinion should be sought after on how she can help in running the home. If I were that lady, I will come up with house chores and running of errands like going the market, dropping the children at school e.t.c will be shared between myself and the OP. Since the OP is not man enough to shoulder the family responsibilities, I am also not woman enough to the house chores and running errands for the home.

Nyascobar1414:
Then stay single in peace!
Is that difficult?

I'm not the gender that pursues the other gender and still come online to cry about everything they do.

[quote author=Nyascobar1414 post=109085295]With all women weaknesses they still gad pride.. Y'all menstruate,the blood smells, naturally pussy smells..
So I really wonder why some niggas hold you at high esteem..
Only that you've come across weaklings disguising as real men..
Pity SIMPletons.
When you people can not argue intelligently, the next thing is to start insulting or body shaming women. What has menstruation and vagina got to do with what this thread is all about?
The intelligent people(both men and women) of this forum have tried to contribute meaningfully to this thread, but, it got to your own turn, you started talking meaninglessly.

My contribution to thing thread is that the OP is a STINGY man and a DICTATOR. On top 80k salary, you want her to be spending like 60percent of her salary on running the home with you. As if the lady will not transport her self to work and come back from work.
She will buy personal things for herself like pads, make- up kits, she will make her hair, clothes, toiletries, she will still want to save from this same salary and what about urgent financial needs from her siblings and parents? e.t.c.

I am not saying a woman should not contribute to the running of her home, but, it shouldn't be the way the OP went about it and it she shouldn't be made mandatory for her. The woman's opinion should be sought after on how she can help in running the home financially. If I were that lady, I will come up with how house chores and running of errands like going the market, dropping the children at school e.t.c will be shared between myself and the OP. Since the OP is not man enough to shoulder the family responsibilities, I am also not woman enough to do the house chores and running errands for the home.

[quote author=Tosin9119 post=109086157][/quote]I couldnt read all your epistles though..
All I can say is that the man should go find a woman with a better cash.. Why would he deny himself comfort just for a mere female...

lavamaestro:
I'm not the gender that pursues the other gender and still come online to cry about everything they do.

better that way!