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Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by goooze(m): 9:05am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Speak for yourself.Yes, i understand the roles of fathers in the house. But mothers plays bulk of it all. Children tend to love their mothers naturally than fathers. It's nature![/quote] 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by crislyn(f): 9:06am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Omakraid: This sounds like my dad..lol |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by OlawaleBammie: 9:07am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Spherical77:u no say a no quote u ooh Goan take care of ur mother and leave ur father in penury cus he deserves it |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Spherical77(m): 9:07am On Jan 10, 2022 |
CondemnBattery:I only know islam emphasise on mothers. I know biblically both parents were emphasised in proverb I'm yet to see where fathers was singlehandedly mentioned in bible unlike quoran that emphasised solely on mothers |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Kaybae(f): 9:08am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Loewe:That's my reason, you married like Two wives on top my mama and you want me to love you equally, No way. I will give my mother 90% because she is packed to one corner because of new wife. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by SmartyPants(m): 9:09am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Omakraid: I should think the meaning is clear enough. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Spherical77(m): 9:10am On Jan 10, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie:Mr who told you we would leave our fathers in penury? Fathers who lives under the same roof with the mother? Biko say something else |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by sulem4u: 9:10am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Spherical77:Love actually exists between mother and child but mothers manipulate alot if you look closely 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 9:13am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Spherical77: Says who. Nature? Nah |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Spherical77(m): 9:17am On Jan 10, 2022 |
ogwuche4u:You all think money, money and money is everything. Raising a responsible children goes beyond just money See eh, if that father died those children will still live and survived with the love of their mother But if a woman died in the house. Likelihood that those children will be maltreat and abused. A woman who had 4-5kids may chose to remain single and look after her kids But Men hardly do that sir. The few ones who does that would definitely have side chicks taking his attention It's easier for men to move on so easy and quickly after the death of his wife unlike the women The children sees all these sir You can't compare the love of someone who carried you for months and risk her life during child birth. Nurtured you with countless sleepless night. And you expect the children to love their fathers more than mothers because of money right? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Worksunlimited: 9:20am On Jan 10, 2022 |
finishmatter: Most sons think of their mother, especially when the papa suffer them, most daughters think of their father.. It's the way it is... |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by elantraceey(f): 9:20am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Because my mum does 70% of what your dad does. Doesn't mean I don't send to my dad sometimes though but mama will always come first and even daddy knows and acknowledges. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Nobody: 9:22am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Kaybae: Abi now... Our mothers really endured a lot in their matrimonial homes because of their kids... Even as a man, I know this and cannot even think of marrying 2 wives in my life, never! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Spherical77(m): 9:23am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Kaybae:I'm from a nuclear family and i love my mother more than my father This isn't about choice of family. It's almost natural for children to love their mothers more than their fathers except otherwise |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by 1Sharon(f): 9:23am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Men don't like to spend as much time with their kids like women do. As a result, they don't know their kids. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by elantraceey(f): 9:24am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Omakraid: Lol.... Seems there are a lot of fathers like this. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Alldew: 9:24am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Why are you guys afraid and now singing the song of also give to you father. Is it because you're getting old and you will be needing help? The thing is in every family setting the children knows who suffered more and when is time of harvest they know who to give more too. You can't be an irresponsible father and start chanting give to your father more. As for me my dad is no more and even if he was to be alive he will get far less than my mom. I was 17 when he died and trust me I know a lot about him. My mom is ready to empty her account just to see you succeed and she is still doing it till date. My mom will give you her phone and be phoneless till you get a new one. My mom will give you the last money on her so long it's for something that will better your life. So you men should stop with the blackmail of one day what you did to your dad will be done to you too. Listing all the things men do as if there are women who are not providing all the money for the family and at the same time showing care and love to the children. Both parents should put in more effort in taking care of their children. Dad should be bringing the money and the women pls don't deceive your children as if you are the one doing every thing. Also let the children know that their dad is also dropping something. I rest my case. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by DrFunmisticGlow: 9:25am On Jan 10, 2022 |
juman:I agree. My father throws low key tantrums when you don't get him a birthday gift. Same with my grandpa It's pure joy and peace in the house when you give him gifts. He also feels good. But what do you give the man that has everything? . I really need ideas for birthday gifts for him. I'm tired of scratching my head every year. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Spherical77(m): 9:28am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Akuruoulo:Alpha most men are useless compare to women |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by dododawa1: 9:31am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Africa( BLACK PEOPLE)training towards PARENTS is differ to( OYINBO, White people) when you are 18 over there,you are free not here,if 80 years,you must give both of them. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by CondemnBattery(f): 9:32am On Jan 10, 2022 |
My pastor's wife thought me a valuable lesson. She legitly told us to be smart as husbands, when the kids did something wrong in your absence and your wife did not discipline the child, but waits for you to come back and discipline them, don't. Make sure she disciplines them herself, otherwise your kids will think you are the wicked one and the evil one. Don't always give your wife all the money to buy things for the kids, take the children out to the market, buy them clothes, take them to the grocery store, buy the provision in their present. Let them know you are the one buying them. If you buy them shoes or anything, make sure they are aware that you are the one buying them. If you do all these, the kids will love you more. This is 2022, don't allow your wife rob you of your years of labor when it's time to reap. Impostor: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Samiah33(m): 9:32am On Jan 10, 2022 |
badaoyeyemi:And it's those man is good that opens the way for you. You think when those people say to him God bless you it's for him, it's for his children that the blessing goes to 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Kenfort(m): 9:34am On Jan 10, 2022 |
[quote author=Evidenx post=109235170]I LOVE BOTH MY DAD AND MUM,BUT WILL ALWAYS GIVE MY MUM MORE BECAUSE OF HER EXTRA LOVE AND CARE,ITS EXCEPTIONAL. DEAR FATHERS: Life is not just all about providing for your family,LOVE AND CARE,GETTING INVOLVED IN YOUR CHILDREN'S LIFE MATTERS ALOT. This is the mentality that is destroying Africa. Some fathers are trailer drivers who have the opportunity of coming home once every month. Since they risk their lives to provide for the family, their sacrifices are worthless because they are not present in their children's lives. When a man plays his role of providing for the family, a woman should simply play her own role of caring for the family without taking advantage of the situation 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by nwanyiugbo122(f): 9:39am On Jan 10, 2022 |
The bond is between mum and the children right from the womb. Dad will just drop money and go, but the nurturing and bonding is between the mother and children. Their love knows no bound. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by wolebest: 9:40am On Jan 10, 2022 |
I give equal to my Dad and Mum. In addition if any require extra, I give based on availability........... All I require of them now is their prayers. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by TechSpecialist(m): 9:41am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Nebes:God bless you for this enlightening post |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by juman(m): 9:45am On Jan 10, 2022 |
DrFunmisticGlow: Not everyone expects gifts during birthday but you give those desire for it. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by OlawaleBammie: 9:46am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Spherical77:ahh no na As una dey talk like say father no get responsibilities at all. I remember wen my mum left my dad I remember how mu dad would lock me and my younger sister indoor by night and went to farm amidst insecurity in the town just to get us food to eat before its dawn, if not we would go to school empty stomached I remember wen my dad would leave wateva he's doing in the evening just to cook for us I remember how my father was running helter-skelter just to pay for my waec and neco I remember how he sold property to pay my bills And one oponu will be telling me that mother cares is more than the father care, dont get me wrong, my mother had her on impact, she did well for me wen i was in higher institution but i cant compare it with the suffering and the shame my father borne cus of us. Make i gat money first, my parent go enjoy wella but my papa go know say he born pikin, i pray God keep both alive for me 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by damola1: 9:49am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Solid Ofadaman: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Qatar2022: 9:50am On Jan 10, 2022 |
superintendents:This comment show that you're still a kid, when you got married then you will know if fathers contribute only 30% |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by OlawaleBammie: 9:50am On Jan 10, 2022 |
CondemnBattery:Omooooooo am loving this aswear See sense biko, men are getting wiser |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Qatar2022: 9:51am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Spherical77:Kids talking trash , soon you will got married |
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