The worst embarrassment I received was from my MIL... she's kind and all but you know people have their own limit... She was like I should get a job quick ooo so I will not be depending on grandma grandma all the time, since then I stopped eating her food and stopped collecting this gs, i don't like when you're helping someone and then rubbing it on their faces, I would rather you don't help me.... I believe all the good things I have lost would be restored in jesus'name, I will have money again...

mommaJ:
For now it's just a few... Nairaland, Freelancer.com, Indeed, Golance, Reddit.

Thanks so much and God bless

Billyddude:


Thanks a lot....from my heart

Good afternoon.... been trying to credit you but your acc details keeps on saying invalid.

Sir, I just saw the alert. God bless you. I am so so so grateful. I don't take this lightly. You are truly my angel in the season.

May your pocket never be dry. You will prosper in your business. For coming to my aid, before your need arises there will be supply. May God bless you, your family and may your generation come reap the dividend of your good deeds.

Thank you so much. amdman. Thank you so much. Thank you and thank you. I am so overwhelmed.

amdman:


I have replied to your PM.

Respond with your bank details.

BKsoul2:
Good afternoon.... been trying to credit you but your acc details keeps on saying invalid.

..pls try this access Bank .it's not access diamond...thanks a lot and sorry for the wahala

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isaiah4life:
Two days back, my little brother was diagnosed with malaria. It was indeed severe and I was cash strapped. I told the pharmacist to treat him while I hustle the money for him.

Unfortunately, I was unable to pay for his treatments as promised. Today, the dude just disgraced me in our area. Shouting on top of his voice that he didn't leave his village to serve me here and raining curses like a hurricane.

I was speechless. You know, the borrower is a slave to the lender. I begged him to give me till 30 December 2021 to see how I can raise the 10k. Someone sent me 1k I gave him to hold. If you see the way the dude threw the money at me and insulted my dead father eeh. I was just silent and I bowed out.

I can't even pass my area now because all eyes will be on me. Last last, I know I will make this money.

When I eventually have the money to pay him before the deadline, I will walk up to him, thank him for extending his grace period and leave.

The war is not against him but poverty.

UPDATE

I paid the pharmacist on the 22nd of December, 2021.

Days ago, I typed the above ordeal to just share my personal experience expecting nothing. I just typed to give a new narrative to how I handled my menace.

It wasn't long before, a good Samaritan (amdman ) reach out to me and credited my account with the exact amount needed to offset my brother's bill. I went to the pharmacist's shop and gave him his money. I thanked him for extending his grace period, appreciated him with an additional 2k to make it 12k for his kind gesture and I apologised for causing him distress.

He was perplexed and thanked me. I said, thank those that helped me out with the money.

He wanted to apologise for insulting my late father, but before he could finish his sentence, I obstructed him and told him not to. I told him I understand his rage and I promised never to cause him or anybody mayhem again.

As he was there trying to be emotional, I left.

Once again, thank you amdman for coming to my aid.

Remember, THE FIGHT IS NOT AGAINST HUMANS, BUT POVERTY.

Awwwwwn...... This is so emotional...

elonmuxk:
hmmm mine was last week, mom is owing 3 people money from weekly savings in her pepper grinders association due to a neighbor she decided to help, the neighbor parked out of the area without notice after collecting first 2 numbers of 200k making 400k in total. leaving my mom to the debt.


The people expecting their money won't hear explanation and last week one came with police to arrest my mom, it was really embarrassing the insults I got from the lady and policemen that I can't help as first born and was helpless watching mom go with them.


Now we have 2 weeks deadline and Police issues too, we put up our house for sale to pay up and relocate after the whole police disgrace, I also posted here on nairaland but nobody is forthcoming for the purchase, or even to use the house as collateral for a loan, it's a total embarrassment because my family have always been a quiet peaceful one without dramas in the area.


Now I can't go out only very late at night

Omooor... This is embarassing... How's your mom? How's her health? I pray the Lord will bring you out of this situation in jesus'name

Thanks.

Lamanii22:



Awwwwwn...... This is so emotional...

Just owing my landlady six months rent and I promised to pay around October but i felt seriously sick few days to the time I gave her which made me spare some few cashes I had wanted to give her. I've been trying to sort else where cos I don't know what I could possibly say to her since I have defaulted the promise plus I don't like giving excuses. I was walking with some one along her shop last month and I had a face to face encounter with her, I felt so embarrassed as i was trying to greet her and she intentionally shuned me. Omo, it was like I have never being that embarrassed before. I just left without the person I was going with knowing whatsup.

BKsoul2:
Good afternoon.... been trying to credit you but your acc details keeps on saying invalid.

Good afternoon ma. Pls if u have any change to spare consider me. Things are really tough. God bless and a merry Christmas.

BKsoul2:
ok..... please i will send it tomorrow morning....have a lil patience ... but i have copied the acc details... you can delete it...

pls I did not hear from you again..hope all is well

elonmuxk:
hmmm mine was last week, mom is owing 3 people money from weekly savings in her pepper grinders association due to a neighbor she decided to help, the neighbor parked out of the area without notice after collecting first 2 numbers of 200k making 400k in total. leaving my mom to the debt.


The people expecting their money won't hear explanation and last week one came with police to arrest my mom, it was really embarrassing the insults I got from the lady and policemen that I can't help as first born and was helpless watching mom go with them.


Now we have 2 weeks deadline and Police issues too, we put up our house for sale to pay up and relocate after the whole police disgrace, I also posted here on nairaland but nobody is forthcoming for the purchase, or even to use the house as collateral for a loan, it's a total embarrassment because my family have always been a quiet peaceful one without dramas in the area.


Now I can't go out only very late at night

Just because of four hundred thousand you and your family want to sell your house. Na wa for una.


There is nothing the police and those people will do na credit you hold una go surely pay.

If you like make you drink sniper die na you and your family go loose

Those people you dey shame for why them nor come pay the credit so that you nor go dey shame so that you go fit dey waka for day time instead of night.

Embarrassment plenty abeg.
Help a friend.
2121354619...zenith

BKsoul2:
I just sent it now.... am sorry for the delay.... please manage..... Do you live in Lagos I will like to send some food to you....

You have a good heart though.

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DrMrsFunmi:

You have a good heart though.

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Nothing nothing for your two inch dick you this small boy faking with a grown woman's moniker

Igbaf:




Hello sis,sorry to be a bother. Please which sites do you source these online gigs? Have been out of job for some years now and would be glad to get a heads-up on sites I can earn money,no matter how little. Thanks and God bless

Send me a PM let me introduce you to something you may thank me for

tosyne2much:
Send me a PM let me introduce you to something you may thank me for

boss tosyne,pls can i send you a pm too?i don't mind tapping into that knowledge also

tosyne2much:
Send me a PM let me introduce you to something you may thank me for

Good Afternoon Boss, Can I also PM you please?

gfon:
boss tosyne,pls can i send you a pm too?i don't mind tapping into that knowledge also

Alright boss

Adejuliet:


Good Afternoon Boss, Can I also PM you please?

Alright

Mine came from my wife.

Tokskob2008:
What more can be termed embarrassing than when family members don't even care if you alive or dead all because money no dey but let situation change now you will start hearing 'I'm your father's brother mother " or some other ridiculous stuffs... Honestly money someone without money in this life is a walking dead.

All my cousin sisters got married without informing me about it

It very wrong to borrow from your partner's people as a man..

What's wrong with men these days!?

Everyone seems to forget who they are, ah!!!

Germi9:

All my cousin sisters got married without informing me about it

Imagine,really sad!

When I was in university, someone said to me and I quote "you no go change this your uniform?" .

Practically, I was wearing the same clothes and trouser for almost a week so tay person don see am as my uniform. I cried deep inside.

From my wife o. Told me I dont have passion for money.

isaiah4life:
Two days back, my little brother was diagnosed with malaria. It was indeed severe and I was cash strapped. I told the pharmacist to treat him while I hustle the money for him.

Unfortunately, I was unable to pay for his treatments as promised. Today, the dude just disgraced me in our area. Shouting on top of his voice that he didn't leave his village to serve me here and raining curses like a hurricane.

I was speechless. You know, the borrower is a slave to the lender. I begged him to give me till 30 December 2021 to see how I can raise the 10k. Someone sent me 1k I gave him to hold. If you see the way the dude threw the money at me and insulted my dead father eeh. I was just silent and I bowed out.

I can't even pass my area now because all eyes will be on me. Last last, I know I will make this money.

When I eventually have the money to pay him before the deadline, I will walk up to him, thank him for extending his grace period and leave.

The war is not against him but poverty.

UPDATE

I paid the pharmacist on the 22nd of December, 2021.

Days ago, I typed the above ordeal to just share my personal experience expecting nothing. I just typed to give a new narrative to how I handled my menace.

It wasn't long before, a good Samaritan (amdman ) reach out to me and credited my account with the exact amount needed to offset my brother's bill. I went to the pharmacist's shop and gave him his money. I thanked him for extending his grace period, appreciated him with an additional 2k to make it 12k for his kind gesture and I apologised for causing him distress.

He was perplexed and thanked me. I said, thank those that helped me out with the money.

He wanted to apologise for insulting my late father, but before he could finish his sentence, I obstructed him and told him not to. I told him I understand his rage and I promised never to cause him or anybody mayhem again.

As he was there trying to be emotional, I left.

Once again, thank you amdman for coming to my aid.

Remember, THE FIGHT IS NOT AGAINST HUMANS, BUT POVERTY.

My brother thank you for your wisdom!!

With this kind of God's given wisdom, there's no way you won't succeed..

The world would be a better place if we engaged in self-realization...

Plus10:
A friend just called me of how he was embarrassed by his Sister inlaw because of the money she borrowed him sometime ago.

According to him, his Sister-inlaw came to his house last week Wednesday to ask for the money. But unfortunately he did not have the money to give to her but he however promised her on Wednesday this week.

He made the promise hoping that the company where he works was going to pay him yesterday Wednesday. But unfortunately, the company later prosponed it to tomorrow Friday.

Now according to him, the Sister inlaw came to his house today to ask of the cash. When he was trying to explain to her that the company has shifted payment till tomorrow Friday, the Sister-inlaw starting yelling at him with a very loud voice even neighbours around were hearing her yelling. She called him stupid and foolish even in the presence of his wife. Now my friend is highly diverstated, he said he does not even know how his neighbours will start seeing him with the kind disgrace meted on him by his Sister in law.

Now has lack of money caused you any form of embarrassment in life before? If yes, how did you manage to hold back? Your comments are highly welcome!

What I don't understand is why a grown man will borrow money without any intention of paying back. If you wait for a lender to ask for their money back then you know you've owed for too long.

I'm not saying her approach was right but sometimes if you don't behave that way, people will push you about.