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Please married folks in the house,

My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.

Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.

It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.

Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.

I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young.

Married men are truly suffering in this country


My prayers are with them

Don't be scared. She's just showing you her true colors. Just buy helmet so that she won't break your head one day.

On a serious note :
Kick the fvvcking retired hoeloeshoe back to her parents house until she receive sense.
What kind of Lily livered men do we have nowadays

Damnnnn!!!! Can someone please get me a good song to mend a broken Heart?? Thanks

I'm fucking tired of the relationship I'm into currently...


About your own case Sir...I have nothing special to say..

Are you waiting until she stabs you in your sleep?

Tolerating a violent partner is an absolute no no...if I were you I would send her away without looking back!

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnnn!!!! Can someone please get me a good song to mend a broken Heart?? Thanks

I'm fucking tired of the relationship I'm into currently... ..

Another one .

For every ment there's always a counter ment and that's why i tell married men who come to me for marriage counsel/ therapy that if you want peace in ur home, always be the trouble maker and a type your wife would want to avoid trouble with at any cost

The wife you spent money and resource to bring to ur home so you can bear her burden and cater for her needs free of charge is bringing out a knife on you?? Do you still need a prophet to tell you it's high time you have both of her hands on POP tied to her neck with a swollen mouth/eyes that would not make her speak for two weeks??

The generation of men we're breeding these days makes me loose urge especially when my libido is high

OP, I have just one thing to tell you, as a Man(though you're half man) never take marital advice from a woman.

Women here will tell you to pray, fast, have one on one discussion with her, tell her parents, blah blah blah. Don't listen to them. That woman in your house will never change. You'll never have peace of mind with such woman..worst scenario, she will kill you.

Sir, It's a sign that ur marriage will not last long

If she carry weapon, you sef carry weapon.
Feminism is Equality.

Kobicove:
Are you waiting until she stabs you in your sleep?

Tolerating a violent partner is an absolute no no...if I were you I would send her away without looking back!

God bless you.

ValCon888:
If she carry knife, you sef carry cutlass/machete
Feminism is Equality.

I decree blessings on you this week

If she wasn't like that previously, it's because poor advice corrupts excellent manners. And if you've previously threatened or beaten her, her behavior could be perceived as defensive, or she could be like that—being disrespectful to you because you permitted it.

the right time for you to walk away is now and safe your life.

Men i am kinda speechless! The more calm and docile u remain the more emboldened she becomes!
I will suggest you inform her patents and yours of this her attitude first. If she persists make sure you let her know who the man is!

When next she tries such beat the hell out of her. But make sure you lock up all the knives.

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tyup:
For every ment there's always a counter ment and that's why i tell married men who come to me for marriage counsel/ therapy that if you want peace in ur home, always be the trouble maker and a type your wife would want to avoid trouble with at any cost

The wife you spent money and resource to bring to ur home so you can bear her burden and cater for her needs is bringing out a knife on you. Do you still need a prophet to tell you it's high time you have both of her hands on POP tied to the neck with a swollen mouth that would not make her speak for two weeks??

The generation of men we're breeding these days makes me loose urge especially when my libido is high

Hahahahaha

tyup:
I decree blessings on you this week

Amen brother

Life first, oga Op, send her back to her father's house because if care is not taken we might see and read how a NLander was stabbed to death by his wife.

Pursue this black goat in the morning o

tyup:
For every ment there's always a counter ment and that's why i tell married men who come to me for marriage counsel/ therapy that if you want peace in ur home, always be the trouble maker and a type your wife would want to avoid trouble with at any cost

The wife you spent money and resource to bring to ur home so you can bear her burden and cater for her needs free of charge is bringing out a knife on you?? Do you still need a prophet to tell you it's high time you have both of her hands on POP tied to her neck with a swollen mouth/eyes that would not make her speak for two weeks??

The generation of men we're breeding these days makes me loose urge especially when my libido is high

@bolded

You're intelligent. Can I marry your brain?


It's more noble for your wife to report your nasty behaviours to your parents than you reporting your wife's nasty behaviours to her parents. As a married man, always be the troublemaker in the house.

That's how it starts,

Just pray you don't end up on Nairaland front-page with the title.

"Nairalander stabbed to death by his Violent Wife"

Oga...deal with that woman mercilessly, forget any advice telling you to pray or have any conversation with her ...listen, sometimes you need to act like a mentally deranged fellow to drive home your point...else your wife will continue to see you as such...na higher madness we dey use cure madness, if you like stay there and be lamenting...worst case scenario, the devil will minister to her one day and she will kill you...her eye go clear...you may be gone by then... I hate rubbish

I recently broke up with my violent girlfriend, she has almost similar attitude...na my own madness I use pursue her...you need to understand that women are so manipulative, if you continue to act all calm and gentleman...brother your name go be sorry

All these leeches needs to be taught a lesson

Nawa oo weak men everywhere...the world is now female I swear...but for me will definitely have a � control over my family if I get married or WTF about all this marriage issues lately

Lucaslookers:
On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.

First of all abort this mission! @bolded

If she can be this violent now, just imagine what she becomes when she has enough resources.

Also she's seeing your gentility as weakness, be man of the house. If she threatens you, shut her down - an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth!

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding. It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife. Again this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do?
My marriage is still young

Investigate your wife, she maybe cheating on you that's why she's reacting that way, i maybe wrong though but do proper investigations

Lucaslookers:
next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do?
My marriage is still young

Maybe it is time to engage the aide of a professional marriage counselor. Since she has already pulled out weapons in the past, having a third party there is best to help mediate and maybe dig to discover the root cause of the problem which may be psychological- mental illness - as that is what I suspect from what you have said so far.

Also consider a temporary separation or living apart until the problem is resolved. I am not here attempting to break up your marriage, No. I am interested in helping you save it.

Abortion without telling you? I think she did you a favour. She is a nice woman she does not want you to be one of the numerous victims of paternity fraud.

Don't worry the baby she aborted was not yours.

There are some wrongdoings by a woman, if forgiven, that woman WILL NEVER EVER RESPECT YOU.

She has to go. You can't save her, save yourself.

You should have opt for a baby mama. Marriage is not encouraging these days

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding. It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife. Again this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do?
My marriage is still young

Send her packing to her parents home until her brain gets formatted else she might end up injuring or worse case scenario killing you, you don't tolerate a violent partner.

Qatar2022:
Investigate your wife, she maybe cheating on you that's why she's reacting that way, i maybe wrong though but do proper investigations

She actually cheated and aborted . The man eye will clear soon.

Bro, u gat to be very careful ooo. This one she carries weapon like Rambo. hmmm, make she no stab u to death one day ooo, in the name of quarrel. I would advise that u warn her, if she refuses, tell her parents. Let them caution her.

Op,you suppose throw welcome party for the new demon wey don rent 3-bed room flat for your wife body

Well,earlier you put her where she rightfully belongs,the better for you .

Op,na matter of time before you go begin collect different kind of stabbing from her.....Tame and never tolerate her now,if not.........