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Truvelisback:
What the man told u abt the woman, might not be true. The man might have said so perhaps, he felt u would be a barrier to him from not having sex with her.

Even when according to the story, the woman didn't deny saying it when she was confronted, you are still defending the woman.

I don't even know what to call you

You men are useless liars,tell us she refuse to give you her pussy.


You men are shameless.

Na the same coat me nd you wear bros

bummyla:
So sad Bros! One of the problems I am having in my marriage is because I am a very tall and huge guy, marrying an average tall, very slim lady, who has a baby face. Everybody believes everything she says about, because of the huge gap in strength! But thank God she is not a good liar, the few times, I had to defend myself, people were screaming, and once she starts crying! Case close, she wins again.


Men are endangered species!

Women are dangerous and shameless liars. Happened to me too, years back. I became a misogynist, girls saw hell in my hands particularly when the money started rolling in. I shattered hearts and destroyed careers. I targeted high value, independent women with great career prospects. On at least four different occassions an ex has sent me chats/messages with the theme "you have destroyed my self esteem bla, bla... "

One thing I noticed abound this female gender is insecurity.They are always insecure even if they are the ones doing you a favor.
The men are the cause of this because their lives revolves around how the male gender see them
I can beat my chest that 95% of men on this planet Earth are simps.So this female gender takes advantage of this simpleton men and that is why the world today, favours this female gender more than it's opposite gender.The day men stop being a simpleton is the day the table will be turned

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

Una no get work.
See the sought of thing you guys are discussing.
I see why they would say you want to sleep with her.
My Neighbor is not talking with me and my Fiancée for a year plus, I just told my woman to avoid her.
No greet am, mind your business and move on.

Truvelisback:
What the man told u abt the woman, might not be true. The man might have said so perhaps, he felt u would be a barrier to him from not having sex with her.

Did the woman deny when confronted by the man

Made a promise not to lend money to any woman � again this year. Them no de gree payback

FanOfMyself:
I will find time to narrate what transpired between me and a girl whom I saved her life and who happens to be a flatmate. I am convinced that an average girl (maybe it's only Nigerian girls) feels entitled. Everything I will write will be nothing but the truth. It's going to be a long read tho.

Make you mention me here if e don set.. I'm interested.

This was part of the reason, when I was still single, I did not encourage any form of closeness with females living around me. I would often say 'hello' and move away at once; this lifestyle resulted in my being nicknamed 'Mind your business' by many of those ladies.
I did not, and still do not, have time for 'this person said' and 'that person said' form of silly gossip or quarrels and this gave me peace of mind unending.

Godada:



This is an interesting write up but based on the setting, it's instructive to note the calibre of people involved: low lives. Face me I face you kind of setting.


The mental intelligence of the people involved is low and limited. Why? Accusations cannot be made based on assumptions.

What is wrong here is a case of slander. An appropriate course of legal action should be pursued by the guy in question.

It's asinine to assume a man who wants to help you wants to screw you. While the lady is busy working in Chevron, she wants to get paid in Total. That's tells the calibre of people at play here.

Anyway case it's obvious society favors the women and also kids. You have a marital tussle, custody of kids is given to the woman.

There is war in the land, women and kids are given consideration. A woman slaps a man, if he hits back, he is called unprintable names.

Lots of women knows this and exploits it to their best advantage.

So it's left for men is to rise up to the challenge that awaits them.

The society favors women.

The social status doesn't matter, women lie across the socio-economic board.

Men defending fellow men is very important but the problem is that we have growing number of pro max SIMPs.

Even as bad as the accusation is, see all the women that commented here still defending the woman, with some already saying that the story is fake.
A lot of Men will never do that for their fellow men.
smh

QueenAgbo:
You men are useless liars,tell us she refuse to give you her pussy.


You men are shameless.

That is how I have many of them messaging me here on nairaland for sex.

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

I would advise you to stop talking to all the men and women in that compound if possible move out , that dude you call your neighbour can kill you because of that smelling woman he is having sex with, Look at the way he believed her without A word of doubt my guy try move out of that place before she go lie another lie out for your head , some women are terrible and it is simps like those men in your compound that encourage their foolish behaviour better leave that place or Quit talking to them . God has opened your eyes to what is coming in the future... some women are just terrible people walllahi

blackgold2018:
wisdom.
He must have giving out indirect vibe to the lady

Certainly, his victimization came through his friend. He may had pointed out a vibe to his friend (neighbor) who later made the whole thing so complex. When dealing with women you always expect the unexpected. My point is he would have been able to avoid all these drama if he has applied simple common sense.
The woman did not work for you and you want to gift abi borrow her 20k then you come NL dey come cry for people to help you say you are innocent.
I hear you sir, angel Gabriel! I don't know you are the Fourth person of the blessed trinity.

Godada:



This is an interesting write up but based on the setting, it's instructive to note the calibre of people involved: low lives. Face me I face you kind of setting.


The mental intelligence of the people involved is low and limited. Why? Accusations cannot be made based on assumptions.

What is wrong here is a case of slander. An appropriate course of legal action should be pursued by the guy in question.

It's asinine to assume a man who wants to help you wants to screw you. While the lady is busy working in Chevron, she wants to get paid in Total. That's tells the calibre of people at play here.

Anyway case it's obvious society favors the women and also kids. You have a marital tussle, custody of kids is given to the woman.

There is war in the land, women and kids are given consideration. A woman slaps a man, if he hits back, he is called unprintable names.

Lots of women knows this and exploits it to their best advantage.

So it's left for men is to rise up to the challenge that awaits them.

The society favors women.

I laughed when he was happy he bought bed for 95000 naira. He is definitely living among low lives. That's why they reason in such low way. I'm sure they're lots of illiterates amongst them.

Dizzyyish:
Women...
https://www.nairaland.com/6940959/women-essentially-children-waec

Your experience is so unfortunate. The society is skewed against men on such issues. I have helped several young women and men without asked for anything. God wants us to show agape love to mankind. Two needy ladies I have only seen physically once that I gave N50,000 each in December 2021 for their business, I requested that the should block me after and if they do not, I will block them so that subsequent communications does not lead to sentimental attachment or them trying to show me gratitude by becoming too friendly. I have blocked both beautiful ladies, aged 25 & 28 years since end of December 2021 and will not re-contact them. One has assisted up to three young ladies in such manner with some given over N100,000, without sex involved. If you REALIZE it is by God's grace that you have whatever you have on earth, feel free to give out without demanding touching body or sex or online sexual gratification. This is the attitude men should adopt to avoid he widespread belief that all men want sex from women. Our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

Oga u are talking plenty plenty,u are the cause of ur problem as a SIMP wey u be..so u are not ashamed to want to give 20k to an olosho who is also going around to tarnish ur image?y didn’t her bf ur neighbor give her?na so be captain save a hoe na..sense is Farr from u. If na man ask u now u will find stories to give and I’m also sure ur family members are in need of help somewhere and u are here forming rescue to a hoe that ur alpha male neighbor is f.vcking left and Right..

Oga fv.ck outa here jare u disgust me. If to say na reasonable woman sef it Willen understandable but a clear hoe that was shouting about sleeping with men for money which she did intentionally for u to hear and that would have been another red flag for u to know she isn’t a good person or worth it still ur brain no help u work well..u deserve worse than embarrassment sef bloody simps who never learn

Solofresh2:
One thing I noticed abound this female gender is insecurity.They are always insecure even if they are the ones doing you a favor.
The men are the cause of this because their lives revolves around how the male gender see them
I can beat my chest that 95% of men on this planet Earth are simps.So this female gender takes advantage of this simpleton men and that is why the world today, favours this female gender more than it's opposite gender.The day men stop being a simpleton is the day the table will be turned

Word!

aribisala0:
In this life we attract circumstances and people that are on the same vibration as our thinking.
AS within so without. We are the architects of our lives and whatevr happens to us reflects our thinking and mindset

Nonsense.

So people who are robbed deserved it? People get into accidents because of their mindset?

Foolish statement.

FORWARDEVERLY:
You always try to appear intelligent and civil but you are not an inch close to either of them..

A man is complaining of what can be tagged in law as Defamation and you call it Hate.. shame on you Kid and I feel so sorry for anybody within your reach that may look up to you, it is better such a person look up to Buhari cos he would offer him or her more intellectually and logically..

Run along little Man..

If you can't see the hate then you are as unintelligent as the OP who wants to
assist a random stranger with 20K.

Does he not have a mother, brothers and relatives in need of even 5K to eat?

Jman06:
What rubbish hate are you referring to That op complained for being falsely accused by the idiotic lady What nonsense!

@op, even here on nairaland, the bias against men is very obvious. Ladies here make posts against men on a daily, they brag about how they turned down men or used and dumped men and everybody hails them for that. They're encouraged not to settle for less and all, yet when a guy is the one making such posts, he's called a hater, misogynist and other unprintable names.

The most annoying ones are the guys who encourage such biases against their fellow men. They expect you to be a "real man" by sitting back and absorbing whatever bullsh1t thrown at you by the female gender. "Real men" kii them dia! I hate such men who always wanna form "real man" by taking sh1t from women with passion! They disgust me!

You and your ilk create hundreds of post daily making up imaginary stories just
to insult women.
Almost all stories from romance and family section that grace front page is about
your victimhood.
What is strange is that you are still the one crying despite all the wokeness and attention-seeking.

Oga u are talking plenty plenty,u are the cause of ur problem as a SIMP wey u be..so u are not ashamed to want to give 20k to an olosho who is also going around to tarnish ur image?y didn’t her bf ur neighbor give her?na so be captain save a hoe na..sense is Farr from u. If na man ask u now u will find stories to give and I’m also sure ur family members are in need of help somewhere and u are here forming rescue to a hoe that ur alpha male neighbor is f.vcking left and Right..

Oga fv.ck outa here jare u disgust me. If to say na reasonable woman sef it Willen understandable but a clear hoe that was shouting about sleeping with men for money which she did intentionally for u to hear and that would have been another red flag for u to know she isn’t a good person or worth it still ur brain no help u work well..u deserve worse than embarrassment sef bloody simps who never learn

Iyeabe come and see this shameless men.

eneazi:
I'm surrounded by good men, and it breaks my heart when i read things like this, about a woman trying to dent a man's name and sees nothing wrong with it.

The biased law in the society contributes immensely to this, these women know the arsenal placed in their hands and most times use it to their advantage, bringing down good men.

It's terrible.
Been surrounded by good women too all my life,and unfortunately, my first observation of d other side of women is coming from a wife,not even a girlfriend, then added to the online stories as apparently more men are speaking up on what they face from bad women.
It's a terrible pity

Moreover, most women don't understand or know what like is.95% of them.They miss love for attraction.There own definition of love is on what they can get and if you are able to provide it,then they call it love, which is wrong.
Funny enough most of this simpletons you see out there actually understand what love is but the women take advantage of it.And when these simps realized they've been played, they later transform to a monster and a beast to this Women.
Simps should keep that life is not a paradise.Every thing can not be perfect here or earth so they should make use of their heads when dealing with women

Some men have a very pure heart to everyone but once you break their hearts, they become a monster.This category of people don't deserve to be here on this cruel world, they deserve better but God knows best

KingOfTheDamned:
Unfortunately ther are too many simps ..

My useless bastard boss for example is a billionaire . Who will rather buy his wheres flats is foreshore Osborne estate ikoyi at 240 million than invest 100k in a young man who wasn't to start a small business.

These Simps out number us Unfortunately. Either way Aluta continua comrade

that's horrible, u mean as a married man, he still spends money on prostitutes

Nobody can accuse me of something like that and people will believe.
Nah.
I am not too familiar with people. Just greet and go.

I sat an observed that good and responsible men are slowly been frustrated into extinction. No wonder younger men are reluctant to settle down into conventional marriages. Living abroad is worse for men, and terrible for black men. And after slaving for the family, you still need God and the woman to enjoy the fruits of your labor at old age. I can say be close to God so you can be vindicated, cause the world does not favor good hearted men.

BigBashiru:
Men cause more of violent problems. But women create equivalently dangerous problems that are oven not violent but have the end effects of violence e.g.

Screwing men in divorce courts.
Becoming baby mamas
Telling men I do/ I want when they don't really mean it
Jumping from man to man in search of the best man (men are guilty of this too)

Nonsense. You males do exactly everything you listed up there plus the fact that you people are violent and comprise majority of criminals.

Kingcalls:
I don't even need any man to stand for me cos I know they are alot of simps loitering everywhere... if as a woman , u try me , I will give u the kind of treatment the Nazis gave the Jews and if any simp comes to her rescue, he will join her in the gas chamber .... the truth b say women look at face first b4 they disrespect u ... I no de pity dem cos they too don't pity men ... any woman that raises her voice at me , I will return it with a resounding slap on her face... go call police ... police no even fit do anything as long as u have money and connections... woman no de try me ooo and they know it.. I am very nice to women and very generous, but if u try take advantage, or try to form over familiarity, I will humble u... once a woman sees that u are a simp, she will drag u to her feet and step on u like a mat ...

For women to respect u , give them the FFK or Dino treatment...do u think Asari Dokubo , Nnamdi kanu , Nyesom Wike , fayose wife them fit try them?? They dare not mess with those men ... if Dino decides to date Tonto for a year, trust me , she go humble ...u will not hear peem... if he's done with her , u no go even know when dem matter end...thats cos women de look face... they only disrespect simps ... if FFK was a simp , he wud hv lost those kids and will never have access to them and will still b forced to b paying millions monthly in child support with insults from the woman on social media ... FFK spent millions on IVF and gender selection to hv male children he never had, and one broke bitch will want to claim the kids after spending over 30million on that alone... na only simps u fit play that wayo give

You are basing your facts on two,three men who form bragado outside thousands of strong men who are well above their peers in everything in public are humbled by their women in private..those men you mentioned have to put on a facade cos of their job..in private the strong silent woman gently and subtly controls her mans..its a power women have thats beyond understanding..
Some women have discovered it and used it with wisdom to their benefit or without wisdom to their detriment, some dont even know they have it..

I see women as human being, don't dish me wat u can't take,u slap me once u get double or triple,u slander u get it in folds.
If am nt a real man,l dnt care but u can't take my joy or dignity cos in ur own context that will make me a real man.
I'm very immune to any form of manipulations,can't u see am a woman,can't u also see am a man too...

Only weak men want to act like a real man a woman expect, real men know who they are already, not until someone tell them