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syntekelite:
You are basing your facts on two,three men who form bragado outside thousands of strong men who are well above their peers in everything in public are humbled by their women in private..those men you mentioned have to put on a facade cos of their job..in private the strong silent woman gently and subtly controls her mans..its a power women have thats beyond understanding..
Some women have discovered it and used it with wisdom to their benefit or without wisdom to their detriment, some dont even know they have it..

There is a different between respecting a woman that respects u and us submissive... yes a tough man should definitely lay down his guards.... but if she wan do werey tins , then u hv to match her down....thats y wise men watch the type of women they marry

What a joke, just imagine gender of robbers and killers saying they need protection from women.
What a complete and utter joke.

You fools can go ahead and be gay, date your fellow men if you think women are dangerous.

Bunch of stupid complainers.

Kingcalls:
I don't even need any man to stand for me cos I know they are alot of simps loitering everywhere... if as a woman , u try me , I will give u the kind of treatment the Nazis gave the Jews and if any simp comes to her rescue, he will join her in the gas chamber .... the truth b say women look at face first b4 they disrespect u ... I no de pity dem cos they too don't pity men ... any woman that raises her voice at me , I will return it with a resounding slap on her face... go call police ... police no even fit do anything as long as u have money and connections... woman no de try me ooo and they know it.. I am very nice to women and very generous, but if u try take advantage, or try to form over familiarity, I will humble u... once a woman sees that u are a simp, she will drag u to her feet and step on u like a mat ...

For women to respect u , give them the FFK or Dino treatment...do u think Asari Dokubo , Nnamdi kanu , Nyesom Wike , fayose wife them fit try them?? They dare not mess with those men ... if Dino decides to date Tonto for a year, trust me , she go humble ...u will not hear peem... if he's done with her , u no go even know when dem matter end...thats cos women de look face... they only disrespect simps ... if FFK was a simp , he wud hv lost those kids and will never have access to them and will still b forced to b paying millions monthly in child support with insults from the woman on social media ... FFK spent millions on IVF and gender selection to hv male children he never had, and one broke bitch will want to claim the kids after spending over 30million on that alone... na only simps u fit play that wayo give

One bottle of ogoro and alomo bitters for you. Do you take snake pepper soup?

Pls bro, move out of 'face me I face you'

Does not change the fact that, we should honor a woman, when she has a good character.

All woman have great potential, so they should be encouraged and not attacked, this has nothing to do with women, its just a case of slander.

Some men are not educating themselves sufficiently, there is need for more awareness, on why violence is not acceptable, or hasty generalization. Lets remember, we are all humans, and that is a common denominator.

Parents should help to bring up their children, so they don't have gender bias and inbuilt or ingrained violence against gender.

true2god:
One bottle of ogoro and alomo bitters for you. Do you take snake pepper soup?

Thx for the kind gesture

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

Never ever allow your female neighbor to enter your apartment. Secondly, let your dealing be made public or better still through texts so that you can have receipts

see this one what can you offer apart from your body abeg shift make i see road.

Bobmarie:
How is asinine to assume that a man that wants to help you wants to screw you too? Do you know how many experiences I have under my belt with this particular topic?

Are you talking about Nigerian men? Calling anyone foolish for assuming that of Nigerian men is just absurd. 90 percent of them do not give things for free without wanting your body and you know it. Any man that will quote me for this knows it.


You lot can’t even pretend.

That your neighbor is a big simp for believing that woman, and for giving you attitude based on the opinion of a woman. THAT YOUR NEIGHBOUR IS NOT A MAN AND YOU SHOULD NOT ASSOCIATE WITH HIM.

lecturer50:
A 27 year old divorced woman with 3 kids came to me to borrow N20,000 to add and pay house rent.

I told her I would give her money in a few weeks time when I get the money.

Last week, she came back from her nursery school teaching job and right from the door of my room, she started shouting " I cannot sell my body for money"

I asked her what happened and she claimed men wanted to sleep with her to give her the N20,000.

I consoled her and told her that some men like giving women such condition before they can help the women.

She answered that if I am among such men who sleep with women before helping them, I should tell her so she could forget about coming to me.

I said that I am not among such men and that I would give her the money when I get it.

She thanked me and left.

I have a male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with. It was the male neighbor who advised her to come to me because he is not working.

That my male neighbor started giving me attitude. He answered my greetings grudgingly.

I wanted to stop greeting him.

But then I observed that my next yard female neighbors also did the same. They stopped answering my greetings. That divorced woman is living with/near those female neighbors. Other males around were still friendly with me, except my next door male neighbor whom the woman has been having sex with.

So i asked my male neighbor what the problem was because he and the females around were giving me attitude.

He said nothing at first.

Later, he said in a friendly manner that I should have respected myself and not asked the woman for sex, because when he started having sex with the woman, it was she who initiated the move, and not him.

He opened up to me that the woman has been telling people that I wanted to sleep with her for the money.

I was so shocked and ran to go and meet the woman, but he held me and said that the woman strongly warned him not to confront me if he wanted her to continue visiting him.

I told him the true situation of things and he said I should forget everything because she is "just a woman".

I wasn't having any of this, so I confronted her in the front of her female friends in her room.

She answered that she believed we misunderstood ourselves. She said am I not a man? Why must what I heard bother me.

Some males around said I should forget it because the society has given women weapon against men which is rape/sexual assault allegations, because even if women are lying against men, people would still believe the women.

They said that the best a man should do is to hope he is not falsely accused by a woman because there is nothing he can say that anyone would believe him.

Because the society believes a man always wants to have sex with every woman, therefore every accusation from women would be immediately believed.

I answered them that even if a person is a chronic thief who is well known as a thief, he would not keep quiet and just accept it when he is accused of stealing what he did not steal. He would shout and defend himself.

At least let them accused him of what he stole and not what he didn't steal.

They say I am a man and it is nothing to a man if a woman accused him of wanting to sleep with her. One girl there was telling me that there was nothing wrong in a man wanting to sleep with any woman. That there is nothing to be ashamed of as a man, if you have a desire to sleep with any woman.

Can you imagine that?

I believe the society should form a group to cater for men also.

So many black men were falsely accused by white women and were killed because no one cares for the male gender. You cannot just accept false accusations because you believe it is nothing since you are a man. What if you end up losing your life, freedom or happiness because of it?

Men are so ashamed to rise up and defend the male gender. But women always group together to defend a woman who is abused by a man.

Men would rather defend the female gender.

But know that if you are ashamed to defend a follow man against a woman who wants to destroy him, when your time comes, no one would defend you.

What goes around comes around.

Don't think that you are safe when other men are not safe.

Don't think that if a woman accused a man falsely and the man is being imprisoned or killed, that you cannot be a victim tommorow.

If you like abuse me.

You now see why simping no good for men? No dey simp, una no go hear.

Kingcalls:
There is a different between respecting a woman that respects u and us submissive... yes a tough man should definitely lay down his guards.... but if she wan do werey tins , then u hv to match her down....thats y wise men watch the type of women they marry

Thank you for saying it all.. hence the wisdom of the strength of woman... Strong men dont even know she is in charge.. thats the point..do you know how many wars have been won cos the single woman looked her man in the eyes and said go and be victorious.. its something that cant be grasped,it doesnt make the man weak instead it makes him stronger.. the issue we having today with most relationships is the lack of wisdom of the woman hence they want to forcefully control the man and the lack of wisdom of the man who feels the woman is beneath him.. there must be a balance after all it takes two to tango..
My point is those men you mentioned yes dem be confirm weree.. but at home they might be the most gentle man not cos they are weak but cos their better half holds the keys to the other part of them they cant control..

Why do u lot think men are only after ur body most times you ladies irritate me with ur body if you must know. We only roll with the intellectial and highly sensible ones not those who think their body is gold while in actual sense its disgusting to us

QueenAgbo:
You men are useless liars,tell us she refuse to give you her pussy.


You men are shameless.

Damn!!
Op you're a real niggar, the society favors women mostly

Thebig4:
Why do u lot think men are only after ur body most times you ladies irritate me with ur body if you must know. We only roll with the intellectial and highly sensible ones not those who think their body is gold while in actual sense its disgusting to us

I know you are pretending.You just want access to my pussy.

Access if that is the only thing you can offer am sorry my dear am not interested.

QueenAgbo:
I know you are pretending.You just want access to my pussy.

I totally respect and agree with the spirit of these discussions.

For me, these are discussions that are to be had. Doesn't take anything away from the fact that the "African woman is God".

It's always a point one takes the opportunity to bang on about again and again. The African woman is God.

Furthermore, such refers to those that fit into the given criteria. As in, not all African women carry themselves in such regard, and as such, not all African women are 'God'. This thread talks to the demographic that doesn’t fit into the high place in our hearts and minds, the same high place that the universe has meant for the African woman.

Felimax:
I hope nobody will abuse you.
Some things are not just adding up in your story. They said behind every rumour there is an element of truth.
A man is a man when he attain a particular stage nobody teaches him what to do, he makes meaningful decision with his life.
I use to have a neighbor then in Lagos who will sneak into my house to ask for favours. On a particular night she came she was in her nighties with no undies at all. I gave her what I could afford (not what she requested) and gave her a serious warning never to sneak into my house.
I am not claiming a saint but wisdom my dear brother. You would have been able to give her the little you could and warn her not to approach you again, she will dread you for life.
It's a man"s world already! Just move on please.

Same thing he jusy said, you don dey accuse him too. Must everyone approach issues same way as yours? The lady simply lied against him, and it's not good.

Thebig4:
Access if that is the only thing you can offer am sorry my dear am not interested.

Iyeabe,sweetbuns come and see this shameless man.

Cos i reject your request keep wailing.

QueenAgbo:
Iyeabe,sweetbuns come and see this shameless man.

Don't worry, the said woman will still give you kpekus chop. Since she don accuse you wrongly, she go try make amends.
But make u use your brain oh

ngwababe:
Same thing he jusy said, you don dey accuse him too. Must everyone approach issues same way as yours? The lady simply lied against him, and it's not good.

I give people benefits of doubt. What if the lady have a different story? Do you how many stories like this that we later found out the truth behind?
No matter what, I don't hear from one side and conclude. In fact, I will first look for the loopholes in your story, put myself in the other person's shoes, juxtapose the conditions and give my thoughts.
Besides, must you mention me?
You can just add your voice and face your front.
Thanks for your understanding.

Thebig4:
Cos i reject your request keep wailing.

Shameless man.I can't even allow to see my pant.You are below my standard.

Lets join hands, and stop violence against women, and encourage the women to be their best self, remember a Nation is represented by the women, there is something powerful about that.

I am sorry for your experience, but you should take time to heal and not hold this against women in general. And it means, you should not allow those girls around your locality to come into your home, unless you are sure they are of good character.


Don't be bring those ones around your locality into your home and be alone with them.

Its time to let go of that anger and trauma.

Below your standard indeed when you are not upto the ladies in my circle both financial and IQ, why would i even accept u ?wen u think all u can offer me is ur rotten pussy and ur body, no girl move forward ur type are waiting to have you just hold on they will come for you here , certainly u aint my spec abeg free me.

QueenAgbo:
Shameless man.I can't even allow to see my pant.You are below my standard.

QueenAgbo:
I know you are pretending.You just want access to my pussy.

smh

Thebig4:
Below your standard indeed when you are not upto the ladies in my circle both financial and IQ, why would i even accept u ?wen u think all u can offer me is ur rotten pussy and ur body, no girl move forward ur type are waiting to have you just hold on they will come for you here , certainly u aint my spec abeg free me.

Your mother rotten pussy.

Bizibi:
smh

Do you have head?

Go get a life girl , i could have bring you into my circle so u see girls wen i mean girls i mean girls with class , brain and money but no u go fall my hand abeg shift.

QueenAgbo:
Your mother rotten pussy.

What goes around comes around truly

Thebig4:
Go get a life girl , i could have bring you into my circle so u see girls wen i mean girls i mean girls with class , brain and money but no u go fall my hand abeg shift.

Online troll go Bleep yourself.Poor man.

I shake my head for you i dont need to prove anything for u cos u aint worth my time, ur mum is waiting for you to come wash her clothes pls be fast about it

QueenAgbo:
Online troll go Bleep yourself.Poor man.

Godada:



This is an interesting write up but based on the setting, it's instructive to note the calibre of people involved: low lives. Face me I face you kind of setting.


The mental intelligence of the people involved is low and limited. Why? Accusations cannot be made based on assumptions.

What is wrong here is a case of slander. An appropriate course of legal action should be pursued by the guy in question.

It's asinine to assume a man who wants to help you wants to screw you. While the lady is busy working in Chevron, she wants to get paid in Total. That's tells the calibre of people at play here.

In any case, it's obvious society favors the women and also kids. You have a marital tussle, custody of kids is given to the woman.

There is war in the land, women and kids are given consideration. A woman slaps a man, if he hits back, he is called unprintable names.

Lots of women knows this and exploits it to their best advantage.

So it's left for men is to rise up to the challenge that awaits them.

The society favors women.

Interesting thing is, women have mastered this game so well that any attempt by men to raise awareness about these clear prejudices against men, to them, is mischief and sabotage against their gender equality campaign.