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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by evergenuineshop: 9:36pm On Jan 22, 2022
He is married, but his wive lives abroad, he does want to knack you in his matrimonial bed.
Get sense.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by koolaid87: 9:44pm On Jan 22, 2022
He just dey sample you ni oo

You said he's handsome, talk less, listen more, and smart blah blah

If he truly loves you, then he should be smart enough to know that you're not happy with his behaviours, and consequently change out of his love for you.

You're just a free pussy to him. Fvck you everywhere. The next will be in the park. tongue

As a Man myself, I'll only love to have these kinda adventures with a h0e

BTW, Mod cant regulate sh1t. We didn't ask you to bring your mata here.

We catch cruise with people for fun. Life is hard out there.

Next!

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Walkee: 9:47pm On Jan 22, 2022
isaiah4life:
You exhibit the traits of one. wink

If you can't stand your ground and bluntly refuse to stay with him in an hotel, then you will continue to be his hoe.

Next time, say no. If he's not fine with it, bounce.

Tell him wife to be acclimatise themselves with their spouse house while hoes stay in the hotel.

If he's not fine with it moooooooove. Is not the only guy on planet earth.
which one is "an hotel" again?
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Ormorlehwah(f): 9:48pm On Jan 22, 2022
Basicend:


Reject what?

From the write up, you can infer that the lady likes the guy more. . She would easily give in. .

When ladies like guys much, they don't engage their brain and reasoning, but use emotions to approach everything.

When d balloon burst, they start crying and fighting without any major ground.

If that is the case, I will advice her to continue knacking him in the hotel but i am 98% sure that the man already have a lady that he has promised, that is why he set aside his house as a sacred place and the hotel for sẹlẹya sipalabo babes.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by skj1377(m): 9:53pm On Jan 22, 2022
It's your aura that makes him think of protitute any time he sees you. Change your bathing soap urgently.
Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Jennyclay(f): 9:54pm On Jan 22, 2022
vixbaseacademy:
All this one's are the zisters in church that will be forming Virgin non sense, the guy knows a hoe and Happy to knack you well we'll
With all due respect sir, please close your decayed mouth.

I'm sure your sister is someone riding on another man's dick.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jan 22, 2022
Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

1. Fear quiet people....coded demons.

2. The foundation of your situationship is built on fetish sex. He is imagining you are a prostitute in his fetish mind.

3. One year is enough for a responsible negro to know if he should propose marriage to who ever he is dating. Will a decent man choose to have $ex in hotels and cars with a woman he sees to be his future wife when he isn't homeless?

Dump the 1mbe¢ile. A Jezebel is his nemesis.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Obajerry(m): 10:03pm On Jan 22, 2022
Tell him the reasons why you are not responding to his calls, If he truly want you he would respect you. Taking you to hotel is out of it while he has an apartment. Moreover be extra careful with him, I know with time you will understand more may be it is just an habit or something else is being attached to it, but at the end of everything if there is no changes, move on with your life. He is not going to MARRY you inside hotel.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 10:04pm On Jan 22, 2022
Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??
Op understand you are surrounded by several mad people on nairaland so ignore them, my advice for you is pick his call, tell him to his face, he should treat you with respect, I could remember the lady I did same thing to! She left me without looking back, what she doesn't know was that I have a wife with 2kids already, I only enjoy sex with her so taking her home will never happen. So she make right decision.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by yemi1504: 10:05pm On Jan 22, 2022
Rickk:
My dear, chances are that your boyfriend is into diabolical stuffs, and probably one of the instructions given to him is to never have sex with a woman that he is not married to in his house. If I were you though, I'd be extremely careful with such a boyfriend.

My advice; give him an ultimatum, it's either you guys have sex in his house, or you end the relationship. If he chooses the option of ending the relationship, then you have your answer staring at you.

You can say that again bro! But for a lady blinded by money and the comforts of life, this guy provides, will she hear? Your guess is as good as mine.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Jennyclay(f): 10:10pm On Jan 22, 2022
Oshodipikin:




Trained you well? How? You be original olosho.

Train you well , yet you de do olosho 4 hotel..... Any fvck outside marriage na olosho tinz.

Pikin wey dem train well go wait till marriage. You are just one of the children born in the evening of life.


Guard your boob well b4 it becomes slippers for Mr. Right wey never know say Mrs right don enter market since 1900.

grin
I'm 100% sure your sisters that your parents trained well are collecting different types and sizes of dicks as we speak now.

If women refused to have sex with you men dogs na problem, if also she chose to have sex na still problem.

Hypocrites!!!
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by yemi1504: 10:10pm On Jan 22, 2022
phemmyfour:
Woman! It's high time you started placing VALUE on yourself. He's trying to treat you like OTHERS, let him know that you're DIFFERENT by quitting the relationship. You're not a dog and he should stop treating you like one

You can say that again bro! But guy is obviously used to these women falling all over for him due to the money and comfort he provides anyways! Something some ladies in this generation lack, value for themselves and personal dignity in return for money and comfort SMH.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by yemi1504: 10:12pm On Jan 22, 2022
fikayormi:
Cos of money and some other luxury , ladies are really enduring so much., but don’t pity them � they deserved it

Abi.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Sirmee(m): 10:14pm On Jan 22, 2022
The truth is you are dating a married man and he doesn't want to defile his matrimonial bed.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by yemi1504: 10:16pm On Jan 22, 2022
Olayetan:



He doesn't respect you or have respect for your body, you deserves better....

You can say that again! But do these ladies ever know they deserve better and have self-respect?
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by BigBashiru: 10:17pm On Jan 22, 2022
Obaide12345:
Ladies should stop sleeping wait a guy that have not married to you,must you sleep with him,that is why he take you as a prostitute.

And why is the guy trying to induce her to sleep with him prolly with false marriage promises??
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Immorttal: 10:18pm On Jan 22, 2022
daddytime:
Those 5-6-year-old kids in the neighbourhood definitely know something you don't know about brother-hotel. Dem go just dey look you like "aunty wey mumu" with corner eye.

By the way, what does this boyfriend do for a living? Im just asking oh.

I'd advise you to buy some lollipops plus some "knockouts" for them this season and sit them down for a gist. Believe me, they'll fill your ears up with original gists about your guy in their innocence.

Follow my suggestion and come back here to update this thread.

Check my siggy...
chaii, bro, why did you tell her. You just broke the bro code. grin
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Boniwhite: 10:26pm On Jan 22, 2022
BabaJoe001:


I will advise you go leave this Toxic relationship . He is not worth it. You the one that loves him. Not him loving you. No responsible Guy leave his house to have sex with his GF in the hotels or in the car. The guy just dey use you pass time. And he may be a ritualist self. don't be carried away with his personality ... That he even talk less is a danger. Because it would be hard to know him well. I don't know your face but from your post I strongly believe you are a very beautiful Lady and intelligent too. Open your doors to Responsible Men Girl. God bless .
After all these shalaye you sef go take style slide go her dm, go beg her for coochie
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by biggy26: 10:28pm On Jan 22, 2022
Rachel98:
Pls stop it. I'm not a prostitute. My parents trained me well.
I think you shouldn’t be having sex outside marriage in the first place. Doing it gives him the right to want to have you anywhere and anyhow. You must respect yourself and your body and he will naturally follow suit.
If your parents trained you well seek their advice on this one. They will be in the best position to advice you.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by BigBashiru: 10:29pm On Jan 22, 2022
Jennyclay:
I'm 100% sure your sisters that your parents trained well are collecting different types and sizes of dicks as we speak now.

If women refused to have sex with you men dogs na problem, if chose to have sex na still problem.

Hypocrites!!!

I agree with u joor men are dogs.....
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Boniwhite: 10:30pm On Jan 22, 2022
koolaid87:
He just dey sample you ni oo

You said his handsome, talk less, listen more, and smart blah blah

If he truly loves you, then he should be smart enough to know that you're not happy with his behaviours, and consequently change out of his love for you.

You're just a free pussy to him. Fvck you everywhere. The next will be in the park. tongue

As a Man myself, I'll only love to have these kinda adventures with a h0e

BTW, Mod cant regulate sh1t. We didn't ask you to bring your mata here.

We catch cruise with people for fun. Life is hard out there.

Next!

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by chaloskyx: 10:35pm On Jan 22, 2022
he has no respect for you are only a tool to satisfy his sexual urges i advice you to move on as hes definitely not going to marry u. hes the type that would sleep with a day before his wedding

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Starcy(m): 10:36pm On Jan 22, 2022
A lot of senseless fellows in this forum. Just give out advice and stop judging. Destitute pple ka woi
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Johnsown1(m): 10:37pm On Jan 22, 2022
Stand you ground dear. If your good in a hotel room therefore you should be super in his house. If he can't make love to you in his house then there is problem somewhere.
It's either he is an occultic man or
His religious beliefs is affecting him

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Shyboyk(m): 10:39pm On Jan 22, 2022
Leave him Aunty … that is his fetish n u don’t like it so quite
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Basicend: 10:40pm On Jan 22, 2022
koolaid87:
He just dey sample you ni oo

You said his handsome, talk less, listen more, and smart blah blah

If he truly loves you, then he should be smart enough to know that you're not happy with his behaviours, and consequently change out of his love for you.

You're just a free pussy to him. Fvck you everywhere. The next will be in the park. tongue

As a Man myself, I'll only love to have these kinda adventures with a h0e

BTW, Mod cant regulate sh1t. We didn't ask you to bring your mata here.

We catch cruise with people for fun. Life is hard out there.

Next!

Guy, u no get joy o

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by yemi1504: 10:43pm On Jan 22, 2022
Tushmanny123:
As I see "well furnished apartment and car" I already know where the problem is.

You can say that again! SMH
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jan 22, 2022
Rachel98:
I'm not cheating on him. I'm having been faithful. He knows me well.

I'm just fed up.



Then..., tell him you're fed up..... whatever that means in this situation...as it is.....must you stick to him....?




What sort of nonsense is this??

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Boniwhite: 10:59pm On Jan 22, 2022
Mom007:

Pls don't answer the idiot! Social media giants... Jobless Rats and cockroaches in real life. They never miss a chance to bash women cus they know in real life, they don't got a life!
frustrated& sad woman. You are the one that got no life!!
did we send her to be sleeping around?
abi we send her to hawk her vagina upandan?
listen the internet is like a market place, and people will say thier mind if you bring your private life to the internet... We will continue to catch cruise with people here! We no send you to take your matter to internet o!

shame on you! for supporting that cheap slut of a girl for trading her body!!
no pity for her.

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Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Tomilola360: 11:10pm On Jan 22, 2022
Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

na u bring your problem online oooo. you can choose to ignore barbaric comments.
Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Anndrew(m): 11:17pm On Jan 22, 2022
SmellySperm:

But you gave him reverse cowgirl in hotels?
I don't know u,I Hardly reply mentions...u are a bastard and a very stupid one at that...u think because in a faceless forum,u talk anyhow..bastard

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