Just be matured, the moment you begin to bring up jealousy vibes you've lost it. The truth is all can be well as long as u have money ,you do well in bed and you're the alpha male in the situation. She's put that guy in the friend zone, but where it can cause issues is when you begin to act like a pussy around your friend or your girl. Men, shouldn't engage themselves in unnecessary chit chats and all, we are providers who spend time on work, money and occasional relaxation, the calm strong serene and confident man always win.

Side note, women can be hoes, so at vulnerable moment, she fit open for the guy to lash, e.g. drunk from party, during when u have issues, etc.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

d guy dey wire ur babe inside u dey outside dey press phone you no no say them dey bang come take laugh dey do cover up instead make ur babe scream she go use loud laugh dey there dey form introvert word wey no get meaning

Like play like play, your friend will start knacking your gf.

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If yu get work and dey fuk yur babe well yuve got no reason to worry...except yu are feeling insecure say the two fit later fuk each other and if dem do and yu caught them...then that's not yur girl simple then tell them to excuse yu for your house naw...infact yur matter Taya me...wey me I dey find who go dey follow my babe talk for me cos her talk dey Taya me sometimes..this life hen

Just keep fûcking her.

Get her to do multiple abortions for you.

Don't worry, you're not the only one fûcking her

If you are uncomfortable in your relationship, then move on... End the farce before you commit yourself to a lifetime of mental torments.

There are many ladies who share your exact personality traits... Hook up with any of them, and enjoy peace of mind.

This life is not that hard!!!

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

(At the bolded)

Often times we refuse to acknowledge that we must do some things for our partners. Communication might be a strong point for your partner, so learn to communicate with her more often, maybe that's her love language.

Stop allowing people tell you "Don't change who you are" cos the fact is that we must learn new things if we must cope with others in our lives. Learn to communicate oga! The guy might not even be interested in your babe sef so chill...

Johnames:
I do really get jealous when both of them start gisting and laughing so hard, I will try and control it

The fact that they are jisting and laughing out loud means they have have nothing to hide from you.
So relax, you can join them in the jist by bringing up a topic yourself and allow them to do the argument while you chip in intermittently and make the atmosphere lively.

A guy who has ulterior motive towards his friends girlfriend will be hideous and pretentious but this your guy seems to be loud and have a free mind and extroverted, they are just talk and talk with little action, don't believe those who say they will start fcking each other.
The OGs and experienced guys know the kind of guys to be wary about and from your explanation he doesn't fit into the equation

wow

Don't let jealousy consume you. It is energy sapping.

Any man still dating a nigerian girl is useless and jobless and will forever remain useless and jobless!!

Medianna:
You can't talk doesn't mean you can't listen na..
Stay with them and laugh together.

And as for your fear, it depends on your gf and your friend..
I do gist more with one of my guy's friend more than the guy himself if the three of us are together, sometimes I even go to see the friend on my own.(with the knowledge of my guy though) and if you see our sitting position indoor you will thing something is up.
Sometimes his head will be on my legs...
but nothing nothing

U need to stop doing the bold because one day something will happen! & if u can't think of stopping to visit your guy's friend after reading this quote, it means something is already up subconsciously. It is very important u stop the bold if u value your guy & your relationship. Not everything your man will tell u, he will expect u to use your head. Going to visit your guy's friend is a total no no! Go visit your female friend instead!

MrBrownJay1:
you are a boring guy and some guy makes her laugh....big deal! just accept it and live with it as there is NOTHING you can do.
your misplaced ego is playing trick on your brain, its all good!

The girl knew he was a boring guy before they started their relationship. Now she is giving his friend more attention, do you think that make any sense?

Your rommie sef suppose draw the line, if your babe dey come, make himself give una chance, na from gisting, thrusting dey start. Just keep being a good friend to him and you can have a discussion with her, but if she call you bluff, my guy just start to dey rearrange your life. My 2 cent though

Thandiubani:
Which kain mumu girlfriend be that. Don't you realize that the more time someone spends with another, the more fond they become and before you know it, they start developing feelings? There should always be boundaries.

Exactly @bold
Cc Medianna

Magnoliaa:
-Go for your type

-Develop yourself to match her conversational skills

go for his type how? He doesn't talk, his girlfriend doesn't talk, so they will both be mute when they meet abi? This is a perfect match, one talks one listen, not both will be talking and non is listening.

She belongs to the street. Free the bitch, focus on making damn money

Deicide:
This is it exactly, as long as he shares the same interest with her him being an introvert wouldn't matter.

This relationship is never going to last. @op forget about the girl you both don't have common interest. Allow your Neighbor take her and find someone you both share a common interest.

Na d answer gan gan i quote

Animegirl:
For me you shouldn't see it as anything. But if you can't take it just jokingly go and carry your babe maybe try it once or twice, if she doesn't get the memo, just let her be.

Just be yourself, and don't let a girl change who you're because you don't talk much.

Why do you women always proposing things that allows you people to have multiple relationships?

He shouldn't see it as anything?

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Meet y slawormiir for advice.

If you having girl problems I feel bad for you son I gat 99 problems and a bich ain't 1!

Magnoliaa:
-Go for your type

-Develop yourself to match her conversational skills

See them.

So his girlfriend just found her type in his house? These women.

Guy don't try anything that will affect your friendship. Is she your wife or do you intend to marry her?

A friend stayed with me for 3yrs, he told me, guy, if you like any of my babes and you fit enter them feel free.

But if I tell you I intend to marry XYZ, as a friend let me know if you have entered here. I will only be angry if I marry her and discovered later that you lied.

Guy, there is love in sharing sometimes.

Try to join me them in d gist, laugh with dem too

That guy go soon begin chaw your babe. Girls like people who keep them company and give them attention. Guy smart up before the guy snatch your babe.

For me, tell your guy to stop the too much talk with your bae. Invite your babe when the guy is not around and you sef try give your babe some of your time.

Girls are swayed by what they hear. A girl can even fall for one cos of accent not to talk of being funny. If your guy is not the loyal type, he will shift your girl's pant soon. This is the reason why I don't converse much with GFs of my friends. Infact reporting my friend to me is something I handle with care.... when trying to settle the matter, I go put instances of me offending my GF too so the girl no go dey view me like saint cos babes are funny. Next thing she go dey view her BF as devil and me the peacemaker as the best thing after pap and akara.

I guess you are a very young and naturally shy person. Anyway, don't always leave them alone o to avoid problem and try to dey gist with your girlfriend and that your guy.. Don't be afraid of mistakes while discussing with people, we learn from each other during conversations

If your babe come to your house discuss about things like music,lifestyle, education, business ideas, fashion and lot more and don't forget to get her into a conversation that will lead to you knowing more about her... It's no big deal

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Selfishness dey wory you!... person send you to be mute? Abeg leave the 2 extroverts alone

Johnames:
what do you suggest?

Bleep your girlfriend infront of that guy.

Medianna:
You can't talk doesn't mean you can't listen na..
Stay with them and laugh together.

And as for your fear, it depends on your gf and your friend..
I do gist more with one of my guy's friend more than the guy himself if the three of us are together, sometimes I even go to see the friend on my own.(with the knowledge of my guy though) and if you see our sitting position indoor you will thing something is up.
Sometimes his head will be on my legs...
but nothing nothing

Him and he's friend might have decided to pass you around themselves since you like both of them. I don't even think ur BF takes u serious anymore. Dem go use ur matter laff for joint or Bunk if you like no give urself brain.

Kenneth4u205:
I'm also an introvert. But I realize that I'm very talkative when with fellow introvert lady or someone that shares the same Passion and interest just like me .

As for your girlfriend gisting and laughing with ur room mate inside without coming out to join you outside. Means she enjoys ur room mate company more than yours . It's just a matter of time before both of them start having sex .might be the day you are not around or she might invite him to her place . Clock already ticking tic! Tok!! tic!!! Tok !!!!

Dear OP, this guy has told u the simple truth. You see all those girls telling here that u shouldn't worry, they are liars.

When two opposite sex find each other fun to be with, forget it, they will soon start fvcking.

So,what u can do is sincerley, tell the babe and break up. See, if u tell her and don't break up, she will continue seeing the guy secretly. They will be hiding it and they will still fvck.
So, she doesn't enjoy ur company. She enjoys the company of another. So, just tell her why u are breaking up so that she can continue her company wit ur roommate.
As for the guy living with u.. If both u paid for the apartment, fine. But if not, then, find way to distance ur self from him. I know his type.