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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Nobody: 10:21am On Jan 27, 2022
The future is female
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Temptee101(m): 10:22am On Jan 27, 2022
qtguru:


[s]You be fvckboy sleeping with your roomie's babe [/s]

Swerve joor.

You know nothing.

Niggars dey bang two sisters, e come be mere friends.

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by emekachief: 10:22am On Jan 27, 2022
Good one bro. I hate to see men talking about bitch as a problem. Focus on your hustle and soapy if you can't endure sexual argue. I have two kid arleady from two baby mama and DNA confirmed it. I'm not ready to settle down with all this bitch.
ZUBY77:


See them.

So his girlfriend just found her type in his house? These women.

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by otabaotaba: 10:23am On Jan 27, 2022
I really understand what u are going through cus it happened to me then.
I used body language to tell them and it became issue with me and my guy and we quarreled for many years, the babe self I don't know her way about now but me and my guy is now back since and we are stronger than brothers now

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Decryptor(m): 10:23am On Jan 27, 2022
Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

You are an introvert like you said...

You see two extroverts talking and you are being insecure. Na we tell you make you be introvert?

Oya poison both of them na make we rest! undecided
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by eduora: 10:24am On Jan 27, 2022
Shun the babe and focus with your own business... don't misconduct to evade seeing yourself to jail...
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by JOAN11(f): 10:26am On Jan 27, 2022
undecided
Animegirl:
For me you shouldn't see it as anything. But if you can't take it just jokingly go and carry your babe maybe try it once or twice, if she doesn't get the memo, just let her be.

Just be yourself, and don't let a girl change who you're because you don't talk much.
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Temptee101(m): 10:26am On Jan 27, 2022
Medianna:
[s]You can't talk doesn't mean you can't listen na..
Stay with them and laugh together.

And as for your fear, it depends on your gf and your friend..
I do gist more with one of my guy's friend more than the guy himself if the three of us are together, sometimes I even go to see the friend on my own.(with the knowledge of my guy though) and if you see our sitting position indoor you will thing something is up.
Sometimes his head will be on my legs...
but nothing nothing[/s]

Tales by the moonlight.

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by marsup: 10:27am On Jan 27, 2022
Because she's dating an introvert, she can't gist and have platonic fun with others? You want her to be boring as you are? Pls, focus your mind on other things, and don't let paranoia and inferiority complex ruin your relationship.

There's nothing wrong with what's she's doing, except if touching and feelings are involved.
Cool down mate.

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by SmartyPants(m): 10:27am On Jan 27, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Nothing there aiit just mere discussions..you need to stop taking things too far..

Look if you ain't comfortable tell the guy personally in a polite manner..but if you ask me I see nothing wrong in me having discussion with a random guy..it's normal na..
The same way you guys talk to ladies..

Gisting regarly, laughing wholeheartedly, sans the OP...that is the clap that wahts to enter dance.

OP discharge either the girl or the guy. They are not loyal.
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by FERNANDEZISBACK: 10:28am On Jan 27, 2022
SmartyPants:


Gisting regarly, laughing wholeheartedly, sans the OP...that is the clap that wahts to enter dance.

OP discharge either the girl or the guy. They are not loyal.
Kindly quote the OP..
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Mavor: 10:28am On Jan 27, 2022
Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.
Like your chick does not see it as disrespectful to be over-familiar with your room-mate in your presence. No respect for you as her man, at all. Discharge her and give your friend a 2 weeks to 1 month ultimatum to find a place to move to, that is if he is not paying part rent currently. No woman is worth the headache. Only my mother can make me go out of my way to do things for a woman I don't normally do. And she is not an unreasonable woman unlike most girls of today's younger generation.

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Solofresh2: 10:30am On Jan 27, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
You are not a real niggarrr
He is a pussy ass niggarrr

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Ojemedad: 10:30am On Jan 27, 2022
stunnert:
I remember that year I used funny jokes and humor to get my gf roomie. I used to gist with her and tell funny jokes that always get her laughing whenever I go over or they come over. One day we were both alone in their room and she saw my gbola, right there at that moment we both knew that sooner or later we were gonna fvck ourselves which we actually did two days later

U are not a real hommie

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by OvaSabi1(f): 10:31am On Jan 27, 2022
Learn how to use humor. Start calling him assistant boyfriend. If she serves you food check the size of the meat and ask why assistant boyfriend’s meat is bigger than yours. Tell assistant boyfriend that Valentine’s Day is coming and that what will he buy for both of you. Tell him jokingly that you don’t want boxers or singlet. Tell assistant boyfriend that shey he will not buy new iPhone for her ni? Can’t he see that the screen of her phone has broken ni? Meanwhile still keep a close eye on them o. And lastly ensure that you are meeting her NEEDS sufficiently. A word is enough for the wise.
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Kdon2: 10:32am On Jan 27, 2022
Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Play pls na so you go dey outside dem go dey Bleep themselves inside! Dey there dey ask question o while sharp guy dey load your girl with spermatozoa. angry
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Solofresh2: 10:32am On Jan 27, 2022
Kriss216:

I suggest you give your life a meaning and avoid Nigerian girls.
Lol una no get joy for this forum sha

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Johnames: 10:33am On Jan 27, 2022
Clinghton:
Your girl came to see you, and you left the room for her and your roommate to gist because you can't gist.

This is really crazy.
oga no be so, na parlour o not inside the room, I was doing something outside, I did not just walk outside, because I cannot gist
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by JANK23H(m): 10:34am On Jan 27, 2022
Guy like play, from that kikikikiki loud laugh you dey hear from outside,your girl pant go shift.One day,you go sit-down outside again,this time na moaning you go dey hear.

Sit-down there make pant dey wear you!
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by dbestuncle: 10:35am On Jan 27, 2022
Trust them until u have a reason not to.
2. Join in the jist,it will help you understand your babe more.
3. Sometimes bring up discussions n be active in the discussion.
4. Once in a while become personal like cut the guy off. Sometimes like babe I want us to see inside. When inside talk intimate having known what she really likes.
5. If the above didn't yield just prepare your mind that you may loose her to him or someone else like him because guy u boring to stay with.
6. No vex with me o

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by emekachief: 10:35am On Jan 27, 2022
Trash. A niggar will do all this just to keep a bitch? when we have millions of under 20 bitch out here
OvaSabi1:
Learn how to use humor. Start calling him assistant boyfriend. If she serves you food check the size of the meat and ask why assistant boyfriend’s meat is bigger than yours. Tell assistant boyfriend that Valentine’s Day is coming and that what will he buy for both of you. Tell him jokingly that you don’t want boxers or singlet. Tell assistant boyfriend that shey he will not buy new iPhone for her ni? Can’t he see that the screen of her phone has broken ni? Meanwhile still keep a close eye on them o. And lastly ensure that you are meeting her NEEDS sufficiently. A word is enough for the wise.
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by uthlaw: 10:36am On Jan 27, 2022
Stacyomolola:


Who hurt u
is not a matter of hurt,is saying the right thing!
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Johnames: 10:37am On Jan 27, 2022
Medianna:
You can't talk doesn't mean you can't listen na..
Stay with them and laugh together.

And as for your fear, it depends on your gf and your friend..
I do gist more with one of my guy's friend more than the guy himself if the three of us are together, sometimes I even go to see the friend on my own.(with the knowledge of my guy though) and if you see our sitting position indoor you will thing something is up.
Sometimes his head will be on my legs...
but nothing nothing
hmmmm, I can't tolerate that o
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by victooman: 10:37am On Jan 27, 2022
KiNg0G:


that nigha is playing his game.


you got to up your game by using that same introvert method in a more mature way.

girls likes guys who are funny but gets tired of them easily.



but prefer men, who leaves them in mystery...(when she can't figure you out)



you on the right path son, don't change..... don't feel jealous... infact ignore that bish the more.

lol u lie, before she gets tired the funny guy go don hit her back to back,,unless if the guy na clown,, 5 girls dey my compound for campus back then, l knack 4 and smooch and finger 1,, with this funny guy character.. the guy should upgrade his game or else that guy will fvck his babe.
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by frozen70(f): 10:39am On Jan 27, 2022
Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

You have to caution your babe, tell her to withdraw from going into deep communication with your guy

If she really loves you, she will adjust and the guy, if he is smart, he will understand

But if they have gone deep in laughing out loud, be ready to lose her to him

Most women don't like introverts because they make things go bored while together

You too learn to be lively

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by BISHOPCHARLIE: 10:42am On Jan 27, 2022
If your girl spends more time with another guy, that should get you worried really. It can be argued that she is just having a jist with another man but you were at home at that time and that doesn't respect you.
What were they discussing by the way? Some meaningless issues that adds no real value may be.

Usually, a man that holds good conversation will most likely hold a lady close. It's okay you're not the talking type and I guess your girl knows that side of you before now. If your girl continues this way, you might soon loose her to that guy or another guy at that who keeps her busy with gossips.

My advise, talk to your girl that you're uncomfortable with her spending time with the other guy.
Never allow any girl make you jealous, if your girl have issues choosing between you and another, help her decision by removing yourself from the equation.

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Johnames: 10:44am On Jan 27, 2022
Guyman02:


The fact that they are jisting and laughing out loud means they have have nothing to hide from you.
So relax, you can join them in the jist by bringing up a topic yourself and allow them to do the argument while you chip in intermittently and make the atmosphere lively.

A guy who has ulterior motive towards his friends girlfriend will be hideous and pretentious but this your guy seems to be loud and have a free mind and extroverted, they are just talk and talk with little action, don't believe those who say they will start fcking each other.
The OGs and experienced guys know the kind of guys to be wary about and from your explanation he doesn't fit into the equation cool
you are 100% correct, he is a very good guy, more like a brother

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by DroppingLiquid: 10:44am On Jan 27, 2022
Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

A guy that can make your girl laugh is someone that is going to fvck her. This is how I've been able to win women's heart apart from money. Just by making them laugh, you will be able to spread their legs apart.

I'm sorry man.

But here's a hint to know when the deed has been done. Both of them won't be interacting the way they used to when she comes around.
Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by uthlaw: 10:44am On Jan 27, 2022
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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by Ferdinandu(m): 10:45am On Jan 27, 2022
Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.
Normally introverts are talkative when they are with the right people if not it seems they don't talk. The fact that you you don't gist well with your girlfriend shows you two are not really compatible. To be Frank if you allow that to continue I see your girlfriend falling for your friend if he is really interested in her, except if both are very disciplined human being and understands boundaries and another thing, they may like gisting together but not attracted to each other . If you don't trust them find way discharge your friend

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Re: What Will You Do In This Situation by musmie1: 10:45am On Jan 27, 2022
Guys see it as mere conversation but most ladies might start developing feelings and wishing you are your guys.

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