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Re: Just Confused by Karleb(m): 10:04pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
sandra50: I swear, I no dey yab you. I just dey concerned. I no talk say I wan marry you, abeg! I no dey hide behind keyboard and I know say life no perfect. If I offend you, no vex ehn! 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by Michelle55: 10:07pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Ishilove:I just tire.. All of dem just dey scream age this and that like it's a crime to get older and still be unmarried. I can't argue aimlessly with people who think this way so I've given up. 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by sandra50(f): 10:08pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
First thing I look out for is someone's heart then other things follow..and it's actually hard for me to talk to a 38 years old man..I will follow someone I love not someone that wants to get married because if that is the case then everyone would be married by now. Sammy101111: |
Re: Just Confused by Sammy101111(m): 10:12pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Hmm you are right but what you said _ follow some one you love and not because he want to marry ( if that should be the case but you will have to put age aside And no ego or pride sandra50: 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by Sammy101111(m): 10:13pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
I sent you dm and a follow request . sandra50: |
Re: Just Confused by sandra50(f): 10:26pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Why would I put age aside?I should move with a guy my age?no thanks. Sammy101111: |
Re: Just Confused by sandra50(f): 10:27pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
It's so disheartening. Ishilove: |
Re: Just Confused by Sammy101111(m): 10:28pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
If you are 36+ so you want a guy older that will be married with one wife or may you will be the second wife and you don't want the guy of yoir age range sandra50: 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by Das1mama: 10:49pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Dis kind of advice always comes from a bitter person. So y are u bitter? abi u don go take Alomo bitter.... Oh sorry i mean Action bitter cos ur comment looks tough... 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by Das1mama: 11:00pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Op don't allow anyone change u from being good, Tough times and bad moments only comes to prepare us for the best. To every knowledge there's a power and to every power there's principles that guide it which is that knowledge..... Make your choice but be wise. Shalom 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Just Confused by sandra50(f): 11:30pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Thanks dear..I appreciate. Das1mama: |
Re: Just Confused by Das1mama: 11:41pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
sandra50:uwc 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by walkingshadow911: 5:08am On Feb 09, 2022 |
Michelle55: you don't know wat he is literally driving at. dont be too quick to judge people laidis. 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by cayorday89(m): 5:25am On Feb 09, 2022 |
Stenewiser:Seriously? At least she explained her reasons, and look at the long list of those who dissapointed her, that should make you show empathy and not complicating things by cursing her. Try and be human, if you have sisters, you will know some people are not to be trusted, my younger sister had to break up with a doctor who promised to and is processing their relocation, but she said no because of his philandering lifestyle, she prefers to have her peace of mind intact than money without it. @Op, you are older and wiser, and I don't know how to advice you on this, as I know how it feels to not be able to cheat on a partner and having multiple dating partners is a no no for some people, I can only wish you the very best in this journey of finding a good partner. |
Re: Just Confused by pocohantas(f): 5:53am On Feb 09, 2022 |
It is not about cheating; Pray for the spirit of discernment. There are a thousand things I can type on thisas a premium evening newspaper and none would involve cheating. I don’t believe in spirituality, so I would never think lack of spouse can be fixed in Shiloh. I also do not believe anyone (male/female) can miss it over and over without no fault of theirs. After going close to supposedly nice people (males especially), I have gotten to know they are overrated people. Good morning 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by CsRockefeller(m): 6:17am On Feb 09, 2022 |
pocohantas: Interesting. Can you please share more light on the bolded? 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by pocohantas(f): 6:48am On Feb 09, 2022 |
CsRockefeller: I’ll give you an illustration; I had this colleague, very religious, supportive and emotional. She was dating this other colleague and every time they had issues- the unit bore the brunt. We couldn’t understand why the guy was taking time to wife such a beautiful thing. Then one day she had to stay at my place. In her time with me, I was faced with the laziest and nastiest being I have ever come across. This lady would tie her used menstrual pads and keep them in a corner, waiting for when she had time to burn them. She doesn’t take off her makeup and wig until midnight when the other party is almost dozing off. Her cooking was nothing to write home about. If you even say make you do small pre-intimacy, you would be met with layers of girdle, very tight bra and thick undershorts. You can't differentiate between the clothes she has worn and the neat ones. I had to sit her down for a talk. 2) I have also met nice guys that had various flaws from hygiene, to pettiness, to inconsistency, stinginess… etc No one passes on a good thing over and over. If multiple women and men keep leaving you to marry someone else, someone you have deluded yourself is even below you, then you might need to return to the drawing board. Every failed relationship or marriage is a call for self-reflection. The bad thing about supposedly nice people is, they already believe they are one of the best out there. They think we are the ones that are privileged to have them. They think you can never find someone else like them. So they rarely change or restrategize, they just sit there, ever ready to tell you how people do not deserve/appreciate their kind. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Just Confused by sandra50(f): 6:59am On Feb 09, 2022 |
Thanks love..I really appreciate. cayorday89: |
Re: Just Confused by sandra50(f): 7:11am On Feb 09, 2022 |
This explains me now right?I must have one of these things you mentioned or something similar..you people need to stop being judgemental,always trying to tell someone's life history when you haven't even met the person..at least you told her about her fault but in my case,what everyone around have been telling me is that I should stop caring so much..at least 7 people that are close to me have told me that..so you see that you don't know it all as you try to make it look.. pocohantas: 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by pocohantas(f): 7:16am On Feb 09, 2022 |
sandra50: I really can’t remember tagging you or your situation to that post. Your issues, your problem. I replied to someone else, not you. Enjoy the rest of your day. 3 Likes |
Re: Just Confused by flokii: 7:18am On Feb 09, 2022 |
Ikechukwu why?? See how sad you've made Sandra despite all the love and faithfulness she showed you. It's not fair o. 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by sandra50(f): 7:19am On Feb 09, 2022 |
This is your post I believe? pocohantas: |
Re: Just Confused by pocohantas(f): 7:20am On Feb 09, 2022 |
sandra50: And your username was there? Please make this clear to me. 1 Like |
Re: Just Confused by sandra50(f): 7:24am On Feb 09, 2022 |
Just accept that you are wrong and that you don't know it all..you will be ignored after this. pocohantas: |
Re: Just Confused by pocohantas(f): 7:27am On Feb 09, 2022 |
sandra50: No I am not wrong. My response to you was to pray for the spirit of discernment, you left that one and jumped on a post to another person. I guess that is how you care too much. Anyway, I stand by my post, but since you want to make that post about you, I will take out time to address one of your posts. I don’t know anyone that has been severely dumped because they are too caring. You mean, 1,2,3,4 all left you because you CARE TOO MUCH? Interesting Who are these people telling you, you care too much? What exactly is care too much? Lol So these people highlighting your good quality, care to share why none of them decided to step in and marry you? Why they haven’t introduced you to their male friends? Put in a good word for you? Are they your EXes? Only an EX can genuinely tell you why they picked someone else over you. Ask you EXes why they left you, there must be one thing that would be a constant and I am sure that thing wouldn’t be caring too much, at least not in a positive way. Care too much? Pfffttt! I honestly do not care if you ignore me. You are not the one fcking or doing giveaway for me. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Just Confused by Steep(m): 7:36am On Feb 09, 2022 |
Michelle55:age play a huge role, naturally women has a age limit after which childbirth become difficult even the bible recognize that. That is not misogyny nor a man's opinion it is nature. The truth is that alot of females are not smart maritally! One of the reasons is because women are told marriage is not important they short pursue education, careers and money and ignore marriage, later when the get to above 30, they realise they need to settle down but unfortunately men don't think the way women think. While a woman want a man that has status in terms of education money etc for men those things take backstage. The first point of attraction for men is a young, beautiful woman, then then her agreeabless towards him men hardly consider money, a fairly educated woman is enough for some men. Women project their desires on men and are shocked that men do not consider important what they consider important. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Just Confused by Steep(m): 7:44am On Feb 09, 2022 |
@ op atleast there is a man showing interest, you a Christian? If you are, commit your worries into God's hands, tell him to reveal if this man will be good for you. Don't push him away! |
Re: Just Confused by Nicepoker(m): 7:46am On Feb 09, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Says an unmarried 62yrs old woman. |
Re: Just Confused by Blackbishop(m): 7:48am On Feb 09, 2022 |
BoredBerry: And I will rather dine with the devil himself than date Nigerian ladies |
Re: Just Confused by pocohantas(f): 7:59am On Feb 09, 2022 |
But then, if you are convinced you are awesome and it is the men with a problem, you just have to sit back and relax. Make peace with the fact that you are not the woman they want, just as many men didn’t scale through your own selection process too. Someday you will meet the one that wants you and you want him too. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Just Confused by Michelle55: 8:02am On Feb 09, 2022 |
pocohantas:Comrade calm down biko, don't spoil my innocent mind. |
Re: Just Confused by kayperry: 8:14am On Feb 09, 2022 |
pocohantas: Eeyah! seems like a perfect introduction for those yet to meet you a whole poco wrong ke world wil rather end aunty i know mfm hotlines 1 Like |
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