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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Ebelefrancis123: 11:33am On Feb 16, 2022
You are hundred percent correct.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by ovanny15(f): 11:35am On Feb 16, 2022
culf:
Maturity, better self control, being responsible etc.


Exactly dearie
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Saintmary(f): 11:37am On Feb 16, 2022
Double0h7:
Testosterone decreases with age...



You are the only one who got it right.



It's all about testosterone levels.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Nobody: 11:39am On Feb 16, 2022
Bahamas95:
They are legends, they've seen it all.
All shapes, sizes, colour, dry, wet, watery, oily, creamy etc.
Truly, to most men within that AGE GROUP, SEX automatically becomes Kolanut.
Then you will start looking for the Real Value of the lady you married. That's if you can find any other value beyond sex, especially for men who proposed because of Big waist & Big Breastss.
Some may end up as beggars for life because of the Liquidating habit of their wives.

They incur debts for you as they walk down their streets. Get a woman who does something, even if she designs the interior of a casket.
NIGERIA is far from getting better. In Fact,
it's moving away from the equator of progress.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by onunwa21(m): 11:39am On Feb 16, 2022
Any mistake @ that age range, u re gone
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by lagosrd: 11:44am On Feb 16, 2022
Mrkumareze:
Like the guy above me said, at 35 to 40, any sensible man ll reason things that re more important. Sex drive reduces when you have more responsibilities

Let me help you put it better as
" you have erections only when you have eaten"
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Bahamas95(m): 11:47am On Feb 16, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:

Truly, to most men within that AGE GROUP, SEX automatically becomes Kolanut.
Then you will start looking for the Real Value of the lady you married. That's if you can find any other value beyond sex, especially for men who proposed because of Big waist & Big Breastss.
Some may end up as beggars for life because of the Liquidating habit of their wives.

They incur debts for you as they walk down their streets. Get a woman who does something, even if she designs the interior of a casket.
NIGERIA is far from getting better. In Fact,
it's moving away from the equator of progress.
"Get a woman who does something, even if she designs the interior of a casket"

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Skyfornia(m): 11:49am On Feb 16, 2022
lecturer50:
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.

You are right...we have seen it all, fat, slim, short, tall etc...it doesn't impress us anymore.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by godofuck231: 11:55am On Feb 16, 2022
Ashawo de tire prrson now na wife de their mind and their children
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Double0h7(f): 11:59am On Feb 16, 2022
Saintmary:




You are the only one who got it right.



It's all about testosterone levels.

Do you like how they're all comforting themselves with illusions of being too busy and too responsible grin

Men's ego is so fragile grin
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Emyogalanya: 12:09pm On Feb 16, 2022
lecturer50:
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.
responsibility is setting in. When they say life begins at 40. That saying is true. Most of achievement was gotten at that age range and what you fail to do at that time, you may not get again. By that age most men have a wife and children. While they get to flirt minimally, the home will not let them via rent, school fees, clothing's and other bills. I have a friend, who is a commercial driver, said even if a woman will pay him for sex, he does not have time cos the time he will spend with will get him some cash into his pocket

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Emyogalanya: 12:13pm On Feb 16, 2022
eazzzy1:
How did you observe this? You go around asking men for sex?
in sloths voice ": you thought the op was a female"
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by niel63(m): 12:15pm On Feb 16, 2022
Somebody just mentioned testosterone... lol grin grin grin

I get checklist to cross, babe dey talk about testosterone.

Na when you get rest of mind sex dey make sense... otherwise, it's just another bang bang cum race.
Who has time for that now? Unless of course, you get hope say family and friends go sort you out. Otherwise, the race I'm interested in is the one that settles my old age. Being broke young is a serious heartache. Have you imagined what it'll be like when you're old ? That's a chance I'm not willing to take.

Sex can take a long queue biko. angry

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by waaclef(m): 12:18pm On Feb 16, 2022
Another angle to this. Most men of this age grade, are usually married at this stage and their wives and family are quite young.

Family commitments settling in coupled with maturity and understanding of life leads to the understanding that sex alone is not it

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by shevon: 12:19pm On Feb 16, 2022
Been there, done that. No biggie.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Mikkeal: 12:20pm On Feb 16, 2022
Men in that age group and older knows sex brings responsibilities , and at that age you are more focused on a lot of other things than sex

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by daddymummy(m): 12:30pm On Feb 16, 2022
Kwinesther:
shocked Reasonable, sensible and responsible men like this still dey this country Respect man!!! Good things shall not elude you this year in Jesus name. If we have just a more 100men like you in this country then adultery, fornication, rape, hookups and prostitution will drastically reduce.

Thank you Sir.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Father4all: 12:35pm On Feb 16, 2022
lecturer50:
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.
you must have slept with many men to observe all this.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by kenchop: 12:36pm On Feb 16, 2022
They've Seen all ,been there & done that.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by lookingfly: 12:42pm On Feb 16, 2022
lecturer50:
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.
you know how many puna them don see.....e don tire them.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Father4all: 12:46pm On Feb 16, 2022
beautyhd:
Low testosterone levels, causing decreased libido.

That’s why most of them in that age resort to sexual enhancers.

Penile erection takes long to achieve, to avoid embarrassing themselves, they say no to sex especially when they weren’t pre informed.
God bless you for this
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Father4all: 12:51pm On Feb 16, 2022
Aydot351:
I'm 22 and I don't have any interest in sex and ladies generally.
Then you have problems. This is the age that hormone starts developing
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by gerrisson(m): 1:03pm On Feb 16, 2022
Erectile Dysfunction. You will be surprised how many of them can't get it up with drug assistance.
lecturer50:
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Exceed15: 1:03pm On Feb 16, 2022
Responsibilities
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Clinghton: 1:05pm On Feb 16, 2022
What is your say concerning men in their seventies who rape toddlers.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by KidiBigDeal(m): 1:25pm On Feb 16, 2022
1. Most of the men in this category has seen it all.
2. Most of them are beginning to realize that there’s something more to life than sex.
3. Most of them are now masters of their own bodies (Can now control the urge no matter how tempting)

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Jeezuzpick(m): 1:26pm On Feb 16, 2022
lecturer50:
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,


unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.

Four words.

Been

There

Done

That

E no dey trip us again.

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Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by dhesmond(m): 1:36pm On Feb 16, 2022
Because we know it's a trap..... We ain't ready for that shit at that age.. we gat to think and strategies.
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Nobody: 1:38pm On Feb 16, 2022
So it is now you guys are calming down about sex. After destroying many women's lives, deceiving them and widening their pussies. Now you are OK, you want to retire in peace.

It's a lie o, come and continue. You must continue to be mad for sex. You can't stop now. Continue being mad for sex. angry

That thing you were dying and slaying girls and unborn babies over, you must continue.

You must not stop. You must continue to see it as the most important thing in the world. If you dare stop, Ogun go kee you there. Nonsense. So y'all can have sense and be tired of it. grin
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Saintmary(f): 1:40pm On Feb 16, 2022
Double0h7:


Do you like how they're all comforting themselves with illusions of being too busy and too responsible grin

Men's ego is so fragile grin


Actually, men's ego is largely tied to their ability to perform.



For example, Serena Williams' nephew who committed suicide recently because he had a curved appendage.



Not that elevated testosterone levels makes them more of a man,




just that it makes them more prone to being controlled by their natural impulses, AKA 'men are polygamous in nature'
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by usagee36: 1:46pm On Feb 16, 2022
Haha not with females aged 18-25
Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Kwinesther: 1:51pm On Feb 16, 2022
daddymummy:


Thank you Sir.
I'm a lady sir cheesy

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