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Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ocholu: 4:16pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: I am a bachelor. And I confidently do all these stuffs myself. No qualms, no issues. Anything else? 4 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by CumOnHer: 4:20pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:The reason the society is in disarray is because more women are refusing to stay under the authority of men. And that's the agenda of today's women -to compete with men. 7 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by CumOnHer: 4:30pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:First of all, correct the title of the thread. 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 4:40pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer:I don't know what you think of yourself, but you are in no position to tell me that.You don't tell me what to do, this forum is not yours,even if it was yours ,you are still not in the position to bark out that order. The worse you will do is lock the thread. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 4:41pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ocholu:And women don't protect and do all that themselves as well? 8 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 4:43pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer:Lol. ,"Authority " "under" ,such choice of words. Well I am glad they don't have to be under authority. No mere mortal is a lord and savior just cos they dangle a penls. 8 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ocholu: 4:49pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: I am totally not sure. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by InfinityFabric: 4:49pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
In a scenario where a woman offers support , loyalty, home making, care on that table,Madam, these are top on the list. it is regarded as inconsequential except she has financial input as well sometime equal percentage with the man.Ma'am this is for wussies. You think I want a WIFE (not girlfriend,we don't do that here) who will tirelessly fade away just to earn minimum wage ? I'll just pay her instead. You made valid points, even tho u seem angry but that doesn't take away your points. |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 4:53pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
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Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by InfinityFabric: 4:53pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:Let's be honest, when you meet a man that ain't shit, you'll acquiesce. I get it, you're angry because the ones you want are not coming your way. I just hope it's not the case of "you're getting older and can't attract them anymore". 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 4:55pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
InfinityFabric:Angry? Lol nah, this is my calm face ,if i was angry the nuisances who were testing my patience earlier derailing my thread would have gotten it from me. 5 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 4:57pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
InfinityFabric:oh I see it's even one of those people sef. I dey wait for una since ,the evening newspaper chanters.they have arrived. 8 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by IMEI: 5:11pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: First of all, the irresponsibility goes both ways. For a marriage to fail, there must be a breakdown of the fabric i.e the center will no longer hold. This can be putdown to a severing of the bond between the spouses By saying what you said in your first paragraph, you've admitted women are largely responsible for the breakdown of relationships today Many of you women look down on your mothers as weak women and look upon your fathers as villains. This mindset only makes you toxic and unable to keep relationships You're indirectly justifying women's culpability in destroying relationships by hinting that men have traditionally been awful to women, hence, the need to push back against men Feminism and redpill are two sides of the same coin, neither empower, rather they both delude As for your second paragraph, religions and traditions aren't being abandoned, rather, they're being replaced by Western religions and traditions...there's nothing happening now that hasn't been a mainstay in Western countries, but unfortunately, Nigerians aren't well read enough to know it's devastating effects on those same societies, neither are they willing to learn Before you gloat, read up on previous civilisations, the first step to the destruction of any civilisation is the erosion of societal values and the West is no exception to that rule Read up on the fast decline of Western power and influence globally. Unfortunately, before we realise this, we'd have done irreparable damage to ourselves 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by InfinityFabric: 5:20pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:It's cool, I know the dynamics between Men and "gentle" ladies is not the best in this section. But you did make a factual point. Women are not built to work and bring food to the table. In fact they're repulsed by spending on man unless it's a sure investment. Women are women, and men are men. This is the actual Red Pill, not hating woman for not make 100k+ per month. Plus working women are ugly to me hehehe (just joking). Even if she's to work, she: - Works for no man - Doesn't stay late - Keeps all the money for herself. May the Creator not make us someone who will be asking our wives for money. ... I mean these are not hard concepts. 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by InfinityFabric: 5:24pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
IMEI: Red Pill (about intersexual dynamics): the red pill is the transition from your old life, from what you used to think about women, Feminism is hatred of men from the start. You can look at the books : - The legal subjection of men NO, they are not two sides of the same coin, one empower, the other deludes. Perhaps you're talking about Black Pill |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 5:27pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
IMEI:The center can no longer home because the ones bestowed with the responsibility of bearing the burden to keep a home together have seen that it's not feasible. Even the bible gave that responsibility to women alone " a virtuous woman keeps her home" and have let men off the hook so easily. Even traditions have not spared women either ,now that this generation have breathing space and have the perogative to either shoulder that burden or not and not coerced by religion or traditions it's a problem. How about you tell men to step up ? No? That will be breaking the bro code? . Africa lost it's self after colonisation , everything about you is western influence.Save for western influence we would have still been in the dark ages. If the status quo was favourable it won't need change same way traditional like killing of twins and other barbaric cultures needed to be changed. And yes I will gloat about it, if not for western influence I probably won't have had an education or even have to privilege to be on this forum. If for nothing I am grateful for the people that stood their grounds for the girl child to be allowed to have an education . 4 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by mickybeejay(m): 5:45pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
I think the question "What will you bring to the table" became rampant when the female gender started getting used to the phrase "I want to be taken care of." If taking care of you is my responsibility when we haven't married, then there should be something you'll give me in return (not necessarily money now), it could be advice, support, etc. But you should give me something common when, when you ain't asking for something common from me. 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by mickybeejay(m): 5:48pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
I don't need to ask you what you are bringing to the table if you are indeed valuable. But the question only pops up when you don't have anything to offer, yet you are placing unnecessary demands on me. 5 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by CumOnHer: 5:52pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:Are you speaking on behalf of the rebellious women (feminists) or you're one of them. 8 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by IMEI: 5:54pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
InfinityFabric: Redpill casts men as victims of female antics and seeks to empower them Feminism sees women as victims of male antics and seeks to empower them No difference by definition 3 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 5:54pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer:So not regarding a mere mortal like a master means feminism? . Well done Mr authoritarian ,awon constituted authority . Go and look for someone's daughter to keep under authority because dem hand over her placenta give you the day dem born her. 6 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by GRIMMJOE(m): 6:00pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:So now tell us, what else do you expect a man to offer other than money. 1 Like |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 6:05pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
GRIMMJOE:If he wants a woman to share his bills he should be ready to share her own. He will go to to market ,shop for food stuff of the house, take care and bathe the kids ,clean the house and cook This is what western men who introduced bills sharing do, so if we must copy and deviate from the traditional setting we must copy everything. If a woman is in the kitchen ,the man should be tending to the kids not feeling indifferent with remote in his hands. Funny enough when Nigerian men marry white Ladies they adjust ,so na black women nor deserve better thing , because na only suffer head we Sabi abi? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by CumOnHer: 6:08pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:We are all mere mortals, however in every systems or structures, there is an hierarchy. In a home/ relationship, a man is at the top of the hierarchy. 6 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 6:10pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer:Well go search for the lady who will be under your authority. Good luck with that. I am only glad women of this generation are shedding religious and traditional shackles that held them down to miserable marriages and stuck with misogynists. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by IMEI: 6:11pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: women alone being responsible for keeping the home together makes no sense. Marriage consists of a husband and wife, maybe you need a re-evaluation of your views on marriage As far as i know, marriage has never been compulsory, either religiously or traditionally, so women choosing not to marry isn't a new concept I should tell men to step up? How about everyone hold themselves accountable. You hold yourselves accountable and men do same If not for Western influence, we'd still be in the dark ages? who 'civilised' the West? What makes you think you needed Western help in the first place? In this same sophisticated West, people are debating if genders exist, all it takes for a man to be a woman is to declare so and you think all is wrong with African society? Are you aware that in traditional African societies, women have ruled empires? Some of those women have inspired some iconic TV characters that are famous in the West? Google the inspiration for Xena warrior princess African women have always been considered the backbone of African society, Africa gave you the very same Leadership on a platter of gold that feminism seeks for Western women today Be a Western inspired feminist all you want, just don't deride Africa to justify it P.S I don't hate the West, just questioning the foundations you base your views on 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Biglittlelois(f): 6:13pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer: Then tell us what men bring to the table apart from finance, and also the agenda men set for women to pass in other to qualify for the table. 3 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by Ladycewhy(f): 6:20pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
IMEI:a western inspired feminist was the same one that stopped the killing of twins ,that same one is the reason I was allowed go to school is the same reason many tribes are doing away bluefilm:with fgm even though some coconut heads still practice it and a lot more. African women have always been considered backbone ,yet they were the most sort after for human sacrifice, maltreated as widows, denied inheritance , not allowed to have an education and lots more , so much for being regarded as the backbone . I just don't want to assume you are implying that Africa civilized the west with the bolded sha . Thst will be like showing someone the way and not knowing the way to take yourself 4 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by CumOnHer: 6:23pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:Woman, you can choose to remain single & lonely all in the cold just because you want to live independent of a man's authority. But the sad reality you can never run away from is the fact that the larger society itself is under the authority of men and women are a component unit of the society 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by GRIMMJOE(m): 6:24pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:Is this how you ladies share bills.
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Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by CumOnHer: 6:26pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
Biglittlelois:Like I told Op, I will only reply your questions when she changes the title of the thread. 2 Likes |
Re: What "Table" Means To Men. by GRIMMJOE(m): 6:29pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
CumOnHer:Our dear Op is confuse. You can't really blame our Nigerian women, they are not very smart. 3 Likes |
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