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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Animegirl(f): 5:49pm On Mar 23, 2022
Blablamalala:

Sad but true anything else is lies. It is poverty.

Lol.. But one can still elevate himself/herself from poverty. Poverty is still not an excuse.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by GoooodHardDick: 5:51pm On Mar 23, 2022
Rubyjade:
They don't want to be responsible

Responsible for who? You? A liability and a parasite? Are you his wife? Is he your father?

There's a huge difference between responsibility and burden. Instead of blaming all men, why can't you deal with yourself. Make yourself responsible and leave the men alone, coz a man is supposed to be responsible for his own actions not to a liability and a parasite.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Animegirl(f): 5:53pm On Mar 23, 2022
GoooodHardDick:


You dey give your hope. Since your life is so wonderful, then while waiting for a man you'll become a liability and parasite to? Are you okay? What exactly can you offer that man in a relationship apart from your over used pussy? Sense fall on you there. No man wants a liability and a parasite. You better get rid of this entitlement mentality of yours.



See your IQ- 0.0. Move away, I don't talk to unintelligent men. No wonder shocked your sense is in your small tiny Dickson. Dont quote again grin

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by flokii: 5:58pm On Mar 23, 2022
Most are not just interested in becoming escape route and poverty alleviation scheme for ladies.. after all the struggle and financial burden of marriage, some will still nag and deny their husbands sex claiming feminism and whatnot.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by GoooodHardDick: 6:00pm On Mar 23, 2022
Animegirl:


See your IQ- 0.0. Move away, I don't talk to unintelligent men. No wonder shocked your sense is in your small tiny Dickson. Dont quote again grin

Exactly how a typical Nigerian girl behaves. Instead of answering questions thrown at them, they'll look for a way to avoid it.

You mumu no be small. You're waiting for a man you'll become a liability and a parasite to? If you're broke. Get a job. Not a boyfriend. No man wants a liability and a parasite.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Osobi32(m): 6:07pm On Mar 23, 2022
Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.
You call men lazy yet u don't hesitate to run to them for urgent 5k abi..... This Virgina people sef!

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Qatar2022: 6:09pm On Mar 23, 2022
Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.
They don't want to marry because of liabilities like you

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by VladimirPutiin(m): 6:14pm On Mar 23, 2022
Too many desperate whores on the streets.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Osobi32(m): 6:14pm On Mar 23, 2022
Rubyjade:
They don't want to be responsible
Are u saying marriage makes a man responsible? You ladies are just impossible!

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Osobi32(m): 6:17pm On Mar 23, 2022
Blablamalala:


It is only a foolish man and poor that regrets after spending on women.
only a hungry and broke ass lady will expect a man to lavish his hard earned money on her..... Meanwhile aside sex what else do ladies offer men?

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Osobi32(m): 6:20pm On Mar 23, 2022
Animegirl:


Than get your idle lady na cheesy, if is that simple grin. Funny, you men would still end up marrying the so called liabilities, when loneliness set in at your old age
very funny, did u say when loneliness set in at old age? Lol! Real men are already prepared for that time ok.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 6:21pm On Mar 23, 2022
GoooodHardDick:


Comrade. This is exactly what we're saying. The rate of entitlement mentality among these Nigerian girls is getting out of hand. Imagine what the comment of that zombie.
Omo you done chop ban abi? cheesy
Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 6:23pm On Mar 23, 2022
Animegirl:


See your IQ- 0.0. Move away, I don't talk to unintelligent men. No wonder shocked your sense is in your small tiny Dickson. Dont quote again grin
Siofraud respect yourself undecided

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Truvelisback(m): 6:29pm On Mar 23, 2022
Realmi:
are u married
Why do u ask? grin
Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Realmi: 6:32pm On Mar 23, 2022
Truvelisback:
Why do u ask? grin
ur answer to the topic is in the answer to the question I asked u

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Truvelisback(m): 6:36pm On Mar 23, 2022
Blablamalala:

It is only a foolish man and poor that regrets after spending on women.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Truvelisback(m): 6:42pm On Mar 23, 2022
Realmi:
ur answer to the topic is in the answer to the question I asked u
Lol.
Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nosayer: 6:43pm On Mar 23, 2022
The economic realities of the world is shifting and likewise, the role of men as sole providers for their families.

The major thing that ties men down in marriage is a sense of responsibility in terms of families and children which is achieved through economic prowess.

The new system in most western countries have relativised responsibility, culture and every other thing that holds the fabric of responsibility in men. Thus, men are beginning to desire freedom to live without being responsible to anyone.

As a matter of fact, marriage favours women more than it favours men and in actual sense of it, women do choose men than men choose women. But the world now is at a crossroads and the law of nature is what will determine the outcome of this.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:49pm On Mar 23, 2022
as they say: why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free....?!

men today dont care that much about marriage any longer, just like they dont care about religion and/or family... look around you, the focus has changed because TIMES HAVE CHANGED!!!!! expecting men today to live live men of yesterday is foolish!

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by tensazangetsu20(m): 8:42pm On Mar 23, 2022
Probably where you are sha but the guys around me including the broke ones can't wait to get married.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by GoooodHardDick: 8:53pm On Mar 23, 2022
Osobi32:
only a hungry and broke ass lady will expect a man to lavish his hard earned money on her..... Meanwhile aside sex what else do ladies offer men?

At the bolded , Comrade. We've been asking these questions for ages. Instead of answering it, they avoided it and ended up insulting guys on nairaland.

Watch and see how they'll avoid the question and insult you now.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by posty56: 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2022
Nosayer:
The economic realities of the world is shifting and likewise, the role of men as sole providers for their families.

The major thing that ties men down in marriage is a sense of responsibility in terms of families and children which is achieved through economic prowess.

The new system in most western countries have relativised responsibility, culture and every other thing that holds the fabric of responsibility in men. Thus, men are beginning to desire freedom to live without being responsible to anyone.

As a matter of fact, marriage favours women more than it favours men and in actual sense of it, women do choose men than men choose women. But the world now is at a crossroads and the law of nature is what will determine the outcome of this.



therefore men available for marriage will start to scarce , nobody wants any system that doesn't favour them , remember that Bible passage about seven women for one man? it comes to my mind ,this Western society don't know the damage they are doing time go come when to find man to marry go they like looking for diamond

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by blinking001(m): 9:01pm On Mar 23, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


There's nothing in marriage. Have your baby or babies with a man then live your life independently. It's foolishness to live under a detect of a man.


Bleep marriage
Lol. So much frustration from an evening newspaper. You feel let down because men don't want you. I understand your pains, afterall it's not easy to be a single mother with 2 kids in Nigeria. You're overweight, work on your weight, men might come around to your rescue. Sad thing.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Higgies(m): 9:07pm On Mar 23, 2022
It all boils down to money.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by plat0: 9:09pm On Mar 23, 2022
tensazangetsu20:
Probably where you are sha but the guys around me including the broke ones can't wait to get married.
They are not serious, with the terrible situation in the country, I'll only get married when I'm ready to leave Nigeria.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Truvelisback(m): 9:10pm On Mar 23, 2022
tensazangetsu20:
Probably where you are sha but the guys around me including the broke ones can't wait to get married.
Bro, getting married single handedly as a broke guy without the support of ur wife-to-be is damn hard, except u want to experience this.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Truvelisback(m): 9:16pm On Mar 23, 2022
Higgies:
It all boils down to money.
Women and Money are 5 letters.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:23pm On Mar 23, 2022
plat0:
They are not serious, with the terrible situation in the country, I'll only get married when I'm ready to leave Nigeria.

Ready to leave or left. It's not easy leaving Nigeria when married. Even work visas are given to single people rather than married.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Truvelisback(m): 9:28pm On Mar 23, 2022
Nosayer:
The economic realities of the world is shifting and likewise, the role of men as sole providers for their families.

The major thing that ties men down in marriage is a sense of responsibility in terms of families and children which is achieved through economic prowess.

The new system in most western countries have relativised responsibility, culture and every other thing that holds the fabric of responsibility in men. Thus, men are beginning to desire freedom to live without being responsible to anyone.

As a matter of fact, marriage favours women more than it favours men and in actual sense of it, women do choose men than men choose women. But the world now is at a crossroads and the law of nature is what will determine the outcome of this.



Mehn! What a life! And to even find a financially supportive lady is damn hard. The other day, a guy said in his thread here that, the moment he told a lady he was wooing online that he was a School teacher, the lady blocked him immediately.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by plat0: 9:32pm On Mar 23, 2022
tensazangetsu20:


Ready to leave or left. It's not easy leaving Nigeria when married. Even work visas are given to single people rather than married.
No, when I'm ready to leave, I'm not waiting for a work visa.

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Re: Why Are Guys Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Truvelisback(m): 9:40pm On Mar 23, 2022
Osobi32:
very funny, did u say when loneliness set in at old age? Lol! Real men are already prepared for that time ok.
Na children dey make some men dey marry. Another thing is societal pressure. The way people looks at u or reacts when they noticed that u aren't married is so alarming. They would start looking at u as if u are finished or u have committed a big crime.

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