Rubyjade:
They don't want to be responsible.

Lol... When guys don't want to settle down, they're said to be losing interest. When a ladies don't want to settle down, they're simply olosho. In both cases, only one gender takes the blame as usual. Many will say they're fleeing from liabilities (a convenient term for 'responsibilities') but our fathers still got married even when women weren't even expected to do anything other than take care of the home. So what excuse does this generation have?

The truth is, regardless of the term we use to refer to it, people are beginning to realize that marriage, as beautiful as it is, is not necessarily a do-or-die affair like society paints it. It could be argued to be some sort of irresponsibility but even that would be debatable. This change isn't gender specific. It might be more apparent with men cause they seem to have the financial power and the ability to easily pull that off without judgement. But some women would rather be baby mamas too

This is the total, balanced truth.

laxetude:


U are still assuming that such agreement holds any water. And what will you do when she starts slipping on the "agreed percentages"

Ask your married buddies how it's going.

lol..kilomode e mo

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

Yes, make every gender maintain its name. Is it a curse that you ladies should not take responsibilities?

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

Op nawa for you oo

MadamVanessa:



There's nothing in marriage. Lately, our women have been doing as if their survival is tied down to marriage or if you don't marry, you're a failure. Stupid mindset. Have your baby or babies with a man then live your life independently. It's foolishness to live under a detect of a man.

If you can't deal with sexual urge, there's no harm in having sex gadgets of all type and satisfy yourself if need arises or you look for one hot hansom guy that is matured and use as sex slave.

Bleep marriage

I like you

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

nope.its because they're having access to both the milk and cow.women are the ones settling and giving their all without getting commitment from the men e.g birthing children, giving sex, spending their money and doing everything for the man.some even move into his house when he hasn't shown commitment or express his desire to marry you so since they get sex, money,food,clothes and children from different women,what's the point getting married.if women. Learn to respect themselves and stop commercializing their vaginas,women will not only be respected but treated with decency ,love and be married

You are not fully correct, someone like me I don't want to suffer anyone so I can't for now if she is ready to help me with finance why not.
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Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why are guys losing interest in settling down?

Truvelisback:
True but Most of these ladies are avoiding this. Most of these ladies aim is to marry a man who would carry almost all the family's responsibilities on his head while they sit at home and watch African magic and zeeworld, eat, grow fat, and produce children.

There are few of them out there that do it voluntarily, a lady will want to see your SINCERITY and level of TRANSPARENCY before putting her money on the table.

Infact let them start contributing financially to the relationship while you guys are still dating. The first gas cooker in my house was bought by my wife while we were dating

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why are guys losing interest in settling down?

Are they?

Then who are the ones getting married every other day at the registry and every weekend? Abi it's same sex weddings?

BigBashiru:


When she starts slipping on the agreed percentages then send her packing....

I hail you, so all the previous money you spent down the drain. OBO!

MadamVanessa:



There's nothing in marriage. Lately, our women have been doing as if their survival is tied down to marriage or if you don't marry, you're a failure. Stupid mindset. Have your baby or babies with a man then live your life independently. It's foolishness to live under a detect of a

If you can't deal with sexual urge, there's no harm in having sex gadgets of all type and satisfy yourself if need arises or you look for one hot hansom guy that is matured and use as sex slave.

Bleep marriage

No comment, "TIME" will tell

qtguru:


I disagree, I cannot chose a libability you must bring something, the likes of Iyaebe and the rest fantasize about Marriage where Hubby is paying for everything, but how feasible is that in this new economy ? if you; as a wife cannot contribute to the house-hold financially to a degree, then prepare for a resentful Husband who will do it, and believe he is owed more.

I cannot be with a woman who brings nothing to the table, if I die tomorrow, who takes care of the kids.

It's not that deep, it's only on NL people don't marry outside reasonable people come together and have a plan for how the marriage will function, we have too much vitriol here to even have a simple discussion about Marriage.

Will you still call me a liability if I work and earn? All I have been saying is that no man should have eyes on his wife’s money,she will assist you when necessary but you must be in charge and a total provider,only a dysfunctional home has the woman contributing majorly financially,such homes breed irresponsible sons in future.My dad does not even know and care if my mom earns or not but my mom can more than take the mantle of leadership if needs be(God forbids it,I reject it),she takes care of some things without my dads knowledge and so on.I know times are hard but I detest men who have that mentality of 50:50 and those ones who ask what you’ll be bringing to the table,it is the reason I will always tell a man I’m doing nothing so that I will know what he’s up to,I just hate men with that mentality.Only a wicked man will be happy and comfortable seeing his wife struggle too much,even if fate brings that situation to her,the husband should never feel happy and comfortable in that.

laxetude:


I hail you, so all the previous money you spent down the drain. OBO!

All the previous moni spent doesn't matter.... sanity and peace matters more.... I don't need any financial stress from ex-oloshos....

Women are public property...I advice men to just have babies... And be responsible for those babies but do DNA test ...

Rubyjade:
They don't want to be responsible.

Lol... When guys don't want to settle down, they're said to be losing interest. When a ladies don't want to settle down, they're simply olosho. In both cases, only one gender takes the blame as usual. Many will say they're fleeing from liabilities (a convenient term for 'responsibilities') but our fathers still got married even when women weren't even expected to do anything other than take care of the home. So what excuse does this generation have?

The truth is, regardless of the term we use to refer to it, people are beginning to realize that marriage, as beautiful as it is, is not necessarily a do-or-die affair like society paints it. It could be argued to be some sort of irresponsibility but even that would be debatable. This change isn't gender specific. It might be more apparent with men cause they seem to have the financial power and the ability to easily pull that off without judgement. But some women would rather be baby mamas too

In a clearer term, it's called civilization! Wen women can proudly be babymama, nd men, babaydady. Wots left?
Women were perceived as being inferior and seek men for protection, prestige, sociocultural and economic strength.

But now, it's no longer same. Women now blaze d trails. Dey have ignited dia potentials and work assiduously to prove dat.

We are tired of chasing women that at the end of the day lack home training and respect and can't fend for themselves. Nobody want a liability, our generation is filled with the most entitled and materialistic women ever and they feel without contributing anything aside sex they are the table.
Largely blame feminism that is brainwashing this women.

BigBashiru:


All the previous moni spent doesn't matter.... sanity and peace matters more.... I don't need any financial stress from ex-oloshos....

Then don't involve at all... That's the whole point of the thread

Uncle96:
To be honest , marriage is so overrated

Marriage is not overrated. Na sapa make most men dey fear marriage.

laxetude:


Then don't involve at all... That's the whole point of the thread

I will involve but will be very careful

titosblink:



Marriage is not overrated. Na sapa make most men dey fear marriage.

There's nothing in a man in a marriage asides children....its a bad deal for men....

tibatobi:
Women are public property...I advice men to just have babies... And be responsible for those babies but do DNA test ...

Na dat publicproperty part dey vex me pass.... if a woman wants monogamy or financial upkeep there has to be an incentive to do it.... men work based on incentive. You cannot Bleep around in ur earlier days Nd want lifetime provision....it doesn't work dat way....u hv to go to ur ex boyfriends to provide for you.....

BigBashiru:


I will involve but will be very careful

Good luck with that bro, I hate uncertainty in my life and female nature is the very definition of fickleness.

Uncle96:
To be honest , marriage is so overrated

Then don't get married. Dey do soapy

BigBashiru:


Na dat publicproperty part dey vex me pass.... if a woman wants monogamy or financial upkeep there has to be an incentive to do it.... men work based on incentive. You cannot Bleep around in ur earlier days Nd want lifetime provision....it doesn't work dat way....u hv to go to ur ex boyfriends to provide for you.....

wayward girls everywhere....God na go let me marry olosho for my life

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

but are hardworking when they buy a girl iPhone of a thousand dollar without having a job. Hardworking when they carry the girls to shop and club. Try another style please, this one is old and outdated tactic.

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

Lol...

That's why most ladies keep units of guys to take up their own responsibilities.

Most ladies can't afford the kind of life they want to live and they're not ready to work.

The tori longgg make we no go there.

dangoteinlaw:
Had one girl like that, within 2weeks dating her my account went down by 150k, what I bought or spent it on idk .. Imagine a young single guy in that kind of spending spree in this present economy. Nigeria girls are thieves!!

your own better, boss. By the time I knew what’s happening, I don already Dey beg for data. I was using iPhone 11 Pro Max and Samsung note 10 before I met her, na IPhone 6s remain my hand when I told her to Bleep off. That gender is the real definition of parasite. Swallow red pill. If any lady ask me out on a date now, I will just ask her directly, “will you pay “?. Na mumu man Dey settle down.

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why are guys losing interest in settling down?

The women out there are not worth it

Animegirl:


Because they're lazy, don't want more responsibilities.

The average guy spends more on women as a single guy then if they were married

I tell you man!

Uncle96:
To be honest , marriage is so overrated

Animegirl:


Between me and you, I wonder who is the mad person here. Stop stalking me, small boy. You're not in my league. . Don't worry about me Dear, my life is much better than your generation combine.

Also I'm not after men, infact they crawl to get my attention

So much mouth.

confirm!

Carcholce:




You meant “liabilities”