Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

Everybody has a skeletons in their cupboard
Why not forget about your girlfriend past and move on.
You were never a part of the past so don't let it bother you.
If you don't like the girl why not smash and go

Haven't you also been sleeping around? what makes yours better than hers? if you don't love her then let her go,a fornicator cannot be condemning another fornicator,lailai.

Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. So It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be more messy.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish and RECKLESS excuse.

small boi wan handle big something
Leave her now if u know u can't handle her past and groom her into a better version of herself...someone better Dan u is waiting so take it as a privilege from GOD to be d one to lead her in the right path
If u are sleeping with her though, just know ur destiny has been turned to a menstrual rag
Discipline urself to stay away from fornication and show her there are still good men out there...can't handle it? Go away from. Ha

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

@bolded

That line always get me pissed! Met Jan said yes Jan had sex same Jan

Abeg where una dey meet em this girls...

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have you had sex with her?

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you shouldn't be scared people actually CHANGE!!! But if you can't handle it iwill advice you to end the relationship

If you're in doubt, please let her quietly take her leave NOW... before it is too late

The situation am in ATM.. because with a girl having multiple sexual relationship in the past and high body count, they is a high possibility of her cheating in marriage.. they are not use to one man

The decision is yours to make at the end of the day.

Guys, it's not as easy as you guys see it, just pray you're not in shoes, thinking about it alone weakens the mind

Candidlady:



@bolded

That line always get me pissed! Met Jan said yes Jan had sex same Jan

Abeg where una dey meet em this girls...

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have you had sex with her?

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you shouldn't be scared people actually CHANGE!!! But if you can't handle it iwill advice you to end the relationship

We met online, we've been talking prior to our meeting and she agreed to date me when we met.

You just don't know what you want! You also confuse about what you need...

Seriously, everyone is not perfect.
If she has genuinely left her old way,why can't you forget the past and love her perfectly well.
Las Las,all those things won't matter when USA finally go offensive against RUSSIA.

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

U have seen the red flag...
Don’t marry a retired oloshò for a wife and come and complain later....

Nigga move.....

MadamVanessa:




Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's is palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be worse.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish excuse.

See them trying to justify their reckless pass.



I no get rough pass make I tell you, and as a lady if your pass is rough I no get any business with you

Comrade

To me ooo continue with the relationship as long as you no dey marry her.

But if na marriage find someone else, cause e go pain you later. You can imagine going out with your wife and people around will be looking at her coming to tell her that she look familiar.

Contekbbc:
Seriously, everyone is not perfect.
If she has genuinely left her old way,why can't you forget the past and love her perfectly well.
Las Las,all those things won't matter when USA finally go offensive against RUSSIA.

Genuinely left her ways??..it’s a lie...sexual appetite doesn’t reset...
...a man/woman that has gotten used to jumping from on díck/pvssy to another should be a no go area for someone that wants a peaceful relationship and peace of mind

....that’s why we have broken marriages and paternity fraud everywhere...

Change koor....
APC niiiii

advanceDNA:


U have seen the red flag...
Don’t marry a retired oloshò for a wife and come and complain later....

Nigga move.....

A lady told me years back that, Even if she gets married she'll still bang the guy that disvirgined her on a steady,I was shocked and I'm the guy,,,, that shit is crazy though

2ndchildhood:
The situation am in ATM.. because with a girl having multiple sexual relationship in the past and high body count, they is a high possibility of her cheating in marriage.. they are not use to one man

Exactly. Many men have been wifing hoes these days. It will only take the grace of God for such girls never to cheat if any gullible guy wife them.

They will act like good girls to you but if you get to know what they do in private with other men, you will be shocked.

I won't advise any guy to settle down with a girl that have terrible past. It doesn't always end well. They will never change. They might stay faithful for the early first 1-2 years of the marriage, but it will look like they are caged, and they will start seeking fun and eventually go back to their past lives.

Was it not some few days ago I saw one post in the front page of a man whose wife was jumping fence just to escape and prevent the man from checking her phone?

When a man marries a hoe, what does he expect?

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

I'll tell you a story... there was this lady who played " hard to get " one of many. She would later tell me that I was " too nice " & polite and tht she was not used to that. She was used to "bad boys " persona. In any case, once we started dating she would tell me her past . When we cuddle she would say mum sends her greetings and confess that she loves me and that she did this or that in her past. ( Had an abortion, had sex with this dude or that ) and she will keep wanting assurances that I wouldn't leave her or discard her because of her past.

Not to sound like a religious nut - But if Jesus loved us while we were yet sinners. Then babe - My love for you is not based on past relationships but in the now. I would chide her and say " Girl you bad o " and we laugh but then she would ask - do I still love her, in which I would respond. yes !

The most important thing is that she is with you Now !!!
As long as she does not have any affliction that you cant deal with - Can she still have kids, or any virus which attacks the immune system but most importantly are you both compatible ?. Then enjoy the time you both have and see where it leads to.

Officiallyme:
We met online, we've been talking prior to our meeting and she agreed to date me when we met.

For date, you are free to date her but don't make the mistake of getting commited to her or anything marriage along the line.

I met one online too. I know she has been into runs in the past. But she is forming a good girl to me and pretending to be a good girl. She has been finding a way to get me committed to her. But I am not that gullible na.

What pains me most is the whole pretense. How can a girl who has been into runs in the past tells you she doesn't know what BJ means. She doesn't know I know she has runs past history. I haven't told her to her very face cuz she is still thinking I will be gullible to get committed to her, even going as far as telling me about when I will settle down.

If you make the mistake of marrying any lady like that, you are on your own. They will never ever change. Marriage will be like prison to them within 1-2 years of the marriage. You better look for a decent girl with no past terrible history to settle down with. They are completely damaged. Don't make that mistake.

advanceDNA:


U have seen the red flag...
Don’t marry a retired oloshò for a wife and come and complain later....

Nigga move.....

Don't mind the boy... still here asking mumu questions.

Retired olosho with abortions on top, and guy man still "doesn't know what to do"

Flag so red, even blood doesn't compare, yet still "doesn't know what to do"

Honestly speaking some of you deserve the premium tears waiting for you

Exkandayee:

A lady told me years back that, Even if she gets married she'll still bang the guy that disvirgined her on a steady,I was shocked and I'm the guy,,,, that shit is crazy though

She give you the fact...
Some women no dey forget who lash them well well in the past even though their current man dey lash them well...

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

OP Na every body get Past issues or doings,for the sake of your mental health try not to think about her Past if you really want to be with her,Try to live in the Moment with her but always be on guard for any signs of promiscuity.

Abeg Bleep and leave her

BirtherOfKings:
small boi wan handle big something
Leave her now if u know u can't handle her past and groom her into a better version of herself...someone better Dan u is waiting so take it as a privilege from GOD to be d one to lead her in the right path
If u are sleeping with her though, just know ur destiny has been turned to a menstrual rag
Discipline urself to stay away from fornication and show her there are still good men out there...can't handle it? Go away from. Ha

Don't blackmail the young man into saving a whor€.

Of you can't handle someone's past, avoid them. There's no need trying to forget her past on her behalf or forgive her when you weren't the one she offended with her reckless past.
Don't come here asking us whether you should continue or not we don't care. At least i sont care if you continue cos it's all in your power to continue or end the relationship.
But wait o, how old you are and how old is the babe in question. I want to check something.

Op forget her oooooo....no even continue the make I dey chop first....better remove ur hand oo...

For the sake of your sanity, don't even think of anything long term with that girl. It is even good you got to know about her past on time. Just keep her aside as sex partner and be very careful of STDs.
Humans hardly change an ingrained behavior most especially a promiscuous lifestyle.

Be wise.

Candidlady:



@bolded

That line always get me pissed! Met Jan said yes Jan had sex same Jan

Abeg where una dey meet em this girls...

---

have you had sex with her?

---

you shouldn't be scared people actually CHANGE!!! But if you can't handle it iwill advice you to end the relationship

To have sex with a Nigerian girl is not rocket science...chill please.

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

Dude, go and understand female nature and redpill truth. Its your choice to marry a retired WH0RE, the past matters very much.
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know