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Tell her mother to go na

Tannhauser:
This is not an issue now, at least once a week ( preferably Friday nights) leave the kids with their granny and rekindle the romance with your wife. Take her out to nice dinner, maybe a little clubbing (if she's keen) take her to a nice hotel and fv.ck the blazes out of her.
Must you seek advice on everything? Nonsense!

Hotel visitation for two months? In this Buhari regime? Poster abeg dey blow dey go, if she ain't comfortable, let her go abeg.

Oyindamolah:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MY COUSIN:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

That's not an issue. Just play music especially good songs � then start your acrobatic game . Me nah baba for this kind thing

Guy if kongi catch you weller, you find way around am... Quickie in the bathroom is never a bad idea....so manage your home.....

Ninisun:
E no dey easy abeg to throw a visitor out.

So her position na visitor na she dey misbehave, I still insist throw that loud woman out

The reason side chicks comes in guy used your sense

Oyindamolah:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MY COUSIN:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

She is impeding in your PRIVACY. She has to know you lot are adults, if she cannot bear it, she has to leave

I don't think it is right for your mother in law to dictate when you should have sex with your wife in your own house.
Maybe konji is always holding her whenever you guys are moaning. Maybe you guys should have it when she is not around or consider going for a hotel.

Oyindamolah:
[s]MARTIAL BED.My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.FROM A MY COUSIN:I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.[/s]

What should I do?

Go and watch porn.

You people keep making sex look like it is the ONLY important thing in this Life.

Nonsense.

https://www.nairaland.com/5275471/wife-says-no-sex-until

Recycling a story from 2019…. Non sense

Oyindamolah:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MY COUSIN:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

Who is being tormented? You or your wife?

Whether it is you or your cousin.....hmmm. anyway... let her stay. 2 months stay is not forever. The day she leaves, you sit her down and let her know her mom is no longer welcome. If she tries it again..let her know you are finding solution and not going to endure since you know you must do. Simple.

For sure your wife will force it another time. Just pack your clothes and leave the house. Find another place to stay. No one will teach your inlaw to leave and not return again by the time your wife sparks. You haven't pressed the right button in your wife...its why she thinks she is still under her. Some inlaws are too wayward. Very terrible behavior. Anyway, na you go ask her help na. Lol.....lol.... Maybe mama is not being handled well at home...hahaha...you dey make her wan do. Lol.

You do not need to confront her. Confronting her will bring out things you may regret. Talk with your action.

And if you cannot endure it also this time....please...find an alternate solution for your wife (if she is around to take care of your baby). If not, na you go destroy your family yourself las las with your sex sex urge. If you can find an alternate solution, as soon as she is staying longer...carry your load and move out. That's how to deal with inlaws. Do not have any argument with her ooo. When you visit her and she brings it up, tell her its work ooo...that you were posted out that time. Na your wife you get matter with. If your wife cannot control her family, then, hmm.... find solution oga to your case. Move out of the house. That's my own advice.

If you like...go and confront her. Or keep forcing your wife and let them start disrespecting you. E go be on you later. Handle your inlaws with sense. Command respect. Do not let anyone disrespect you.

Goodluck!

eddynaira125:
So her position na visitor na she dey misbehave, I still insist throw that loud woman out

Till tomorrow, it's not easy to throw a family out. It needs diplomacy.

This topic is like Nigeria vs Ghana match I see traffic

Have sex at midnights in the bathroom then

and u call this happily married

bluefilm:
Go and watch porn.

You people keep making sex look like it is the ONLY important thing in this Life.

Nonsense.

It is � important in marriage
Please just close this post cus you sound so immature.

Maybe the 'ringing tone' from your madam is too loud and making the mother uncomfortable

Can't you hold yourself for the period?

Ninisun:
Till tomorrow, it's not easy to throw a family out. It needs diplomacy.

I hate that word diplomacy it makes people get away with evil, with the spirit of unrepentant, throw her out,


Maybe she is the one sponsoring the finances of your house.

Oyindamolah:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MY COUSIN:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.
GUY,JUST PLAY ALONG. JUST ARRANGE FOR YOUR MATRESS FOR LIVING ROOM WITH YOUR WIFE. IT JUST FOR A WHILE.
What should I do?

GUY,JUST PLAY ALONG. JUST ARRANGE FOR YOUR MATRESS FOR LIVING ROOM WITH YOUR WIFE. IT JUST FOR A WHILE

CAPSLOCKED:
MOTHER-IN-LAW'S PRESENCE HAS AFFORDED HER A PERFECT EXCUSE. DON'T WORRY SHE'LL LEAVE ONE DAY AND YOUR WIFE WILL PROBABLY COME UP WITH ANOTHER REASON WHY SHE WON'T SLEEP WITH YOU. YOU'RE ENJOYING A SHARE OR RESENTMENT AND EMOTIONAL DISCONNECT AND YOU'RE ALLOWED TO KEEP DREAMING THAT THINGS WILL GET BETTER. BUT THE REALITY IS THAT NOTHING REALLY GETS BETTER. YOUR WIFE DOESN'T THINK YOU'RE ATTRACTIVE ANYMORE (ASSUMING YOU EVER WERE) AND THERE'S HARDLY ANY TURNING BACK FROM HERE. GOOD LUCK TRYING TO FIX YOUR PROBLEMS THOUGH. THINGS YOU COULD HAVE AVOIDED BY NOT BEING A BETA FROM DAY ONE.

Quite a possible perspective, I know a few couples who are in this boat. Op be sure say ya own case no be this kind woo!!

Put yourself in her shoe, if it was your mom wouldn't you give her that respect.....what I see in you is alpha pride

WoundedLamb:
Lol... I don't even know where to start. Sorry bro, I'm not a lady. Hopefully, you get to find a female programmer some day.

_{Hehe... this was so funny.}

LWKMD!!

Poor guy has been crushing on you

merits:
Because of toto no be juju be that.

Toto itself is juju of its kind

Ninisun:
Keep taking her out till when? The wife should reduce the volume or the woman can leave please.

...till she is gone.
They should improvise on the best way of copulating.
I thought marriage is not all about sex.

Oyindamolah:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MY COUSIN:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

u go lash side chic na.why will sex be a problem.

Oyindamolah:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MY COUSIN:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

BABA,
TELL MAMA TO GO RENT A HOTEL. YOU ARE A MAN HERE AND NO ONE SHOULD DICTATE HOW YOU RUN YOUR HOUSE.
WELL ME I NO DEY DO ALL THESE EXTENDED FAMILY, NA VIDEO CALL WE DEY TAKE ARRANGE OURSELVES.

Ninisun:
It is � important in marriage
Please just close this post cus you sound so immature.

It's not a question of sounding immature or not.

It's a question of acting like an adult.

Why is he sounding like he doesn't have any other option on how to solve the no sex situation in his home?

Does he need a prophet to tell him that he can take his wife to another location to have sex if the sex is no longer comfortable in his house?

People should not be worrying others with their insignificant problems on this forum, biko

eddynaira125:
I hate that word diplomacy it makes people get away with evil, with the spirit of unrepentant, throw her out,


Maybe she is the one sponsoring the finances of your house.

What if the guest is your mum?

WoundedLamb:
Lol... I don't even know where to start. Sorry bro, I'm not a lady. Hopefully, you get to find a female programmer some day.

_{Hehe... this was so funny.}

Guy was like....

Go ahead and rent hotel

Oyindamolah:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MY COUSIN:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

What nonsense is this na ok you want to obey your mama in my house and disobey me ahbi? Ok madam while you wait for mama to go after 2months body no be firewood,i will check available olosho close by.