slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Marry a woman that loves me more

To all my real niggarz
If you finally decide to change your mind and marry...then please marry the woman that loves you more....he get why...

When a woman loves....she loves for real

And thier sympathetic and empathy hormones will circulate and increase the more
Any little thing they will easily forgive you..they will never mount pressure on you

True talk my real nigger slowmirr, but I'm sure you typed this with your right hand on your keyboard while in your left hand is your precious weed.

showafrica:


If you are a man, marry woman wey love you. If you are a woman, marry who you love... Simple. Unless yahoo is involved

so you mean if you no like a woman, just because say she love you, you ko just marry her abi?

I would marry the one that loves me
Cheat on her with the one I love

hopexter:


A woman’s love might not mean much to you, I have a mother and her love means a lot to me right from infant till this day. All I’m saying is it’s better to marry who loves you to who you love. Cos a woman’s love is engraved with faithfulness, protection and respect. She will never allow harm into your way.

But there are grave repercussions in which ever! Another day’s discussion

Your opinion is valid but a mother's love is very much different from the love seen between spouses.
In my experience, I am happy the way my wife loves and protects my children. But what a husband needs is affirmation of his authority in his family.
Because I love her, hurting her is never an option. A woman's love is fraught with inconsistencies--- mood swings amongst others. You can't rely on that.

Toks2008:
Let me paraphrase this so that it can make more sense. Would you rather be with someone who wishes to be with another person? Because this is the case if you find yourself married to the one you love who does not love you and YES people marry without really wanting to be with the person they are married to.

This may sound so twisted but it is not at all. It is the dream of many people to be with someone they love who also loves them in return but we all know that this is seldom the case as we usually have the feelings tilted in one direction and as they say, the person who loves less in a relationship holds the power over the other.

I have met ladies who i love and i have met those who love me and i can tell you for a fact that these two categories are not in anyway alike.

When you love someone and they don't feel same way, you usually see yourself having to do more of the work to make it work and in most cases, you are taken for granted because the other person cares less if you stay or leave..

But when you are with someone you don't really desire but the person desires you, you will feel very uncomfortable at the beginning but there will be this serenity in your life with so much inner assurance that you are truly cherished and you will feel so alive and loved so much that you will inevitably start developing strong affection for the other person. (The beauty and the Beast is not just a fiction very realistic)

As a man, if you marry a lady who truly loves you, she will submit to you, cherish you, treat you like a king and will never see any reason to be with another man. And in like manner, if a woman marries a man who truly desires her,. he will treat her like a queen and cherish her all the days of his life.

YES i understand how twisted this sounds cos whether you choose the one you love that does not love you or you choose the one who loves you but you do not feel same way, the bottom line is that there is still an imbalance in the affection.

But be it as it may, you can never know how special you are until you meet someone who genuinely desires you and sometimes it is best to leave the one you love to be with the one who loves you because with time, you will realize you made the right decision.

So let us have your opinion.

Also remember that a partner can transition from one group to the other at very short notice. If you are luck to maintain the status quo that gives you joy and happiness....congrats

Nebes:
As a Christian male, please marry the woman you love but be sure she is a woman that can respect and submit to you.

Christian ladies, please marry the man that loves you. But if you don't have respect and can't submit, please stay single.

Best comment ever.

Toks2008:
Lalasticlala what is your take?

Why calling lala! This is a relationship trend, not a snake trend

Tonytonex:
so you mean if you no like a woman, just because say she love you, you ko just marry her abi?

Yes bro, just do it that way. Na woman dey keep marriage

The one with big ass

I will rather marry the one I love and she also love me, all us must love each other to build a happy family.

I married the one i love and that loves me.

Second option

The one who loves me ni, if you love a guy and he doesn't love you back my dear yoh will sufrer but if its the other way round you'll enjoy

Good advise but with a couple of contradictions.

How does one profess to be a "Christian" without being submissive?

No way! Submission is a lifestyle of Christians.

Perhaps we should distinguish between "Christians" and "Church-goers". One can't be a Christian and not Love like Christ (as a man) or Submit like Christ (as a woman).

The best marriages are modelled after Christ, who submitted himself to the Father's will even till death. For a blissful marriage, the Bible commands such act in Ephesians 5.

Nebes:
As a Christian male, please marry the woman you love but be sure she is a woman that can respect and submit to you.

Christian ladies, please marry the man that loves you. But if you don't have respect and can't submit, please stay single.

marriage is more than love, so therefore I'll marry the woman who loves me.

Menstruation:
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage .

We are most alive when we are in love. The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love.

There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.

check your mail

showafrica:


Yes bro, just do it that way. Na woman dey keep marriage

WOW! I kinda agree with you. Especially on the last sentence. It's like I will follow this your advice. Cause the babe I love with all my being is not really into me and she's taking me for granted. Where as, there's this lady that loves me so much. And funny thing is that she is even more beautiful and well endowed than the one I love.

The most logical thing to do is marry the one that loves you but believe me you will never have peace of mind till you get the one you love.You be unfair and some time harsh to the one that loves you.

D wan wey get yansh

Marry the one you love but loves you more

Aswearugaaad

If you dey find love as a man, sorry o. My friend you better find a homely girl who respects your authority so you can live long. Respect over love any day, twice on a Thursday.

RIDOO:
I had to face that reality when l was about to choose a life partner. I prayed and l watched.I have some that l like but they don't like me on the same percentage but the one that love me and l know deeply...l don't really like him .. But deep down l know it's the one that loved me more than l love him that will give me the package l want in a marriage.
So,l settled down for the one who loved me more than l love him.... that decision worked for me cos with time l started loving him back and l so much thank God for the decision.

Gbam!

It's a hard decision to make. But a man is structured in a way that most times, he doesn't need feelings to succeed in a Marriage.

The one who loves me.

Women love by default.

Lol. Na man dey kuku choose between these options. Women will pick the two with ease and still maintain that they are not cheating

If I can have little feeling for the one that loves me then I will go for the one that loves me.

nature never designed men to fall in love, men were designed to provide, protect and procreate, y'all get day? women were designed to nurse and nurture offsprings for thier men to further human procreation y'all get day? people no know say na oyibo invent love especially for songs and movies and we seems to take to heart all that we watch and read, it's all bullshit, women only love functionally meaning how useful are you to them, all the simps in the house should endeavor to read a famous book by chinweizu and all the cobweb's in thier heads will clear off

luminouz:
Here we go again!!!!!

Gbas gbos coming in. 3...2...1

N.B: That's why redpillers subscribe to being CHOSEN. It's the best feeling ever. You don't suffer from urgent 2k requests, birthday billings, Pay-my-school fees-naaa scenarios and all that entitlement bullshiit. You, are in control because it's the person who loves less that has the upper hand in the relationship. You enjoy the true benefits of having a woman take care of you,

I have never bought a phone for any girl, never paid for her hair...or her school fees or apartment or given her allowance. Anytime I hear men say they did such to make their girlfriends love them more, I shake my head. These dudes don't know what's up. I have in many occasions even collected the monies given to these girls by their 'hard working ATMs' after having their guts blown out by me. I'm the prize, because I made myself so.

But when we tell men to become the best versions of themselves, they scream 'hustle o, make another man no fuq your wife ooooo'... Forgetting that we fuq their so-called girlfriends too, despite the money they have invested in these girls. Money won't get the girl all the time. Chosen does

You can't try all these with me.

tolajay:
Good advise but with a couple of contradictions.

How does one profess to be a "Christian" without being submissive?

No way! Submission is a lifestyle of Christians.

Perhaps we should distinguish between "Christians" and "Church-goers". One can't be a Christian and not Love like Christ (as a man) or Submit like Christ (as a woman).

The best marriages are modelled after Christ, who submitted himself to the Father's will even till death. For a blissful marriage, the Bible commands such act in Ephesians 5.

Beautiful observation. But remember that our Christian journey is akin to a school. Some of us are in kindergarten, while others have spent years transforming. Some keep repeating classes.
In all, till we learn to love our wives like Christ loves us and our wives submit as we are expected to submit to God, failed marriages will be seen even in the church.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You can't try all these with me.

Lmaooo.

It's not what a woman says that I count, it's what she does. You haven't seen me before ..how do you know you won't choose me?

luminouz:


Lmaooo.

It's not what a woman says that I count, it's what she does. You haven't seen me before ..how do you know you won't choose me?

I know your type. I handle them well.