Brandonx:
Lies

Nah una problem for dis place be dis. Always quick to call people liars

Silentgroper:
oyo state




Ogbomosho for full

Na wa o

'Sometimes the best thing to do is to walk away'

Sixfiguresmart:
Happy to get an oil and gas job. Dream come true. Everything was perfect with me. 3 years into my job, a new boss showed up. A light skin Nigerian male. His wife and kids were in Canada. I visit the gym 3x per week.

He requested to go to the same gym. Pretended to work out and asked that I mentored him. It all happened fast. I thought he was responsible as he was married. He started touching my body inappropriately. Caressing my chest holding my arms. Thought he was enamored by the muscles only. I would somehow break him off and redirect him to the session.

Then, after work it was about meeting me, talking to me, confiding in me. Initially, I was happy to build a close relationship with a boss. Of course, that's my career growth right there.

Not until, this night, he invited me over to his lounge. As soon i arrived, he undressed to a G-string, I was dazed for real. He tried to kissed me. I blocked it. Then, came the love, the feeling, and sex plea. So, I took my leave quickly. Felt disappointed and betrayed. I told no one but my bestie who laughed over it and made a mockery of the whole thing. Telling me that he would have busted his ass for the money.

All I needed was my job and no drama. He advanced toward me several times. Showered me with expensive stuff. I rejected everything he offered. I couldn't shake him anymore, no hugs, nothing. I felt truly perplexed cos he was very connected and has brothers and relatives in top positions in Chevron. I met with him, talked to him man to man politely. He told me he had been in it since he was 14. I asked him if he would love that life for his kids. He said, no! So, I told him that I have a faith, a conscience and a commitment to my God. That I would not entertain homosexuality. So, after more attempts, the hate set in.

Well, my final year in Chevron was horrendous until i finally got axed 17 months after my new boss showed up. I moved on with my dignity but with a bigger lesson in life. I kept it a secret for many years. Only my bestie new about it.

Many men are victims. People hardly believe the few who cry out. Many will question the authenticity of my history and blame me afterall. Making it harder for the next man to come out.

Many argue that they will beat, hit, or punch a man for advancing toward them. There are consequences. Read your room. Justice hardly comes in a world of injustice. Sometimes, the best thing to do is walk away.

Your story is either pure lie or fiction and the least you can do is say the story with facts.

1. What Dept were you working for Chevron?
2. Apparently the way you sounded, you are not a blue badge, I doubt you are a green badge too. So tell me are you a community worker or someone just brought you ?
3. What location are you? Warri/Escravos/Lagos or which of the flow station or where?
4. Do you know chevron is one of the companies that supports LGBTQ and have an inclusive policy for them? So if you have an LGBTQ boss that’s a blue badge he definitely knows not to harass you
5 do you know chevron has an anonymous hotline to report every kind of workplace harassment anonymously? This number is placed in every facility and it goes straight to Houston or San Ramon? Why didn’t you use it?

Like I said, your story is pure lie until you provide some facts based on above questions.

blesdman:

Organisations in Nigeria do not take the inputs of their HR seriously. I have seen work bullying not treated

Really? That's sad. But Chevron isn't a Nigerian organization. As a multinational, I'd like to believe they have some standards.

You should have at least reported him to HR. That is pure sexual harassment!

Sixfiguresmart:
There's no evidence bro. Just my words against his. Everything happened far away from camera coverage. They are smart and more conscious of cameras and the public.
I could have reported him, yes! But, not enough evidence. You don't need to imagine the kind of person the HR was. I would have ended up in the media and the case would have been buried like others. Somethings are no secrets in the oil and gas. 95% are extremely immoral and have more bones under their couches than what you are trying to uncover. This is my own experience, I saw worse with others.

Best thing is to walk away than be buried. Don't you ever pray to be at the mercy of a merciless man.

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Don't you ever pray to be at the mercy of a merciless man!

Sixfiguresmart:
Happy to get an oil and gas job. Dream come true. Everything was perfect with me. 3 years into my job, a new boss showed up. A light skin Nigerian male. His wife and kids were in Canada. I visit the gym 3x per week.

He requested to go to the same gym. Pretended to work out and asked that I mentored him. It all happened fast. I thought he was responsible as he was married. He started touching my body inappropriately. Caressing my chest holding my arms. Thought he was enamored by the muscles only. I would somehow break him off and redirect him to the session.

Then, after work it was about meeting me, talking to me, confiding in me. Initially, I was happy to build a close relationship with a boss. Of course, that's my career growth right there.

Not until, this night, he invited me over to his lounge. As soon i arrived, he undressed to a G-string, I was dazed for real. He tried to kissed me. I blocked it. Then, came the love, the feeling, and sex plea. So, I took my leave quickly. Felt disappointed and betrayed. I told no one but my bestie who laughed over it and made a mockery of the whole thing. Telling me that he would have busted his ass for the money.

All I needed was my job and no drama. He advanced toward me several times. Showered me with expensive stuff. I rejected everything he offered. I couldn't shake him anymore, no hugs, nothing. I felt truly perplexed cos he was very connected and has brothers and relatives in top positions in Chevron. I met with him, talked to him man to man politely. He told me he had been in it since he was 14. I asked him if he would love that life for his kids. He said, no! So, I told him that I have a faith, a conscience and a commitment to my God. That I would not entertain homosexuality. So, after more attempts, the hate set in.

Well, my final year in Chevron was horrendous until i finally got axed 17 months after my new boss showed up. I moved on with my dignity but with a bigger lesson in life. I kept it a secret for many years. Only my bestie new about it.

Many men are victims. People hardly believe the few who cry out. Many will question the authenticity of my history and blame me afterall. Making it harder for the next man to come out.

Many argue that they will beat, hit, or punch a man for advancing toward them. There are consequences. Read your room. Justice hardly comes in a world of injustice. Sometimes, the best thing to do is walk away.

I doubt this happened in Chevron Nigeria.
Your boss can't sack you!

aikyg:

My name is not Gaybriel, Sir. And by the way, I am not gay. The only difference between me and you is that I understand that it is wrong to hate people simply because they swing the other way. Kaji?

I am sorry if I offended you. I was expecting you to spit venom. You’re very polite and calm. We need more people like you in this country. Keep it up!

hopeforcharles:

You are a gaybriel

Check all OP's topics and see the fiction threads he has been creating.

He is only honing his fictional writing skills.

If this is true, then shame on Chevron. Obviously that boss will destroy a lot of things for LGBTQ community in his company. I advise you to sue Chevron and make everything public. You have come out with this story now, they will be trying to contact you to save face and the name of their company. Make sure you say the truth and ensure that boss is a known predator so the company will keep a close eye on him and make sure he does not manage anybody. Till they have evidence to sack him.

But wait ooo op,

Sebi u posted this https://www.nairaland.com/7064504/ogas-daughter-inside-office#111688009 that ur oga daughter loves you in your working place.

Hssd8:
I also was a victim ones. When I was in school overseas, a guy local / citizen of the country approached me in the super market ... So nice to me , offered to take me home upon reaching my house he requested he want to come in as He entered he started approaching me ...... I chased him out of my house I'm still traumatised up till today . I feel your pain and sorry for your loss ... Better days ahead.

hmm...some people get mind,..imagine,The guy want to kpekus u in ur own unit...maybe mistake u as client

Foolishbuhari:


Look at this fücking gay! He over reacted? Overreacting would be punching his G-string wearing ass in the face and tossing him around the room with same!

Then get good pictures to keep for reference purposes and it would have served in his present condition.

What the füuck happened to the succulent, sweet, wet dripping Pussy of a woman, that y'all prefer the hard ass/ dïck of another man?! Tueh!!

The taste of any food is in the eating. You don taste am to see whether na the dripping pussy sweet pass?

Don't you ever pray to be at the mercy of a merciless man.[/quote]


The above got me...God will make a way for you but honestly, such men do not deserve peace of mind.

Until men are at the mercy of other men they will never understand what women go through. Assuming this boss was the rapist type, he (the boss) would be the one opening a thread and claiming that he was given the green light and that he's a victim.

(M) forum users will simply sit and trash talk what they don't know anything about.

Sue chevron, cash out big. Simple

These stuff are everywhere. Had similar experience during my nysc from a co- corp member. We came to our ppa from camp. We were just two in the school apartment given to us as copaz, I noticed some was wrong when we went out that evening to buy food and toiletries. He was too nice to a fault that he practically stopped from using my money to pay for all we bought together. On getting home that nyt, niga was performing magic, made several advances at me and grabbing my dyck on intervals. My guy, it is a long story but I was so scared that I couldn't sleep the whole night. Luckily the next day some other copaz posted to the school joined us and I changed my room immediately. My thinking was if no one is joining us in that apartment. I was prepared to leave the next day. I was so irritated and scared. The guy is a big boy now...doing very well financially.

Goggle Brekete family on Youtube and watch their programs, if you're confident and can tell the truth and nothing but the truth, contact them and attend the program to tell your story.

You will get justice by the grace of God.

Brandonx:
Lies

people that have these kinds of experiences rarely mention the name of the company or give too much details

paulolee:
was in same story back then in lag, me n Jude my guy visited his after one senior man foe hood Gv us him contact for custom work.
we went on a Saturday n the man jus clear us dt he can only help who would be his boyfriend n service him each weekend when his wife leaves to see her people in Ogun state..
me n Jude declined n left his huge house in V.I n went back to report him to the man dt sent us n he just laughed
months letter I hear say Jude bin go back n accept d offer, Jude block my line, move out from streets, don build house for villa n don de ride different cars after just 1 year for dt job bcoz the man de really spend on am..
currently Jude is the head of the man's private firm in South Africa n i still dey street with my "dignity" hoping for good days ahead..
that's life for u

How do men get attracted to their men? It's still a mystery to me i swear to God. I feel like throwing up now. YUCK!

Thanks to your parents who brought you uprightly. Your yarns would have teeeeaaar! Lol. but wait ooo, i think eve was created because of Adam.

AroOkigbo:

I doubt this happened in Chevron Nigeria.
Your boss can't sack you!

Why do you doubt me? He didn't fire me outrightly but the hate led to series of woes for me. Like I said, it was more than a year after that I finally got axed.

One thing led to another. It was a build up. Minor mistakes are escalated and my record was stained so badly. Depression set in. I was emotionally drained and we both knew what he was doing before the big mistake from me happened. I couldn't escape it and it happened.

Bro, please do not doubt everyone because things sound strange to you. A dead body should not be an evidence to a crime. I do not crave for public sympathy cos it happened years ago and I have moved on mentally and career wise. I am simply writing my own history to bring awareness to what is considered strange yet claims many victims.

It is always questionable when it is not you or someone that is close to you.

princewarri1985:
How do men get attracted to their men? It's still a mystery to me i swear to God. I feel like throwing up now. YUCK!

If I begin to recount how many times men have hit on me, I will run out of numbers. We live in a new age bro. It is not a secret. People keep doubting until their own kids gets raped.

DAMN99:

Nah una problem for dis place be dis. Always quick to call people liars

I keep wondering in what cave these men live. They doubt every fact and make fun of every victim. It is fun to them.

This is my history and not my story. They simply will not believe it.

Sixfiguresmart:
Why do you doubt me? He didn't fire me outrightly but the hate led to series of woes for me. Like I said, it was more than a year after that I finally got axed.

One thing led to another. It was a build up. Minor mistakes are escalated and my record was stained so badly. Depression set in. I was emotionally drained and we both knew what he was doing before the big mistake from me happened. I couldn't escape it and it happened.

Bro, please do not doubt everyone because things sound strange to you. A dead body should not be an evidence to a crime. I do not crave for public sympathy cos it happened years ago and I have moved on mentally and career wise. I am simply writing my own history to bring awareness to what is considered strange yet claims many victims.

It is always questionable when it is not you or someone that is close to you.

The guy is 100% right. Not only can your immediate boss not fire you in a multinational company like that, but there’s nothing in your story that says you tried to bring this up to HR.


But you’re the same person with the story of how the daughter of your boss is trying to seduce you. Same person who a 14 year old is infatuated with. Same person whose friend’s wife wants to sleep with him.


Why do you post these lies on Nairaland? Do you thrive off the engagement? Why not pursue more reasonable hobbies?

paulolee:
was in same story back then in lag, me n Jude my guy visited his after one senior man foe hood Gv us him contact for custom work.
we went on a Saturday n the man jus clear us dt he can only help who would be his boyfriend n service him each weekend when his wife leaves to see her people in Ogun state..
me n Jude declined n left his huge house in V.I n went back to report him to the man dt sent us n he just laughed
months letter I hear say Jude bin go back n accept d offer, Jude block my line, move out from streets, don build house for villa n don de ride different cars after just 1 year for dt job bcoz the man de really spend on am..
currently Jude is the head of the man's private firm in South Africa n i still dey street with my "dignity" hoping for good days ahead..
that's life for u

Really LMFAO things peole.do.for.momey lord ave mercy I will be the last person to do such

Sixfiguresmart:
Why do you doubt me? He didn't fire me outrightly but the hate led to series of woes for me. Like I said, it was more than a year after that I finally got axed.

One thing led to another. It was a build up. Minor mistakes are escalated and my record was stained so badly. Depression set in. I was emotionally drained and we both knew what he was doing before the big mistake from me happened. I couldn't escape it and it happened.

Bro, please do not doubt everyone because things sound strange to you. A dead body should not be an evidence to a crime. I do not crave for public sympathy cos it happened years ago and I have moved on mentally and career wise. I am simply writing my own history to bring awareness to what is considered strange yet claims many victims.

It is always questionable when it is not you or someone that is close to you.

There are enough workers in multinational oil companies who will tell you outright that your story is s**t. This fairy tale is actually far more likely to play out in the lower tier Nigerian run oil companies. The ones that have taken over divested assets. In companies like that the oyibos can do anything they want, taking their cue from management excesses.

But chevron? Getdafkouttahere!

That your boss need deliverance
Please don't stop praying for him
I know he must have been doing it with workers too, I guess God want to use you to arrest him to christ

I believe this OP 100% because they are everywhere, there is this very handsome dude in my neighbourhood, itsekiri by tribe, i non go lie this dude handsome, he looked like an halfcast and very rich, he was building a lounge in my neighbourhood and he gave me a contract on the building which i subcontracted to a friend, i was suprised when i gave him the first quotation he transfered the money in to my account, and i was suprised he paid 25k extra, and he always calls me to hang out with him when ever he's with his girlfried, initially i thought he took a keen interst in me because am funny, to cut the long story short, we were both walking and he grabbed my ass, i was shocked, i didn't utter a word, i just smiled, and when i got home, i blocked him everywhere and that was the end of our friendship, i felt like throwing up when i got home that day

JomoGbomo2:


Your story is either pure lie or fiction and the least you can do is say the story with facts.

1. What Dept were you working for Chevron?
2. Apparently the way you sounded, you are not a blue badge, I doubt you are a green badge too. So tell me are you a community worker or someone just brought you ?
3. What location are you? Warri/Escravos/Lagos or which of the flow station or where?
4. Do you know chevron is one of the companies that supports LGBTQ and have an inclusive policy for them? So if you have an LGBTQ boss that’s a blue badge he definitely knows not to harass you
5 do you know chevron has an anonymous hotline to report every kind of workplace harassment anonymously? This number is placed in every facility and it goes straight to Houston or San Ramon? Why didn’t you use it?

Like I said, your story is pure lie until you provide some facts based on above questions.

Thank you, Mr. Chevron. You remain the sagacious emperor and almighty knower. Same reason that I chose not to be brought before people like you. Cos' a victim has to prove his innocence. You are the kind that sit on panels to judge victims. What case can a victim present to someone with your antagonistic judgement stand?

What you need now are details. Provide this and provide that... while debunking everything presented. Are you a jury to demand details? You went ahead relegating the victim further by categorising him. What difference does category provide in crediting your antagonism? If I mention your father's name, What would be your next move? Simply push back and vilify the victim the more.

Stop exuberating in your contumacious pride. The world is larger than your bubble. It is over a decade now and I am not here to seek your support. I am only telling my history to pave the way for others who are or may experience this in the future. If you read what I wrote correctly as the Mr. Sage that you are, you would see the timeline.

I said that my final YEAR was horrendous. I didn't say that I was fired outrightly for declining sexual requests. It was a chain reaction.

GloriousGbola:


There are enough workers in multinational oil companies who will tell you outright that your story is s**t. This fairy tale is actually far more likely to play out in the lower tier Nigerian run oil companies. The ones that have taken over divested assets. In companies like that the oyibos can do anything they want, taking their cue from management excesses.

But chevron? Getdafkouttahere!

Suit yourself.